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Men looking in Iowa City

is this possible (cedar rapids) 20yr

I am 20 years old looking for something that will hopefully turn into a long term relationship
I am a nursing major at Kirkwood in cedar rapids I was recently laid off from my job so as of now I'm seeking employment most likely as a CNA I love camping and being outside I am way big into trips (vacations)
I love to spoil the right guy I am a very affectionate person
I would like to get to know someone who is looking for the same thing that I am looking for
I'm 6'2 220# black hair African American
Respond put Change in subject line so I know you are real

  • Location: cedar rapids
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Want a soul mate? (North Liberty) 22yr

Are you as lonely or as misplaced as me? Im almost done with looking for love. I tried women, to no avail. They are cheaters. Wanna change my mind? Im a 22yo chubby white male, from North Liberty. All i want is somebody who will not cheat on me, who is loyal, or who someone who loves me just for me. NO PLAYERS! I cannot be played any longer. Let me know if you are interested.
  • Location: North Liberty
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

tight bottom (ped mall) 22yr

Be HWP, hung, and like to give it rough. Young, HWP bottom here.
Pics/stats in first email...I can't host.
  • Location: ped mall
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

needing some help (washington area) 24yr

i am 24 i need some help paying some bills i am into pretty much anything if u would like to text i have a cellphone
  • Location: washington area
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

*** COCKSUCKER 4 You,nsa,B+G** - m4m (my place ic)

EXCELLENT HEAD FOR YOU

Really want to suck a nice clean cock
All the way down the shaft.

Send complete stats and a cock pic would move this along

put"yes" in subject of reply or deleted
i like it i will suck you dry
40 glwm 6'1" hwp one ninety five ddf. Discreet


new ferentz coaching at ia
Try anytime answered asap
  • Location: my place ic
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

looking for Mr.Right (Marengo ) 25yr

Looking for someone who knows how to treat a guy. Im 5'11,165,slim build,black hair,green eyes,df and clean. You be between 18-30,hwp and df. Hit me up and lets talk!!
  • Location: Marengo
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

I just want topped,nsa. - m4m (ic-host)

Simple
I want fucked
I'll suck it hard
Then fuck me
Aggressive bottom
No bullshit,no romance
No names,quick hookup
cum and go, serious only

Mwm,bi,hairy,over 25...all good
Put "lentil" in subject of reply with your stats
Attach cock pic. I like it you can fuck me.
40 glwm 6'1" hwp 195# brn/blu 7" cut, ddf,neg,clean

The Hayden bubble is gone!

  • Location: ic-host
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Looking for college age dudes - m4m (IC) 20yr

I'm a good looking chill college student 5'11'' 145 lbs looking for a guy who wants to hang and see where things go. Send stats and what you are looking for. Your pic gets mine.

  • Location: IC
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

married guy in hotel (coralville marriott) 30yr

Married guy in town tonight looking for safe fun. I am 6'0, 170lbs and 7 inches uncut.

I host in my hotel room. You must be 100% clean and discreet. Open to everything as long as we play safe.
  • Location: coralville marriott
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

looking around. (cr) 20yr

Hello. I am a 20 year old, hard working, sane, intelligent and down to earth male. hobbies are car shows, some partying, the mall, camping, boating, movies, etc. overall I would say I am a pretty easy to get along with, laid back individual thats open to pretty much anything. I have my own vehicle and apartment,going to kirkwood full time and working full time(a bit over 40), if you have any further questions just ask. Looking for friends, cuddle buddy and maybe a relationship if we click together.

your pic gets mine.
  • Location: cr
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

feel like a creep posting on here (downtown ic) 19yr

hey guys- feel like a real loser putting an ad up on here haha. i promise i'm a normal college guy who likes to go out and have a good time. not completely out so it's kinda hard to meet guys. looking for friends first and see where things go. i'm 19 tall, athletic, brown hair blue eyes. hit me up with your face pic and we can chat a bit. not in fem guys and looking for around my age.
  • Location: downtown ic
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

Masculine LTR (Iowa City) 24yr

I am 24, white, tall, stocky, masculine, clean, safe and sane. I am looking for someone who is also masculine, and has there stuff together as I do. I am looking for someone who is fun to be around, and just being around each other is enough to make each other smile. :) I am looking for that special someone who is done with drama, and just wants to enjoy life together. A am also a country guy, live on a farm etc. Pics to trade, hope to chat soon!
  • Location: Iowa City
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

Suit/Tie fun (CR/IC) 25yr

Looking for some suit and tie fun. Send your pics dressed up.

Put Suit in the title to weed out spam.
  • Location: CR/IC
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

Good guy here - m4m (Iowa City) 25yr

Just a good guy here looking for another guy who is 21-28, attractive, discreet, std free, and for masculine fwb or relationship. If you meet the requirements, hit me up and we can see where it goes. Your pic gets mine
  • Location: Iowa City
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

Cuddle? (Iowa City) 20yr

I don't know where to begin, but right now I just need someone who is nice, non-fem man's man. I'm not fem in anyway.
I just really want a nice guy who I can count on and who can count on me, a companionship, not necessarily dating at first, but more like FWB unless it becomes something more. Like I won't fuck anyone unless I would have permission. I am loyal and 100% honest, that's something I'm proud of. I just need someone to cuddle with through storms like these. It's hard being miserable and not being able to find the right person, because their has been no one in a while that can make me feel loved, I've put my heart on my sleeve and loved, more than I should. Put myself in situations with people I know ARE bad for me, but I clinged onto them because of my fear of being alone. I'm 100% bi, I love pussy and I love dick, but it comes down to the person. I 100% believe that you are not defined by who you have sex with, but who you love and how you love. I know I'm too nice for my own good, because I've come to realize how much people take advantage of me, but I don't care. I don't care because in this whole entire world their is not one person like me and I know that I've got to believe in myself and be that person I'm meant to be. I would like to hope that I find someone that I can always look forward to hanging with like with movies, cuddling, and video games Hanging out in general!. I also like to party, drink, 420, pretty much normal college guy stuff. 420 is a huge plus though, because I honestly can stand drunk people, that's why I don't drink near as much as most people, but when I do... Let's just say I like to have fun.. I know how sexual guys are. I am a guy and I know how we all seriously need intercourse, so that's in the question. I would say I'm verse so anything goes, no weird kinky shit please. I would really like to try bottom for once, but I need a good guy to do so for the first time just haven't found him yet. I'm attending kwood at CR fall, have the whole summer to myself now. I would like to say I'm funny and deff a people's person. I'm good at pretty much anything I try and do. I can promise that I know I'm worth it in every way, especially once you get to know me, you can see for yourself. :)

I would consider myself attractive in other's eyes. HWP Brown hair/blue eyes. You'll just have to send your facepick/dickpick/whatever pic to find out. :)

To sum it up I just really want to meet someone who is around my age. Confident, Self aware and not afraid to be themselves. I wouldn't mind keeping it discreet, although I don't care really.
Be around my age (20) +5 year or -1 year (19-25) is the age range I would like.
Pictures of your face would gladly be appreciated and would rank you up. Dick picks not so much because that doesn't show me anything I want to see right away. I want to see the person I'll be talking to and in return you'll get a lot of mine.
Please don't be a fem, if you are I'm just not attracted to that.
I like manly men. Masc. Just normal guys I guess.
HWP! don't mind guys who are fit, just the ego that goes with it.
I'm not attracted to fat people either and I'm sorry, I really am, but I can't help that.
The only race I'm not attracted to is african-american. I'm not racist, it's just my attraction.

Thanks for the read, and I really don't mean to be picky. In the line please put your favorite color so I know you ain't no spammer! lol. I wouldn't mind if people took the time to write me worthy stuff to read. I love reading, so if you feel like you type too much, don't. :)

  • Location: Iowa City
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

looking around for something (cr) 20yr

Hello. I'm 20 years old, intelligent, sane/down to earth and hard working. Hobbies are car shows, the mall, tv, some partying, movies, camping, etc. im a pretty simple guy and open to new ideas. i have my own vehicle and apartment,going to kirkwood full time and working full time, if you have any further questions just ask. Looking for friends, cuddle buddy and maybe a relationship if we click together.

your pic gets mine.

I'm located in CR.
  • Location: cr
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Posted: Apr 29th, 2012

roomies gone for the weekend 21yr

young guy not out lookin to mess around with other college dudes this weekend. have the place to myself... send a pic and stats.
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Posted: Apr 27th, 2012

son seeking dad (host of travel) 27yr

Son seeking older dad type. Open to any age. Looking for later tonight.
  • Location: host of travel
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Posted: Apr 27th, 2012

Any truckers passing thru? (Walcott) 43yr

Any hot horny truckers passing thru? Like to suck you off. Send pic for reply?
  • Location: Walcott
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

Bi guy in town biz - looking fo FUN - m4m (Hotel vetro) 44yr

In town on business TONIGHT only Forty Four, Five Ten, Hundred & Eighty two lbs., dark hair and eyes. Looking for clean, safe, discreet fun with a guy thatt is under FORTY, Clean, Safe, Discreet, fit. If interested - serious replies only, send your stats., pics and what u r into. PICS = REPLY

  • Location: Hotel vetro
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

Masc top seeks femme bottom for LTR (Iowa City) 30yr

Single gay male seeks same for serious dating. I would really enjoy helping a guy who wants to develop his femininity do so. Race unimportant, looks moderately important, age range is 25-35 soft. Email me and let me bring out the princess in you!
  • Location: Iowa City
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

Looking for cool FWB - m4m (campus) 22yr

Looking for someone cool around town. I'm graduating and leaving after the summer so I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm a black 6'0'' 240 normal college partyer. Looking for someone relatively close to my age. Not into really feminine guys or weird shit. Message me if you are interested and we can trade pics. Peace.
  • Location: campus
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Posted: Apr 21st, 2012

fun tonight (campus) 26yr

Looking for some fun times around campus. I'm discreet, 5'9' 170 looking for some good times. Looking for 18-26, white, who can host. Hit me back soon, send a pic and i'll recip, looking for now
  • Location: campus
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Posted: Apr 21st, 2012

Fwb? Possibly lead into a LTR? (Iowa City) 21yr

I posted a little bit ago nothing really worked out, so I'm trying again.

I am looking to find something more than just a discreet hookup with a random stranger. I want someone with whom I can spend time outside of the bedroom. Someone with whom I can meet up downtown and it be super discreet. Someone with whom is down to stay in and study or watch a movie.

I'm very discreet, and need for you to be too. I see myself as a very masculine dude. I like to party, watch/play sports, my favorite show is entourage, and I like being outdoors. But I also like to read, study, experiment cooking, and hang out with friends.

Please be hwp or average, clean, masculine, std free, HIV neg, drug free, non user, of tobacco. If you're feminine in any way, I'm not going to be into you. Sorry. I prefer white guys as well. Please be in the Iowa City area so it's easier to meet up.

If you're in a similar situation, you should hit me up. Preferably you're still in school because then at least we have somewhat of the same time schedule (but this isn't a deal breaker). Just please be under 25 or so.

It's a bonus if you're into cuddling, kissing, bottoming (I'm a top), and a man's man

If you are the type of person to just respond with "hey are you still looking?" don't bother. Put your interests, your stats, and a face or body pic in your reply. However, I don't meet up unless I've seen a face pic eventually. Please no cock or ass pics because that doesn't tell me anything about you. Put FWB in subject so I know you're real. Please be serious if you respond
  • Location: Iowa City
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Posted: Apr 18th, 2012

Gotta be a straight guy that likes head (Iowa City South) 49yr

Gotta be a straight guy that wants to stay married, but wants his cock and balls sucked. Wants his needs
taken care of without his wife = girl friend - family = kids = fellow workers and neighbors to know what
he likes done to his cock.

Sucking your cock is more than just putting it in the mouth. Your cock deserves the special attention
that makes it swell, makes it want to slide throat deep = wants to pump several loads of cum into
that mouth and throat. When done = zip up and know that when you are horny again, you have the option
to put that cock in a safe, clean mouth that will service you. A masculine man, professional that will
fully understand, no drama, no name dropping, and no talking. Just show up and suck your cock,
and leave.

It would be nice if you understood what I am looking for: not a man that is extreamly over weight.
Real small cocks just don't do it for me. Average or above turn me into a cocksucker.
Clean - HIV STD free as I am. A guy that likes his cock serviced. A guy that can get hard, and
a guy that is not into drama = Also, a guy that enjoys having his cock serviced and enjoyed.

Nothing better than knowing your cock is turning on the person servicing you. So let's do this.

  • Location: Iowa City South
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Posted: Apr 15th, 2012

Date (Iowa City) 22yr

22 student at Iowa looking for a date and eventually a relationship. I like going to movies, concerts, and bars. 5'10, blonde hair, blue eyes, and skinny. If interested put something in the subject about IC and attach a face pic.
  • Location: Iowa City
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Posted: Apr 15th, 2012

2 men into massage (Iowa City)

Two guys into massage - we like to give and/or receive. What about you? Prefer guys in moderately good shape.
  • Location: Iowa City
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Posted: Apr 14th, 2012

hosting tomorrow (ic dt) 20yr

looking to have some guys over this weekend. drinking, strip games, whatever goes.
im 20, athletic, top, hung, hiv- and disease free. you be too.
gay, straight, bi, curious, partners, married, buds all welcome.
send pics in the first email, along with stats and into's. ill reply with mine.
lets get this goin.
  • Location: ic dt
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Posted: Apr 13th, 2012

Hung Dad Needs Relief (Iowa City Hotel ) 49yr

Hung, stocky dad needs anonymous relief in my hotel room. Big load waiting ....looking to play later this evening.
  • Location: Iowa City Hotel
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Posted: Apr 10th, 2012

fit masc hairy dude (Iowa City) 27yr

Looking to hang out with an assertive top dude or a chill masc sub this afternoon/evening. You must host. I'm tall masc fit hung hairy hiv-, safe. Looking for a good looking fit guy for SAFE fun only. Popper and 420 friendly, no other drugs. Hit me up with full stats and pics for a response. Thanks.
  • Location: Iowa City
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Posted: Apr 8th, 2012

First Timer (Iowa City) 45yr

Looking for a strictly dom type to help me enjoy my first male encounter.
Nothing too rough.....

Please have "Cornfield" in subject line...


  • Location: Iowa City
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Posted: Apr 7th, 2012

Am I the only gay country guy? (Iowa City,IA) 24yr

Having a hard time finding any guys that are a little country.. I can't be the only one.. I am looking for a LTR, but will settle for FWB. Let me know a little about you, what your looking for and please send a face pic, I will return the favor.
  • Location: Iowa City,IA
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Posted: Apr 4th, 2012

Gentleman with a rough side - m4m 50yr

Looking to have a little fun, maybe more.

Six foot and one eighty. blue eyes. White.

Pics to trade.

Can host.

Put 'Iowa' in subject line

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Posted: Mar 21st, 2012