Let Me Pamper & Spoil You (HartfordArea) 40yr
Ladies ... I am a down to earth, easy going, laid back, funny, honest, giving, caring, deprived 40+ married man looking for a woman of any age who likes to be spoiled, pampered, have fun, and laugh. I am a work-o-holic and am looking to have a little bit of fun in my spare time. I don't think you'll regret it because I will treat you the way a woman should be treated -- flowers, chocolates, gifts, and dinner. Drop me a note & I promise to return. Pictures are a must & married woman are def encouraged especially if you have a few extra pounds on ya - must be honest and discrete. Looking for the real deal ... No bullshit or games.
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May 20th, 2012
Want Free Movie Tickets (Manchester) 22yr
I'm 22 and have a connection for unlimitated free movie tickets to the Rave theaters in Buckland, West Springfield, Enfield, Berlin, Southington, any of them. Looking for anything in return. Open to negotiation's.
Anything goes. HMU
- Location: Manchester
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May 20th, 2012
Some strings attached (Norwich) 25yr
Hello,
I am searching for a partner to build a future with together.
I am 25, 6-3 in average shape with red hair, green eyes. I have an apartment and a roommate who is sometimes gone. I have my own car, I go to class for EMT training. No job anymore due to layoff, not because I'm lazy. I pay all my bills. I'm extremely communicative with my partner and believe that a couple does anything for each other. Anything very important to you I would do for you without question, and vice versa. It is important to me that you also have this attitude. I strongly prefer white or Asian women. If you have golden hair, blue/green eyes and know Kung fu, I might beg you for a date :)
Honest points are:
-- I need to be able to have respect for you. This happens if you can handle yourself emotionally, and preferably physically. You stand your ground and don't let yourself get pushed around. You make good judgements and decisions and you're fair, not petty, intelligent and don't whine (except playfully.) if I admire your character and skills, I will love you as well.
--You are loyal and absolutely honest. I want someone who I can trust without question. I will support you emotionally, tell you everything, and never lie to you. And I mean never. Please do the same for me.
-- You don't feel the need to constantly do things. I am fairly introverted and I would probably like you to be about the same level. If you don't like a couple hours laying on the couch just relaxing and watching trees and clouds outside sometimes, we probably won't get along. That doesn't mean I don't want to go out and do things, I just don't need to be always busy.
-- You are in reasonable shape, no kids, and no drugs of any kind (pot, cigarettes, cocaine etc). Alcohol is okay if you're not crazy with it.
Please put your favorite movie in the subject line to sort you from spam, include a good picture, and tell me about yourself in your response. Thanks for reading!
- Location: Norwich
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May 20th, 2012
looking for a long term relationship (newington) 22yr
Hey ladies. I'm a 22 yr old white male looking for a long term relationship. I'm not here to play games or sleep with countless women. I'm here to find someone who I can spend time with and get to know. A little about me, I just recently moved back to ct. I have a very good job. I enjoy hiking and going to the beach. I'm looking for someone around my age that had a good personality and most importantly someone who is honest and faithful. If u respond please put todays date in the subject line. Thanks for reading
- Location: newington
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May 20th, 2012
LOOKING FOR SOMEONE (NEAR MANCHESTER) 30yr
I'M LOOKING TO MEET A WOMAN AROUND MY AGE..
I'M 5'9 150 LBS AND IN GOOD SHAPE
NO GAMES NO DRAMA ...
PUT " 123" IN SUBJECT LINE SO I KNOW YOUR REAL
IF YOU ARE REAL AND RESPOND WITH PIC I WILL RETURN WITH A PIC OF ME .. A FACE PIC ..
I'M NOT A PIG .. I'M A REAL MAN THAT WANTS A SIMPLE LIFE WITH A SIMPLE GIRL
I HOPE TO HEAR FROM U
- Location: NEAR MANCHESTER
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May 20th, 2012
Reply if ur Interested ... - m4w (Hartford, CT) 26yr
I'm 26 swm looking for a female for FWB relationship or one night stand so, if u are intrested please reply with ur pics ...
- Location: Hartford, CT
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May 20th, 2012
Generous Male Loves to Smell FEET (W htfd area)
Very generous very good looking white male wants to worship your feet for you. I will rub them, lick them, smell them and suck your toes for you. 6', 180, light brown/blue, very cute! email back!
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May 20th, 2012
Looking for love (Hartford Area) 35yr
Hi ladies,
I am 35, 6'0 tall and weigh 210 lbs. I work as a cabinetmaker and am good at what I do. I have a place and all that. Looking to date and see what happens. I am a man and prefer women who like man's men. Please be 23-35 within 45 minutes or so from hartford. Please also put the town you are from as subject to weed out spam. Please also include a pic. I don't have more pics on this new comp. yet so don't ask. Have a nice day and hope to hear from you....Joe
- Location: Hartford Area
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May 20th, 2012
Don't ask where are all the good men (Read the post carefully)
Don't ask where are all the good men, rather ask yourself, am I a good person. If you are a women, seeking a man, open to a (very) LTR, and are tired of all the cliche's, but are not yourself a cliche, then please respond with a photo, and I will return the favor.
I read where everyone on C/L and those famed single sites seems to enjoy moonlit walks on the beach. So I figured this would be a nice place to meet someone, on a moonlit beach. When I walked on the moonlit beaches of both Connecticut and Rhode Island, I was alone...no one else was there. What's up with that? So much for truth in advertising! Sad part is, I really do enjoy moonlit walks on the beach. Its great to find a spot, snuggle up, pop the cork on a nice bottle of wine or Champagne and relax and watch the moonlight reflect off the waves of the sea.
So the bottom line is, I've notice how so many women ask if there are any decent or good or honest guys out there. There is a saying that you reap what you sow, which comes to mind here.
I'm a middle age (age is a matter of mind, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter) guy. EZ on the eyes by most accounts, and I do sport a well trimmed beard. I'm six feet tall, with a very full head of hair. I shave and shower more often than most, and mind my p's and q's. Aside from a 20 plus year commitment to the last person I shared my life with, on average I tend to be in long term relationships. Not vane, but I am a great person to be with, not perfect, have my quirks and my baggage, but I know how to treat a women, who knows how to reciprocate. I've had enough of the needy and mighty, looking for those that are alrighty (what can I say, I like to have fun with words, as long as it's honest, and authentic).
When I read the posts of many women, it reads as if all men are sex crazed, ego centric, layabouts, who sit in front of the tube or a bar, and seldom work or have any ambition. If that is your thought of men, or your experience, please pass me by. I don't want to be responsible for anyone going into shock.
I've had my ups and downs in life. I'm not your everyday kinda guy, and I don't want an everyday kinda girl. If you are fit, fun, and functional, then you've got a chance. I don't have kids, but have no aversion to them, so don't let that hold you up.
You can't introduce me to an animal I don't care for. From Dogs to Cats, Alpaca's and horses, even lions, tigers and bears (oh my).
On the other hand, if you don't like to bike, skate, work out, run or something along these lines, then I'm not the guy for you. Mind you, I'm no athlete, I do like healthy people, and healthy activities. Also, if you are a person with a phobia for adventure, then you really want to pass me by.
If you cook, I'm a willing victim, who enjoys joint adventures in the kitchen, and is willing to share the BBQ as well with those who dare to venture there. I love exploration of restaurants, but I don't make it a daily habit. If you smoke, sorry, move on. If you have an aversion to those of us who enjoy a drink, well, that too would not work with me. I'm a skilled mixologist, and I hope to improve on that. I also enjoy wine's and the like.
If you think sex is a tool of attraction, or a weapon of negotiation, move on. If you believe sexuality is part of a healthy, and enjoyable relationship, that is to be explored, enjoyed and reciprocated, then share with me your deepest desires and let's enjoy natures plan.
If you are looking to create adventures of mutual enjoyment, reward and companionship, then write back, share, and include a photo.
If you would enjoy rising at 4:30 am to float amongst the mornings sunrise, or bike to a riverside, then please, can we make a date?
I suggest you reread this post, then if you still find yourself both enticed and fitting the descriptors at least to some degree, then respond with a photo and please, tell me about yourself, your wants, your likes, your needs, and most of all, you. Also, to make it easier to grow the relationship...please only respond if you live within a reasonable distance of the Farmington Valley, Greater Hartford area. Yes, I know you are worth driving for....but I want to be sure that there is still time for us when either of us arrives at the others location. :-) Plus if you do not indicate your location in the return response (doesn't have to be address, but certainly a town) I'll know its one of those spam responses or worse a women who unlike you doesn't know how to read yet. Thank you for your understanding in advance.
I would welcome the chance to enjoy some time with you this coming weekend, so please, don't take to long to respond.
Thanks for your consideration and honesty
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May 20th, 2012
Seduce Me (WHTFD) 42yr
It has been a long time since anyone actually seduced me, made me want them, focused, without distraction... it's the best part. Me: Attractive, 6', 210, fit, fun, no drama! Let's talk! (NOT looking for a hooker, so DON'T waste your time.)
- Location: WHTFD
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May 20th, 2012
DINNER AND MOVIE (TOLLAND.CT) 45yr
.ANY AGE IS COOL.PLEASE BE REAL NO BOTTS AND PUT CANDY IN THE REPLY LINE.SKINNY AND PETTIE ARE WELCOME UNDER 5'2'' MOVE TO THE FRONT.IM 5'8'' SHORT HAIR PIC FOR PIC IF YOU WANT TO MEET SOMEONE NICE IM THAT PERSON.LEAVE NUMBER.THANKYOU
- Location: TOLLAND.CT
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May 20th, 2012
I NEED A DOMM this is a real post - m4w (Hartford) 40yr
HEY WHATS UP? I NEED TO BE SPANKED AND USED CAN HOST.YOU MUST HAVE OWN STUFF AND HAVE DONE THIS BEFORE ALL KINDS OF SHOWERS ARE OK WITH ME,THANKS JUST EMAIL ME BACK PUT REAL IN REPLY LINE
- Location: Hartford
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May 20th, 2012
NICE GUY SEARCHING FOR THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE (New Haven county) 32yr
Spring is now here and couples will soon be walking hand in hand. There is something simple yet romantic about that and I'd love to be one of those couples. It would be great to meet that special someone to get to know and spend time with.
I'll get right into it and briefly describe myself. If what you read captures your interest, it would be great hearing from you!
I'm 32 and was recently laid off but still make an income with my side job which is selling vintage collectables online. I'm actively searching for another full-time employment opportunity. I don't want you to think I'm lazy. haha
I'd say I'm a bit different than most guys my age. For instance, I was never really interested in the bar or club scene. Hope that doesn't make me a dull person! haha
Instead, I enjoy the simpler and quieter things such as walking/hiking, reading, outdoor activities, day trips (and occasional getaways), working out, dining out, antiques, museums, photography, staying in with conversation, and visiting with family and friends, among other things.
Personality-wise, I'm optimistic, kind, caring and light-hearted.
Physically, I'm 5'7" with an athletic/muscular build, with brown hair and blue eyes.
The girl I'd like to meet (or perhaps "young lady" is a more appropriate term) would be someone who is affectionate, kind, happy with who she is, has good morals and can communicate well. If she likes to cuddle, that's a plus. If she likes animals, well, keep pouring the icing on the cake!
While appearance isn't the most important thing, I believe it plays an important role in the physical attraction between two people. So I'll ask if you choose to reply to this post, please attach a photo or two and I will do the same in my response to you.
If you are interested in responding, it would be a pleasure hearing from you!
- Location: New Haven county
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May 20th, 2012
What I Seek In a Relationship (Hartford) 59yr
I wish to meet a nice, slightly plus sized woman in her 40's, who may be seeking what I am seeking: friendship, companionship, potential for relationship, sharing fun times, and making memories together.
I am looking for someone to go places and do things with and have interesting as well as ordinary conversations.
I don't have a lot of family, so a good friendship that ends up becoming a relationship, would mean a lot to me.
I like funny movies, live community theater, long walks, daytrips to the CT shore, going out to ethnic restaurants, classic car shows, and country fairs.
I value honesty, a good sense of humor, passion, good communication skills, and intelligence.
I am divorced, Caucasian (Mediterranean) in my late 50's, HWP, and 5'7".
Just to make matters more challenging, I would prefer dating a woman who may share my goal of adopting a child together, or you may have younger children with no father in the picture.
I may be older than most men who typically want that, but it is what I am seeking.
If this resonates with you, please write and send a picture. If I am interested, I will reciprocate.
Please, no marrieds or separated. Open to other races, and definitely prefer a woman who is a little plus-sized.
And, to help me weed out the inevitable spam, please mention your favorite season of the year in the subject line.
Thank you.
- Location: Hartford
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May 20th, 2012
Innocent Perversions (Middletown)
SWM looking for a cute, kind and cuddly female to get to know, can be a friends only, FWB or a LTR thing, but at the very least we will have a fun summer and no matter what type of relationship you choose you will love me. Age and race unimportant, but some level of physical attraction and compatability is.
- Location: Middletown
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May 20th, 2012
Looking for FWB and to improve my skills (Enfield, CT) 24yr
I dont care how you look or anything... Its been awhile for me and i want to get my stamina back for my g/f... Yes this will be cheating on her.. But i want to she what skills you can give me.. So this can be a one time thing or on going...I would like on going.. I have pics if u got pics... I can host during the days.. so if u can host to it be easy for both of us... I am a freak and i love trying new things... Put Cheating in subject for me.. Tell me what ur looking for and everything u want to try if there anything...
- Location: Enfield, CT
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May 20th, 2012
looking for woman who likes sex and wants to have a ltr (hartford, ct) 46yr
ok, here goes, lol I AM 46, A HOME AND BUSINESS OWNER, I HAVE 3 CATS, NO KIDS, NEVER MARRIED, I HAVE HAD 3 RELATIONSHIPS IN MY LIFE, THE FIRST LASTED 7 YEARS, THE SECOND LASTED 11 YEARS (SHE PASSED AWAY 2 YEARS AGO) THE LAST ONE WAS ONLY 2 MONTHS, OF ALL 3, THE LAST ONE WAS A FRIENDSHIP FIRST, AND SEX LATER REALTIONSHIP, THE ONE'S THAT LASTED YEARS AND YEARS, WERE SEX FIRST, LTR AFTER, I AM A ONE WOMAN MAN, I DO NOT PLAY GAMES, I AM SEARCHING FOR A FEMALE, WHO IS COMFORTABLE WITH HER BODY, WHO ENJOYS SEX, WHO LOVES HAVING CUNNILINGUS PERFORMED ON HER, AS I LOVE TO MAKE A WOMAN GET OFF, NOTHING TURNS ME ON MORE, THAN THE LOOK, THE FEEL, THE SCENT OF A FEMALE, I LOVE TO PLEASE A WOMAN, I ALSO RESPECT WOMEN, WHICH, IT SEEMS, MOST WOMEN DO NOT LIKE, BUT , HEY, THAT IS HOW I WAS BROUGHT UP, SO..IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO CHAT, MEET, , AND IF WE CLICK, AND PLEASE EACH OTHER, THEN I AM ALL UP FOR A LTR, HELL, AT LEAST I AM HONEST, SEX FIRST, RELATIONSHIP AFTER, THAT IS THE WAY TO A LONG TERM BOND, I FEEL...I TRIED THE "FRIENDS" FIRST WAY, AND IT WAS A DISASTER..WHAT IS THE POINT OF GOING OUT FOR MONTHS, AND THEN THE SEX SUCKS?? IF WE CANNOT PLEASE EACH OTHER, WHAT IS THE POINT OF WASTING TIME???? LOL WELL, IF YOU ARE WOMAN ENOUGH TO TAKE A CHANCE, HIT ME UP, SEND A PIC, AND IF I LIKE WHAT I SEE, I WILL REPLY BACK WITH A PIC, JOHN
- Location: hartford, ct
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May 20th, 2012
Summer Fun :D - m4w (Hartford) 18yr
Don't normally do this, but college is done and everyone is away on vacation, so I need a cool chick to chill with during the summer, not looking for anything serious just a good time making a new friend if it leads to something good then hey lol. So if you're the kind that doesnt mind hanging out and chatting, eating, movies, or brown guys that are 5'7 and fit then hit me up, your pic gets mine so don't be shy lol.
- Location: Hartford
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May 19th, 2012
Gentleman looking for a lady... (Manchester, CT) 36yr
36 year old,. College educated gentleman with a good job, clean cut, looking for a nice lady to get to know and for a possible relationship. Please email me if you are interested in getting to know me better. Thanks
I have a preference for someone 5'2 to 5'9, athletic, slender, curvy or average.
- Location: Manchester, CT
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May 19th, 2012
Baggage Free Only Please (06096) 49yr
Looking to meet an attractive woman, say 38 - 45, for company, fun, dinner, travel, laughter and whatever else it may blossom to...maybe even share similar interests...
Little about me...professional, educated, non-smoker, social drinker, easy going, work hard - play hard...
Minimum attributes required...Size 6 to 8, maybe 10...educated, steady job, done with baggage, trustworthy...
Send me a note and we'll see how it goes.
- Location: 06096
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May 19th, 2012
Date to the movies ... - m4w (Hartford, CT) 26yr
We can go out to the movies or do whatever you have in mind. Only females please reply back with pics and I'll get back at you. No spam just put "date" in the subject line :)
- Location: Hartford, CT
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May 19th, 2012
want some female (mrdn) 35yr
looking for some honeys who want have some fun tonight , i can host , lets do it
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May 19th, 2012
looking for a friend maybe more (middletown) 23yr
Looking for a friend text back and forth maybe meet up and chill. I realised I don't have many female friends and I'd like to change that. It me up your pic will get mine. Hit me up with`looking for friend` in subject so I know your real.
- Location: middletown
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May 19th, 2012
Nice guy looking to treat a girl right (Windsor) 21yr
I am 21 in Windsor area looking to treat and spoil a girl. I am generous. I am nice, good sense of humor, respectful, genuine guy. Looking to go out for drink, out to eat, movies, I'll take you shopping in return for friendship, companionship, affection, etc... If interested hit me up with a pic and more about yourself.
- Location: Windsor
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May 19th, 2012
No strings attached (New Brittain) 25yr
No fancy writing.. to be frank.. i am just here for sex.. if interested replay with "no strings attached " in your subject box
- Location: New Brittain
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May 19th, 2012
Nice guy looking for a new friend (Hartford) 36yr
I am a good looking, exotic, educated, and fun guy looking for a new friend to spend time with. I like going out to restaurants, travelling, movies, trying new things, or just relaxing at home. I am average body type (medium & work out), 5/8, 180 lbs.
I am looking for a woman between the ages of 22 to 37, good looking, fun, talkative, average body type, and under 5/8 in height, and looking for a possible new friend. I am attracted to all races. Please send a pic with response and I will respond with a pic. Write NO-SNOW-PLZ in subject of your email so I know you are all real.
- Location: Hartford
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May 19th, 2012
Seeking Attached Friend (Hartford) 36yr
I'm not looking to change my life but i would like to find a married or attached woman for friendship and more. My home life is lacking, boring and void of all passion. Looking for someone in the same situation, open minded, discreet and fun. I'm professional, educated and real. please send me an email with info about you if interested. Type "fun" in subject to void spam. Thanks.
- Location: Hartford
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May 19th, 2012
Married? Are you happy? (West Hartford) 36yr
Have you been married a few years? It's not what we expected at all, is it? Have you come to the place in life where you start to wonder "Is this all there is to life?" Do you have that socially awkward feeling that marriage is really not a happy situation for anyone we know personally? So many of us play by the the same rules; we get married, we have kids, we stay faithful, we work, we pay our bills, we manage our household, we spend time with family...and then somewhere a few years into married life we feel sort of empty inside like there is something missing. It's not so much that our life is awful, it's just that romance and a satisfying love life seem to be missing. We love our kids, and that is enough to stay together, but we stop loving each other as much. We are not intimate very often, and romance is really a thing of the past. Do you ever look at your spouse and just wonder how you ended up with this person? We have so many little differences that make life difficult, and we irritate each other when we spend too much time together (Sigh) What do you do when you get to this place in life? We certainly did not plan to end up here...
Maybe we can learn from each other at the very least, or maybe we are lucky and find that we are interested in more than friendly emails. I'm open to being just penpals too, sometimes we just need to vent our frustrations to someone who understands. I'm really not the type to sleep around, and given the reputation of Craigslist, I somehow doubt that anything will come of this ad. Who knows, maybe there is a wonderful married woman who just needs a love affair to feel happy again who will read my ad, reply, and before you know it we are sweethearts and lovers. I'd like that. It seems almost impossible though, I think I am just getting a few things off my chest, and I thank you for reading. Good luck finding whatever it is you seek.
- Location: West Hartford
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May 19th, 2012
Motorcycle Riding And (CT) 40yr
Cute, clean-cut guy 40ish, above average looks, and 100% single seeks unattached girl to enjoy 420, my house, pool, patio, cars, and motorcycles. Please reply with pic and write "fun" in the title of your e-mail. I have a pic to send once I receive yours.
- Location: CT
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May 19th, 2012
Cougar Wanted (Central CT) 28yr
I'm a 28 year old male looking for a cougar. I'm 6'0, in shape, d/d free, and good looking. I like to make people laugh and have a good time, so a good sense of humor is always appreciated.
I'd like to meet and see where things go. You should be between 35-50, like to laugh, and have no reserves about seeing a younger man. Send me a picture with you reply. Talk to you soon :)
- Location: Central CT
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May 19th, 2012
Looking for that Special Lady (Vernon) 21yr
Hello! I am a 21 yr old white male living in the Vernon area.
I'm sorta an intellectual. I go to school full time, i like to write, read, listen to and make music, and general shenanigans on the interwebs
i am very sarcastic and like having a laugh, but am also somewhat of a hopeless romantic.
its been awhile since i've been with a woman in any way and i'm hoping to fix this!
I am looking to connect with a very special lady
I am not into the skinny, scrawny girls. I like a girl with a lot of meat on her bones. I am looking for any kind of fun
Drinks, dinner, a casual meeting, or maybe something in the bedroom and even something long term!
You must be under the age of 30, but legal of course! DD free but 420 is cool.
please reply with "bbw" if you're interested so i know you're not a bot/spam!
I hope i don;t sound like too much of a jackass, this is new to me! if your interested please reply!
- Location: Vernon
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May 19th, 2012
I Stand Apart (West Hartford) 48yr
I'm different from most men.
Before you take the plunge into my profile you should know that I identify myself as an anti-patriarchal, pro-feminist male with a decidedly different outlook on gender roles and what makes relationships work. I am sincere and secure and make no apologies for who I am or what it is I am looking for. I don't just want to please a female partner, I want to serve her.
I prefer the company of smart strong dynamic women. Still reading? Good! My profile and POV on relationships is neither innocuous nor superficial. I have long stood apart from the group-think often attributed to men in their forties. I'm different, in a good way.
Are you a confident woman tired of the machismo BS from men who want to 'mold' you to meet their needs and expectations while making endless demands on your time, energy and good nature? I stand apart from most men in my ideas and attitudes towards women and relationships. I do not take women for granted nor share the predictable patriarchal ideals 'privileged' men take as birthright.
Do you believe relationships are too often one-size-fits-all in their expectations that the man is the head of household while the woman does the majority of the work? Are you, dare I ask, a progressive and/or feminist but reticent to share your ideas for fear you'll be rejected for being too independent or threatening? You're not alone: I believe some - not all - relationships work best when the woman is the leading partner and I'm not alone in my thinking.
I'm a feminist male; an enthusiastic advocate of Female Led Relationships and the bountiful benefits they offer women and men confident enough to seek them. FLR's are a smart choice for some couples because they reflect the changing dynamic of women in society today while celebrating the strengths of both partners. Some women are natural relationship leaders while some men best suited as followers. When the alpha and beta join forces you've got one potent team that works harmoniously with a dominant feminine energy that also permits the masculine energy to shine through but in a different and positive non-threatening manner.
Should a relationship be 50/50 when it might work better as 60/40 or even 90/10? I think relationships that are more female-centric, focused and led can be harmonious and positive. My attentive outlook towards my partner doesn't render me weak or indecisive; quite the opposite. I'm a strong, secure, submissive masculine man; confident of his place and happiest when my partner is pleased with me.
This is a lifestyle relationship choice that is just as easily accepted as rejected. Unfortunately many couples live decidedly female led relationships without ever acknowledging the disparity of roles or having the benefit of growing, nurturing and evolving their relationship on such a positive female-oriented and directed foundation.
Life is too short to compromise; to bend to the needs of another when it doesn't feel natural. Women are raised and socialized to be 'agreeable' and to cater to the needs of men - whether they want to or not. Many men have no idea of the pressures women deal with in an effort to live up to unrealistic ideals and 'rules' they neither agreed to or want. It's time women got a break and the men did the heavy lifting in the relationship. I believe a woman unburdened with traditional tasks and supported by a truly appreciative man is a woman unleashed to being the woman she wants to be - not the woman her mother, sister/s, father or friends think or expect her to be.
My tastes and ideas border on the eclectic; my interests varied and diverse. I am more urban than suburban in my outlook with an interest in cities, art, architecture, films, foreign travel, current events, independent bookstores, intriguing cafes and non-chain restaurants. I have always had interests beyond the typical and traditional; including an appreciation for independent thinkers and doers - those women with their own ideas, beliefs and style. If any of this appeals to you, please say 'hello.'
- Location: West Hartford
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May 19th, 2012
SERIOUSLY LIVE IN G-F WANTED READ AD (CT.) 40yr
I dont know how much I can fit in but if its u reading this it will intice u I hope to get in touch w me this will all b done at ur pace here it goes yup probly think I'm crazy or just as crazy as a fox. I will not repeat not go to any third party site email y. Messenger what ever craigslist r full of nuts as well unwanted services by no means am I desperate. I know we all. Have pasts. I don't care to me its going to b the quality of the woman I'm meeting. This isn't just about sex and living together. I run a Co. And its fun its in the entertainment field. So why am I here once we begin and we build some trust u will hear all.I really want that partner don't need a maid nor will I be ur Butler I enjoy nice thingsand can take of my girl well and its just not about money but l love u lookingand smelling goodi will b here for u 100000% .I like to try new thingsor learn. By NO means am I afraid to try something new and fail. As this ad. I hate roller coasters. I am 420 friendly and if that bothers u then we wont work. I don't drink hard alcohol and seldom drink beer. Stop smoking cigs a lil while ago but for the most part I'm in great shape close cut hair brown 6 ft 1 200 pds. I have tats all Asian work. Its nice I love to travel weekends cape Rhode island and always N.Y I'm originally from the Bronx and do have a boy. I love sports I play poker my main thing is I'm a cook and a good one. So if urlooki.g thru theses ads. (There r some real LOOOOZZZZERZZZ)whythey r single.lol. If u have a boyfriend ur sick of him or ur being treated poorly bottom line hun if u r miserable andnot happy. Lets try this the bottom line is we need to become friends the whole thing all I need is the confidence of commitment and loyalty this is so hard. U r active and in shape don't care if u have kids I am going to buy a dog but wanna pick one out together. We can move where ever if u don't like this place but its got a fireplace. If u have been single cuz of the drama give me a thought. Hey if I don't meet a mate here. At least I can find some awesome friends right. And look not to sound like what ever if u have a boyfriend this isn't a cheat thing if u want out that is another. GIRLS IM NO FOOL BELIVE ME AND KNOW ALL THE GAME DONT REPEAT DONT MISTAKE KINDNESS AND GENEROSITY AS A WEAKNESS. I'm by no means here to waste my or your time. I really just wanna find a cool open minded mate. There are going to be ups and Downs tears and smiles it will b hot and cool but its all not in how we start but how we finish. So if ur ready to step out of the life you've been living (if u will) well girl hop on board fasten ur seat belt don't worry about ur hair ur gorgeous and love the ride. By no means am I perfect no one is I'm extremely confident but by no means cocky. OK have I rambled long enough lol I'm on my cell doing this. There is a lot I wanna say but I'm going to wait for some replys. Sure I have photos to send you dam a video if ur phone or what can get it no not sex to clear its from last night playing poker. Look lets get this rolling maybe. I live completely alone you will not repeat not have to worry about any bills here OK and a lot of the food is covered just make ur list ;) as I said I have no x going to stalk us I've remain friends w x but we don't hang last relationship was 9 yrs..well here I am please come find me. I need to sqeeze this in age isnt important to me except ur at least 21 maturity and discpline at any age vital ive drifted towards younger woman due to being active and at times could b vain or what ever. Im not here to play daddy all though we can and will play other games lol.With out risk there is no reward. And I will provide u w all the info u need to make a good educated decision what will b good for u. I don't know what u want I do for me its to be happy and CONTENT with a active lifestyle .I'm open to a lot but no longer will I wait .I don't haven't and wont date anyone in my industry or do I go to clubs why my company is cater private and corporate sporting events as well I'm into marketing and advertising. So where ever I live want quite and privacy wanna walk out my back door while its raining naked and make love to you. I will give u no doubt one of the most relaxing massage u ever had in ur life. Its a skill and yes a few classes but look I'm rambling I'm going to post this and hope to get replys soon. Remember I wont go thru another site we r email I.m y messenger call me block I have nothing to prove I'm here tryingto find and yes I can show u anything u want my Co. Is a tax paying Co. We r all leagal one thing not for one second do I deal with drama no no no bye bye bye. Come get me please I'm rambling..
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May 19th, 2012
Short notice Sat night date? (West Hartford) 38yr
My plans for tonight fell through, I could just hang out at my local pub, but I thought I'd give this thing a shot...I'm young at heart and prefer women younger than me. I'm athletic and artistic, love music and movies, also a die hard Boston/New England sports fan. I'm a teacher and Coach at a private school, non smoker, witty/sarcastic....maybe we can grab a drink in West Hartford? Tell me about you...
- Location: West Hartford
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May 19th, 2012
tatted light skin puerto rican looking for a cutie!! (southington) 29yr
light skin puerto rican..ddfree..clean...no kids..no drama..looking for a sexy female to get to know..hang out with..send me a pic and put "notspam" in the subject line so i know you're real
- Location: southington
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May 19th, 2012
Looking for Intelligent, fun-loving Girl 22-28 in E. Haven (East Haven) 26yr
My name is Ethan Lee, I live in east Haven, ct. Im a musician (multiinstrumentalist) and run my own production studio. I love animals, and am always rescuing random ones that the local vets give me to foster. I also like studying about alot of random things (alot of paranormal things too). I love having fun, and being ever so slightly weird. Im looking for a girl who lives fairly locally and likes all types of music (my favs are indie rock, bluegrass and classical). I would like an exclusive relationship, where we get to know each other, and just genrally have fun with each other (and our friends)
I like having long conversations about random things, whether it be ufos, music, the weird parts of quantum physics (im not a dork tho, haha)
I'm about 6'1", blue eyes, dark blonde hair, about 180, caucasian...
If you would like to know more, please contact me. Thanks!
-Ethan
- Location: East Haven
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May 19th, 2012
Young Professional looking (Windsor) 21yr
So I've been single for about a year now. In that year I focused on my career and really moved up the ladder fast, but now that I'm satsified where I am in my career I'm ready to get back out there again. A little bit about me; I'm 21, 6'1'', good/average build. I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh and make others laugh. I currently am going into my senior year at CCSU with a deul major in Accounting and Business Management. Right now I work as a manager in the entertainment/film industry. I am very determined, dedicated yet easy going and always considerate and respectful to others. I am one of those men you can bring home to your parents knowing they will be impressed. I love the movies and any genre of movie as well. I like to stay fit and go to the gym as well as stay active in the outdoors; hiking, kayaking, swimming, biking, boating, etc... I am very independent, I pay for my own college, car, and other bills. I am very genuine and always a gentlemen to a women. I like any type of music really (not to found of country, but I don't neccessarily hate it).
I am looking for a girl between the ages of 18-25 who is just a "good hearted" person in general. I'm not picky at all, race does not matter.
So if your sick of those D-bag boys who only care about partying, palying video games, and really have not future, then hit me up. I'm open to anything, but for now just looking for new friends to chat and hang out with and some casual dating.
Hope to hear form you. I have pics to send once you reply.
Thanks.
- Location: Windsor
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May 19th, 2012
Looking for BBW for dating and dancing (Bradley Airport) 46yr
Looking to meet a nice fun BBW for going out or staying in. I'm 5-8 175 and in shape. I
like to give foot massages, eat pizza and watch tv. Or. I like to go out to dinner and go
dancing. Please send me a pic if this interests you.
- Location: Bradley Airport
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May 18th, 2012
seeking ltr (East Hartford) 24yr
I am 24/6ft/black. I work full time and have my own car. I have my associate degree and looking to pursue my bachelors in the next few months. I like cracking jokes to entertain my friends. I spend most time at home watching movies or playing my ps3 if i am off work. I don't have many friends to boast off. I have been here for sometime now and wish i could find a good friend that lead to serious relationship and possibly marriage. I am easy going, very versatile. I hardly drink alcohol even socially. So basically that is me. Hoping to meet and simple drama free lady for LTR. We can start of by being friends and going to dinner to get to know ourselves better before we move ahead to anything else. If you are interested please send me a mail and i will reply asap.
- Location: East Hartford
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May 18th, 2012
Looking for a wife (Wethersfield) 36yr
So here we are looking for dates on Craigslist; but is that all in all a bad thing? I say no, I say for what ever reason we are here; here we are. I am a 36 year old single white man (mix, but more Irish than anything else). I have never been married, came close, but that is a story (and a completed one for that matter) for much later. No children, not that I don't want any, just didn't happen to this point. I have a decent career, car, my own apartment, although I am starting to look at houses. I do carry a bit of extra weight; but not close to the extreme. I have recently quit smoking. Pretty straight edge, corporate look, drink on occasion but more or less a home body.
My own big flaw has been that I always felt that I needed to have everything just so before I started looking for a woman to be my partner. This forced me to delay things that should not have been delayed. You see, what I missed was that whole "partner" aspect. What I know now is life is not about plans and expectations. Life is about experiences. Randomness of everyday living. So this is me rolling the dice.
I am looking for a woman between the ages of 25-40. Someone who has their own lives, but missing that one person to share life's experiences with. You should want a long term relationship; as I am looking for a wife; not a hook up. This is not to mean I am looking to get married tomorrow; but would like to find someone to have that occasion with; within the next few years. Women with children are fine given the situation with the father is handled, and we discuss rules when it comes to the children. By which I mean that I personally will not interact with them until such a time we decide the relationship is likely to move beyond the informal dating phase.
While personality and the ability to hold some level of conversation is required; mutual attraction is a must. If I am not your type I beg you to say as much. Race is unimportant just so long we can laugh and enjoy the rest of what this odd world can throw our way.
Respond with something in the subject line so that I know your response isn't spam.
- Location: Wethersfield
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May 18th, 2012
EXPLORE YOUR WILD INNER SELF
Have you ever wanted to be the total anonymous center of attraction
and let the inner bad girl in you out without any fear?
Going to adult clubs, the Xmovies these can be intiminating & scary alone.
I am looking for a women who wants NSA mature
escort who will look out for her well being. and let her explore
I promise you will have a lot of "fun" with this kinky sexy adventure
looking for over the weekend!!!
no pro's please, want someone average who wants a safe adventure
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May 18th, 2012
Not Dead yet? but need a Discrete playmate to get that feeling back? (CENTRAL) 59yr
Are you a mature sexy women who craves that wild butterfly in the
stomach feeling of excitment from a new encounter? The tingling all over from
being touched & touching? So do I !! Looking for day time meeting with
married or single clean, sane, WOMEN (over 30) who can be assured of ultimite discretion
from a mature, respectful, open, and clean male, not a kid, No slam-bam-thank you mam
attitude, but slow extended experianced pleasure. Not looking for LTR (now) or breaking
up any relationships, but want a FWmutual Benifits encounter. Walks/Hikes in the woods
Coffee/Drinks. Wild or Tame I am open to all needs and want to please.
- Location: CENTRAL
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May 18th, 2012
HOw hard is it to find some one (berlin) 35yr
Hello,
@@@@@@@@@@ put JANE in subject line@@@@@@@@
I'm looking to find someone i can relate to and take it from there. I have a good job, car, and my own place. Stable, dont do drugs, d/d free. I have alot going for me but i just can not seem to find someone to share all my acomplishments with. I am a very laid back person and dont judge people on their pasts. All my friends who are married have wives who would love to tell you about me. I'm a very loyal man and am not seeking nsa or causal, i am happier in something long term. when i'm with a woman i give it my full attention and dont run around, thats just dissmisve of the one your with.
so if your interested please tell me abit about yourself,
emails with photos will be given first responses,
please but "jane" in the subject so i know your not spam
age is not important but you can't be way to young, older is cool too
- Location: berlin
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May 18th, 2012
wish i had a good girl to miss me (enfield) 22yr
Im 22 an know im a good lookin guy. I jus got over the worst relationship an been so down about it an stressed. I work a lot an treat women nice but never kept it goin passed 8 months jus tired of fake ass girls hit me up an ill give u a face an body picture an we'll see where things go must be close by
- Location: enfield
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May 18th, 2012
DINNER DATE WANTED (STAFFORD SPRINGS) 37yr
NEW TO TOWN.IM LOOKING FOR A NICE GIRL TO HANG WITH.PETTIE A PLUS UNDER 40 AND UNDER 140LBS A PLUS AND VERY REAL.PUT CANDY IN THE REPLY LINE.ALL OTHERS WELL BE DELETED FAST.IM 5'9'' 165LBS BLACK HAIR SEND ME YOUR PIC IF YOU HAVE ONE AND NUMBER AND YOU WILL GET A REAL NICE GUY.WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSS ? THERE HAS TO BE SOMEONE OUT THERE THATS REAL.......THANKS
- Location: STAFFORD SPRINGS
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May 18th, 2012
ANYONE UP FOR A MOVIE TONIGHT (STAFFORD,CT) 45yr
looking for a friend thats all and someone to talk to.leave number and pic that you are real.no botts will be deleted fast.thanks
- Location: STAFFORD,CT
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May 18th, 2012
DINNER AND MOVIE (TOLLAND.CT) 45yr
.ANY AGE IS COOL.PLEASE BE REAL NO BOTTS AND PUT CANDY IN THE REPLY LINE.SKINNY AND PETTIE ARE WELCOME UNDER 5'2'' MOVE TO THE FRONT.IM 5'8'' SHORT HAIR PIC FOR PIC IF YOU WANT TO MEET SOMEONE NICE IM THAT PERSON.LEAVE NUMBER.THANKYOU
- Location: TOLLAND.CT
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May 18th, 2012
friends ! (ct) 40yr
hi !
as the title says ! i am a man who have been in a lots of places in my life !
i know my life good and i am looking for a true friend that can understand me and feel the need to talk to me as i do understand and can give the right advice and also can take it too !
hope to hear from that special one who i can call my true friend !
thx for understanding ! alex .
- Location: ct
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May 18th, 2012
Looking for someone (Hartford) 21yr
Ok so im looking for a cute girl to hang out with and see where it goes. I'm usually a pretty busy guy, focusing on my career and everything. It would be nice to break thrugh the regular schedule and spend some quality time with a special person. Im 21, white, fit and handsome. ( at least so they say :) ) I love gym, motorcycles, cars, music, traveling. I'm a very laid back guy and hate drama or stress. I have enough stress at work, and after I just want to relax and be happy. If you seem like a person looking for the same thing mail me with real in the subject so I know you're a real person. Hope to hear from you.
- Location: Hartford
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May 18th, 2012
Friendship with benefits (West Hartford) 32yr
Hello there,
I am 32, educated professional and a hard working man.
I am 6'1 200 pounds, white, attractive and easy going, caring, trustworthy, open minded, love jokes and long walks. I am DD clean and so you must be.
I do not smoke and occasionally I drink. If you smoke that is ok with me. I am tired of finding the woman of my life so this time I would like to try something else.
What I am looking for is what title says: very direct and clear. I need a female friend with benefits. You should be a normal person wanting the same, trustworthy, easygoing and caring.
Age does not matter as long as we like each other and you are 19 or older. I am looking for a woman of average look or better, extra pounds and curves is a plus. On the other hand I am not looking for a model( what is inside is more important to me)
I would like to meet you regularly for talking and sharing our lives. If chemistry is ok I am open to the benefits in mutually satisfied way.
First we can meet for a coffe and start from there. No rush no obligation....I am would also like to get to know you better....I do not believe in sex on a first day and I am not looking for it!
If you are interested and want the same write to me and put "educated" in your email so I know you are real.
Thank you!
- Location: West Hartford
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May 18th, 2012
biker girl (hartford) 34yr
34yrs old latin male from hartford . im 6 f tall , 180lbs , non smoker , d&d free and very easy going. im looking for a biker girl to have some fun with!!!! if u like sport bikes and like to have fun just hit me. FUN GIRL ONLY
- Location: hartford
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May 18th, 2012
Married friend sought (Central CT)
Hi,
I am a 35 yo, = looking for a female friend to share some joy and laugh with. I was married for 10 years and relationship got a bit chilli, if not frozen. I would like to feel that teenage flame and tingling again. So if you look for some romantic moments and more fulfillment than in yr current relationship, please send me an email. I look fwd to meeting you!
- Location: Central CT
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May 18th, 2012
Single Black Male is seeking a Single Woman of Substance (CT, NYC) 38yr
Single Black Male, 38yo, 6-feet-1, 230lbs., reside in Brooklyn, New York City but willing to travel for the right person.
I love life and try to live everyday to the fullest. I don't believe in living in the past but embracing the future. I am very sincere and believe honesty is the best policy. I don't get involved in drama of any kind, that lends itself to negativity. I believe that judging from the outside only shows that you have nothing inside. I enjoy a good laugh so if you have jokes, I'd love to hear them. I can't take life too seriously, it's just entirely too short.
I am looking to meet a single lady who believs in treating others how she wants them to treat her, is drama free, loves to laugh and doesn't take everything so seriously. Someone open-minded & self-aware who knows what they want out of a potential mate. If that is you please respond and tell me a little about yourself and your interests.
Thanks!
- Location: CT, NYC
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May 18th, 2012
Looking for her (New Haven) 25yr
Someone smoke-free, cute/attractive, fun to be around, and knows what she wants out of life...................
- Location: New Haven
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May 18th, 2012
Need Help With Bills ? (Hartford) 32yr
Hi ladies, I am an educated, attractive, and hard working professional.
What I look for? A young, attractive, and sexual lady that could use a little help with bills, rents, shopping, etc.
If this interests you, then I would love to hear from you.
PS> Please put your favorite pet in the email so I know you're not spam. Thanks
- Location: Hartford
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May 18th, 2012
attractive live in girlfriend wanted (torrington ) 35yr
I'm single and it sux I live alone and dumped my x.for reasons if u respond I will tell you. I own High End Entertainment. And if u also want a job I'm looking for a partner to help me run it..we r a catering agency who cater sporting events as well we do advertising for sponsors for this up coming x game. I know this is diffrent but she did help a lot if u have a sense of fashion can think on ur feet. As well work the computers lets c what happens. I'm 6 ft 1 200 pnd some tat work out going and sick all ready of being single u must be in good shape and take care of urself. Or if u wanna find a live in boyfriend and not work we get along than call me OK...my name is Sonny. I will answer all questions and yes the company is a LLC email or call OK ...I'm waiting. I don't care at all about ur past its all about us give it a thought OK....ttyl
- Location: torrington
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May 18th, 2012
The One? (Newington) 39yr
Im Someone who likes to cuddle up under a blanket and watch a good show or movie at home with you. Do you want A guy that loves to spend time and focus on you?? Im a thoughtful, affectionate and great friend/lover. When your sad, wipe away those cocodile tears! A person who loves to hold your hand in public. Someone that wants to come over and make you lunch or dinner sometime!
I will be someone that accepts you for you! Race, age, backround or how much money you make...that doesn't mean anything to me.
Want to actually get together to meet face to face after a cpl emails would be nice and appreciated.
- Location: Newington
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May 18th, 2012
dom kinky women need at gloryhole 11am (erotic zone)
Kinky women needed at erotic zone at the gloryholes. I would like a women to force me to suck cock there at 11am today.Get intouch if your a hot kinky female. No men
I am for real no bs hear make me a cocksucking bitch:)
No pic no reply
- Location: erotic zone
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May 18th, 2012
Married and Lonely? (Near Hartford) 49yr
I am a fit, attractive, professional man seeking a married woman to build a relationship that will help to fill the empty spaces in our lives. I'm looking to steal some time to bring romance and adventure to each other. I want to share a little adventure with one very special woman. I'm hoping to find a friend, and to have the opportunity to be a friend. I want to meet regularly for casual dates, talking, and sharing our lives. I want to feel needed and to make someone feel special. I want to look forward to the next meeting, the next email, or the next text.
Discretion is absolutely assured. Mutual comfort a must!
If you have read this and you know exactly how I'm feeling, drop me a note telling me a bit about yourself and your situation and what you are looking for.
Perhaps if the chemistry is right we can add something special to both of our lives!
type "comfort" in the subject line so I know you are a real person..
- Location: Near Hartford
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May 18th, 2012
Considering an Affair? (Ct) 38yr
Are you fustrated to the point of thinking about taking on a lover? It is a huge step isn't it?
But life is short, and being happy is something that should be for everyone.
If you are feeling the same way, write me and let's talk.
- Location: Ct
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May 18th, 2012
Do ethnic girls listen to metal? 20yr
Me? Real metalhead (not a poser, punk, goth) just a normal guy. I'm white, I like ethnic girls (black/latin mostly, mix is cool too.) Will also consider white girls.. I go to college for Criminal Justice, play guitar, in a band.. I'm genuine, nice, friendly, smoke cigars on special occasions (not 420, but ok if you do), enjoy a good party but prefer to stay home and watch TV or game or talk/hangout with friends.
I try to keep my dress casual but classy. I am an avid fan of facial hair.. Weird? Yeah, well I like to have at least a little scruff on my face, so I hope you don't mind! (plus it's a requirement for my band...) I was athletic in high school but after a year of doing nothing in college I can't stand being sedentary and I am picking up running as a hobby. I'm just over 6 feet tall.. Oh, I go to school out of state but I come home very regularly (at least every 2-3 weeks for a few days) so I hope that won't be a problem! :)
You? I'm not extremely picky. I just want a nice girl who is friendly, loyal, has common sense.. Sex isn't super important, it is cool, but I need a real relationship first, and even then there should be a healthy balance. Looks are a little important to me. I like girl with a pretty face, not anorexic, but not obese. 3 big don'ts: don't be hyper judgemental, rude, or just plain mean. Just put your favorite Metal genre and band name in the subject! I guess pic4pic and I'll pretty much respond to everything because I'm uber friendly. Just want to get to know someone real well first then meet if comfortable, and text and talk till fingers and vocal chords are sore. Then some more. :)
Oh, and P.S. do NOT disrespect mothers. My friend's ex did that.. She's an ex for a reason.
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May 18th, 2012
I want a girlfriend (Rocky Hill) 19yr
I'm tired of the lonely nights. Are you?
I'm a ninteen year old guy. I don't want a thirty year old getting in touch with me, around my age please. Ill give u my phone if you give me yours in first email. I'm sweet, a little overweight but looking to slim down. I really am nice. My family and friends think I'm caring, thoughtful, and more.
Please don't meail me with links to go to a website. Because that doesn't work. I'm real and hope u are too.
- Location: Rocky Hill
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May 18th, 2012
Looking for a teenage or 20 (Rocky hill) 19yr
Hey my name is aaron I'm sweet funny and I want to have a relationship. We will start out slow. Meet up for coffee and get to know each other.
Please look at the title. I want a younger woman. Please no one above 24.
text me at eight. six. zero. four. six. two. four. three. seven. three.
- Location: Rocky hill
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May 18th, 2012
Mom's Special Helper (West Hartford) 33yr
No denying that you are fit, sexy, and more sexually charged than ever. Nonetheless, you are forced to spend all of your time and energy on others. While you are prepared to make sacrifices, the lack of help and support from others is making the trade-off unbearable. And the lack of physical attention and fun is driving you to ruin. It's to the point where everything you see looks like a sex toy. Playground slides for example. A woman could have a whole lot of fun with a slide.
You're not going crazy, just need a naughty friend for real and virtual adventures.
- Location: West Hartford
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May 17th, 2012
Panties? I want to buy them
looking to buy panties and bra. How much?
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May 17th, 2012
date this weekend (CT) 38yr
Hi,
I am recently single and looking to go out on a date. Not a random hookup or anything, but an actual date that includes getting to know each other and having some fun. It could be an afternoon date hiking, driving range, lunch or just hanging out. Or in the evening we could go to a movie, dinner, or mailbox baseball (that was a joke).
Picture for picture. Please be hwp and cute. I am not perfect nor do I expect perfection. Just want to enjoy a date.
Real people only. Maybe put your eye color in the title? Up to you I suppose.
- Location: CT
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May 17th, 2012
Spring romance (greater hartford) 27yr
Hello,
All the ladies, I am looking for longterm relattionship with sexy, funny, loveable girl. Trust me I do have what it takes to make you feel happy. I know this not the right place to look for a lady but you never know.
I am into allkinda sport soccer, running, workingout bikin....ect will be great if i find girl who into sport, and take care of her body. I am professional/well educated engineer here. Please if you real and interested gettin to know me hit me back and put " spring" on ur subjct
Thanks
- Location: greater hartford
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May 17th, 2012
meaning of life (anywhere) 41yr
I can read your mind by how you answer these 3 questions...
1. What gives you the most fulfillment in life?
2. What is the one thing you would need if trapped on a deserted island?
3. What emotions will you experience when you achieve your most far-reaching goal?
- Location: anywhere
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May 17th, 2012
Long lasting (Suffield, CT) 18yr
Looking for someone to love me for who I am. I'm 5'10", 250lbs, a little active but wanting to lose some weight for good with that special someones motivation. Going to school in the fall to pursue my dream job. Please try and be near by! Put 'long lasting" or your favorite song title in the subject line so I know your real.
Your pic gets mine!
- Location: Suffield, CT
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May 17th, 2012
Home alone (Hrtfrd) 37yr
Lets go out for a beer, or something.
Email back with YOUR picture . Originally from Russia.
Put 'S550' in subject
Be real.
See Ya
- Location: Hrtfrd
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May 17th, 2012
skype (Hrtfrd) 36yr
Lets skype.
Put " skype " in subject , so I know, You real
- Location: Hrtfrd
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May 17th, 2012
Tattoo artist... (Downtown) 24yr
24, tattoo artist, vegetarian, straight edge.
I am into books, fixed gears, adventures, puppies and being loud:) hit me up!
- Location: Downtown
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May 17th, 2012
I wanna stay clothed as I strip you down naked - m4w (Central) 46yr
as the title says....
I want to strip you down and play with your body....hands, mouth, toys
please be clean as I am and have some time to play
- Location: Central
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May 17th, 2012
HAND JOB NEEDED (ANY PLACE) 30yr
I WANT CUM.NICE DAY
- Location: ANY PLACE
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May 17th, 2012
Looking for Ms.Awesome (Manchester) 23yr
Hey yall! I moved up here from the south not too long ago, and trying to find a steady relationship. Im 5'7 white, Im a real happy guy, i love having fun and a good time. Im pretty active, i like going to the gym and going camping fishing or hunting on the weekends. I love a huge variety of music from rock to country, maybe a little R&B. Turning to craigslist because im normally not one to go to the bar scene, and i dont really know anyone in the area. Im looking for someone who is generally happy, drama free and most importantly has the time to date. So if that sounds like you id love to chat and go on a date, because i feel thats how you can really get to know somebody.So send me your pic and in the subject line put your favorite color so i know your real!
- Location: Manchester
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May 17th, 2012
Are you ready? (East of the River) 50yr
Loyal, honest, caring, humble guy (wait, I think I just described my dog). Very social, educated, decent guy with sense of humor interested in having good times, enjoying life, living well and seeing where it goes.
- Location: East of the River
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May 17th, 2012
Are You In A Marriage Without Romance? (Near Hartford)
A relationship : a bond that two people share. Stimulate each other mentally , intellectually , intelligence wise , and and on an intimate level.
We respect each other and are there for each other through thick and thin , fair weather and stormy.
We both take the time to tell each other that we are thinking about the other one for no other reason but to make each other smile and feel good. A relationship shouldn't be a prison sentence , it should be the best time of our lives.
We respect each other and stand up for each other around others. When there's something that bothers us we both talk about it calmly and kind so that the relationship stays strong.
The drama is to a minimum and the two of us make everyday count and live everyday like its your last. We realize that life isn't guaranteed to anyone so we cherish it and strive to have a kick ass time every day. Our motto is anyday that we wake up and dont have cancer or some other serious illness its another good day where we can face any challenges or road blocks that are thrown our way.
We both laugh hysterically together and at each other and can be sarcastic but its all in good fun not to hurt the other person.
If your married and missing what I described,then your the woman I am looking for. Let me fulfill your life without hurting anyone
If you want a serious committed fulfilling relationship lets chat and see if we click. Why not skip all the drama , immaturity,and try to give each other our best.
I am 48 year old white male looking for a white female.
I am 6 ft, fit, and I consider myself classy , intelligent
I hope everyone who is looking on here finds what they are searching for : )
- Location: Near Hartford
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May 17th, 2012
The one (East windsor ct) 25yr
Looking for the one woman that will see me as me and not as a door mat.
Im 6foot dark hair and attractive. Ive been told to model but thats not my thing.
I like curvy woman that are ave hight. Latinas are openly welcome. If you speak brazilian portuguese ull most likely get pushed to the top of the list. Send me a pic with a brief description of urself and ull get a pic back.
- Location: East windsor ct
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May 17th, 2012
Brazilian Bull - m4w (hartford) 38yr
Hello ladies I'm in serious need of help. I am a very fit, very genuine attractive guy. I have no problem with meeting women. The problem I have is keeping a woman. As you may have heard us brazilians are very sensual and sexual people. Long story short, I love to have sex but I'm having trouble finding a woman who can keep up with my sex drive. I'm not a dog. I'm not out to sleep with every woman in the world. I'm more than happy to be with just one. But I can't find anyone who can keep up with me sexually. If you're that down to earth, attractive nympho who can give me a run for my money don't hesitate to respond. I'm attracted to women of all races and ages so don't feel as if you may not be my type. I'm open to wherever this may lead. NO SPAM PLEASE!!! Must send pic to get a response. Put nympho in the subject box to prove you're not spam.
- Location: hartford
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May 17th, 2012
athletic male looking for sexy woman (vernon) 22yr
Im 22 Years old and im looking for a woman who is willing to have fun with me. likes to go to parties and looking for that woman that can light up with me
- Location: vernon
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May 17th, 2012
Anyone up for a minor league baseball game? (Tolland) 23yr
First, let me just mention that I'm looking for friends ONLY. And while I did post in the strictly platonic section as well, I thought more people may come across my post here instead.
Just looking for someone to go to some baseball games with this summer. Specifically, I would like to go to the New Britain Rock Cats game against the Binghamton Mets next week (either Monday the 21st or Tuesday the 22nd). I'm a Mets fan myself, which is why I want to see the Binghamton Mets play while they're in town.
As for me, I'm currently a graduate student pursuing my PhD and don't really know anyone else who would want to go to a game. As for appearance, I'm about 5'9", skinny, brown hair, blue eyes, and glasses, but I can send you a pic if you're interested (I'd also like to see a pic of you, too). I've also been labeled by my friends as being G-rated since I don't drink, don't smoke, don't go to parties, and rarely curse. You don't have to fit all those things, but some or most would be nice. Again, I'm looking for friends ONLY. If you want to know more, send me a message with "Rock Cats" in the subject so I know you're real and tell me a little but about yourself as well. Looking forward to hearing from you!
- Location: Tolland
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May 17th, 2012
PETITE CHINESE WOMAN (CT) 45yr
Looking for a Chinese girl that keeps herself in good shape and has a good heart ! I am very familiar with the culture, etc. I am a professional,well groomed, nice looking and well educated. I am also very stylish and classy. Into well dressed and casual.I have a muscular and fit body, I am a SWM, 5'9" 170lbs. I look much younger than my age. I have a professional type haircut and I can be a bad boy at times. I am relaxed and easy going and like to have fun! I am also very romantic.confident,good looking and a good listener.
I am into travel, dining out, music,theatre, opera,sports, working out,the beach,sportscars, horseabck riding,writing,movies,business,real estate,etc. Age open.
- Location: CT
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May 17th, 2012
Looking for a Nice, Sane Girl.... (Farmington/Avon) 36yr
Hi there.....
I am a down-to-earth, decent guy, 5'10", 170 lbs., with dark, full hair. I am generally considered to be handsome, in-shape, polite, and fun to be around. I'm single, no kids, live alone with one dog. I have a good job, but there are no opportunities to meet people through work. Also, it seems that everyone around here is married with children, or otherwise unavailable.
I am interested in making a quality connection with a local girl, someone attractive, available, and fun to be around. I'd consider exchanging e-mails, chatting, maybe meeting up sometime, with the possibility of something long-term developing if there is mutual attraction. If this sounds like you, I'd be interested in hearing from you to see if it makes sense. Let's start low-key, no pressure, and see where it goes.
Please reply here, and let me know a little about yourself, including the town in which you live. A picture is appreciated, and will be reciprocated.
Bye for now.....
- Location: Farmington/Avon
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Posted:
May 16th, 2012
Still need to find a very understanding girl (New Britain)
Right now I am spending a lot of time working on this contract job putting me at a disadvantage to meet anyone.
So, I am really hoping that someone out there can understand that I still need that "real high quality time" that you find with someone very special.
Besides, This contract will be ending and I will have a lot more spare time to spend with you.
I will keep posting until I find you.
If I don't respond back it could be that I thought your reply was SPAM so please retry with a new response that makes me think you have read this.
- Location: New Britain
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Posted:
May 16th, 2012
Single Guy For GF (Windsor Locks) 23yr
I'm 23 years old and I'm looking for a girlfriend. I like going out to dinner, for coffee, out to bars, fishing, swimming, on my boat, watching movies, and hanging out. I'm a normal guy with a good sense of humor. I'm respectful and outgoing. I'm willing to travel about 20 miles. I'm 6ft tall 200 lbs. average build. I have brown hair and blue eyes. I'm open minded to the girls I will meet. Please be between 19-28 years old. I have pictures I can send once you reply. Please send your picture and I'll definitely send mine.
- Location: Windsor Locks
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Posted:
May 16th, 2012
Hard to meet people (Ellington) 32yr
I am a 32 year old man who finds it hard to meet new people. I dont really go out to bars and clubs. Ive been told I a good looking guy but I still cant seem to meet the right woman. I like movies, back yard BBQs, traveling, taking walks in new places, and 420 to name a few. I think that a sense of humor is very important. I find it hard to relate to a person who takes them selves to serious. I drink, smoke and love to have a good time. If I sound like someone you can relate to hit me up and we can take it from there.
- Location: Ellington
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Posted:
May 16th, 2012
seeking long term lover/mistress (rockyhill) 40yr
6ft1 green eyes short dark red hair 190 lbs seeing a fun long term lover/mistress for ongoing affair/friendship
- Location: rockyhill
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Posted:
May 16th, 2012
Seeking a real woman (CT) 39yr
I am a romantic man looking for a good girl who wants to settle down like me. A girl looking for true love and do not go to games.
Players are spams.
- Location: CT
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May 16th, 2012
Ltr wanted (Central ct ) 27yr
Hello I am 27 from the central part of ct looking for a ltr No rush tho I want to get to know some one first. I work full time drive my own car and live on my own. I do have a child So you must like kids. Age or race does not matter just send me a email if you want to know more.
- Location: Central ct
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May 16th, 2012
ltr no games (berlin, ct) 20yr
i no this is a longshot but i am looking for a ltr. i am 20 yrs old and have been hurt before. im not looking for any games or random hook ups just someone to start life with. must be 18-22. if interested reply with your favorite color in the subject line. please only real people if your going to send me to a website or idk what dont respond. hope to hear from you soon
- Location: berlin, ct
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Posted:
May 16th, 2012
I Know Your Out There - m4w (Hartford area) 52yr
I'm looking for a woman who is seeking more than she is receiving now. I hope to put the sparkels back in her eyes. Let her know she is a woman worth the attention she deserves. MWM 52 hoping to meet this woman for some discreet meetings & give us both what we desire & need
- Location: Hartford area
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May 16th, 2012
Happy Mothers Day (Hartford Area ) 53yr
MWM 53 wishing all the mothers a Wonderfull day . Would be intrested in chatting & more if your interested
- Location: Hartford Area
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Posted:
May 16th, 2012
I will be Visiting Hartford (Hartford) 38yr
To attend reception. Seeking a discreet Friend who knows how it feels like to miss some thing
- Location: Hartford
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May 16th, 2012
older women for younger guy (ffld cnty) 24yr
I am a younger man of 24 looking for a mature older women for a romantic relationship, i do not really have an age preference just that you are older and than 34. I prefer older women and am attracted to them more than women my own age. That is just a preference of mine. I am hoping that i can find someone real on here who would be interested in this type of arrangement.
- Location: ffld cnty
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Posted:
May 15th, 2012
Home alone (Hrtfrd) 37yr
Lets go out for a beer, or something.
Originally from Russia.
Put 'friends' in subject, so I know You real
- Location: Hrtfrd
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May 15th, 2012
WHITE male 4 BLACK female (Springfield MA) 30yr
Single white male from Springfield area here, looking for a single black female. I have a job, my own place, go to school, no kids. Would like to meet someone in a similar situation for dating in the short term, but would like to develop something long term. May seem shallow, but I think black women are beautiful; just being honest.
I have pictures I will be happy to exchange; you should too. Please be between 20-30, height weight proportional, and have at least a little ambition.
I am real, today is Monday. Lets talk and maybe get together, and see what happens. Please put "single black female" in the subject line so I know you are real.
- Location: Springfield MA
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May 15th, 2012
no strings attached (new britain) 25yr
hi.. i am looking for a women to share my fantacies and not a relationship.. if intereseted , replay with "nostringattached" in your subject box.. no space
i am sure we ll have a good time. :)
- Location: new britain
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May 15th, 2012
True Nice Guy (Waterbury CT) 31yr
I would love for every girl looking for love to read this I was talking to a friend of mine who lets be honest gets laid a lot but never can get into a relationship
the problem is that he is great to get a girl into bed because he can be an asshole at first and be honest ladies you like the asshole in the crowd. But when
it comes to creating something more you want a nice guy but get bored with the nice guy after a little while. MAKE UP YOUR MIND
as for me I am a nice guy and I don't expect to get anything meaningful off craigslist i've tried to be honest and all I have recieved are ads for sex not my thing
I want a relationship with an attractive girl my type is thin or athletic shorter then 5'10" white sorry its what I like not shallow just know my type. I am not an asshole though
so girls that are hot don't pay attention to me. I am not a model come on most nice guys aren't I do go to the gym and keep in shape. i'm 6'2" tall and weigh under 180lbs so not a fat ass
So if you read this ad at least realize that assholes don't change and nice guys are a relationship type people so try and make up your mind and when you meet someone give them
the benefit of the doubt.
I will trade pic for pic if you send one. good luck everyone
Everyone needs love
- Location: Waterbury CT
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Posted:
May 15th, 2012
Any real unique girls out there? 21yr
I seek a girl that has a good personalty and kind We can met somewhere and do anything I am a very open person
My ideal date is:
-Down to earth
-Kind
-Smiles
-Connects on things
-Has a adventurous side
-Calm and collected
-Not picky or can't make her mind up
860-(four)163106 lets chat and get to know each other!
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May 15th, 2012
Do you own some bikini's (Greater Hartford Area) 35yr
Hi there....I am a 35 y/o dd free, educated professional who is recently single. I love to travel and would love to make a connection with a woman who likes to travel and enjoy fun in the sun. If you like watersports like swimming, jetskiing, etc. thats a plus. I am looking for a White, Hispanic or Asian female who is comfortable wearing bikini's at the beach or the lake. Summer is coming and there is a lot of fun to be had both locally, domestically and internationally. I am looking to start with a friendship (meet for drinks, talk, date, etc.) and build into something long term if we click. Please send a picture with your reply and tell me a little about yourself and interests.
- Location: Greater Hartford Area
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Posted:
May 15th, 2012