Men Seeking Women

Ok ladies, we all know there are many hot single men out there, but you only need one good one! You're probably a good-girl type, sincere and ready to start a long lasting committed relationship with a good guy.. If so, checkout the single men dating below..

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Men looking in Raleigh

Not feeling appreciated for all you do? (North of Raleigh) 41yr

Good morning ladies. Are you a lonely housewife? Not feeling appreciated for all you do? Not getting the sexual satisfaction you use to get? Do you feel like your hubby just doesnt listen to you and just doesnt care about what you want? Well ladies look no further because I am looking for you. That's right; I am looking the lonely housewife that is sexually starved and whose body is in need of alot of attention from a giving male. I am a 41 y/o married,white male who is clean, discrete and most importantly D/D free. I'm not getting what I need at home so here I am, searching for the woman that isnt getting what she needs at home. I am right at 6'4" tall, and tip the scales last night when I weighed at 218. I have short brown hair and green eyes but my hair does have some gray in it. I may not be a GQ model but have been told that I am an attractive guy. I am sane, college educated and professionally employed and I am respectful of personal/sexual boundaries. I live north of Raleigh off of US1 and have a pretty flexible daytime schedule. I would love to find a clean, white, d/d free, HWP, married female for some daytime fun. If interested drop me an email and put "LONELY" in the subject so I can weed out the spam and bots.




  • Location: North of Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

SWM Looking for Anything Female (Zebulon) 23yr

Hi This is my first time posting an ad on cl so here it goes i am 23 white i just got out of a bad relationship i would like a female that is sexy dd free and my idea of sexy is any female that is confadent in herown skin i dont just look at their outside beuty i look at the inner beuty i am down for what ever i would like you to be atleast 21 so we can grab a beer or some wine go to the movies do anything go any where im free most nights but work will make and brake plans so here i am
  • Location: Zebulon
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

chat (louisburg) 59yr

Anyone interested in just chatting, Passing the time. Talking about whatever's on our minds. Mwm here so if your young and looking to make money pass this on by
  • Location: louisburg
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

A summer breeze? (Chapel Hill) 26yr

I am presenting a paper for a academic conference at UNC from June 16-20, and will be staying in the Marriott. Would a pretty girl care to show an aspiring, romantic young graduate student around town? I'm 26, 6 ft 1, and in decent shape although I won't be breaking any world weight lifting records anytime soon. Sex is always most welcome if it happens, especially in my king-bed luxury hotel suite, but pleasing companionship and conversation is not at all to be scoffed at either. If you are interested drop me an email! We can talk a little before hand to see if we might get well. I am fond of literature, current affairs and a good laugh and make a lively dinner companion.
  • Location: Chapel Hill
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

THINK LIKE A MAN MOVIE TONIGHT (Garner/Raleigh) 27yr

Looking for a fun woman to go to a movie tonight..... would like to see think like a man... email if this sounds like fun.. and we can exchange pics and go from there
  • Location: Garner/Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Older BBW (Raleigh) 22yr


Looking for an older woman to spend sometime with. Have been in a couple spring/fall relationships and they have worked out good. Not looking for anything in particular just seeing whats out there. if interested please message me

  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Mature BBW (Raleigh) 22yr

Looking for an older woman to spend sometime with. Have been in a couple spring/fall relationships and they have worked out good. Not looking for anything in particular just seeing whats out there. if interested please message me
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

MWM looking for a MBW or a BW that can handle it (Raleigh) 56yr

As the title says...I am a MWM that wants an ongoing friendship with either a MBW or BW that can handle being with a MM without commitments. I have always craved a woman of color as a mistress/ friend so I am not new to this. I had a girl that was a graduate student that rocked my world but we have gone our separate ways. If you would like to have a very caring type relationship that would involve sex and cuddling, I may be the guy for you. Drop me an email with your pic and let's see if we can do this. Any body shape is cool so please don't hesitate.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Open Minded Man For Open Minded Women (Zebulon) 55yr

SWM 55 safe sane fun working open minded male fun enjoy the beach mountains walks lakes cook outs motorcycles any thing out doors 511 in height 212 in weight black hair brown eyes wear a earring goatee and stash no baggage looking for a women that enjoys life and would like to share things with me..Tired of being alone and looking for a friend lover compaion and see where we can go from there ltr and spend our so called golden years together ,,,,,INTERESTED?
  • Location: Zebulon
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

MWM desperately needing some chocolate (Henderson to wherever you are) 57yr

It has been a few years since I had some chocolate and am in need. My sweet tooth is aching for the smooth and creamy taste that fulfills me. I am partial to short and full figured ladies but all are welcome to apply.
  • Location: Henderson to wherever you are
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

TWO NEW YORK SINGLE FRIENDS LOOKING TO GO OUT TONIGHT WITH YOU ;) (RALEIGH)

How you Doin'???,

I am a swm and I am here in Raleigh staying for a few weeks with my friend.
As we are new to the area we are looking for some people to get to know. Be it a friendship or more
We are as different as we are similar, he is moving down here for a job, so I took the trip with him
Love movies, live shows, bars/clubs, parks/beaches, pretty much for me its the company not what I am doing that dictates whether I will have fun or not.
We are both tall, good looking, and generally awesome ;) ... but you dont have to take my word for it. Please write and show us some NY Love


  • Location: RALEIGH
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Wouldn't it be great to be in love right now? (Cary) 39yr

Hello there! Did my headline catch your attention? It would be great to be in love right now.

Me: I am a 39yo wm, 6'3 and 220lbs. I am a highly educated professional. I am fun, affectionate, hard working and I do not have children.

You: You are a wf that is educated, bright, loving, earthy, kind and looking for me!!

Oh, I am not interested in dating women that have kids--things are too complicated.

I am looking forward to hearing from you.

  • Location: Cary
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

SWM for Lonely or Bored Mom Tonight (Raleigh) 39yr

I cant stand having dinner alone and I would love to share the company
of a real woman with curves. We can work up an appetite in the bedroom
and then have dinner and cuddle and watch a movie afterwards. Or we can
have dinner at a nice restaurant first. Sundays dont have to be boring...
Im a handsome, tall and hwp guy, clean cut looks and very clean and
dd free.. Seeking a woman 30 to 55, sane, hwp to curvy and enjoys
a good kisser! Pic for pic replies, seeking tonight or most any night,
but could become
a regular thing.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Lonely seeking friendship (Raleigh) 45yr

I'm a bm from Africa in search of a genuine friend with a mature and honest woman of any race. I'm open to a long term relationship with the right person if there's a connection. Reply with " my man" in the subject box to filter spam.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

** Seeking College Cutie ** (Durham) 35yr

Economy is tough and cost is rising. I am an educated professional who might be able to assist a college female on a regular basis, I'm not a sugardaddy though. Just looking for oral and anal fun, nothing romantic. Privacy and Discretion a must.

Race is not an issue, however, you must be DDF and slim/petite.

Serious responses with pic will get a reply back.
  • Location: Durham
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Do you have tattoos? (Raleigh - downtown area)

...If so, I;d love to see them. I'm planning to get one soon, and I'd love to see some good work and get some references of good artists. I'm especially interested in ones that have script, but any good ink is great.

I'm just looking for references and examples... but I'd love to buy you a coffee or whatever for your time. I'll be working at Helios Coffee on Glenwood tomorrow - care to join me and show me your art? No big deal, it's just coffee. I'm 39, but I'm a good conversationalist with people of all ages.

ALSO - if you're a tattoo artist or graphic designer, I'd like to talk to you too. Thanks, and drop me a line with "Ink" in the subject.
  • Location: Raleigh - downtown area
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for sexting buddy (Phones) 18yr

Just looking for someone to text email me with your number and a valid pic
  • Location: Phones
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for something to do this evening. Ideas welcome! (Morrisville) 33yr

So yeah, looking for someone to hang out with tonight. Maybe dinner or drinks or coffee or somethin along those lines. I am a 33yo swm, tall and slim. Age/race not an issue, just be able to hold a conversation!
  • Location: Morrisville
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

SEEKING A BEAUTIFUL OLDER WOMAN (NORTH RALEIGH ) 32yr

LOOKING TO MEET A OLDER WOMAN INBETWEEN THE AGES OF 38 TO 50 I LOVE COURGARS AND THATS ALL I DATE NOT HERE FOR GAMES JUST SOMEONE TO MEET AND SPEND TIME WITH MY PICS ARE ME SO EMAIL ME IF U LIKE WITH A PIC I DONT CARE ABOUT UR WEIGHT MUST HAVE OWN HOME AND CAR .. IF U LIKE TO KNOW MORE ABOUT ME EMAIL ME
  • Location: NORTH RALEIGH
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Up for a challenge? (Wake) 41yr

I like getting a hand job more than having sex. The thought of a woman having total control of me in her hands makes me tingle. Unfortunately, I've never been able to orgasm from a hand job. I've been so close, but its never happened. I'm wondering if its the woman I've been with and their technique, or if its me. Looking to see if a woman is up for the challenge to bring me to full release. I'll make it worth your while. Thank$.
  • Location: Wake
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Free to good home: microscopic tadpoles (Raleigh) 30yr

I am not sure how many there are, probably millions, but they are champions, all of them.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for a lake lover (Henderson) 32yr

I'm a athletic average built white man that is 6'4" with long brown hair and goatee. I would say I'm a very independent person that is looking for someone who isn't needing anyone but wanting some companionship. I live a very judgement free life and if you judge or compare people to others, than I'm definitely not the right one for you. I have an interesting lifestyle that if judged could look bad, but if your about living and let live than enjoy me for who I am. I already know this is a long shot and most women are looking for a man they can brag to their girlfriends about. I have a great life living on Kerr Lake and am looking for a lake lover to spend some weekends or whatever with this summer. I'm a few months out of a relationship, so not eager to jump right back into one again. I would also classify myself as a naturalist or survivalist. I enjoy eating out occasionally, but for the most part I am a hunter, fisher, and gardener that enjoy eating the food that I harvest. Please don't get me wrong walmart is still a necessity, but it's the pride of knowing where my food comes from and whose touched it. I love my life and don't want to change anything about it. Is it to much to ask to find someone who can just enjoy what I have and simply go back to their life as if this is just a great place to get away to. I have a great house that is right on the lake with a boat and jet ski at the dock. I would say I'm very wealthy but have no money, and once again if that doesn't make sense to you than keep looking. I don't know if their are many people like myself out there, but this is my attempt to try to find one. If you think that you might enjoy spending some time with me up here on the lake, I would love the company. So if you made it this far and still interested than please feel free to email me, but to keep the scammers down please put gardening in the subject line. Thanks and yes I have pics and will trade if we seem to have a connection.
  • Location: Henderson
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

sbm looking.. any female welcome (Durham) 23yr

I'm a SBM 23 looking to find someone to spend my time with and enjoy each others company. I'm am a full time working professional, 100% independence. Very open to all races. your pic gets mine. can't to get to know you...
  • Location: Durham
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

LOOKING TO MEET A COURGAR 44-62 (RALEIGH SOUTH UPSCALE AREA) 32yr

LOOKING TO MEET A OLDER WOMAN INBETWEEN THE AGES OF 44 TO 60 I LOVE COURGARS AND THATS ALL I DATE NOT HERE FOR GAMES JUST SOMEONE TO MEET AND SPEND TIME WITH MY PICS ARE ME SO EMAIL ME IF U LIKE WITH A PIC I DONT CARE ABOUT UR WEIGHT MUST HAVE OWN HOME AND CAR .. IF U LIKE TO KNOW MORE ABOUT ME EMAIL ME
  • Location: RALEIGH SOUTH UPSCALE AREA
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Texas Steakhouse tonight? (smithfield)

Anyone interested in going out to eat at Texas Steakhouse tonight? Reply back with a pic if you are interested. Will be going to the one in smithfield. I am paying. If you want something else we can go for bbq, seafood...or applebee's.
  • Location: smithfield
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Laid back black/indian male looking (Raleigh)

Hello and thanks for looking. I am a clean outgoing mature male looking for love tired of the games and looking for anice honestwoman looking for an honest caring man who wants to share our life and days together. I like to cook and give massages and taking walks and making each other happy.I will send picture to your email after you respond and i hope to talk to you very soon
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

does fantastic making-out sound good for today? (raleigh) 31yr

I'm wondering if there's a woman looking for some great making out who loves kissing and wants to experience that today. Kissing for a long time, touching each other...I'm not looking for sex but more just being able to get lost in someone's kisses.
Put 'sunday' in the subject so I know you're real.
  • Location: raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

SWM interested in BBW for Weekday Fun (Raleigh) 39yr

Im having an awesome dinner and would love to share the company
of a real woman with curves. We can work up an appetite in the bedroom
and then have dinner and cuddle and watch a movie afterwards. Weekdays
dont always have to be boring..
Im a handsome, tall and hwp guy, clean cut looks and very clean and
dd free.. Seeking a woman 30 to 50, sane, hwp to curvy and enjoys
a good kisser! Pic for pic replies, seeking tonight or this
weekend, but could become
a regular thing.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Any Christian singles on CL ? LTR (Raleigh) 40yr

Hey, thanks for checking out my profile.Well...I never thought it would come to using CL to try and meet somebody LOL ! I promise I won't tell anyone how we met!!! I don't do the bar and club thing so the net is about my only option.I've been on a few dating sights and have posted some very lengthy, humorous, and honest profiles with no luck. Does anybody appreciate honesty and humor these days? Not to sure what to try and say here, but here goes. I would desrcribe myself as a SWM clean cut with a clean background. No tats or piercings and I'm a Non-Smoker.I'm 5'10" about 180Lbs. and in good shape. I'm often asked if I'm in the Military or Law Enforcement. I'm a church going Christian with a great since of humor,kinda cynical and sarcastic like the two judges from the Muppet Show. ( Waldorf and Statler) I like older music, oriental food and dogs. I like staying active with outdoor type activities like camping, hiking,hunting and fishing. I also like to read. I'm looking for an outdoorsy type Christian Gal with a good sence of humour and spunk.

This is a real post and I'm a real person, not a spammer so if you're interested I'd love to hear from you.


  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Single dad looking for... (Apex) 42yr

Hello,

Thanks for stopping by, here's a little about me. . .

I like to think of myself as an easy going, laid back kind of guy. I love to laugh and have a pretty good sense of humor; I can be a bit sarcastic at times too. I like to think of myself as one of the "good guys" and that I have a lot of the qualities women look for. . . see below!

I have an incredible, almost 3 year old daughter who means the world to me and is a big part of my life. Her mother and I share custody and I have her Wednesday nights and every other weekend.

The past 3 years have been hectic to say the least. I spent the majority of my time focusing on my daughter and doing projects around the house I purchased in '09. Now that my goofball is getting older and the projects around the house are just about completed, I finally have time to myself and hopefully I can meet someone to spend time with, possibly start a relationship and with a little luck, share my life with.

Some of the things I enjoy are spending time with my daughter, anything to do with the outdoors such as camping (something I haven't done in a long time, but plan on taking my daughter this spring when it warms up a bit) fishing, boating, motorcycles, trips to the beach and back yard barbecues. Like most, I enjoy a night out with friends, dinner/drinks, catching a movie, live band or just staying in on a cold night, having dinner and curling up with someone special and watching a movie.

I would like to meet someone that is honest, caring, silly at times, and has a good sense of humor as well; Someone who understands that communication and trust are part of the foundation for a solid relationship. And someone who considers themselves a true romantic and believes that it's the little things in a relationship that are important.

Now on to some of those qualities I mentioned. . .

1. I can fix stuff! Not only can I fix stuff, but I can do so without involving the police, ambulances or insurance companies! Computers, cars, home repairs and especially toddler toys!
2. I can reach stuff that's high and also put the ornament on top of the tree without a ladder!
3. I'm a gentleman. . . with values and morals. I'm also kind, considerate and caring.
4. I'm in the process of raising the most incredible, intelligent, well-mannered, beautiful little girl and I haven't broken her yet!
5. I have never been unfaithful to anyone I've dated and can promise you that you would not be the first.
6. I'm in touch with my feminine side. . . you, me, candles, a hot bubble bath and bottle of wine is the perfect way to spend an evening. Bath toys, including a rubber ducky are optional.
7. I truly believe that the small gestures in a relationship are important. . . (and something I miss)
8. I understand that a relationship is 50/50 and that it requires communication, trust and honesty.
9. I love animals. Right now, I have a 75 gallon fish tank, but I'm looking to get a puppy soon. I'm still unsure which, but it will be either a German Shepherd or Golden Retriever.
10. I can cook! I'm not a chef, but I enjoy cooking and trying new recipes. Again, haven't broken my daughter yet :)

Now on to a not so looked for quality. . . (Hey, no one is perfect)

I smoke. . . never in my home or around my daughter, but yes, I smoke. I would love to quit and have tried, but I guess the timing hasn't been right yet.
Also, I do try to work out regularly. I'm 6'2, 215 lbs and on the athletic/muscular side. I'm not a gym rat or anything like that; I'm just trying to keep myself in a shape other than round. I have a love/hate relationship with the gym, but at this age, it's a necessary evil.

With that being said, there are a few physical features that I tend to find attractive and look for in a woman. In no particular order: Long hair. . . it's something I've always found attractive in a woman and typically notice first; eyes, smile and fitness. . . I do prefer a woman who falls into the slim to average category. More importantly, I'm looking for a woman who has values and morals. Something that's very difficult to find these days. . . in both genders. Whether it's a friendship, dating or a long term relationship, this is something I look for and pride myself in having. And I'll make this really simple. . . if you're the type of person who would cheat on someone you're involved with, rather than being an adult, respecting your partner and ending the relationship, we don't have the same values and morals and simply won't get along.

I'd love to meet someone that I clicked with and is also interested in a long term relationship, but I'm also open to meeting new friends as well.

So if you made it this far and you're interested, shoot me an email and let's talk.

Thanks!

  • Location: Apex
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Moving to Raleigh...from NYC... (Southpoint Mall aread) 31yr

Just moved here from NYC...looking for a fun lady to hang...few drinks...show me around?

If you arent busy tonight and want to have a fun time lets get together!
  • Location: Southpoint Mall aread
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Sunday Evening Relaxation - m4w (Durham, Raleigh) 29yr

If you are an intelligent, attractive, healthy (not a bbw, no stds, and addictions) white female and would enjoy sharing a bottle of wine or cocktails with a muscular, professional, healthy BM, let me know. Just looking to enjoy the the rest of this great Sunday. No expectations other than a great evening and hopefully meeting a new friend. Please put your favorite wine in the subject, and a pic would be appreciated. Thanks.
  • Location: Durham, Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Wanted: WF Summer Workout buddy and more?- weekday mornings! (Garner or close) 99yr

Summertime. Do you have most every morning free this summer, ready to be filled with fun and activities? I am talking about getting together from 8 til ? in the morning, 4-5 days a week. Walks/jogs at Lake Benson or another park on a nice day. Prefer white female ,under 200 lbs and a non-smoker. Please be smart and ready to start soon. Would love if you are near Garner/Cary and can provide a shower for to me use!

If we click during exercise, you will find I am a guy who will make you his total focus of attention!
Kisses, cuddles, hugs, spankings, and so much more, all centered on you. All summer long..... All about you! Indoor learning activities on bad weather days :)

If this sounds nice, I am a mature, strong, MWM who can get with almost every weekday morning this summer and make you feel so desired, just write back and tell me about yourself.
  • Location: Garner or close
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I am John G. (North Raleigh) 28yr

I am a fun; funny and extremely loving lovable person I like to go out and spend time with my friends or my "Boo???, when I have one.I am a very affectionate person, I love to hold and be held. There's nothing like being with someone on the couch watching TV or in the bed during a thunderstorm. Looking for a woman that can appreciate when a man is genuine about getting to know them. I am a very fun quick witted guy. Never a dull moment or conversation. Just looking for someone to Kick it with! A down for whatever kinda WOMAN. (Not necessarily An Around the way girl) lol. I am recently single, broke it off with my fiance in November so I can't lie, I am craving affection and some one to show love to. And will appreciate it ;)

At the very least you will gain a good friend and get to know a WONDERFUL man. Interested in knowing more about me hit me up! I think I need to meet someone new. Peace ;)
  • Location: North Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

R there any woman out there lonely 45yr

Ladies if u r lonely then makes two of us if u r bored then makes to of us if u need somebody to hold n to give u unconditional love then I'm ur man n if u think that u can stand this heat then plz come on n to my kitchen so we can get to no each other my num is 9one9 seven 9 eight one 4 two 9 call asap my name is darryl
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

New to the area. (Raleigh) 24yr

Hey, Im a 24 yo business professional and student. New to the Raleigh area and looking for someone to hang out, go to dinner, drinks, movies or what not with and just have a good time. If things were to lead to more then it is what it is. Im 6'1 short brown hair blue eyes 180 lbs and good looking, funny, out going, and friendly/respectful. Oh and im white. if that matters lol. So if your new to the area, looking for new friends, or w.e it may be, Dont hesitate to send an email with a picture and ill be sure to do the same in reply. just not going to post myself on here lol ( doing this is already enough lol ) Hope you've had a good weekend .. talk soon.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

i just want head nsa (rdu) 35yr

In search of great nsa head. Looking for an ongoing thing. Cannot host. Can travel within reason.
35 white male, 5 10, 190 lbs, some facial hair. im ddf you be too.
Thanks for reading
Use 321 as subject line to help me out with spam.

  • Location: rdu
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

still seeking car date (Car Max/Brier Creek) 50yr

white single guy, late 40's still seeking car date
  • Location: Car Max/Brier Creek
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for a cool girl.... (Raleigh) 30yr



919 I live in raleigh, got a good job, drama free,like to have fun, funny as hell..758 I would like to find a cool girl that we can go out and have fun or just chill and puff...4715 I am down...
Cant post #'s so read in between the lines!!


I love to cuddle...




  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking to SWAP MASSAGES with an attractive, literate and normal female today (Triangle)

Yes, is Sunday, partly cloudy and high 70's and I am real.

Yes, I am 100% real and serious

You: sane, cute, not overweight, have a job/in school, literate...

I know that Craigslist is not ideal, but how are the bars any better.

I have posted this week and it seems that most responses are either guys or unattractive women. I am simply hoping to find an attractive (face/body) that can carry a conversation and does not look like they may be a meth user or sloppy (yes hygiene and appearance matter)

I am attractive, athletic, smart and the best thing you will find here....yes, that is me in the pic.

Please write MASSAGE in subject
  • Location: Triangle
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

DC Black Male Seeking Carolina Woman Interested? (MD/DC)

I am a very hard working man. However, I have found that it is time to slow down at work and spend some time on other goals in life. I am hoping to find someone who can be a friend with potential for future advancement, someone who doesn't run from commitment. A woman that knows what it means to exclusively date one man.

I have no past women friends chasing or stalking me. So with me you are getting a fresh fruit please keep that in mind.

I would really like to enjoy the company of a woman that would be wonderful enough to someday fall into that elite group of women, minus the break up!

I love children and animals. I don't mind going out to a bar every once in awhile, but not as an every night thing. I am a very affectionate person. I love to dance, read, listen to music, and cuddle up with a special person. I enjoy sports and I am typically up for trying something new. I tend to be an adrenaline junkie, which may lead to temporary crazy moments in the eyes of others.

I am very close with my family and therefore, I believe that families are one of the most important things that God could bless us with.

Please keep in mind I'm located in Wash, Dc area if you are interested please provide a clear full body picture of yourself and tell me something about you!

  • Location: MD/DC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

SWM For BBW seeking FWB (Raleigh) 39yr

Hi. Im a SWM, tall, attractive, hwp, easy going. I enjoy women who have "curves". Barbie types just dont do it for me.
I know that sounds weird,but its just my personal preference. I do love a woman who has a cute face,
long hair and a nice smile though. Hopefully someone with these traits will see this and reply.
Im tired of being alone every single moment. It would be so nice to go out 1 to 2 times a week with
a sweet and good hearted woman. Im employed,yes, I support myself very well. I only ask that you have
a job as well. Hoping we can have good sexual chemistry together. Not looking for "Prudes".
I will send my pics after your 1st reply, but Im tall, well groomed, proper, and funny!
I love great conversation, snuggling on a rainy evening while watching a romantic comedy, asian food
and romantic strolls in the park.
If you are still reading this then thats great!! Please reply with the word "Curves" in subject line so I know
you are real.
I am 39, so I do prefer someone near my age or older ( 35 to 50 maybe?) Looking forward to your response
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Secret Rendezvous with a SBF (Durham) 37yr

Weather is warming up and I'm looking for a cute female for naughty fun! I'm an educated professional, single, handsome, and romantic!. Discretion is important. If you are slim/fit, DDDF, and under 35, feel free to write and also send a pic. Please write SBF and age in the subject line. Ciao!

p.s. Your pic gets mine!


  • Location: Durham
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Do you have sensitive breasts? (Brier Creek) 40yr

I have alwaus loved pleasing a woman's breasts -- gently caressing the girls while pleasing each nipple with a warm, wet mouth. ;) And I'm quite good at it. :) I'm a very attractive, generous, professional white man. If this is something you enjoy and miss, I would love to hear from you. Put "sensitive" in the subject line please, so I know you're real. Thanks!
  • Location: Brier Creek
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for mature for fantasy (Wake County) 40yr

Looking for an older mature woman to help me relive a Mrs. Robinson relationship I had when I was a teen. I can provide more details when we chat. Prefer you be late 40s to late 60s. I'm a professional white male, 40yo, good shape and well endowed. Want this to be fun, innocent and taboo; like it was when I was younger.
  • Location: Wake County
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Your hand, a little lube... (Durham) 37yr

Attractive, generous, white, professional gentleman looking for a lady to help out a couple of times a week for short visits. I'm very respectful and will treat you well. Please send a photo with response. Thanks, and please be willing to come to me, or be close to Duke if you can host.
  • Location: Durham
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Battleship or Avengers tonight???? 28yr

Ok so I'm fairly new here and don't really know a whole lot of people so I figured give CL a try. I'm a swm, good looking, good shape, have a lil nerd in me(hence my movie choices) and really laid back. Was hoping I could find an attractive woman to go watch one of them with me tonight so I didn't go alone. And if all goes well we can end up at my place or go our seperate ways. Just looking to have a fun night and see a good movie just not alone. Hope to hear from you! I'll send a pic once we talk a bit and I know your real. Thank you
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Do you have skilled hands? (RTP) 37yr

Hello ladies. I'm trying to find someone to play with on a regular basis, maybe a couple of times a week. One thing I have always loved is being stroked while giving the 'girls' lots of loving attention. :-) If some mellow, fun playtime like this is of interest to you, please drop me a note.

I'm a white professional, in good shape and considered to be quite attractive. I also have a good personality, D&D free, and very sane (particularly considering some of the weirdos on CL...lol). I look forward to hearing from you!
  • Location: RTP
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I need someone!!!!! Tired of being alone!!! 25yr

Ok so, I have been On here before. All I am looking for is to not be loanly anymore and to have someone who I can wrap my arms around and keep safe. I have my own everything I work extremely hard and I love to enjoy the fruits of my labor. I love being outdoors with my dog, going camping, fishing, golfing, and love to beach. I am a very outgoing, personable guy, who just wants to have fun no matter what the situation, yes I can be serious if the situation calls for it!

So because my iPhone won't let me post any photos of me so I will explain...
5-8 268lbs, bears brown hair, brown eyes (but change to a hazel), tan, have a nice smile and showers daily!!! You must so shower at least every other day, have a nice smile, dont smell like a dirty foot and be a clean person.

You. Please send a picture of your face and a full set of teeth, have nice beautiful eyes and love to be cuddled. Also you need to be somewhat smart and know how to carry on a conversation with anyone at anytime.

If you could put shower daily in the subject line that would be great also a nice picture of you would be fantastic. I hope to hear from someone beautiful soon.

Thanks,
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

ISO my Ebony Princess! (Durham) 45yr

Romantic and handsome gentleman seeking my sweet Ebony soulmate! I'm a well-grounded and well-educated individual with a decent career, own place, car, etc, seeking someone similar to be great friends first and eventually turning into a meaningful relationship. Ideally, you would be well-traveled, career professional, non-smoker and petite/slim figure, in your 30s, and most importantly, comfortable having an interracial partner.

If you feel a connection, do write back! I can send you a photo once I receive yours. To weed out spam, please mention your career and age in subject line. Thank you.


  • Location: Durham
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Need a submissive Handyman? (southern wake co) 47yr

Unemployed and looking to earn some extra$$ for the hollidays. Willing to listen to ALL offers.......really need some work
  • Location: southern wake co
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

MWM for MWF (East of Raleigh) 31yr

Like the title says, I'm looking a MWF for a long term NSA relationship....

I'm :
attractive, fit
clean, disease/drug free
non smoker, nice teeth
sexy smile, picky
more of a giver
dark hair, blue eyes
available only during the week (day)


You: ??????

Shoot me an email and tell me about yourself! Long term as the subject.
  • Location: East of Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

needle in the haystack.. (Raleigh) 39yr

There is probably a zero chance on finding her on CL but I thought I would give it a shot.
I am looking for someone that wants, not needs, that person to complete their already full and satisfying life.
Someone that loves life and is positive and very outgoing. A NON=smoker. In shape and no, 30 lbs overweight is not in shape.
Yes, that is MY preference. I am looking for someone who does not have kids or their kids are older. I do not want or have time
for drama, in any way, shape or form. You must be athletic or at least very active, love the outdoors and not a couch potato.
Alot of criteria I know. Like I said..at this point in someones life, this will be tough for me to find. But I will not stop looking.
About me.. SWM, tall, athletic, non-smoker, educated, great job, no kids, I love to be outside, walk, run, I work out too much.
I love to laugh, appreciate life and want someone to share the good days and bad days with.
If this is you I would love to hear from you. Put "springtime" in the subject line so that i know you are real.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Let me ask you ... (Raleigh) 46yr

Peanut-butter-jelly or caviar?

Coffee shop or bar?

Reality TV or documentary?

A good conversation is _____.

  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Sincere service oriented submissive in search of Dominant woman (N. Raleigh) 35yr

Good day to you and thanks for reading my post.

The titles says it all I am a real experience submissive man who is looking for a real dominant woman in the area to serve. I know there are many more submissive men then dominant women out there so I am hoping someone will take a chance and respond. I cannot promise you the moon and the stars but I can promise if given a chance I will always give 110% into serving you. I of course have a few general hard limits I am happy to discuss but outside of that am happy to serve you as you see fit. I have a vanilla appearance and have a slim body type. I am happy to talk and meet for coffee to show I am real and I do have a picture I can share should you be interested. Thank you for your time and I do hope to hear from you.
  • Location: N. Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Mountain biking anyone? (Cary) 31yr

I am a swm that loves mountain biking and is looking for a swf to ride with and hang out. I usually ride at Crabtree, Harris Lake, or Beaver Dam but am always up for trying somewhere new. All experience levels welcome.




  • Location: Cary
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Heels And Nylons Type Woman (Apex/Cary/Holly Springs) 45yr

Very mature and secure gentleman in search of a "Mature"Woman who enjoys looking nice when we are out,a woman that loves nice things,a woman who will appreciate a great man...I love a woman who enjoys the simple things in life and dosen't mind looking great...Also don't mins wearing flip flops too.What you will get is a white male businessman with salt and pepper hair brown eyes tan skin 6'0" 215 pounds.Please put your favorite beach in subject line so i know your real.
  • Location: Apex/Cary/Holly Springs
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

New to area. Looking for a friend. (Goldsboro) 31yr

Ok.. I've never done this so here it goes..... I'm 31 SINGLE, white, 5'11 190. I have a GREAT job, my own place, and a car. I just recently moved here and just sit at home. Im looking for a chick around my age. That has a job or is going to school, a car, and wants a relationship and possibly more. Please reply with a picture. No pic. No reply. Just so you know I am real... Today is Sunday and there is a solar eclipse. So put "Eclipse" in replay so I know your real.
  • Location: Goldsboro
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Good hearted black man looking for something good.. (Ral.) 26yr

Hey people,I'm a single black male. 6'2" about 240. But not fat.
I have one child I work and have my own car and house.
I don't do much going out.i usually may see a woman a few times and holla at her but I decided to try the Internet this time.
I'm lookin for a nice lady to build with.age and race are not nessisarily important if I am attracted to you and think you a good person we can talk.
Please respond with a pic and a lil info.

  • Location: Ral.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I want to make you feel special (Raleigh / Cary) 37yr

Hi ,
I hope you are enjoying this beautiful day around Raleigh area .
I'm 37 male looking for a nice woman to take my time to know her
and yes make it feel special , loved ...
I'm single , very romantic , very easy going person , caring , funny
Little bit sarcastic , very open minded , very positive looking to date
a nice girl to do things together from outdoors walk to trips to the beach ,
Movies , dinners or anything that will be fun .
I work and I like to do it , artistic as well , very good with my hands on
Different trades , I can speak two languages , 6 tall , short hair just looking for the right
person to share my time with .
I hope we can chat soon if interested put on subject your favorite animal to filter
some of not unwanted responses .

Thanks
  • Location: Raleigh / Cary
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Coffee, then cuddling and make out this Sunday? (Raleigh) 40yr

Care to share some time over coffee, then watch a movie and cuddle and make out? It's Sunday, why not?
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

ATTRACTIVE AND OUTGOING ONLY (GARNER/ RALEIGH) 38yr

im only interested in a good girl for friendship and see from there. would like to find a friend i can talk too and be cuddle with, if interested send me face pic hwp please and race dont matter as long as your classy and take care off your self. im educated, cute, hwp, well built you know and a very good guy. send pic and number i will tex pic or email what ever your comfortable with.im not a goof and im not looking for sex im looking for a friend and then will see from there. age 30-42 hwp please let me know. have a good sunday
  • Location: GARNER/ RALEIGH
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Bad Boy With A Good Heart 45yr

I am a 45 year old, very youthful but mature, very artsy, and experienced in wordly things. I am 5-8, weigh 180 lbs with a natural muscular and stocky build, with alot of tattoos and long hair, and clean-shaven (I send pics only when I get to know someone through emailling). I'm a bit wild to alot of folks, and I'm told that I'm a bad boy with a good heart. I am not average by any means and am a true individualist, so if you're looking for an average guy you should skip to the next ad. I play music for a living and and am a true artist, so I have my ups and downs, but am extremely independant. I love going to music clubs, attend art gallerys, poetry readings, watching movies, reading, as well as outdoor activities. I am a self educated intellectual with many interests and I like to learn new things, knowledge is very important to me. I am also highly entertaining and witty, I love to make people laugh and have fun, and do a good job it! I am not without insecurities, but I am generally very confidant about what I do well and know my limitations. I have no age, race, or size preference, if there's a spark, than the magic happens. All that matters is that you are pretty, intelligent, and have a good heart. If you respond, please tell me all about yourself and we'll see what happens. Please put I'm Real in your reply so I know you're not a machine lol...PLEASE NO SPAMMERS OR SCAMMERS...I WILL NOT GO TO A WEBSITE TO SEE YOUR INFO OR PICTURES SO DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME!!!

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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Right to the point (RTP/Durham/Raleigh) 37yr

I'm 37 and I'm looking for a single white female, my age or less, for friendship/companionship with the hope of a long term relationship. I have no kids and would prefer to have time to build a solid relationship with my match before introducing a child in the mix. I'd like to meet someone who enjoys being active and exercises regularly as that is one of my interests as well. I have a cat so please be OK with animals. I am a firm believer in treating others the way I like to be treated. I practice mutual respect and consideration; and I hope to find someone who communicates well. Please type the word "hopeful" in the subject line to weed out spam. Thanks for reading, and I hope you find what you're looking for.
  • Location: RTP/Durham/Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

ISO an Ebony FWB (Durham) 38yr

I'm a handsome, educated, working professional, very busy, seeking a FWB for regular NSA fun. Must enjoy oral and be open-minded! :-)

Reply with pic if you are really interested.

NO MEN or COUPLES

  • Location: Durham
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for an exceptional woman for discreet affair (JOCO) 35yr

Hello Ladies,

I am setting the bar high here, and this may not be the place to find her, but I am looking for an above average woman
for a long term discreet affair. I am married but in an agreement with her for us to date other people as long as its done discreetly
and dont have drama involved , and dont have people talking around town.
I am looking for a very attractive woman that takes very good care of herself,whom is very clean, prefer a non smoker,(not a deal breaker), but I do not smoke
or do drugs of any sort.

I am in shape, nice smile,tall,medium build,no facial hair,smooth chest.

I am not seeking a CL regular,dont worry,I am not one either.

If you feel like this is something you are interested in and are close to what I have described above, please reply with "I may be the one" in the subject line.

*********ok, last time I tried to place an ad, I learned alot about spam,fakes,flakes,guys posing as girls, so with that being said.......
Feel free to send a picture if you want, but after I receive an email from you, I will reply back requesting a special picture that will prove to me you are indeed a woman.
When I receive that back, then I will forward you my face pic. Dont worry it will be a g-rated special pic request.

I hope to hear from the one soon !

Happy hunting !
  • Location: JOCO
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Upscale Professional seeking Professional Woman of Color (Durham/RTP) 44yr

Spring is in the air and I'd love to meet a special lady who'll steal my heart away! I'm a well-educated, hard-working, well-established, good-looking professional, and very much single! I'm funny, romantic, sweet, love to travel, take cruises, and believe in enjoying life to its fullest. My ideal match would be a single professional, sweet, well-educated, non-smoker, slim/petite/athletic figure, under 40 and local.

If you are interested, respond with Spring's in the Air in the subject line and please tell me something about yourself and your interests. I do have photo to share, only if you have one; your pic will get mine!
  • Location: Durham/RTP
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

a black male (triangle area)

I'm a fun loving, caring, honest man seeking a lonely woman looking for a friend, companion or maybe more. After thinking about it and decide to check me out, include a few details about yourself like where you (city) live, are you divorced etc, and anything else you will like to share. Also it wouldn't hurt to have a photo of yourself.
  • Location: triangle area
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I love dogs, but dont have one (Raleigh) 28yr

I have always wanted a dog but have been way too busy traveling for work, so if you have one that would be cool. I am a somewhat handsome, well educated, employed, 28 year old man. Work, my other 2 businesses, the gym, and my attempt at a social life keep me pretty busy. Although my time is busy my lonliness trumps all of it. All my friends are attached and I am getting sick of even going out with them. I wanna share my life with someone. With all that being said my life isnt a bed of roses. I can be a difficult person to get along with sometimes. I tend to be really arrogant and sarcastic, in my mind its playful but it can be hurtful, so if you are easily offended this probably wont work. Also I have lots of hobbies, I wont go into them now, but I hope you have some of your own and share some of mine. I do not do well sitting around doing nothing, life is too short to spend it on the couch. In order to weed out the bots please tell me your favorite bar on Glenwood South? Favorite restauarant in raleigh, durham, and chapel hill? last movie you saw? Pictures are nice, but not necessary on first email unless you want to send one. I look forward to hearing from you.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Single Daddy! (Willow Spring,NC) 37yr

I'm recently seperated with wanting no chance of getting back with soon to be ex wife.. I'm 6'1 247 Have a soon to be 4yr old daughter that is my life. Im looking for some one to take both of us as a package because she is not going anywhere. I have a full time job and my own transportation. Not looking for any drama, must be SOBER, no pills,drugs or alcoholics please.. occaisonal drinking is fine. So lets see what happens. I'm easy to get along with and will treat you with respect. Respond with email add a picture. Let's be real here no games been hurt enough.
  • Location: Willow Spring,NC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Well did you (Raleigh area)

Well did you get your kitty licked last night. I am available to slip into a HWP lady's bedroom this morning and explore her lovely body. I am white as you are 5'11' 190 single 49 clean and disease free. It can be NSA or perhaps LTR. Will trade pic for pic. Put fresh shaven in the subject line.
  • Location: Raleigh area
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Handsome guy looking for petite Cauc. to help (Raleigh) 54yr

Handsome cauc., guy, ht wt prop. I am seeking a lady of substance. Not of money buy some character. Hopefully this will not come off as cheezy, but I am looking for a partner. I am separated, looking for someone in like situation where a friendship can develope, and lead to other things. No drama, no bs. Lets at least explore the possibilities.We could develope something and help each other in lots of ways. I am real. Low keyed type person. Thanks. Put purple in subject line to weed out the crazies.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Seeking petite dark-skinned Island beauty for dating and ltr (Durham) 42yr

I'm an educated professional with a good career, ready to begin friendship leading to a meaningful relationship. I do not smoke, in excellent health and enjoy what life has to offer, hoping to meet someone similar.

If you are interested, please tell me something about yourself and include a pic to receive mine! Oh, please mention Island name in the subject line. Thanks for reading and responding.

  • Location: Durham
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

strapping up (Raleigh) 44yr

I'm a nice looking, fit, professional SWM who is looking for a new friend with all the usual qualities: single, great sense of humor, pretty smile. But your smile gets bigger with the thought that a big part of our friendship would be keeping me gaped on a regular basis. Put your favorite number of inches in the reply line, so that I know you are thinking about this.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Someone fun. SWM for SWF (Raleigh ) 28yr

I am 28 year old SWM looking for a SWF. I am 5'11'' brown hair blue eyes.
I am looking for a fun woman to spend sometime with and get to know. I would like someone that knows how to take care of a man. I like doing stuff outside walks, beach, hiking, stuff like that. I do also enjoy hanging out watching movies and spending time together. If you fit this when you reply please put your age in the subject and send a pic. Thank you.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

King looking for his queen!! (Durham, NC) 29yr

Whats up ladies. You have a single white male brown hair blue eyes 6 1 245 lbs. In good shape. I am from orlando fl. Been in durham about 2 yrs. College educated. I am independent. I have a full time job, my own car, and my own place. I am very family oriented. No kids but I love them. Looking for something long term. Not looking for a gold digger. Someone that is fun,good personality, single. Not real picky. Big or small. White or Black. But I have more experience with AA women then white women. Age 25 to 35. Please have all your teeth. If you reply put durham in the subject line. I am real so you be too. No bs or games. Thank you. Include a pic also.
  • Location: Durham, NC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

If you are much younger and remotely interested... (Raleigh) 44yr

If you are significantly younger than I, and if you are remotely interested in exploring any sort of relationship with an older guy, I hope you will consider replying. I'm 6'1, athletic, professional, into fitness and outdoor exercise. I'll consider friendship, an activity partner or something romantic, but am not stuck on one particular thing...I'm willing to share photos. Thanks for reading...
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Quality Guy seeks Classy Submissive Lady (Raleigh) 47yr

Does this interest you? Are you apprehensive to explore you desires? Let's start a conversation and see where it takes us. Quality, Dominant man, assertive, well groomed, fit and nicely endowed, educated, non-smoker, drug and disease free, seeks the pleasures of an attractive, educated submissive lady. Friends with benefits. You must be a non-smoker, drug and disease free. Experience is not necessary. All limits respected! Please type goodness in the subject line so I know you are real. Another beautiful day in Raleigh.
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

White man looking for sexy black BBW for LTR (Durham) 54yr

Yes,I prefer black women that are shorter in height from slim2thick,big boned,volupuous,xtra pounds or however you want to describe it.You want a man that will treat you right and work to keep a balance between us?I'm looking for real .When emailing,Put the day thursday
  • Location: Durham
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Newly Separated~ (Raleigh) 38yr

Hi ladies I am an attractive latin/italian male , newly separated and looking for a friend to have some fun with . No drama please ....I have enough of that right now .
I enjoy the Beach , staying in shape , music , outdoors .......or just relaxing watching a good movie at home . This is all new to me and don't really like the bar scene ....so im giving this a shot
Hope to here from you :)
  • Location: Raleigh
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

MARRIED WHITE GUY SEEKS ONLY ONE LADY LOVER (CARY, NC) 60yr

I am a married white guy and seek only one lady lover for a ltr . I am , clean, well endowed , and long lasting. You will not be disappointed. Please tell me age, location and size in the first email. Just don't say I may be interested to get my email address.
I am seeking one lover for a mutually satisfying relationship in every aspect. Looking forward to rendezvous, passion, excitement, fun, sensual pleasures. and mutual gratification. Let's see what evolves! Please put "only one" in the subject line. Please no young girls. Thanks
  • Location: CARY, NC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for a LTR (Durham) 24yr

A latino man is looking for a serious relationship ,race is no matter for me,I just look for a real woman that know how to appreciate a real man . About me, I am tall with beautiful eyes,good sense of humor and like to explore new things.Loyal,loving, caring,hard worker are a some characteristics that you gonna get from me and more.If you want to know more about me,reply this ad with a photo and your favorite type of music to avoid spam and boot,Iwill do the same.
  • Location: Durham
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Any ladies interested in relocating (Detroit) 49yr

Handsome , tall blackman looking for a nice lady for ltr. Hazel eyes 6 feet 4. Many interest and well rounded. Let's begin a friendship and see about a life together.
  • Location: Detroit
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Tan and Tall (apex/cary/hs/fv) 47yr

Tan and 6'0 Tall SWM HWP looking...don't want a hook up and don't want any dd&d. Tell me a little about you as I did...any takers? I am real, honest and respectful.

Looking for dating and possible LTR. Put "sunday" in subject line, no games, no spam, no pic no reply. Thanks for reading and have a good rest of the weekend.
  • Location: apex/cary/hs/fv
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for someone to have a good time 24yr

i am a SBM looking for a good time so if that's u then hit me up and send a pic and I'll send one back and we can see where it goes from there.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

passionate...dedicated...funny? (durham) 28yr

Hey there...If these are a few of the words you'd use to describe yourself..you should def respond promply! Im your average guy I suppose with a great sense of humor, I love going to the beach and the mountains of nc. However Im just as happy at home cuddled up with you watching a good movie while my bulldog sleeps at our feet. If you would like to know more put dan in the subject:D
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Not Ready To Tuck In For the Night Let's Flirt? (North Carolina) 29yr

Hey fellow Craigslist's peruser:

The weather was so nice and brisk tonight and everyone was dressed up for a night on the town. However I am ready to tuck in for the night (to my dismay). I did not find anyone but that does not mean I am ready to call it a night. Would like to chat, banter and possibly flirt with someone in the privacy of my home (this is NOT a translation for me inviting you over like the rest of the craigslist creepers) Just would like to exchange some emails with banter and see if there is chemistry. If there is mutual consent we can exchange numbers.

I don't want to say there are expectations, except maybe please be fun, open-minded (this is not a translation for having any weird whip and chain fantasies) and a good flirt. Oh one more expectation. If you reply to my email please write a personalized response and in the subject of your email tell me what you wore for your night on the town tonight.

Happy Hunting ;-)

5'11" 190 pounds, 29 year old guy
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

ride bikes, enjoy some time together. (Raleigh) 25yr

I've been going out more lately and I haven't seen one person who has caught my eye. Maybe they are always around the corner, while I decide to hang out somewhere else.

I'm looking for a girl who isn't superficial and can look at things a little differently than most. It doesn't matter how you look at life, just that you spend some time thinking about yourself. Having said that, I like to have fun, bar hop, ride my bike around town, drink, and enjoy the best things in life. Summer is coming so I'd like to crash some private pools, and stay up late looking for fun.
Always down for an evening in watching movies.

Anyway, I'm a white guy. I'm handsome and intelligent. Stable with a good job and my own place. I love soul music, garage rock, thrash metal, electro, and hip hop. All the best. I'm liberal, open-minded, college educated, but think of myself as working class.

This doesn't specifically need to lead to romance. Friends is great too.

If you'd like to know more, or harass me, send love letters, mail bombs, and social security numbers by clicking the email link.

Cheers.
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Saturday Night Live + 420 (Raleigh) 24yr

If you like Saturday night live and you like to smoke and youre sexy we should hangout.... :)
send a pic and ill do the same :)
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Looking for a cute 420 girl (raleigh) 24yr

Im looking to meet someone with a good sense of humor and cute. thats not asking to much! :0
Please send a pic and I will do the same
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Question about Spanking (Chapel Hill) 52yr

I have noticed that men seem to be much more into the idea of spanking as an erotic activity and I am wondering, if women are excited by the idea of spanking and, if they really enjoy it?
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Do you have a chocolate drawer too?? (Raleigh) 41yr

I have one in my frig....

SWM looking for SWF that is looking for a ltr with the possibility of marriage and starting a family.
First line says it all.  Would like to meet a down to earth lady who has no kids is dd free and is a non smoker.  Likes being outdoors, movies, trying new things, long drives, or just hanging out at home.  Do you like going out to dinner and trying new places??   Me too.   Are you somewhat smart??  I like to think I am and would like to meet a lady that can hold an intelligent conversation.  You have a job, car, your own place??  I do too, plus a dog so being a dog person would help.  Do you cook??  So can I, maybe we can see who's better and I don't mean Hamburger Helper.  Do you like to take lazy days and not get out of bed and turn off the phone??  I think everyone has to from time to time.

I'm 5'10", with brown hair and eyes.  Mostly in shape but the years of work have slowed me down so I could do to loose about 20 lbs need to give up the Grande Java Chip.  Would like to meet someone about my age and a couple inches shorter, sorry just being honest everyone has an outline or picture in their head of who they would like to meet.  
I've lived across the US with Raleigh being the current stop.  Been here about 17 years so I know my way around and at the moment no plans of moving anytime soon.  

When responding please tell me about your self.  1 line responses will be deleted.

Gas prices are down to a whopping 3.49 here in Raleigh.

Please put favorite movie in title when responding so I know your not spam....

 
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Where are you?? (Sanford-Apex) 46yr

Very nice and handsome white male searching for a mature lady who is also searching for her man.i am looking for a great heart big smile not into large women not my preference.please love to cuddle kiss hold hands go do fun things..also love to look like a million bucks when we are out i know this lady exist some where ???
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Want tohave some company (Raleigh) 42yr

Hi,

I am a single, white, 42 y/o man who would enjoy the company of a mature and polite woman. I miss spending time with a female. Not asking for anything in particular just an opportunity to have an adult conversation and relax with the one I am with. If interested let me know, I would enjoy hearing from you.

J
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Honest Guy With Nice Eyes (Triangle) 40yr

Hi-white professional male here who is not sure where to meet women since I'm not into clubs/bars (I'm a non drinker and smoker..well maybe a beer in a rare social occasion) and don't feel comfortable just approaching a woman in public to say "hi" in fear that her large boyfriend might come around the corner and turn me into dogfood lol. Anyway, I'm five eleven, hundred and eighty pounds, dark hair, light eyes and have been called all the "normal" stuff- nice, sweet, funny, considerate, cute, ect.. Looking for someone to get to know by email/text or even phone down the line and if all goes well, maybe meet for coffee or something one day. I have a house and on nights/weekends I don't have my daughter (divorced, joint custody) would be fun to have someone to come over (or go to your place as well if you want) and maybe share dinner with, watch or go to a movie, go for a walk (or even better- a run!), go to the mall, museum, daytrip somewhere, ect. Maybe something will develop out of our time together-who knows:) Would hope you have some of my same "normal" traits (lol) and I am also looking for someone who has a small to medium build and you MUST be a non smoker. I'll be glad to trade pics of course and please put "STAR" in the title of your reply. Thanks!

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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Up Late and Want A Fun Convo? (Holly Springs) 38yr

Professional white male (5'11", 175lbs)...I'm fast at responding, funny, nice, open an flirty..if you're cute and type fast, love to hear from you! Be glad to swap pics. Put "YAWN" in the title of your reply. Thanks
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Seek serious girlfriend (Johnston County) 71yr

HI. Placing yet another ad. Usually I wind up receiving a ton of spam from 20 YO girls who want me to log on to a 'free site' for their number, because they're prostituting and CL won't let them do that. Or, occassionally a reply from someone that says they are interested - however, after one or two e-mails, they vanish, no more e-mails, no replies, nothing. But I am ever optimistic. So, if you are actually interested, then put FUTURE in the subject line. No FUTURE, your message to me gets discarded without me reading it, that simple.

Forgot to say, so had to add. I am very sensitive to smoke now, shuts down my breathing, so NO Smoker. Sorry. Also, no drug user, even pot. No major health issues.

Well, got a bunch of spam in reply, and one with FUTURE in the subject line - and that one only said she had sent me a previous e-mail.

By the way, I do not know what you mean by BBW. Yes, I know Big Beautiful Woman, which doesn't mean anything to anyone but the person using it. Try using dress sizes, then people have an idea of what you actually mean. I happen to like Rubenesque women, short and thick is fine - if the personality is good..

I don't smoke, rarely drink, no drugs ever, no STD, very honest, overall good health, 5'7", stocky, financially stable, not rich, pay my own bills, I am retired Army, now 71, been told I look in my 50s, usually feel like I should be in my 20s/30s. But have bad joints, so can't do as much as I could, either that or usually slower. Modest home, about 9-10 miles east of Raleigh.

I'm looking for a serious girlfriend, in about the 40ish-60 age range, MUST be a non-smoker, and available. No AA please, my preference. I'm still blessed/cursed with a very strong libido, don't do casual, married, one-night atands, so I'm not just looking for NSA or FWB. I want a real girlfriend, a real relationship first then the benefits, then live in, ultimately marriage preferably. I am after a nice woman, prefer a homebody type enjoys cooking, doesn't mind light housekeeping, crafts/arts, is lonely and wants the sensual and erotic lifestyle she's never had, and to accompany me where I go.

I am white, long divorced, not in a relationship; overall good health, with bad joints, glaucoma treated with drops, etc., nothing life threatening or communicable. Intelligent, articulate, literate, well read, well traveled - interested in more travel, but only in the US, possibly Canada, and that is it, nowhere else, the rest of the world is too unstable for me. I like a lot of things, museums, surfing the web now, funny movies, comic strips on-line, cartoons on-line, some cartoons on TV, Phineas and Ferb primarily; wooden boats; steam boats; classical music; bluegrass music (if you do not know, bluegrass is not country music); pipes & drums; woodworking; some metal working; target shooting; fishing; dressing casual; drives; ice cream cones; coffee; tea; trying to eat healthy and right; could lose a few lbs, but hard alone. I'm 5'7", stocky, broad shoulders, solid-not slushy, still some red in my hair worn short, blue eyes, glasses. Carry a cane now, but don't need it most of the time, but when my hip or back gives me problems I'm very happy I have it along. Made my cane also.

Before I forget, live not far from Clayton, modest home, untidy, but mine, mine, mine. I'm looking for a serious relationship. If you are not interested, perhaps you have a friend that would be instead.

Deal killers: No smokers; no drug users, to include pot; no life threatening diseases; no major disease or health problems; no mental health issues; no small children - I raised my two sons from ages 3 and 7, alone, and can't take raising kids again; no major debts.

Any questions, feel free to ask. Bad photo included, but then they're all bad.


Remember, if you are really serious, put FUTURE in the subject line. If that isn't there, any replies will get discarded as spam.
The photo is of one of the wooden figure banks I make. You'll get one of me when I get one of you.
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Really looking for soon (RDU) 24yr

I'm a swm, 24, in shape, and really want to find a woman who will be a makeout buddy. There are fwb, fbuddies, but that's really not what I am looking for, just someone who will meet up occasionally and make out for a while, no relationship needed. I know it's slighty different, but it's what I am missing and what I want to find. Put "kisses" in subject line so I know who's real and who's not, we can chat, exchange pics, whatever else. Not looking for tonight, but setting something up
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

wanna go have some drinks (franklin co) 52yr

First Sat night off in awhile lookin for a lady that might wanna go have a couple of drinks.Don't know alot about this area or a bar to go to.Pic will get mine
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

LF DOMINANT FEMALE (Cary) 37yr

GL prof single wm, good bod, 5'9 175...I do not have any axes, guns, or large sticks...lol completely sane! Love movies, sic fi, books, read um all! Miller Lite, Foster the People, Blue October and ya even Pink? If that's not enticing enough, how about candy? Puppies? and a 70's van, with heart red carpet!... :)

Tattoos and piercings are cool, old people on the freeway not! Im looking for something different to spice up life! Dominant Girls, who know what they like and are uninhibited, judging, genuine! blah blah blah!!!

Send me your questions! Concerns, complaints!!

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Posted: May 19th, 2012