Men Seeking Women

Ok ladies, we all know there are many hot single men out there, but you only need one good one! You're probably a good-girl type, sincere and ready to start a long lasting committed relationship with a good guy.. If so, checkout the single men dating below..

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Men looking in Victoria

Do you know what "sliding scale" means? - m4w (Victoria)

The more you do, the more you will make

For more info send me a message

  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Climax Assured (Victoria)

You know what you are looking for

Drop me a line to arrange a meeting

Your Pic gets mine
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

MILFS - m4w (Victoria) 26yr

I'm looking for a momma to take full advantage of me, I will be your personal boy toy! I'm very open minded, Clean and attractive, can host or travel
Message me with a photo! Serious inquires only.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

creative outdoorsy seeks muse (cowichan valley) 39yr

artist by the sea, living in an inspirational spot in the forest, seeks inspiring soulful sexi woman for relationship.

  • Location: cowichan valley
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Looking for love at first sight (Victoria) 29yr

I ve been here on the island for about 4 years now and all I find is hurt and pain. Love is supposed to be what we all need then why is it so hard to find. I am collage graduate from nate police sciences and police psychology, Also I am a red seal Chef. I am a man of God who believes we are all here to find out true love. I am not shallow I believe if u have a good heart u are beautiful. I am always smiling. Cuz I know we will find each other one day soon. I am a romantic at heart and believe. Valentines Day should be everyday Cuz we should show the person we love them more then any day. Well I am good looking guy I am five foot six 150LBS fit with redish brown hair and brown eyes. When u believe. In someone it isn't for now, or for a moment it is forever. I truly believe in love at first sight so if u feel and believe the same as me please get back to me even if we become great friends I will be happy.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Looking for......... (Westshore-Mill Bay) 58yr

.........a lady with small breasts that likes her nipples sucked. This could be an on going thing if you like.
Please put FUN in the subject line when replying
  • Location: Westshore-Mill Bay
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Long distance relationship (Courtenay) 52yr

Hello, I am a fit, good looking, out doorsy, not big but a strong, single man with little bagagge. I am looking for the same in a woman to enjoy the out doors with me in the Comox Valley. I would love to have a partner who looks great in heels and hiking boots. I really want to get out and do some lake fishing this summer, have all the gear. Bonus if you have your gear, extra bonus if you can hook the worm. Chemistry and a sense of humor a must. Tell me about you, cheers
  • Location: Courtenay
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

mature lady wanted (Victoria) 32yr

Hi. I am looking for a lady over 40 prefer over 45 for an ongoing friendship. How would you like a handsome, respectful, hardbody clean guy to make love to you? I want to make love to a women older than myself. Are you a busy women that has no time to meet men or does not want to meet a guy at a bar but have needs. My life is the same.

I'm respectful, energetic, in great shape, been told I'm endowed, D&D free, clean, non smoker, open-minded, and truly enjoy the taboo at play here. You can be certain that this will be our little secret since I'm 100% discrete. I have the energy and eagerness to please able to keep going and going and going...you get the idea.

If you're a woman 15, 20 or even 25 plus years older than me, I'm definitely game. Just please be healthy, regular to fit build, fun, laid-back, have a strong sex drive, groomed and d/d free. Bonus if your tanned.

Please be single, divorced or seperated. I just think that if we give it a chance, this could be a very fun for both of us. I can host or travel.

Tell me a little about yourself (what you like, don't like, what you are looking for) and I'll reply with the same.

Lets talk.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Sexy Assed East Indian Women only! (DT) 37yr

Sweet an juicey, lil East Indian woman who knows what she likes and WANTS, is required!
Must be from India, MUST know what you like, MUST have Game and be adventerous!
Sound like you know/how/want to play?
Totally gonna have our fun, our cake and EAT it all!

Wanna cum play?
  • Location: DT
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Sexy Ass Red Head Wanted!!! (Victoria) 38yr

Looking for a fine redhead! - m4w - 38 (Victoria)

As is stated; "Super fine sexy redhead WANTED!"
Is this you? Pleasure, pain, all the fun and games?
Always have so much fun w/RedsHeads............
So much to do, so little time, its almost a crime!
Happily situated SINGLE, professional male wants to pleasure his new lover.


  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Cocktails? Playing hooky and trying some new drinks! Care to join me? (Oak Bay) 38yr

Well, I'm playing hooky for the rest of the day and decided to try something new!

I'm looking for a sweet lady to come over and join me for a little cocktail hour fun!

Would you like to come over and hang, chat, eat nibble and try a few different things?

Do you have any suggestions or favourites that I should know about?

Get in tocuh and help me fill the pitcher and enjoy the efforts of our hard work!
  • Location: Oak Bay
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Ever thought of something like this? (Anywhere in Victoria) 48yr

Are you looking forward to those end of month expenses? If you are then you probably don't need to read any further but if you aren't, then this might be something that could interest you.

You are 20+ yrs old, slim to average build, single, consider yourself attractive, open minded, sexually uninhibited, discreet, love physical pleasure, love deep passionate kisses, love touching, love oral (giving and receiving), can carry on a conversation, may have done something like this before but are a non-pro, not looking for a "SD" but would like something on-going, like what you see in the mirror when you wake up, a bit on the wild side, frisky and a nice person on top of all that. I love women of all cultural backgrounds and single Mom's as well.

I am 48, not bad shape, not fat or bald, brn hair, 6ft, 175 lbs, some facial hair open minded, uninhibited, discreet, adventurous, love kissing, love cuddling and touching ,discreet (in other words I won't be groping you in public), love seeing a woman achieve ultimate pleasure, not a 5 minute f*ck, always play safe, love giving oral, good sense of humor, will do what I can to make sure you are relaxed and comfortable, can both travel and host (may even get a hotel room for the right lady) and will pick you up and take you back again if you are not mobile.

I am looking for an ongoing affair so if this also appeals to you send me a pic and tell me about yourself. I will get back to you with my offer of help for your time and intimacy.

  • Location: Anywhere in Victoria
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Holla At Me! (Victoria) 23yr

Hey there!
I'm a 23 year old, who has an own place, car, a job that I love, and on top of all that goes to university! As you can imagine, I have no time for going out and meeting new people. As of late I feel that I'm missing out a lot and for my age that is unacceptable!! I am looking for that one lady to come and join my life. I've never done this before, but hey after all its convenient, and it never hurts to try!

Me: As I said I'm 23, 5'11, non smoker, very light drinker if at all. I love keeping fit and I dedicate at least 3-4 days a week to the gym! I am also a very humorous, intelligent, and caring person! I love sports and listen to a wide variety of music. That's all I can think of at this very moment....

You: Anywhere from 20 to 35 years old (perhaps even up to 40 plus some, after all age is just a number right?). Hopefully you are an attractive person and has a passion for personal well being. Your a caring, smart, and creative person that loves to try new things! It doesn't matter what race you are and it is completely fine with me if you have 1 child only. Please be D/D free and a non smoker. If you feel though this could have some potential please get at me! Put "Holla" in the subject line so I know your not a bot!

Thank you!

  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

MIDDLE AGED-Old Fassioned Gentleman looking for companionship or more (victoria) 49yr

hi i am new in town . . . lol. . i would like to find someone SPECIAL to do things with and spend time with . . . i am single now after 27 years of . . . . no cam girls please and please be living in victoria or area....
  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Sweet guy looking for sweet lady;) (Victoria B.C) 45yr

Hi Lady's,

I'm SWEET secure and generous, Handsome guy,5'8,sandy blonde,blue eyes,170lbs athletic.I have a Masters Degree in Nano technology and a Degree in Robotic's...I'm 45 but look and feel 35.I'm a business owner of 20 yrs, so I work alot and when I'm not working I enjoy going on adventures so I'm looking for a lady for Friendship with benefits,,,23-40 petite ,slim,athletic to travel ,weekends away,must be fun good sense of humour..I will tell more.just email me with a message and a few pics. I look forward to your reply...;)
  • Location: Victoria B.C
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Small Breasts (Victoria&Area)

Looking for a long term discrete relationship with a Small Breasted Lady that would Appreciate and return Affectionate Attention
Is that Lady you


  • Location: Victoria&Area
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Seeking gorgeous country girl (Langford) 45yr

I want to meet a slim, gorgeous, physically fit, mature country girl with long hair, great sense of humor and sense of adventure that loves doing things outdoors like hiking, walks on the beach, fishing (I've got lots of gear and a boat and a 4x4), camping, or just gazing at the stars on a clear night. If you are never married with no children, between 30-45, D&D free, a light drinker, that likes a healthy lifestyle, and would like to enjoy the company of a kind, sensitive, intelligent gentleman, then lets get to know each other. I'm 6 ft. tall, blond hair, blue eyes,with a slim, strong muscular physique. I've never married, no children, a fairly good cook, and enjoy peaceful and pleasant companionship. I'm not in a huge hurry to be with just anyone, but desire to find a compatable sweetheart to spoil with love and affection. I don't care for the bar or cabaret scene, or the high maintenance flakey city girls. I want a mutually respectful, trusting, caring relationship that is founded on friendship, without the drama and insecurity of the immature infidel. I am a straightforward, faithful and honest guy with a great smile and a sweet heart. If you like, send me a message and let me about you, and we can comfortably converse. Pics would be appreciated. I'm looking forward to meeting you. Have a great day!
  • Location: Langford
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

seeing whats out there (victoria) 23yr

Me: recently graduated from UVIC, have a fulltime job, volunteer, junior 420 enthusiast, a lover of music and animals, love the outdoors. My ideal first date would be outdoors role a nice joint drink some wine and some fruit and have a deep conversation about life. I'm pretty lost in life right now and I'm learning to enjoy it, I have a rough idea of what I would like to dedicate my life to and have just pointed myself in that direction. I am loyal, intelligent and caring. I have an awsome group of friends whom I love dearly but have yet to meet any one who I click with in a romantic fashion here in victoria, My roomate highly recommends craigslist so I figured I would give it a shot. I would love to hear from you so email me :)

  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

glass of wine (victoria) 51yr

Mature guy seeking a mature woman for a glass of wine today. Anyone looking for a great conversation? Close to downtown victoria?
  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

seeking musical gf! (Saanich) 27yr

I'm a musician and have always wanted to be with one, too! I think it would be fun to play music together! Write me for more info!
  • Location: Saanich
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Shy guy (Victoria) 53yr

I'm kinda shy in person. Makes it hard to meet women in real life. I'm very outgoing at work but very quiet when I get home

I'm 53, hate my job(actively looking for another), good sense of humor, non drinker but a smoker divorced and single, have an 18yr old cat, 6ft, 180 lbs, some grey in brown hair and it's all my own
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

seeking classic and classy woman (victoria) 34yr

I'm looking for someone who doesn't have facial piercings or multiple tattoos. A woman who will call or txt me just to tell me she's thinking of me, and who is very affectionate. A woman who doesn't like sports and video games or acting and dressing like a man. I want a woman with integrity and morals, who doesn't steal from me or cheat on me. I am not interested in a FWB or a relationship that is casual or open. I am a white male, 6 feet tall with no kids and very little baggage. (If you say you have no baggage, that's just not true)

If you are interested, describe yourself and tell me the name of the movie below in the subject line so I know you are not spam.
  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Shambhala Festival Date (victoria) 37yr

Just broke it off with some chick. usual drama *yawn*


So what?
I've got shambahla tickets and I'm still going.. however I am now without a date!

I have a tent for two, bedding for two, picnic cutlery for two, and an empty seat in my vehicle...
Whatever shall I do?

I'd better start looking for someone to go with me huh?


Me and my friends have lots of fun at festivals. I would hope you would be into having a good time dancing to loud music wearing some crazy costume cus I'm pretty sure thats whats going to happen.



I would like to date a bit before the show, I'm not here trying to trade a ticket for a date, but attract a girlfriend who is also into festival culture and all that goes along with it.


Write me for details

[*location not exactly as pictured]
  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Mr Grey looking for Anastasia (Victoria) 35yr

Interested in something like Mr. Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele had?

That's a very good question and I think you've thought about the answer for a while. I guess I have known that I don't want it to be soft and gentle for a long while. I think there are roles for men and women and right now they're not so well defined. I would define yours very well. I'm not sure what else to say, except I'd like to meet someone 25 to 34, non-smoker, employed or going to school. If this caught your eye, send me a note and we'll talk. Please put "anastasia" in your subject line to filter out the spammers that have infested this place.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

are u HORNY or LONELY? - m4w (VICTORIA) 23yr

have u tried Asian Guy?i am visiting VICTORIA, will leave on 18 th. looking for lover, no need to be responsible after. i am health.
  • Location: VICTORIA
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

younger healthy man interested in the company of a mature lady - m4w (victoria) 39yr

If you are a middle age+- lady, that still apretiates life, has own means, and wants the company of a younger man for hugging, loving, entertainment and or something even more enjoyable, drop me an email and lets meet.
I am fit, slim, healthy, clean, 39yr old man. I have time to spoil and pamper you.
We can enjoy quite times in your home, go for walks, or party. You call the shots. I am open minded, and hope that you are to, but you set the boundaries.
I am a good looking fellow, excellent manners, and appreciate quality. I dress well and will compliment you weather in jeans or a dressup outfit.
I can assure absolute discretion. All replies will be answered.
What have you to lose? The price of a cup of coffee. What have you to gain? A soulmate and an exciting new chapter in your life.
To the woman that chooses my company, i am all about pleasing you, exciting you and having you feel like the hot beautiful woman that you are.
And i do have great stamina and longevity incase you think i am like most. Have a great day and enjoy the sunshine.

RECREATIONAL DRUG USERS DO NOT REPLY!


  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

LOOKING for MY SOULMATE (Sannich) 72yr

Don't let my age scare you as I am very healthy and active, more like a 50 year old. In some areas more like a 20 or 30 year old.

I am a kind, loving person who loves to cuddle with some one who I care for and they care for me, and of course they love intimacy as much as I do. I live a simple life, and am a very happy person. I enjoy walking in nature and observing wild life. I have taken out a gym membership in order to loose my extra pounds and get more healthy, I also walk about 5 to 10 miles every day on the bike trails for the same reason. If I had a walking partner I would be holding her hand as we walked. I do not have any health problems at this time, except a skin condition called Psoriasis, and I am improving my body condition to keep it this way. I also like to play darts at the Legion once per week.

I am looking for a happy lady who misses having a loving partner in her life, and knows that the fun things in life are even more fun when there is some one to do them with.

I believe that life is a partnership and therefore two persons have to be involved and have a say in all decisions.

I live on a minimum pension and am happy, but would like to meet a lady in a similar situation to share life with.

Interests:- My Partner, Walking , Holding Hands, Kissing, Cuddling, Caressing & Hugging, Reading, Movies, Darts

Let's get older together and enjoy life.

Please No Prostitutes to respond.

When Responding to this Listing put " LOVE LONG TERM " in the Subject


  • Location: Sannich
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Grumpy, hairy, balding, stinky old man looking for perfection (Victoria) 37yr

That's not entirely true. I do have some pattern baldness going on. I am 37 years old. Maybe grumpy isn't the right word -- driven might be more appropriate. And I've got some chest hair for sure. Stinkyness is rather rare, especially rare if you like the smell of garlic. I'm a big garlic fan. And I'm not really looking for perfection. I don't think I would know what perfection is, even if I were to witness it.

So, what am I? I'm a reasonably athletic, healthy man who's newish to Victoria and planning on staying for a good long while. I've had many relationships in my life but either my desire to live in Canada or my career, or her career, or my country-and-job hopping, or, you know, the list goes on. There's all kinds of reasons why I'm single.

I prefer relationships to build out of friendships. In that regard I'm in no rush. I can do "physical first" type relationships but keep in mind I'm a pretty focused person. About 5 times out of 6, a physical first type relationship ends pretty quick, largely because I get bored. I mostly only enjoy sex with a woman that I care deeply about. Being quick-witted and moderately athletic is a good base-line for getting along with me.

I view myself as a semi-political animal. I like to feel that I'm affecting the way the world works, whether through my job or my other activities. I'm good with my hands, and like to build and maintain things -- whether it's repairing my clothes, the engine on my motorcycle, or rebuilding a house. I work with my brain on projects that take months if not years, so physical work is pleasantly immediate in comparison.

Standard things: I'm 5'10" and have mostly gray eyes. I don't do any drugs -- not so much because I have anything against them, I'm just not interested for the most part. I don't drink very much but I'm certainly capable and do drink on occasion. Recently I've been a fan of wine, sake and port. I like cooking with other people.

  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Where's *my* cylon? (Victoria) 36yr

Professional male, mid 30's, blue eyes, athletic, creative and mischevious type. Looking for straight-laced, cunning sexpot who at her core has fairly conservative values. Maybe we will subjugate the planet. Maybe we'll have babies. Who knows? I could go either way. Must feel things strongly, say, like Tory Foster in BSG. And you should be able to have trusting yet emotionally-charged conversations.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

coffe date (victoria) 51yr

Mature guy seeking someone who would enjoy meeting for coffee on a regular basis.. Looking for someone who enjoys the company of a well spoken, active person. Seeking someone in the Victoria area. Age not important.
  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Single mom? Stuck at home? (Victoria) 30yr

Are you a single mom, stuck at home? SWM thirties, 5'9" 150lbs, fit and athletic body would love to make a house call, keep you company, and meet both of our needs.

Of course, you love your kid(s) and 'stuck' isn't the best word, but wouldn't you enjoy some company at night after they have gone to sleep, or maybe even sometime during the day? I'm an easy-going, friendly and fun companion. I'd love to join you to sip some wine and/or enjoy some 420 and just hang out. If there is chemistry and it goes somewhere, that's great. If not, we've both had some nice company for the night. Maybe even made a new friend.

Curious? Come say hello. Pics for pics.

Put "stuck" in the subject so I know you're not spam. ;)
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Oral for Hairy Ladies - m4w (Sannich) 60yr

Hi Ladies,
I offer oral service & pleasure to ladies from 35 to 75, all sizes & shapes. Prefer unshaven, the hairier the better, but shaven also can. Your desires will be met how ever you wish. Guaranteed you will be pleasured, over & over, until you say you have had enough. Your place or mine. No reciprocation required or expected.

Please no Prostitutes.

When Responding to this Listing put " MOUTHS FEEL GOOD " in the Subject

  • Location: Sannich
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Sea shells and Gum Boots (Victoria) 36yr

About Myself.
I am Very Fit , Clean , Healthy , Secure, And have an amazing life .
The only thing I am missing is someone who is attractive that I can click with
and share some amazing experiences with .
I am Humble , attentive, Smart , and Love to stay active and live a healthy lifestyle.
I do not drink much , Only on occasion . I don't smoke, And have a ton to offer.
If there is a cute girl who wants to meet a really nice guy.
I would love to hear back .
It would be nice to meet someone between the ages 27 to 37 who is mature
and has there life together.
Hope you have a nice summer if I do not hear from U '
Take care.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Please hurt me (Victoria) 24yr

Looking for a woman to dominate, humiliate, and punish me. Please put slave in the subject line so I know it's a serious reply
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Know what you like? and like alot of it? (Victoria) 38yr

Need a girl who knows what she likes! - 38 (victoria)


need a woman who ACTUALLY KNOWS what she wants/likes/needs!
this you? no nang ups or BS please....
just come for the fun and if its good we can hang for a long term thing


  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Small Breasts (Victoria)

Help me with my fantasy and I will help you with yours
Looking for a nice lady with small breasts
For a long term sensual relationship
I would appreciate a pic just to prove that you are real
Thanks

  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Please Help (Victoria) 2132yr

Hello CL users, This is my first CL post. I'm 7teen and I'm a virgin... But I'm very shy so it's hard for me to talk to girls. I need this as a confidants boost. I'll start off by describing myself. I'm 6 Feet tall , 145 Lbs, Brown hair & eyes. My fantasy would be to lose my virginity to a Milf..Or a Blonde or a Redhead, preferably fit and cute, than again I'm a very easy going guy that's not to picky. Please try to keep this a serious post. IF YOU DECIDE TO REPLY PLEASE BUT "HELP" IN THE TITLE :).
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Looking for company - m4w (Victoria) 32yr

Hello ladies, I am looking for someone in the same boat as me. I am married but missing the connection to my partner. She doesnt want sex or any sort of intimacy holding hands kissing hugging and laying with me to stay warm at night. We have different schedules so its hard to be on the same page and involved with each others lives I feel I have been trying but to no avail.

So that is me and my situation.

I am looking for someone in the same boat or is just plain lonley and looking for someone to chat with. I feel I am open to anything chat meet and other. This will have to be discreet because I feel even if we were cool with an open marriage other people would not eg family members (very religious). I stay because I am here for our two kids. But I would really be happy just to connect and chat with someone in the same boat so we can relate to each other.

If your lonley send a message and see what happens.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

victoria guy (victoria bc) 36yr

hi im a handsome outgoing individual whos a lot of fun looking for women who are looking for a companion or just company for a nite out im discreet clean and have the best rates im a fun guy with a good sense of humour and very open minded i have jet black wavy hair hazel brown eyes im white but tanned nice so if any girls or women looking for company im your guy you wont be disappointed trust or money back so if you wanna have the time of your life call Bobby will make you feel special like a guy should make you feel have a great day sincerely your Bobby xo im a great guy so you want a great guy im here god bless xo
  • Location: victoria bc
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Evil man seeking evil woman. Must have full set of teeth. (Victoria) 37yr

Hey.

37, single evil while male, 5'10" 175lbs, looking for evil female. Must have full set of teeth. Age flexible. Being fertile would be a plus. Does that say it all?

I dance. I sing. I can play many musical instruments badly. I give public lectures. I'm gainfully employed and passionate about my work. I have a knack with mechanical things.

Evilness is not required but I'm definitely looking for someone that's passionate about living. I do well with type-A personalities. If you can't be evil, being a little subversive will make me happy enough. I use evil in a pretty old-fashioned sense -- to transgress. To go beyond. I don't hold much value in the common moral sense of the word. I'm not religious and come from a family where religion hasn't been present for generations. Whether or not you're religious would certainly mean something to me but not in a judgemental way. Jadedness is a tremendous bore to me. If you have a passion of any sort that'd mean far more to me than if you spent your childhood doing drugs and being skeptical of the world. I like to know how things work and have that sort of outlook on life. So for me "morality" simply means all social contracts we enter into, whether consciously or implied through routine.

My greatest fear might be karaoke. Although I like music and I like to sing, there's something about opening up to a group of people I know nothing about that makes me queasy. I hesitated less going to get a filling without anaesthetic, in Germany, with a German dentist no less. "It all depends on how you feel pain" the doktor said. Isn't that an archetype in fear?

I'm fairly athletic and curious. I'd like to explore more of the area. I'm newish to town. So if you'd like meet, how about suggesting something interesting that'd allow some light and talky moments. Demonstrate you can process the above, and that you have a sense of chivalry, and you'll likely get a reply to any message you send to me.

  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Whats your deal lemon peel? (Sooke to Vic) 26yr

Trying this again, I got flagged as spam, I'm not spam. I am a person damnit ;)

Just throwing this out there to see if there's any fun, attractive girls out there that have atleast half a brain. Doesn't seem to be alot of those on POF lol. Here goes nothin'...

When I'm not working, you will find me playing guitar for my band, writing music, creating artwork for my band, other bands and promoters, and playing shows. We recently just recorded our first album and will be releasing it with Absolute Underground! Music is everything!

Im a big dude. 6'3 250+. NOT obese but a solid big guy. I could probably pick you up and toss you around in the air like a pizza dough though...So if you're into little skinny jeans wearing bean poles that YOU can toss around, I can't help you. ;) Handsome as hell with legendary dimples. ;)


Likes:
-Music/Movies. derp, so does everyone. Love horror and zombies and all that, but love and admire all GOOD movies. Shawshank to Space Jam ;)
-Writing music/Creating artwork
-Tattoos - as of March 2012 I have 5 on my forearms and a half sleeve started.
-Building, Tile setting, Wood working
-Cooking
-Learning
-Long drives with no set destination
-Beaches/Landmarks/Hikes/Rainwalks/Stargazing
-Wheelin/fishin/Golf/Road Hockey/Campin(Renny every year since I can remember)
-Cuteness/Wierdness/Realness
-anything cheesy - movies for the 80s 90s/ old board games / tacky christmas sweaters/ crappy old museums and stores
-Spending time with my very close friends and thier growing families
-Remembering what happend on the weekend
-Comics - Walking Dead, JTHM , Squee, TMNT ect.
-Concerts (been to 40+ big shows)
-The Nucks!
-Rubbing your feet or tummy. I`m pretty much the cuddle master, not gonna lie.

Dislikes :
-Trends
-Bar stars or worse, Bar stars in denial
-Overly affectionate small dog owners. If your trading as much spit with Fifi as you are with me, that`s a problem darlin
-Obnoxious modern baby names and the creatons that spawn them. Example: Hunter , Ryder,Caydence,Brayden,Lexis,Apple,Dallas,Paris,Slade,Slayton, etc...BARF
-Running out of Tropicana no pulp OJ. mmmmmms

*fun fact: If a man showers once a day, he doesn`t need to spray himself with that god awful axe sh*t! Promise!

I get quite a few messages that ask me why I am on here because I seem nice or bla bla. My response to that is I find it hard to meet girls my age during my day to day. I'm living back in my small hometown of Sooke at the moment so meeting new and interesting people is almost impossible. And at my shows? HAHA If I wanted a drunkin' metal chick that cuts herself and then vomits in her shoes waiting for the last bus home, I'd have one. Trust me ;)
Yes, I'm in a metal band and I may look a lil scary on the outside, with the tattoos and the black carhartts and the band Ts and 5 oclock shadow that never leaves. But under that is a handsome, funny, loving, dude that defys classification. I'm not your average angry metal head. You'll find me rocking cannibal corpse and elton john in the same 15 minutes. and some friday nights I don't get to bed until 5am because we've played a show, and some Friday nights I stay in with my best friends and thier little ones and play legos til bed time and then do my friends dishes and clean their house so they can relax. You know what I meen jelly bean? Balance. I'm not some beer bonging, brainless gorrila man. Only when Im gettin paid for it these days! ;)

I`ve grown to learn over the last few years that my brain REFUSES to let me settle.. I need to find someone that I can laugh with, and converse with for hours but I cant keep my hands off them at the same time. I want someone to stay up all night talking about nothing with and still have the passion 6 months into the relationship to sneak away from the group to go mess around in the truck ;) Someone who is my best friend, my lady, and my lil sexy plaything allllll in one package. I know thats asking alot, but thats the way it's got to be.

This is Victoria though and we`re living in the age where the turds of Jersey shore are considered to be hot men, so if you're into cologne drenched, gangsta influenced, designs shaved into my head, affliction shirt wearing, take twice as long to get ready as you dudes, please keep looking...hahah
I'm just a big cuddly, manly, metal head, nerd who works hard, is creative, knows how to treat a lady and deeply loves the people I choose to be around. If that makes any sense to you, drop me a line :) Girly, smart, small, attractive, non smokers a huge plus. *420 ok ;) pic 4 pic

  • Location: Sooke to Vic
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

tomorrow..movie day (victoria) 42yr

i have a ticket for two people for Cineplex..
Downtown Cineplex Odeon is the closest one to me.
Tickets, soda and popcorn on me..
You bring yourself and pick the movie.
Tomorrow morning would be awesome.

  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

A Beautiful Blonde or Redhead (Toronto?Victoria) 49yr

You are a very striking blonde or redhead over 30.
You have a great deal of class and are feminine.
Most of all you like the finer things are open to something casual and ongoing with someone older and generous.

I am 49, fit, attractive, professional, established, gentle and very confident.
NOT looking for a one-night thing or just sex, AM looking for a an elegant woman absolutely not into drama, pressure, illusions.

If this sounds good, please say hello, a picture would be very nice!
  • Location: Toronto?Victoria
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Are you Black, beautiful and broke? (Victoria)


I'm hoping to meet a young and attractive Ebony lady in this city that needs some help.

If you want to know more just send me a reply telling me about yourself and please include a photo.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Cute College Boy looking for Cute College Girl (Victoria) 21yr


Hey!
Been working a little too much lately, and now I'm looking for some fun with the right girl : )
I'm a good looking 21 year old student, hung, cute, clean and shaven. I'm super laid back, easy going, and am down for just about anything! : P
Some of the things I enjoy are: music; movie's; coffee!; comedy; beer&wine; doobies&kush; cuddling; giving and receiving oral; and backrubs!
Maybe we could meet up and grab a coffee somewhere or maybe even a bite to eat, and then head back to my place afterwards for a couple drinks, or a couple bowls, and have some fun? : )
Ideally I would like to find someone who would be into an on-going sort of thing, but a one time thing would be fun too!
If you like what you've read send me a message with a picture, and I'll reply with one of myself
Age, race, and size do not matter to me! I only ask that you be clean, and up for some fun : )
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

looking for cuddles and massage (reynolds) 22yr

Hey Just looking for a cute girl to hangout with, have some cuddles and massages
I wont lie I love to cuddle and massages are always a bonus
age doesnt really matter to me, younger or older is perfectly fine
I do have pics and am willing to share them
message me if your interested
I am 420 friendly too
  • Location: reynolds
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Looking for some good company tonight (Victoria) 25yr

If you are reading this then we must be in the same boat...
I'm tall, gd looking, fit, sexy, and I have a great personality. I am new to town and I thought it would be a good idea to post here and see if I find any like minded cuties with a great personality.
I love creative people, with a sharp sense of humour...
Put "in town" in the headline so I know the response is legit.

Anyway, enjoy your day ladies ;)
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Looking for Dating?? (victoria) 22yr

Hey there, wondering if anyone out there would maybe interested in looking for someone to go out with?? Im 22, pretty easy going, trying to enjoy life and all. message me back and we can chat, see where things go, would be interested in going for coffee first to meet and go from there. hope to hear from ya.
  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Hmmm...Internet Dating Huh (Victoria area)

Well this is wierd.. I have just spent the most beautiful weekend at work...Again...I would really like to tell some of my customers I have plans but right now I dont and they know it...I had my heart broken and have been in hiding but in the last few days so many ladies have been smilling at me and I have no idea how or what to do anymore. I see so many of you alone and here I am alone as well. I would love to spend these beautiful days and evenings with a nice lady. I am not a drinker , I work very hard and love my job, I am a good honest man who is a lot younger than his age fortels..The guys I hang with are always younger than me..The guys my age are old and boring..YUCK...If your alone too and you don't drink (at least much) , reasonably slim, smoke or not , tolerate 420 only, like the outdoors and am looking for a very handy man who will treat you like a lady .......Please be serious if you write and put serious in the title I would like to talk to you and who knows maybe the next weekend we will have someone to watch the garden grow with...You should also be I guess over 35ish and old enough to know better but still young enough todo it again.......
  • Location: Victoria area
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

are you into CMNF ? 31yr

Looking for a LTR with someone who's interested in CMNF activities. First let me know if you're into it and then we'll get to know each other.
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

looking for weekly nsa regular pros ok (vic city) 37yr

hey ladies i am just looking for an hour of full good times once a week i am not into anything kinky just straight stuff but lots of it please send me your info and dnation needed i can host weekly service needed asap my fav girl just got a bf so i am in a hurry to pick a new one enough send thankyou and i hope to see you soon

i love bbws as well but please send me pics stats for one hour full serve session so i can find someone to help me :) thanks
  • Location: vic city
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Attractive and unique tall man (Victoria area) 58yr

I am an attractive single professional man who is caring considerate and respectful. I would love to find a partner to enjoy these beautiful spring days with. I love nature, photography, hiking, kayaking and cooking. The women I like are attractive, active, smart and caring. A woman who likes to be feminine is a bonus. My interests are in a long term relationship, but lets see if we click first. Please send me a picture and put LTR in the subject line so I can avoid spam.


  • Location: Victoria area
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

coffee (view royal) 49yr

I have recently seperated and hoping to find a friend for dating or just coffee or a walk.Iam very laid back easygoing.I never get angry.I left her long time coming.I enjoy good conversation with friends.I like to fish,camp,traval,and just hang out.Iam 6 ft 190.If your looking for good conversation give me a try I think youl be presently suprised.Thanks
  • Location: view royal
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

A Spanking, or more? - m4w (Victoria)

Are you a woman(18+) who has a desire for a bare-bottom spanking? Or maybe more?

The spanking would start with you clothed, progress to just wearing panties(you, not me!), and end with your bare red bottom.

If you have an interest in forms of discipline other than (or in addition to) spanking, or in exploring your submissive side, then we can discuss that as well.

Please put "bare" in the subject line of your email.

P.S.
If this ad made you laugh, and you would never "get a spanking from someone you met via craigslist", then at least you got something from the ad ;-)

P.P.S.
The beach photo was taken yesterday (May 12th). If you like the idea of getting a spanking while outdoors, that can be arranged ;-)

  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

I Just Came To Say Hello! (Victoria) 25yr

Hello visitors! :P I like to go for walks, make hip hop music, play squash, drive, have drinks with good friends. I am social, positive, and easy to please. My job is fun, and I love my coworkers. Just moved into a new condo, so thats awesome; started brewing my own beer a week ago, going to make half a batch of apricot ale and half a batch of cherry! :) Music is very important to me. I like all types. Going outside for casual exercise is fun. I really like Victoria. It is beautiful and not too big. My favorite place is Disneyland. I've been there around 6 times, and I'd love to go back! :)

I am 5'10 and 160lbs. I have a college diploma. Blond hair, blue eyes.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

Geeky guy looking for friend. (West Sannich) 21yr

I am a tall young (21) single university student with geeky tendencies who is tired of always doing these interests alone.

I am looking for a thin (I'm thin as well) young lady who likes to take things apart, play video games, watch anime, read/watch sci-fi, or any other geeky hobby whom I can share my interests with.

I'm not looking for sex or a one night stand, just a friend who I can hang out with that will maybe turn into a relationship later. Who knows.


PS: You must like cats as I have a overly hyper cat whom talks non-stop. (And fetches!)
  • Location: West Sannich
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

I'm still searching (Victoria) 43yr

So here I sit. Alone, yet not. Wondering why I can't seem to meet somebody who is actually serious about getting to know somebody.

I'm not seeking a relationship at this very moment, but would like to meet somebody who is serious about finding somebody to date and wants to allow it to evolve slowly over time.
I'm in good health, great spirits and have a full time career that I enjoy a little too much. I know I can be a workaholic, but I end up being that because I have no other real commitments in my life other than a pair of awesome cats (hence not alone).

I have a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor , at times it can be dark, but I generally tend to see funny things in everything in life.

I tend to enjoy most of what goes on in this city, since I am rather new, I am still exploring and checking things out and learning. It would be nice to find somebody who wants to do some of the same things and isn't in a crazy rush for a relationship. I am a slow methodical person, and prefer to build from a friendship and allow things to happen from there. No pressure, no expectations.

I am not seeking NSA encounters as I am not a fan of anonymous sex.

If this sounds interesting to you, you're serious and actually want to meet somebody who for the most part has his act together shoot me a message and we can talk.

  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

food for thought (Victoria - Hillside) 56yr

I sat at the kitchen table contemplating ending my life when I thought, do you know?

Do you know what it's like to have cerebral palsy?

Do you know what it's like to be alone?

Do you know what it's like to have no one special in your life?

Do you know what it's like to ask for help for personal care, but have the one you hired to take care of you, rape you? And then, have a court of law say, "Don't worry, he's handicapped, so he doesn't know the difference between personal care and rape."?

Do you know what it's like to long for some tender loving care, or to have someone hold your hand while you sit and watch TV?

Hello! My name is Alan, and the above really happened to me. I am now seeking a young woman for companionship and possible marriage. I am tired of living my life alone. I need some one to hang on to, and to start enjoying my life again. If any of this touches your heart, please reply to this ad.
  • Location: Victoria - Hillside
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

Sexy Catch (Victoria) 28yr

Hello,

It's really all in the title...I am a 28 year old male in Victoria looking for an exciting, fun loving girl. I am hoping to find someone who is confident, creative, witty, sexy and has a great sense of humour like me.




Are you out there?
PS - Please put "sexy catch" as the subject if you reply.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

What are you up to tonight? (Vic) 22yr

Hey all you craigslist people, what are you doing tonight? I work over 60 hours a week, so when it is time for my days off, I never am really to sure what to do! I am pretty tired but would be up for anything if it sounded fun! I could also suggest just hanging out at my place and having some drinks, watching a movie or something? I have a projector, so the wall is like the entire screen! It is pretty cool. Anyways would love to hang out with a cute girl tonight, just let me know what you are thinking of doing. I am very good looking and super nice and relax, I just don't get out much because I work so much! lol Anyways we can exchange pictures or just dive right in, whatever sparks your fire
  • Location: Vic
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Lamb Roast? 54yr

I've got a lamb roast which I'm cooking tonight which is too big for one person. If you're hungry and are interested in sharing it with me I'm open to the idea. I'm a late eater so I'm not putting it on for a while. Email me and we could make arrangements to meet for a quick coffee and if we are both OK with the idea I'll put it on the BBQ to roast.

I can assure this is a serious offer. As I've left this to the last minute, before we meet for a coffee we should swap pictures as there is not much point in sharing a dinner with me if I'm not someone you would seriously be interested in meeting.

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Posted: May 12th, 2012

ARE YOU A MARRIED BBW THAT....... (Vic/South Van Island) 58yr

..........is looking for some love and attention from a man that will respect your needs.
I am mature in mind and body, healthy with a high libido, do not smoke or use drugs, looking to meet one lady for on going NSA affair.
Please put 'NSA affair' somewhere in your email when responding to so I know you are real.
  • Location: Vic/South Van Island
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

CUM FOR YOU (WESTSHORE/CRD) 57yr

Looking for a lady who likes to watch a man masturbate. Want to do this today so not into endless emails. No photos required. I will come to your place, have a wank and leave, NO contact unless you want to. I do not care if you are big small short or tall as long as you are a woman and prepared to prove it. Please put WANK in the subject line when replying

  • Location: WESTSHORE/CRD
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Redhead - Small Breasts (Victoria)

Help me with my fantasy and I will help you with yours
Looking for a nice Redheaded lady with small breasts 20 + years or older
For a long term sensual relationship
A lady that will enjoy - appreciate and return affectionate attention
Your Photo will get mine
Thanks
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Kayak and sailing partner (Sidney)

I'm very young at heart and adventurous. I love to kayak and sail with my best friend and his wife. I'm looking for a young lady, prefer non-smoker but wouldn't want to miss out on a great connection because of a bad habit. I hope you're pretty and slim. You know how opposites attract right haha. Kidding!! I'm not prejudice at all so any heritage or religion is fine with me. Hey my friends met on Craig's List and married. They are such a great couple, very lucky to have found each other!!!
Please be fun, energetic and spontaneous. Please send me a picture, full body but please be dressed. Let's save the surprises for another time. Planning to go kayaking soon and we're planning a trip to Friday Harbour also-you'll need a passport for the sail. No passport? No problem we can do other trips until you're ready--max relax, with no worries/no stress;) We have other shorter trips planned too so pack your pjs and I hope you like red wine. If not, we can bring other drinks;). Please don't delay, the weather is warming up so let's get together and warm up with it ;). Please please please no druggies or alcoholics or any other unsightly issues k? Haha;)
  • Location: Sidney
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Ltr with a sweet sub girl (Victoria) 50yr

I am intelligent and dominant, and seeking a relationship with a very deserving woman. You should be non-smoking, clean and free of any physical or mental diseases. Sexually, I am looking for a submissive bottom who enjoys play rape, being slapped around while fucking, being tied and flogged, and occasional needle play. Shaved all over of course, and willing to play with other men and women when the time is right.

I'd also appreciate it if you were a professional with no kids, under 180 lbs, pretty, 25 to 45, and looking to completely fall in love with the right guy. Despite being on Craig's, I'm no loser, and hope for a response from a quality person. Don't worry if you don't fit into everything I've asked for here. If we have chemistry, that's all that matters. Cheers.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Head of household seeking bottom (Victoria) 35yr

I am the top and head-of-household; straight ,dominant, but not a sadist. I take charge, am compassionate, and lead with a firm hand and a soft heart. I like family and service oriented women that are sweet, conscientious, respectful, and eager to please. Party-girls, scene-queens, and other kinds of attention-whores or adrenaline-junkies are my turn-offs. I am white, fit and in my mid 30s. I'm employed, a non-smoker, social drinker. I don't have any children and wouldn't mind having some with the right partner. I do have many interests outside the kink realm and I'm not into being a complete micro-manager.

My kinks are part of my daily life and are very real; I'm not into dungeon play, scenes, or any kind of pretending. I am very sexually open and have no unreasonable limits since my kinks are based in reality and not in fantasy.

If you have been curious about this sort of thing, then I'd love to hear back from you. Please put 50 in your subject line so I know that you're not a bot, some details about you would be great as well.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

wants to be dominated by YOU - m4w (victoria bc canada) 58yr

pleasure for two , looking for woman ( 19 to 60 yrs,with slim body type) that likes to pinch myRibcase/ body( or more than that,with tools) and let me feel female sexual power( just you and me)
serious reactions only for intimate encouter NSA or SA or one time only. Who dares ??
  • Location: victoria bc canada
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Intimacy with intention (Victoria) 41yr

Maybe I am old fashioned, but I believe intimacy is about connection and sensual play. Judging by some of the other posts on Craigslist there seems to be a lot of middle aged porn stars in Victoria. This totally dis-interests me. Sexual energy is powerful and should be respected, dare I say cultivated.

In the past couple of years I have become more interested in the healing and transformative aspects of sexuality. This has lead me to take courses and study some tantra, sacred sexuality, and taoist teachings on intimacy. Mantak Chia, David Deida and Margo Anand are some of the authors I find inspiring. I am still a neophyte in this arena, but I am motivated to learn and would like to meet someone who shares an interest in this practice.

I consider myself a very intuitive person and appreciate the energetic exchange that happens between a man and a women. I particularly enjoy cuddling. Physically I am a 6' skinny white boy build, bald shaved head, I'm easy going, I meditate, exercise, do some bodywork, I enjoy real food and the occasional glass of wine and look after my health and hygiene.

So all good things begin with an intention,

To be clear i am not looking for a quick and easy lay. I'd prefer to meet someone I have a physical and emotional connection with. I am wanting to meet a woman who is spiritual or growth orientated (maybe into yoga, meditation or other awareness practices), who is healthy in body and mind, is sensual and enjoys her femininity, a good communicator and is curious about the art and spiritual aspects of intimacy. 30 - 45 year range would be ideal.

If this is interesting to you please respond with the name of your favorite movie in the subject line (so I can filter out the escorts and wanna be porn stars):)

  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

bikes swimming dancing (victoria) 62yr

Young looking man attractive 62years slim 6ft 175lbs love dancing bike riding swimming romantic picnics by the lake looking for the same in the female form for lots of fun this summer
  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Sexy Tour Guide (Victoria) 48yr

I am a single, fit, attractive, professional, visiting Victoria very soon for a few days and staying downtown in a prestigious hotel.

I am seeking an attractive and sexy female as a "tour guide". Only looking for ONE woman and - fun in and out of my hotel. I tend to have expensive tastes and like all of the finer things.
I enjoy good restaurants, my sailboat in the Bahamas and opera at the Met.

If you are interested in the same and can help show me around, I would like to hear from you.

If we click, I am open to travel and perhaps this developing into to something more.

So I know you are real and not more of the silly CL spam please put "Tour guide" in the Subject of your e-mail.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

sugardaddy seeks gf (victoria) 35yr

35 good looking generous guy who owns a very busy small company seeks ongoing girl for fun.
I'm 510 in great shape, young looking, (photos available upon request). I don't have a lot of time to meet people or have fun blown relationships. the last girl was around for 2 years and has recently left for university back east and we are still great friends.
Email me and we can chat ,

  • Location: victoria
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Attractive fit 35 seeks older mature women for great times - m4w (victoria/island) 35yr

I'm looking for a casual, fun, mature women to meet up and get what we are missing on our current situations.
5'10" a younger looking 35 ,good looking, in very good shape, 185 brown hair hazel eyes. "Normal" , and intelligent.
I love island road trips, walking, getting exercise, eating , good conversation.
I know how to please a woman , and am not selfish whats so ever.
Age is not important, but having a good time is.
Please feel free to ask me anything or tell me about yourself.
I do have pics upon request.
And have incredible stamina!
Take care

  • Location: victoria/island
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Spur of the moment - let's go out tonight

My Friday night just freed up unexpectedly. Wanna join me for a casual chat/drink tonight at Bard and Banker? (And yes, I will make you laugh).

Your picture gets you mine. Let's do it!

Romeo

P.S. No escorts
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Any girls wanna hangout? 28yr

Any girl's wanna hang out this weekend? Im 28 male victoria bc. NO ESCORTS PLEASE.
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

gl masc.subtype seeks lady dom

I'm looking to meet a lady that is adept at applying discipline,spank/strap etc.a naughty smooth perky ass well and thorough. I can host in a discreet home or travel,pics available for you upon reply..
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Go Craigslist dating scene go! - m4w (victoria) 27yr

I'm 27, have a pretty high opinion of myself, and apparently terrible at meeting new people in this city.

I have a pretty awesome job/career, I love all the typical things people say they love on here. For example: MUSIC, durrr, MOVIES, durrrr, CUDDLES hurrdurr!

So basically I'm just looking for someone who I can have at least a semi-intellectual conversation with. Bonus points if you use actual words in your email. Also triple word score if you tend to enjoy going out and doing things. The last thing I need is more shut-in hermits around me.

Oh, and Reddit.

I guess I could keep droning on and on about something that makes me sound interesting, but that's effort probably better spent in an actual conversation.
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

For the love of Jesus, anyone normal? (Victoria) 27yr

Let's try this again shall we?

I am 27, pretty awesome if I do say so myself.
I am shitty in new situations, but I tend to warm up pretty quickly.
I am employed, and my job is awesome.
I fucking LOVE music spanning from Pearl Jam to Daft Punk. If your idea of music is turning on Cool FM then I fucking hate you. If you're down with live music then I think we have something to talk about.

I do enjoy sports, I try to keep active as possible.. So you KNOW I love long walks on the beach at sun set.
I'm basically looking for a girl who matches at least one thing I enjoy.. Setting my bar high, I know, but I'm not exactly in a "meeting new people all the time" situation.

I'm not super interested in hooking up with some awful girl, I would like some kind of mental and physical connection before I give up my goods.

So you know, throw me an email, because I'm almost certain I'm a better choice than 100% of the guys on craigslist.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

new to the area (lake cowwhichen) 51yr

hi im steve from palm springs calif I'm canadian looking for friends maybe more wanna chat drop me a line
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

the simple complex quest for everlasting 50yr

Well it would seem alot of books movies and tv shows have dedicated the theme story regarding the epic conundrun of two people finding each other,both wanting the same thing,to fall in love and have it last.You and I are also in that same boat, we want that,and as ethereal as it may appear it does happen everyday around us . We all have certain criteria of the ideal mate and often will allow for gray areas to stack better odds in our favour.I'm still hoping to meet a sweet fun lady that loves to laugh, enjoy companionship,good conversation,romance,affection and alot of other fun activities too many to mention..
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

SpanishSpeakingHouseKeeper/Cook Live IN In Exchange for Room/Board (Just Outside Sooke) 63yr

SEEKING A SINGLE SPANISH SPEAKING WOMAN TO BE A HOUSEKEEPER AND COOK IN EXCHANGE FOR ROOM AND BOARD.I AM ALSO LEARNING SPANISH AND THIS WOMAN CAN HELP ME TO LEARN SPANISH AND PERHAPS TO BE GOOD COMPANY. I LIVE ALONE IN A SCENIC RURAL SETTING JUST OUTSIDE OF SOOKE.


  • Location: Just Outside Sooke
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Seeking an old-fashioned affair (Victoria) 59yr

Yes, I want sex (my wife lost interest after menopause), but I also seek a lady who is intelligent, calm, funny, erudite, and companionable. Someone to develop a long-term extra-marital relationship with for that once-a-week or so getaway from my regular life.

I retired early from a professional career and have spent the last few years working through my list of projects. My wife still works (her choice) so I have weekdays (especially mornings) to myself and could use some female companionship sometimes.

I keep my body fit through walking, weightlifting, Tai Chi, and just plain old doing chores and gardening and keep my mind fit by actually using it now and then. I have all my own hair and teeth, a ready laugh, a droll sense of humour, and a calm and relaxed outlook on life.

Interested? Then let's chat a bit and see what develops.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

ARE YOU A MARRIED BBW THAT....... (Vic/South Van Island) 58yr

..........is looking for some love and attention from a man that will respect your needs.
I am mature in mind and body, single, healthy with a high libido, do not smoke or use drugs, looking to meet one lady for on going NSA affair.
Please put 'NSA affair' somewhere in your email when responding to so I know you are real. I can host.
  • Location: Vic/South Van Island
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

SATURDAY NIGHT DATE (COLWOOD, LANGFORD) 59yr

Is there a lady out there that would be interested in getting together this Saturday evening ( May 12 ) for a few drinks, some laughs, munchies and see where it goes. No expectations other than fun.
I am attracted to a confident well groomed woman of thin to average figure with a sense of humour and likes a little adventure now and then.
My interests include, reading, current events, aviation, history, classic cars, wine making and fun. I am 5'10'', 195 lbs, do not smoke and considered good looking.
Please put FUN in the subject line when replying and include a photo if you would like a reply with a my photo.
Cheers


  • Location: COLWOOD, LANGFORD
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

looking for someone who is a little off balance (Victoria) 37yr

I'm looking for someone who is a little off balance.

You have a sense of direction. But aspects of life confuse you. Yet you push on, and sometimes make horrible mistakes. Smashing into life's obstacles in a sometimes graceful, sometimes disastrous way.

You can be pleasant, you can be mean. But you're not simply one of those. Life is a little confusing sometimes, and sometimes it all makes perfect sense.

Is that you?

I'm a little like that. Good job, usually very healthy and fit. Been around the planet a few times. Have lived in some strange circumstances, many very normal circumstances. My career is a little odd but useful. I like feeling like I'm contributing to society. My job allows for that quite often.

5'10, 175 pounds, devious gray eyes. Can be charming. Can be a bit of a dope. I'm frequently quite articulate, but if I'm contemplative or bored I can clam right up and launch into my dreamworld.

Have useful hands that like to get things done. I like to dance with people I have a connection to, and I don't like dancing with strangers. I sing in the bathtub. Sing when riding my bicycle or motorcycle. Enjoy exploring the obvious -- the life in the ocean, spiders, even rehashing ancient philosophy, politics. I like to design.

Tell me something about yourself.

  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

re submissive female partner - 50

Its funny that you post claiming to not hear from any imposters or fakes, when a true and real dom would never put MY limits. Any REAL and true dom would respect the woman that gives herself to him, and play at a level comfortable to them both, and any REAL dom would know what he is asking for is a slave and not a sub. You are what is referred to as a top, and a crappy one at that, chauvinist perhaps with no respect to women the sort who and gives the lifestyle a bad name. Any woman who answers your add would have to have no respect for herself. good luck on your search.

Oh and PS you saying only women interested in becoming a submissive shows how little you actually know about this life. people don't become submissive, they ARE submissive, and there is so much more to it then sex, you sound like an amazing way to get STDS
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

LOOKING FOR A DATE (VANCOUVER) 55yr

any ladys 40 -60 want to go out with a niceman, give me a ding
  • Location: VANCOUVER
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

SATURDAY NIGHT DRINKS (WESTSHORE) 58yr

Would like to meet a lady Saturday night for some drink, laughs and maybe if all goes well some frisky fun.
please put PUB in the subject line when replying
Cheers and hope to hear from you soon
  • Location: WESTSHORE
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Seeking a dominant woman (Victoria) 21yr

I seeking a dominant woman in the bedroom that i can pleasure and do as I'm told to make her happy. I dont have a lot of experience with this but am very open and will try anything once. I'm hoping for something long term but I guess we'll see how it goes. I'm looking for more than just bedroom play. I would like to find someone to go out with to movies/dinner. Your expierience level doesnt really matter but someone who has some idea as to what they are doing and what they want. I'm 21 years old, 5'9 with an average build. Your age or ethnicity doesnt matter but women ONLY please. I will respond to all emails but ones with pics get my attention first. Hope to serve you soon.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

ISO submissive female partner (Victoria) 50yr

I will be moving back to Victoria and I am searching for a submissive female that will be my partner in exploring my limits in the area of the D/s lifestyle. She must be submissive in the bedroom and understand her role as the submissive and what a submissive is and does. I am not seeking females that fantasize or dream about this but females that are seriously interested in becoming submissive's. She must understand that a submissive will be used for pure unadulterated sexual pleasure; she will be used to satisfy my sexual needs that come in many different shapes, forms and methods. She must understand that she will be used for pure sex by me and she will be used for pure sex by others in other words she will be shared among men, women and couples. She will obey every command in the bedroom, she will obey all commands that deal with sex, and she will perform oral sex, straight sex, and anal sex and also be with women. She will be tied up, blindfolded, whipped, candle wax on the nipples, paddles, piercings on her nipples and maybe on her pussy lips and she will never disobey and should she disobey she will be punished from moderate to severe. I want only serious replies please no time wasters and no wanna be's.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Looking for a woman to date (Shelbourne, Victoria) 28yr

I'm 28 years old Asian, mature, and kind person. I'm looking for a woman to date or hangout. You don't have to be hot or cute, but you should not be super fat or super skinny. I love funny girl. If you are funny, I love to meet you.

My hobbies are watching movies, traveling around, and playing sports. My body type is athletic, and I work out regularly. If you like fitness, you can see me in the Stewart gym.

What should I say more?...um... I'm not a photogenic, so do not expect to receive any pic from me. However, I'm not ugly. If you think I'm ugly, I'll let you punch my face. =)

I will not ask for your pic, neither. I believe that beauty comes from personality, not face. We can make an appointment to grab a cup of coffee.

Send me a short description about you. When you reply, please make the title as victoria woman, so I know that you are not a bot.


  • Location: Shelbourne, Victoria
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Opulent (vic) 22yr

I am 22 6 feet tall, dark blond hair blueish green eyes, 185 pounds.

I am a troublemaker a bad boy, an intellectual, an artist and a romantic.

I have a clear career path.
I have the means and the intelligence. I have an IQ of 123.

Life is a game, the idea being to effect change toward success.
How can you change ?

A human brain creates consciousness and intelligence.
How conscious can you be and how intelligent, how actualized.


I aim to like a moral life, where i contribute to betterment of the world as much as I can.
While still extremely maximizing a semi opulent life style and standard of living.

I am a romantic and why not be submerged in it. Have you ever Wikipedia it? romanticism is so rich and pleasurable.
I am looking for the special girl I am meant to meet, whom I can share intimacy, trust, companion ship, love and more.

I already have great friends and I feel content and happy with who I am. so from that I feel well set up to enter into a relationship.

If you have dreams like I do, we can make them happen.


Pic 4 pic. and tell me about your dreams.
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Seeking kept woman (Victoria)

Looking for a quality, honest woman, 18 to 32, who would enjoy staying at home and raising a family. I am decent looking but closer to average and very successful. The woman I seek would be above average in looks to far above average and have a secretly deep submissive streak. If this describes you, respond with the word sunshine in the subject line of your email.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Looking for strong-headed middle-class cutie (Victoria) 36yr

Greetings Victoria,

I've been in town for a few years, have a nice job, am healthy, fit, good looking and am pretty smart, although I'm certainly fallable. I live a fairly pleasant life.

I've dated people in town that are young, super-sexy, intelligent, and who are unfortunately too young to commit to a serious relationship. Moreover, it's doubtful they'd ever want to stay in Victoria. On the other hand I've dated people that are ready to commit to a relationship, stay in Victoria, people who have nice jobs, but they're old, jaded, kind of bitter, not nearly as attractive, and only a moderate amount of fun. I hope there's a wider variety of people in this town!

I'd like to find a combination of the more desireable of the above characteristics. You don't have to be super-sexy, but if your appearance doesn't get me excited your personality better. Minimally you are fun -- and by that I don't just mean in the standard consumer sense of fun like travelling to tourist destinations, surfing, blah, blah blah. I can surf and such. But I mean intellectually fun, in that you're curious, for example: you like to learn new languages on the side or play new instruments, start a band, build things, or you want to start your own business -- you're a bit of a dreamer, you're creative, and inquisitive. I'd love to find a woman with solidly middle-class values -- I run into far too many people in this town attracted to blingy fluff, and lifestyle froofery. People who are all about spending money and maxing-out their credit cards, and not very into accomplishing something of value. Superficial stuff can be fun short-term but I can't do too much of it, I get bored.

It would be great if you have a career but if you've got a big hope and a determination I can believe in, that's fine by me too. I'm partially keen on the idea of starting my own company at some point. You should have an idea you want to stay in Victoria. And you should be into the idea that you want to be in a full-throttle relationship with no bounds. You should be fertile and if not keen on the idea of kids, you're not totally closed-off to the idea, either.


  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Sloppy bj



As the title says your place my car something quick $$
Location: Victoria bc

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Posted: May 7th, 2012

Shared Experiences (Oak Bay) 60yr

Hi, Looking to meet an interesting woman to share quality time. I am a fairly active gentleman, who hikes and bikes on a regular basis. I also enjoy boating, gardening and home renovations and the performing arts. I would like to meet a woman who is close to retirement and financially stable - as I am. I am also most comfortable with people with higher education that embrace life long learning. If interested, please drop me a note. Thanks
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

Fun buddy (Victoria)

Looking for an attractive woman (to me) who would like to go out on the town once in a while, maybe even pursue traditional dating without actually having it be a committed exclusive relationship (but also a possibility). Someone to hang out with, walk around the city gardens with, go for bike rides, hikes, cinema, live events etc. I am single, past my late 30's, 6'+, 190lbs, have a good job, my own place and provide great conversation that is not one sided. If you are interested, please get in touch with the name of a fantasy trip destination of yours in the subject line, so I know you are real. PS physical affection/intimacy is a possibility if the chemistry is there, but let's start with just getting along at first haha....
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

Do You Believe in God? (Victoria) 56yr

Hello,

I just came home from church and am wondering if you believe in God. I don't normally ask this in the beginning, but it is important to me to know. I am a highly educated gentleman who has cerebral palsy. I own my own business and am looking for besides a good companion I am seeking someone who could work beside me in my own business in photography. There is a few things I cannot do on my own and I need some help to accomplish them.

I guess I should tell you I am very much alone and seeking a good person to be my companion. It is quite lonely for me seeing as I have cerebral palsy. I wish I had a warm, loving companion who I can talk to and be a part of someone's life.


  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

Looking for special fit (victoria area) 60yr

Looking for special relationship, monogomous but not over the top every minute together.

Intimacy is a big part of my needs but in a sophisticated relationship.

Not looking for a working girl

I am both dominant and subservient in my relationships

I have a need for a woman who loves my specialty need and more.

I work ,am intelligent but at an age when I do not want to ignore my inner desires

Are you active, educated love exploring life physically and mentally.

Always looking to grow.

Willing to review my specailty need and get to know each other. Hopefully for a healthy realtionship.

If this draws your attention send me an email address and I will send you a clip to demonstrate a personal desire

If we get past that test lets talk and see if we have a fit.

Hope all is well.

I try to stay fit but it needs a little work right now. get very busy at times.

Love to have relaxed realtionship for day trips intermittent support and exchange of idea.

Bright inquisistive mind a turn on.


  • Location: victoria area
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

Looking for a date (Victoria)

I' m an easygoing and nice gentleman looking for a young lady, simple and honest ready for a relationship. I like to laugh and enjoy life as it is. I'd like to invite my date to have a meal, and watch movies and enjoy being together. Please, send your interest with some descriptions plus picture(s) of yours; Note that I am reluctant to answer messages without pictures.
Please, no jokes, no copy paste or spam, smoker or drug taker. Thanks a lot.
  • Location: Victoria
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Posted: May 6th, 2012