Ok ladies, we all know there are many hot single men out there, but you only need one good one! You're probably a good-girl type, sincere and ready to start a long lasting committed relationship with a good guy.. If so, checkout the single men dating below..

Click on the country you live-in, find your local city or a city that you are visiting, and see if there is a single man looking for his love match.

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Seeking engaging friend and companion (Near you)

Care for some fun, pillaging and plundering...long walk and talk on the beach, park, downtown...where ever? When did you last fly a kite, climb a tree...do something spontaneously? Nature lover, animal lover, engaging companion, perhaps intimate partner and lover. Looks, heart and soul are late 40tyish. Well educated, well read, well traveled, spiritually centered and easy going seeks same. Live life willing, open and honest grateful for all the happiness and grace received. Truly appreciate the dear and simple things in life, and treat all as I would like to be treated. No children. Comfortable in almost any venue. Politically and culturally liberal. STD free and will keep it that way. Prefer a windy road to a straight away. Excited to see what's around the next bend. Best to sit back, relax, and enjoy the scenery. Mix excellent lemonade when lemons are all there is to be found. Best batches..the world class stuff..,require you. How are ya on lemonade? Care for a partner in crime? Photos available.

Let's get this show on the road. Give me a shout. Tell me about you, your likes and loves, your excitement, passion, and inspiration. Attach photos. Prefer young hearts and souls between 30 and 52. Can place adds, but can't answer them for some reason. Would especially enjoy hearing from Two of Cups and

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Posted: May 21st, 2012

talking, having fun (tabor city nc) 29yr

im 5foot 11 im 235pounds brown hair brown eyes and i like having fun.........i work alot but i make time in my life to hve fun and go out............i like racing and mudbogging............i dont drink but i do smoke cigarettes................. if intrested my number is 910two3four4six9seven...........i love texting

• Location: tabor city nc
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

MY LOVING, CARING, FUTURE EX (Wilmington) 37yr

Looking for a woman that has her life together. A woman that has happiness, but simply needs the other half to truly enjoy life to its fullest. A woman that is active, in shape, cares for her self, a certain amount of sophistication with out the bad attitude. A woman that has no drug problems, future or past. A woman that truly enjoys the company of a man with out some sort of trade off or hang ups. A woman that can leave bad times at the door and go forward with only happiness and love in her heart. Some of the other good descriptives for the woman that I am looking for would enclude, trust worthy, sane, healthy, sarcastic humor inclined, speaks proper verbage, loyal, and truly has time to accept a man into her life. I will be searching until my little heart is content and not one second longer. If you care and you should. I am 5'10", 180 lbs, blue eyes with a shaved head and know I have never been in the military. If interested and are a real woman that is ready for a good friend with hopes of more please contact nine one zero four zero nine three nine six one.

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

anyone real out there? (wilmington) 19yr

I'll start this off by saying this is going to be a one in a million shot haha but here we go.. I am 19 years old, and i have a full time job but also in a band. So not so much room looking for beautiful girls like you reading this :)
If you like bike rides(like around greenfield lake), movie dates, going to concerts, and just like having fun you are probably my type... so don't be shy message me with a picture and ill return one. No fakes please, I'm sincere so I'd like you to be too

• Location: wilmington
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

is there intelligent life out there? 31 male new to town friends 1st (wilmington) 31yr

Seems intelligent conversation is getting to be really rare these days ! Anyone care to chat? floors open ! Im new to town just looking to meet some new people thats all !

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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Tired of Riding My Harley Alone (Monkey Junction) 57yr

Lonely male seeking female for friendship and then see where it goes. I enjoy riding my Harley touring bike but wish I could share the ride with someone special. I am not what most people would consider the biker type. There is more to life than the bike of course. I enjoy coastal living, the beach, parks, the river and stimulating conversation. I'm a self-employed professional who is honest, sane and sincere; average weight, over 6' tall. I know you're out there somewhere...

• Location: Monkey Junction
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

910Fun540 time2962 (910) 18yr

I'm 18 . I am lookin for a good time I am lookin for Ltr, fwb, one nite stand or just hang out I am 420 friendly that's a plus send pic for pic put good time in subject box

• Location: 910
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Workout Buddy 27yr

Good Day!

I'm a 27 year old guy and I am in great shape. I'm looking for a weekend workout buddy. I enjoy running, hiking and weight training. I do all these things alone, but if I had someone who can keep up with me and keep me company it would be pretty cool.

Other than fitness, i like like to get out to the beach or catch a movie at the Mayfield.

If your interested, then shoot me an email with your favorite color:).

I can send pics on request. If you can reply with a pic, that be cool too.

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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Seeking . . . . (Wilmington) 31yr

31yrs old, 5'10", 190 lbs, short black hair, blue eyes.

Served in military. Graduate of UNCW. I graduated a full year ago, but because of the flat job market am not working in my field. I keep on applying and doing interviews all the time though so eventually . . . . ?

My 'hobby' is playing guitar. It is hard to explain what it is that I do because it's not a super popular type of music, but what I play is called 'instramental music'.

As far other music I enjoy listening to, it would include just about anything. Granted, I have my favorites, but I am open to pretty much any type. I am this way because I think once you refuse to listen to something you may miss out on the message within.

Other than that, I enjoy working out and running as much as I can. No, I'm not a 'muscle head', but just like to try stay in shape.

I think I am on here because I desire female companionship. I have had a rough time resently as far as that goes. Seeking still, I guess

Reply if you'd like. A picture would be greatly appreciated so I know who I'm speaking to. Thanks!

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Seeking Fun, Mature, Drama Free (wilmington/surrounding) 18yr

Hey! I hope if your reading this your day is going well. I am an eighteen year old white male in search of someone new. I meet tons of girls all the time and date a lot of them but I still have not come close to find the one I am looking for. Someone who is real, knows who she is, does not have to pretend to be someone she is not. I am looking for someone who can sit back and have a good laugh and talk for hours on end about the most pointless things. I dont know, I might be crazy thinking I am going to find this person, let alone online. But I figured why not right? I am looking for someone who I share a mutual physical attraction with. Doesn't have to be a ten but attraction is important and strive to keep myself in the good shape as well. I am looking for someone who is mature and realizes there is more to the world than silly drama and american idol. That being said I am looking for someone my age to late 20s, but who knows haha. Also its sad I have to say this, but I am looking for someone who has no stds, sorry I have none and not looking for any lol. Now that is out of the way, I will tell you a little about myself. First off as I said I am white, I am hwp, and weigh about 196lbs on average. Working on getting down to 180lb at the moment. I work out at the gym three days a week and jog (slowly lol) 2-2 1/2 miles every night. I am a baseball player and love playing just about any sport there is. I do absolutely no drugs and looking for someone who does not either. I really enjoy the party scene on the weekends, but also really enjoy curling up on the couch to watch a movie. Hmmm thats good for now, cant say everything on here, have to leave something to talk about later haha. Due to the numerous amounts of fake responses on here and probably creepy old men, I ask that you provide a minimum of three pictures in your first reply. I myself will reply with at least three and will go from there. Please put your favorite beach in the area in the subject (wrigthsville, carolina, kure). Mines Wrightsville :)

• Location: wilmington/surrounding
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

lets talk :) (leland) 18yr

Hey how is it going? I am a 18 year old, white male, who just recently moved here to leland. I am 6'1", 190lbs, and completely drug/drama/disease free. I am very much into music and photography. However I lack all musical talent Haha. Probably one of my favorite activities is cuddling up together in bed or on a couch and watching a good movie. I would consider myself to be intelligent and I am at the moment taking online classes. I also have a job and my own car. I have worked since I turned 14. I am not positive what exactly I am looking for. I am not intitially looking to get tied down, but if the right woman comes around anything is possible. I haven't had any intamacy with another woman for a long time after my last relationship. I kind of just gave up after I found out the girl I loved had been cheating with a good friend of mine for a long time. I am not one who can just go out and hookup randomly. I have a friend who had success meeting someone online so.I decided why not, there's nothing to lose. I am looking for someone who is mature and intelligent. Someone who hates drama, and does not have any diseases or do any drugs. Someone who has there own place is a definetly a plus. I am not a player, my past two relationships, I have been cheated on so I understand the pain behind it. If all of this interestes you send me an email with some pictures and I will reply right away with some. I am not predjudice against size, age, or race. I find all women to be beautiful. Have a good day and thanks for looking!

Please put your favorite ice cream flavor in the subject line!

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Posted: May 20th, 2012

do you want to spray an orgasm? (wilm)

You have heard about it, but you have never had it happen to you. Well guess what? you have never had a real orgasm. all females can spray. you just need someone who wants you to have an orgasm. not someone who only cares about themself..... I am comming to wilmington tonight, and i come there every sunday. so if you want to try? let me know

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Posted: May 20th, 2012

You + Me = Bliss...... (Brunswick) 56yr

SWM seeks SWF for dating and sharing togetherness. I am 5'9" tall, blond, muscular, blue eyes. Those who know me will tell you that I am a nice guy, and a southern gentleman, so I will not be trying to paw all over you in quest of one thing, like a dog. Also if you prefer to be treated like trash by a man, then pass me by, because i will not. I am seeking a SWF, ages 46 to 51,preferrably blond, young at heart as I am. Wish you to be a little shorter than I. Nodrama queens druggies, hypochondriacs or motorcycle mamas need reply. Your pic gets mine and put blue eyes in your response to deter spam.

• Location: Brunswick
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

SBM seeking a soulmate (eastern NC)

As a mature black male, I'm looking for a good hearted down to earth lonely woman who are looking for a compaion and maybe more. Feel free to send your photos and tell me something about yourself like are you divorced where you live etc.

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Posted: May 20th, 2012

wanna go for a bike ride today (Wilmington NC) 32yr

Anyone wanting to go for a fun ride to myrtle and check out bike week for awhile? Looking for a white female no older than about 36 looking to get out and have some fun and enjoy the day. If interested mail me back with a pic and a little about yourself.put hair color in subject line and I will get back with you

• Location: Wilmington NC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I'm not sure what I want (Wilmington) 25yr

I'm a 25 year old white male about 5'10" brown hair green eyes, I have a full time job and my own place. I don't know what I'm looking for. Friendship, relationship, experiences. I just know that there is a lot more to life than what I'm getting out of it and I want to meet someone to help me find myself. I want you to be around my age - adventurous and excited to talk to or possibly meet someone new. I'm sure it wouldn't hurt for you to send your picture, but it's okay if you don't want to at first. E-mail me and let's learn a little about each other.

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for my juliet (brunswick and new hanover co) 34yr

im looking fo a good hearted lady!!i am tired of heartache!!!!i am 6ft 225pds..shaved head tattoos and a heart of gold if this sounds interesting to u let me know!!!

• Location: brunswick and new hanover co
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Fun partner/dance, beach, ect..t (Wilmington) 50yr

I just moved to the area, and looking for new friends.. I enjoy most activities including dance, photography, and I need to get a tan, so the beach must be included as well.. Not looking to rush into anything, willing and wanting to take the time to make a solid connection. So, short term/ long term are both on the table.. Lets talk, David

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Wilmington NC 20yr

I am 20 years old I work a full time job and looking for a long term relationship and I like to hang out and go to the movies and looking for someone real and if u wanna know more write me with a pic and to let me know u are real put ur favorite color in the subject line and wait to hear from u

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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Stressed out (Wilmington) 46yr

Is it too much to ask for, im looking for a real woman, why is this so hard to find on here, just a real female, to talk to, to txt, to meet for a drink, but no all we get r bots, hookers, and please sign up for this site, BULLSHIT, IF YOUR A REAL FEMALE, CONTACT ME

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

WHITE CHOCOLATE SEEKS BROWN SUGAR (WILMINGTON,NC) 49yr

Handsome, tall, older white male is seeking a brown skinned BBW Mama...for fun but no games....unless we decide to play them together that is...prefer a lady who likes to please her Man in all ways.. and is not just out for herself...what comes around goes around....Day or nite availability is cool as my schedule is varied in the winter..and im open to most any good idea we both can agree on..So if the idea of a little salt with your pepper turns you on them by all means get back with me...and lets set up a "playDate" adult style..why should the kids get all the attention and fun here? When responding and to piss off the posers and bots....please name a major traffic intersection near where you live in the subject line so ill have a better idea you are for real like i am..Your pic for mine and your cell # for a tad faster get together..C'mon show Me there are still some real people here in this town on CL! And if you like include a little about yourself..to picque my interest...any age and buxom sized woman is encouraged to answer this..as long as you are open to my ideas here.. and oversexed!

• Location: WILMINGTON,NC
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Looking for long term relationship (East NC) 35yr


NOT looking for casual fun but only looking for a woman (any race) for a possible serious lasting relationship. No drugs .No small children. I am not partying type prefer to stay home and not too much of outdoor fanatic but like to travel , go out to restaurants etc once in a while. I am a successful well educated single divorced male US citizen of India origin from UK, age 35 look younger dark brown complexion, black hair brown eyes 5 feet 7 inches 150 lbs. I respond only by calling you by phone. Please provide a time slot to call. Unless I see a valid phone number you will definitely not be contacted. As Craigslist refusing to do anything about spam and scams, I do not reply by IM or texting or emails .. My email is set to automatically delete any email with any attachments such as (nude or obscene) photos (Not judging anyone and everyone is unique & free to do what they like but just that they are not a turn on for me personally) . Do NOT send your picture. Prefer someone with weekends / evenings free but not important. You must also include the phrase REALMADRID44VIKINGS47 in your email for me to call you. I am sincerely & seriously looking for the right person but I realize I have to live with the spam. If you are a spammer, do not waste your time with stupid one or two liner emails that you think is so cute with hopes of getting an angry reply from me. Again please do NOT reply unless you can write a detailedemail that MUST include your phone number Thanks

• Location: East NC
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

ANR (Wilm/CB) 51yr

Looking for a woman into ANR, it's a beginning for what I'm looking for in a relationship or friendship

• Location: Wilm/CB
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Reaching for your hand, (49-61) (NC)

....hoping to touch your heart.

Yes, there's at least ONE decent guy w/integrity left....and you've found him. As we both know, CraigsList can be a minefield.....filled with bots, scams, spam and the like so...if that describes you, please don't waste your time or mine.

I'm a professional SWM, 5'9"/160#, financially secure (paid-for house/no debt), DON'T have tatts, am a non-smoker/non-drinker and don't have a Harley. Not bad on the eyes, but even more appealing to a lady who isn't angry at me ...for what her ex did or didn't do...15 yrs. ago. I'm not a BIG guy so....larger women aren't usually attracted to me; if you're somewhat trim/take care of yourself and have a reasonably healthy lifestyle, that'd sure be a plus.

Perhaps C/L isn't even the venue to meet a centered, classy, well-spoken lady with integrity AND a sense of humor..BUT...I'm giving it a try..and would enjoy hearing from you if you're as weary of not-so-classy guys....as I am of not-so-classy women. Photo helpful.

To help me avoid spam, please show in subject line: NOT LIKE THE REST

• Location: NC
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

need somethen real (cerrogordo ) 23yr


well hell here we go lets try this one more go round im looking for a girl that is tired of play all the games and wants a guy to really treat them right im not your prince charming im not the knight in all the fairy tale movies that slays the dragon and saves you but i will be that country boy that stands beside you rather your wrong or right and be the one that fights for you even if the world turn agents you im not looking for any bs or games or drams had enough of that to last me a life .. i judge people by who they are not by there past or if there any thing wrong with them cuz i am bi polar and sczo yeah i said sczo now i know about all who read that just closed there browser but screw the movies that say things about people with these issues for you will find if i hadnt of told that you would of never knew that about me but i am sarcastic often speak my mind befor i catch my self .. i love to draw also an anime geek .. my freinds and family are my life im fiercely loyal and would die for any of them that includes my pets if your not a pet person im not for you .. would really love to find a girl thats open minded and would see me for me and accept me looks dont matter cuz beauty in the eye of the beholder ... i want that girl that can see threw and see my good heart and that i can laugh with and share life with ive been hurt so much in my life by girls its hard for me to trust but im willing to try but anyway if you want that guy that will hold your hand while driving love you for you have you back no matter what would do anything to keep a smile on your face even act like a fool ^.^ then i hope to hear form you soon here are some pics of me ugly i know but hope some one likes them and reply back to me with a lil about there self .. put fox in the subject line so i know its not spam and your pic gets mine

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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Single new to area (Shallotte) 47yr

I am new to this area , looking to make meet new friends and would be more than open to a committed relationship. I am a short slim to avg. man has time to meet during the day or in the evening. Reply with a beach name close to Shallotte to weed out spam..

• Location: Shallotte
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Sleepless in Wilmington! Catch 22! (Wilmington) 29yr

Hello ladies. A little about myself- intelligent cultured tall very attractive guy I enjoy all sports movies reading shopping dining arts and so much more. Love to be in the sun and tan white male thats fluent in two languages. I'm very caring And an honest person that's a good listener and a great conversation. By the way an ex of 2 yrs decided not to tell me she had herpes. Routine checkup one day revealed it all though I've never had an outbreak or symptoms. 1 in 4 people have it and I still feel the same as if I never had it at all. Still interested ?
I would love to meet someone in the same boat as I am. Makes it a whole lot easier this way than going on a date and having to reveal it to them and than fear of rejection.
About you- caring at least somewhat attractive bc I am and have similar qualities honest intelligent etc. not a do I want to hopefully meet a future partner but also a best friend. If that happens through this ad I will be the happiest person ever!! Hope to hear from someone out there!! Can't wait

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

SWM Looking 4 LTR (Leland,nc.) 59yr

swm,5'10,180 lb.live alone,non smoker,light drinker,open to race,own my own place,no pets,like to cook out,watch a good movie on tv,hang out with friends,your pic gets mine,wayne.

• Location: Leland,nc.
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Was in GoodWill the other Day.. (Wilmington,NC) 51yr


And saw this very busty, wildly clad older Female..who looked like the kind of woman i like to get involved with...our eyes met and there may have been a connection, but it wasnt the time or place to really pursue it there..If on the long shot chance it was you...then tell Me who you were talking to in there about your clothes and where they were from...so i know its you sexy..and leave Me your name and # so we can continue this elsewhere!..Lets have a Merrier NEW YEAR together ok? im game if you are! this is a real post kindly leave it alone you scrooges! and if there is another female who fits this general profile and is interested then by all means get back to Me...and we can go from there..Balls in your court...no pun intended..

• Location: Wilmington,NC
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

MWM Seeks MWF for Chat (Carolina Beach) 55yr

Not looking to replace what I have, but looking for something to spice it up. Wife has lost all interest in sex, and so I am looking for a married white female, or married latina female who would be interested in chatting about our mutual challenges and possible solutions.

Ideal lady will be between ages 40 -- 55, 5 ft 4 in or shorter, and petite. If you don't meet these criteria, write me anyway.

• Location: Carolina Beach
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Seeking sexy, sultry woman who likes to feel the "Stretch" (Wilmington )

SWM in search of a sultry, sexy and seductive woman who enjoys having her most intimate part stretched and manipulated. My ideal partner would be submissive, curvy, über feminine, and ddf. Iove giving and receiving oral stimulation. I believe physical intamacy isn't limited to what goes on in the bed room, but that the seduction between the two of us should begin in the morning, continue all day while we are at work, and come to an explosive conclusion at the end of the day.

Married women over 35 are a plus. I would prefer a woman who has experience being fisted, but also willing to take my time and show a curious woman what she is capable of receiving. I have large, strong, talented hands and look forward to using them on you.

**I am not posting this in the casual encounters section because I am looking to start an exclusive, yet physical relationship, with a very special woman.

Please reply with "Stretch" in the subject line, and responses with pictures will be given priority. Thank you, I look forward to your response

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

A Gift From The Ex (Wilmington Area) 45yr

"I have herpes". If you have it, it's the last thing you want to admit. And if you don't, it's the last thing you want to hear. I sailed around the world in the Navy, visiting exotic ports of call where you were as welcomed as the American dollar. I practiced abstinence and skillfully navigated those treacherous waters avoiding any unwanted souvenirs. You see, I had this dream of getting out of the military and settling down to start a family. And I did not want to pass along any "baggage" from my young and stupid days to the woman I would spend the rest of my life with. Ironically enough, she went on her own "cruise" and brought me back something special. Something I would carry for the rest of my life.

For a while I tried to meet someone, but you know the conversation is right around the corner. Some were mad, some understood, but they all moved on. But sometimes the world beats you down and you give up. The loneliness has long worn off and you just learn to accept that you are going to walk through life alone. But your heart has no brain and yearns for coffee on the patio in the morning with that special someone.

So the hard part is out in the open and now you know. If you don't have it, you just wasted a few moments of your life. If you do have it, this may be the moment you have been waiting for.

• Location: Wilmington Area
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Part Time Girlfriend - m4w (Wilmington) 25yr

Let me start by saying I want a girlfriend, but, I don't really want a girlfriend.

I am looking for someone to hang with on the weekends and maybe one night a week. I'm not looking for a cling on or someone I have to make every decision for.

I am a successful, hard working professional that is committed to my career. I work very hard and enjoy BMF (if you don't know what that is ask Rick Ross) I absolutely love to spend my hard earned money and am looking for someone who wants to enjoy it with me.

Let's recognize something, deep down inside you really want to be spoiled. (You all do) This is your opportunity. After all, you deserve it, Right?

Let's recognize another thing. You, like myself, spend your time busy with your career / running the loop / hitting the beach, and don't have time (or the desire) to go to the bar and spend the evening consuming entirely too much alcohol and conversing with drunken idiots. Nor the desire to track down a boyfriend. Don't get me wrong I enjoy a cocktail or two.

The offer? See below

You reply with your picture and a brief bio of yourself. Keep it short and sweet. Tell me where you're going with your life and where you've been. If it seems like a good fit we will meet for a drink and take it from there.

What I bring to the table:
I'm a successful career driven professional.
I take care of myself and own my own home and vehicle.
I am a very clean and neat individual. I absolutely love to cook, especially for others (you name it I'll cook it).
I'm fit and easy on the eyes. I enjoy great food and love going to the beach. (don't we all)

Deal breakers:
Rude or lazy individuals, being out of shape ( I take care of my body and expect the same in return), silly gaudy tattoos, bad breath, and heavy drug use.

Still here? Take the time to send your pic and bio and let's get this thing started. Just so you know I'm real, my office is near Mayfaire in Wilmington.

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

AVALON apartments (wilmington) 20yr

Is there anyone lookin through here? If ya find this and are bored or lonely like me send me a message. New to town and don't know many people. Hope to hear from you soon

• Location: wilmington
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Wanting to meet nice person (Willmington, Jacksonville) 42yr

Would like to I meet a very nice down to earth person who would like to go out for a couple of drinks meet up for a movie I hate going alone or maybe meet up for a round of golf if you like that sort of thing. Just two people meeting up as friends and enjoying each others company. If this sounds like something that you would like to do then just respond to the post.

• Location: Willmington, Jacksonville
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

18 but mature and looking (sneadsferry) 18yr

Im 18 just moved here and gotten out a Big relationship and looking Fun im looking fwb hookups or almost anything age i dnt care that much i know how too please a women and i love maken her happy first. So ladys hmu email me a pic and ur idea any idea ill consider. Ill reply

• Location: sneadsferry
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Who wants to be spoiled (supply) 24yr

sugar daddy here looking to take care of a woman like she should be send a pic and write spoiled in the subject.

• Location: supply
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

if you looking a good man hit me up (wilmington) 24yr

I'm a swm looking for a hwp attractive female race dosn't matter to me. I travel a lot for work so it is hard for me to find somone. Im 6ft blonde hair and blue eyes and 195pounds if your interrested send me an email and we can see where it gose from there. I will send pics opon request and can you send a pic and put "night shift" in the subject line so i know your real and please no big girls I'm sorry I'm not attracted.

• Location: wilmington
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Country boy looking for ltr (close to wilm) 22yr

Im 21 and looking for somone to get to know and hangout with an maybe turn into a long term relationship. I dont smoke or do drugs and rarely drink. I do not have any kids but dont mind if you do. I do work full time an have my own car and looking for a place, I like to hunt, fish, camp, hik, ride horses and travel if your interested email me with your fav country song in the subject line and a pic of you

• Location: close to wilm
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

still trying to find the one (carolina beach) 25yr

alright girls this is a real post im lookin for a girl i can settle down with and have a life with no games or drama if ur that girl respond with pic hope to hear from u soon ;] in the one pic im on the right at the end

• Location: carolina beach
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Fit male seeks romance and Companionship (Burgaw) 56yr

Fun professional retired man, loves Music,erotic times with fit sexy female .
please be over 40
place NSA in subject line to prove you can read
Im very discreet and can host.
and alcohol is OK
,eroticmovies, aroma therapy.....Music..ATV's

I have no
baggage or drama....you to .!!

I feel laughter is the shortest distance between two people.!!

• Location: Burgaw
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Summer live-in,, maybe longer (Wilmington) 36yr

Are you in need of somewhere close to the beach?
I'm open to making a new friend thats laid back, likes cooking as I do, spending time at the beach or on the ocean.

Age or race isn't important.

Put summer in the subject line,
tell me about you,
a pic would be nice.

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Looking to Hangout and have Fun, Maybe More DEPENDS! - m4w (Supply/Holden Beach) 30yr

I am 30 yr old simple man looking for a woman to have fun and hangout! I am pretty open minded so age and race are no issue! I am looking for a simple open minded drama and disease free woman down to have as much fun as she is ready for. I don't do the whole club thing cause I can have fun with out all that drama filled club scene. NO CLUBBING DONE HERE! I like to have to have fun hanging out with friends with a good fire cooking out, or in a chill little pub having a drink or coffee before dinner! So we can find out what we think before committing to a long night if one of us isn't felling the vibe we can go ahead and nip it in the but and go our separate ways! If you think you are still interested hit me up!!!!

PUT YOUR HAIR COLOR AS THE SUBJECT IN YOU EMAIL SO I CAN WEED OUT THE SPAM!!!!!!
NO PIC = NO REPLY MOST OF THE TIME!!!!

Thanks,

Travis

• Location: Supply/Holden Beach
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

crazy ,men here , just joking (wilmington leland 910 area) 42yr

TO ALL THE LADIES, SECOND POST HERE, WILL TRY 1 MORE TIME, WILLL LOVE TO FIND A LADY, THAT IS AMAZING ;) FUNNY , OUTGOING ,love TRAVELING , ,DINING OUT , ,RELAXING AT HOME , DANCING , BOATS ,AIRPLANES, MOTORCYCLES , ALL CLASSIC CARS , CHICKENS, OOPPPS NO CHICKEN , LOL JUST JOKING, WELL FRY CHICKENS OK, HAVE ALL YOUR TEETH, NO CRACK ADDICTS, BE NORMAL, AS NO CRIMINALS , ;0)
, BE A HAPPY PERSON , DRAMA FREE, NO EX PROBLEMS , THEY WONT FIT IN MY HOUSE, OR CHICKEN COUP, LOL .. BE FAMILY ORIENTED,
BEEN HERE 7 YEARS IN THIS AREA AFTER RELOCATING HERE , AFTER WORKING IN ARGENTINA , BRAZIL, I WORK IN THE AVIATION FIELD,
I ENJOY RIDING MOTORCYCLES, WORKING ON CLASSIC CARS, , LOOKING FOR A REAL LONG TERM FRIEND FOR LIFE,
PLEASE BE SERIOUS ,IF YOUR JUST HAVING FUN I,AM NOT THE DUDE, I DONT HAVE TIME TO WASTE , MINE OR YOURS ,

BE AVAILABLE TO HAVE FUN , EXCITEMENT, TRAVEL , AND YOU NEVER KNOW, MAYBE A LIFE PARTNER,
FOR LIFE ...FOR GOOD TIMES AND BAD TIMES ,TO HOLD YOUR AND , AND ALWAYS BE THERE,

NOT PERFECT ,BUT DECENT MEN , HARD WORKING , FUN, AND ALWAYS READY TO MAKE IT HAPPEN ,

COMMITMENT , MY LIFE IS VERY WELL DEFINE ,I KNOW WHT I WANT , WHAT I CAN BRING TO A RELATIONSHIP,

STRONG , HEART, STRONG ARMS , FINANCIALLY STABLE , NOT IN FOOD STAMPS,


IF YOU FEEL YOU GOT WHT IT TAKES TO BE IN A COMMITED PARTNERSHIP , FOR THE LONG TERM ,
HAVE VALUES, PRINCIPALS, A BIG HEART, NICE KISSING LIPS ;) A PLUS,

AND CAN SING ,IN THE SHOWER , IS KOOL,
AND YES ,GOT TO BE ABLE TO RUN 2 MILES IN 13 MINS, FLAT......

LOL JUST JOKING , , JUST BE YOU, .... AND PLEASE BE ABLE TO KICK SOME ASS , IN CASE WE NEED TO , KARATE OR KUNG FU , IS FINE,
OR A 9 MM, LOL

JUST JOKING
WELL ANOTHER SUCKY RAINNY DAY HERE IN WILMINGTON,
I,AM AM AS REAL AS IT GETS
PLEASE ON YOUR RESPOND , PUT THE WORD,

SALAMY, OR MANGOS, OR AVOCADOS , OR PINA COLADA . ..LOL
TOO MUCH SPAM HERE,
PLEASE INCLUDED A FOTO , IF NOT I WILL NOT RESPOND,
AND YES PLEASE IF YOU HAVE INSECURITY PROBLEMS , MMMMMMMMMM

CALL OBAMA , LOL
I ,AM NOT HEAD DOCTOR ;0
SEE HABLA INGLES TOO, FOR PEOPLE WITH GREEN CARD , LOL
XOXOXOXO HUGS FOR ALL YOU LADIES , BEST LUCK TO ALL OF US,
HELP US BABY JESUS, AND EVERY ONE ELSE ;)

LETS HAVE SOME GREAT SUMMER FUN,
-----------------------------------------------
GOT TO MOTORCYCLE READY , FOR BIKE WEEK ,



I HOLD MY OWN VERY WELL

• Location: wilmington leland 910 area
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

southport anyone???

kinda new to the area.... and trying something new to meetsome people in the area... and go from there :)

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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Bike Week (N. Wilmington) 55yr

Right now, I'm looking for someone to enjoy bike week with in Myrtle Beach. If it goes further, I'm open. Please be fit and healthy, you'll get the same. Are you up to a 2 hour ride? Do you have what it takes? If so, hit me up. Promise no disappointments. Put "Harley" in the subject line so I can weed out the spam.

• Location: N. Wilmington
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

im a real good guy (carolina beach) 25yr

lookin for a girl to spend time with likes to go out as much as they like to stay in if u like what u see and ur for real on lookin for someone hit me up and send pic oooo yea that kiss is for the right one

• Location: carolina beach
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

nice guys always lose, any real woman out there?? 21yr

First off I am real, today has been a rainy day just like the beginning of the week....a little about me...I am 5' 11" 195 average/athletic build green eyes brown hair I enjoy hunting fishing camping anything outdoors, I am employed and have goals I intend to reach even tho I have hit a few speed bumps, no one is perfect. I am not the typical guy(yeah most guys say that) but I am not after sex, I am the type that would rather make a friendship first that way we have something to build ontop of. I love to cuddle up and show my affection I am a very physical lover(again not just sexually) massages rubs I am all about making my woman feel loved in anyway I can.
What I'm looking for is a woman 18-32 somewhat independent, faithful and not afraid of commitment and not afraid to show her man how she feels, someone that has goals in mind and willing to chase her dreams. If you would rather go out to the bar/club all the time please dont waste my time. If you want to no more just ask, put ur favorite color as the subject so I no ur real, ur pic gets mine hope to her from u soon...

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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Looking for a submissive woman (Front Street) 32yr

Hello there and thank you for reading my post. If you are into the lifestyle then reply back to me. If you are looking for a dominant man who will take care of you, not financially, and always protect you then you have come to right place. If you know what a real D?S relations is like then e-mail me, what are you waiting for. I don't care about the looks, this is all about personality and sexual lifestyle preference.

About me:

- I am 32.
- I have a great career that lets me live a lifestyle I want
- I am Dominant in all aspects
- I dress well
- I am also a gentleman
- I an a nerd/geek
- I play sports
- I love my life

Please respond with why I should choose you. Also in make the title creative please so I can weed out spam. Attach a couple of pictures as well.

• Location: Front Street
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

still tryin to find my one and only (carolina beach) 25yr

im lookin for that girl that will blow me away one i can trust so if ur really on here to find some one hit me up ill send pic if u do

• Location: carolina beach
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Looking For A Laid Back Girl (wilmington) 20yr

I'm 20 years young, dark short hair, lots of tattoos, and in great shape. I work full time making surfboards/skateboards for a company based out of NC and because of this i don't have much time to go out and meet new people. I am looking for a cool girl around my age that i can spend time with when I'm not working. I've always been a sucker for the punkish/alternative type of girls. I am into playing drums, running with my dogs, rolling up a blunt or two, getting tattoo's, watching classic horror movies and going to shows. Looking for someone with similar interests. I'm a very low maintenance, and very laid back so you must be to. Your pic gets mine.

• Location: wilmington
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Single Guy Looking For Love (Holly Ridge, N.C.) 29yr

Hey! What's up? I'm Dennis and I am 29 years old. I am single and looking for more friends into my life. I would like to be in a relationship some day but only when the timing is right. A little bit about me is that I love just about anything that comes into my life. I seem to like a lot of extreme sports! I love watching football, playing basketball, surfing, and bowling. I love God but I don't have a religion that I go by. I am very funny, silly, and outgoing. I have been working in retail for over 10 yrs. I don't have my own place because my parents need my help for a couple of years or hopefully shorter than that. I once had my own apartment but gave it up to help them because like they all usually say, "family comes first". I am on my phone a lot but nobody usually texts me, I'm usually just on Facebook updating my statuses! Hopefully I am attractive to you and hope you message me back saying your interested or even if your not interested. Can you tell me more about yourself? Take care!

• Location: Holly Ridge, N.C.
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

I need a karaoke partner (Wilmington) 20yr

Karaoke is a hobby of mine. I at least go once a week on Wednesdays. I'm a SWM looking for a SWF who also enjoys karaoke and preferably is younger than me. E-mail me if you are interested.

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

420 buddy (surf city) 25yr

Look I hate doing it alone. I'm looking for someone to just come chill and lets hang out. A females only. I do have pic. If you reply. Reply with pic if not I wont talk. 9 Mabel 1 do 0 this 5 tonight 4 0. 4391

• Location: surf city
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

No Games

Hey ima black male lookin for a friend someone i can chill wit someone i can just be real with no games aint got time for games im real as they come i just wanna try somthin new for once an see wat get race no factor i dont smoke but i do have a drink or two at times if u think you can be my friend hit me up pic need ill send one back

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Posted: May 15th, 2012

lookin for that one and only (carolina beach) 25yr

lookin for that girl that i can trust spend time with and share everything with im not here for games been there to many times so if u really want a good guy then send pic and a lil about ur self i cant wait to hear from u ;]

• Location: carolina beach
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Everybody needs somebody! (wilmington NC) 44yr



For most people who know me they would say you always see a smile on my face, i am a very positive person and always try to look at the brighter side. I don't need a women to take care of me just one to help pass time and care about me. It has been hard for me in the past, to find "the right one" because no one will take the time to get to know the inside instead of the out. Not to say i'm ugly! lol I am someone who has CP (cerebral Paulsy) and is in a wheelchair, i beleive in honesty, and i exspect the same. i enjoy nature and sight seeing, i also love my job and snuggling up with my cat at night. i am very open minded and enjoy new ideas.
i am looking for someone to have a relationship not just a friendship, please respond if you would like to take the time to meet me. E-mail me and me and my help will respond quickly as possible.

• Location: wilmington NC
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Looking for Summer Play Partner - m4w (Carolina Beach) 40yr

I am looking for a.. girl, gal ,women, lady....to enjoy summer eves with, having some fun times, No pressure friendship without all the drama. I am a professional , super clean...no stress just an easy going relationship even just as friends is fine too...please email me if you are local, attractive, sexy and want to meet a really cool nice guy,....see ya soon...! we can exchange photos too...

• Location: Carolina Beach
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

date to a Marine Corps formal dinner (jville/wilmington) 26yr

I broke up with my girlfriend last week for different reasons. Anyways there is a Marine Corps dinner in a few weeks. I already have the tickets in my possession, and looking for a good date to accompany me to the Marine Corps Ball.

There are rules, and these are the rules!!

You Must be 22-35 burnet or blond..... Must be college educated.... or going to school..... Must be attractive, not to skinny (nobody likes chicken bones), and not overweight (Nobody wants to stand next to a fat so)! Look ladies this is very simple either your good looking or not, if you're not don't even bother, again no fatty's. IF YOU LIVE IN A DIFFERENT STATE don't even bother contacting me,

All of this might sound shallow but oh well i don't really care if it does it's the type of person I am, either you like it or don't! I'm good looking so I don't want anybody that looks worse than me standing with me in public.

You must have your own car, and have no felonies, and be drama free. I don't play games, and expect you not to either.

You will send me two or more pics when you reply, and if I like it then I will send you my pics, and we can exchange numbers so on and so on.... Just so I know this isn't spam, make the subject An Awesome Time.......NO PICS NO REPLYS!

A little about myself,:
I'm, 26 years old, I have a bachelors degree and been in the Marine Corps for 7 1/2 years. I have a side business, and do very well for myself. I work out a lot, and I'm 6'1 blonde hair, green eyes, a few tattoos, I'm a down to earth type of guy, and I think I have a great personality. So hope to hear from you soon.

• Location: jville/wilmington
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

blondes (leland) 23yr

this is the first time and only time that im ever going on here and posting. looking for a blonde. if your that email me and we will go from there. post message as 111 or im throwing it out

• Location: leland
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Z 22yr

im in hopes of finding a girl between the ages of 18-22. must be white and cute. send message as 777 so i can delete junkmail. looking foward to hearing from u

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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Real guy looking for quality time with pretty lady Naughty or Nice. (Wilmington N side)

Looking for quality time with a pretty lady with the girl still inside her. Have you been alone to long and miss being treated good. Perhaps a bit down. I am looking for a person to share nights with, walk the beach. I am tired of the bar scene. Walked away from many ladies there not knowing what to expect or what I might catch. I am not looking for the one night stand. I am a long term faithful guy, who likes to treat a girl special for no reason other than you are here. I can be a gentleman, never have raised a hand but open doors every time. I am looking for someone to share my small apt near Wal-mart and Hooters. I am also look to share my business which was once very good to me. I said share that means share equally, so if you are 6 figure business minded, that would be a much appreciated asset. Speaking of assets; I admire a lady who takes care of herself first with beautiful assets, knows what she has and does not mind flaunting it. Risque', daring, risk taker, spontaneous, uninhibited at the right times, PDA, PDAA, and PDAAA when appropriate or maybe not, having fun is a good thing. Longer hair is a plus because I love running my fingers through it and smelling your scent. I am clean cut, W/M professional over the hill in good shape at 223 lbs and 6' 3", non-smoker. Age range for me is about 45-55 but age is not so much a factor as is maturity. I do not care much for tattoos other than maybe small ones nicely placed. I have been out with younger very nice ladies so I am very open. Please send me a pic first. I will not fall for dating, and porno sites. I will only respond when you mention something I said in this post and send the pic. I will quickly return a pic at that time.

• Location: Wilmington N side
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

My dream girl is just a dream (Wilm) 38yr

I've all but given up. There are no good women out there. Nothing but gold diggers or one's with extremely unrealistic expectations. If by some miracle, the last decent woman in the world happens to be reading this, please reply. I am 38, single, and looking for someone to love.

• Location: Wilm
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

just want to be happy (holden beach) 29yr

looking for a woman to fill the void in my life.. i am a kind , thoughtful person that just wants the same.. i am 29 years old , 5'5, 170 lbs, blond hair , blue eyes... i just moved here and am having trouble meeting that one girl... i have no kids but have no problems with a woman that does... i enjoy movies, cooking, disc golf , video games, and making you happy.. i hope that you are out there reading this... looking for a friendship at first then more if we connect.. i am not looking for a one night stand or just a quick lay... please email me and put your fav. band in the subject line.. i hope to hear from you soon ... have a great day ps. your pic gets mine

• Location: holden beach
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

this is probably stupid but why not (Wilmington) 22yr

hmm I don't really even know what I'm looking for. I am going to be graduating from uncw by the end of the year with a B.A. in Marketing. I am kinda clueless about my future but I'm tired of being alone thats for sure. I am a musician and I play multiple instruments. I used to play in a few local bands but now I just kinda jam on my own. I am a very different person than most, I actually enjoy learning about astrophysics, philosophy, and neuroanatomy. I am fascinated with consciousness and it's origin/meaning. I spent my adolescence going to shows and music pretty much is my life. Unlike most people that say that I'm serious haha. I am into progressive metal, jazz fusion, baroque era and modern classical, IDM, electro, some dubstep, and the jam band scene... which is why I'm so crazy!!

I know you probably don't want to hear about my music tastes, but that is probably the most important thing I look for in a girl. If you are not willing to let me do a death metal growl while I'm fucking you then its just not gonna work out, just kidding. Im in the process of getting back in shape but I'm still in relatively good shape, I expect whoever responds to also at least try to take care of yourself.

Also I'm not looking to go through a month of texting you random crap every 5 seconds to still not have had sex. Definitely not looking for any immature, future ladies with 20 cats and all the twilight books.

Okay yeah I'm kinda rambling and most girls that respond don't actually care about any of this but hey... if you are cool maybe this could get serious. I'm also down for having just a fuck buddy but either way I hope I find somebody cool.

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

Looking for best friend, lover, and companion (Wilmington) 42yr

I am looking for a special girl who can be a true friend... I'll have her back and she'll have mine.... I'm looking for a girl who has no expectations but is open to love .... someone who can be passionate and open minded to a deeper relationship and who could just be a really good friend if the chemistry just isn't there.... I'm a giving person and a caring guy.... I want to find that special girl I can click with who is mysterious enough to drive my passion and desire yet someone I can read her wants and needs and supply them... I am looking for a best friend, a lover, and a companion and I hope to find that all in one special girl... I am not a superficial person though looks do matter but I fall in love with the person .... I'm not looking for perfect and certainly don't expect me to be.... I'm not looking for a goody two shoes or a trouble maker who lives in misery... I am looking for a girl in the middle someone who is wild on the surface but deep down has a good heart and cares......I want to find a girl who becomes such a good and best friend that we share everything and take on the world together.... A partner in crime... and bring all kinds of happiness to each other's lives... I enjoy many things and I am always looking to try new things... I love the outdoors.... I like hiking, fishing, biking, long walks, shooting pool, bowling, I love most kinds of music but mainly like harder rock and metal, I love seeing live bands, I enjoy the beach or a river or lake on a hot day, I also enjoy relaxing with a movie and cuddling with a lovely woman.... and though I am not a player and out to get laid I do love sex and making love so if you have any hangups about that or are going to treat me like that's all I am after when I'm not then I'm not your guy.
If you wanna chat with me, get to know each other and make a date or arrange a meeting and just hangout and kick it and see where things go then drop me a line....
Put your eye color in the subject line so i can weed out spam...
Hope to hear from you :)

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

Looking for a other half (Wilm) 28yr

Hey there....

I'm a single black male and also a single dad of one. I haven't had a chance to get out and do much dating of late so I'm giving this craiglist thing a shot. I'm employed, educated and have a roof and reliable transportation.... So I would like the same from a potential partner. I don't have a broad list of expectations....I'm open minded so race isnt a issue.... I can handle small framed to thick(proportionate) women..... Someone who is respectful, honest, clean and humorous. I'm a cool calm and collective guy and I like to make love instead of war. If you are interested, hit me up..... Also send me a pic so I can match a face to your introduction....... Also, in the title please put in a color in the subject bar so I can know that it isnt a spam message. Thanks for taking the time to check me out, hope to hear from you soon....

• Location: Wilm
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

MeatHead lookin around (wilmington) 25yr

I am a former marine, looking for a woman with the same interest as me. I'm 5'9 185lbs 5% body fat. I like going to the gym and if you don't then don't reply, I like fit women or ones that take care of them selves. i like tattoos and piercings i have some myself. must be confidant, independent . if you are interested send me a pic and if I'm interested i will send one back. plz don't reply if your over 40 yrs old. also put what you think is your best asset in the subject box so i don't delete it on accident .

• Location: wilmington
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

petite (WilmLel) 24yr

looking for a girl that is bone skinny and she has to have a flatchest. im the kind of guy that will hold on to you for a lifetime. post message as petite or ill just delete it

• Location: WilmLel
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

ACNE

alright i know how weird this may sound but im all the way serious. im in search for a girl with bad acne that is just fed up with it. reason being i had it for about ten yrs of my life and understand just what your going through. ive had my face clear for a little while now and know exactly how you should go about this and want to be there to see you through it. email me if you want to continue this bond that we already share. post message as 321 so i can separate from junkmail

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Posted: May 13th, 2012

Love to Serve and Roleplay (KB-ILM-CB AREAS)

Greetings Ladies,

Another long shot for a unique, mature and open minded Lady that is candid and real. I am a single caucasion male mid 50's in good health. I am 5'11" tall and weight in the 180's. Tanned and considered above average looks. Not seeking a 24/7 relationship but would love to find a lady that is in my age range that still has erotic desires and wishes to explore them on a regular basis. Financially secure here and you should be the same as I am not looking to be anyones Sugar Daddy or seeking a Sugar Mama. No Professionals.

Interest in serving as a houseboy or cabana boy (love the beach). Also open to switching roles and being the dominant partner (switch) which is the role I play in the vanilla world. I am positively drug and disease free and not interested in activities that would include risky behavior or pain. Get great pleasure from pleasing a female that knows what she enjoy and can command her "boy".

I am real, sane, healthy, single, and available on short notice after we have gotten to know one another. Picture exchange leading to voice communication prior to meeting for coffee or dinner. Homeowner and live alone so no need to schedule around other folks. Please place MCC in your reply to help thin our the inevitable spam that will come. Alternate email address given after initial contact and if you use gmail or hotmail odds of a reply are limited as most are no more that bots or game players.

Thank you for your time and best wishes.

• Location: KB-ILM-CB AREAS
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

looking for her (fuquay varina) 25yr

Ok I'm Jon I'm 25 brown hair blue eyes bout 511 have a few tattoos I have a 15month old daughter.I thinking bout making the move to the beach lookin to find sumone to get to kno and see where it goes I like the movies hanging out bowling goin to the mall or Jus hanging out wit that special person I'm looking to settle down I'm ready to b wit sumone for the ltr... So Jus hit me up if u like Wat u hear and see thanks:)

• Location: fuquay varina
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Spacific? (ILM) 44yr

Okay, Guess I wasn't very clear. I am very sorry I just don't desire a heavy women. Many other men do though. I want a beautiful women, fit, ages between 30-41. If your older and look good then by all means reply. I'm looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. I have a great job, house, swimming pool the works. Please understand if you want my photo? Send yours first. Put your Eye color in the subject line or be deleted.

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Posted: May 12th, 2012

An Event This Evening (downtown) 33yr

I'm a self employed professional wm, single, 33 yo. I live downtown and own my home. I enjoy reading, good food and drink, music, gardening, and meeting new people--along with a few other things. I have an event I need to attend for work this evening, and I'd like some company. I'm looking for a young lady with intellect, wit, and an education. Must enjoy good food and wine, and be able to make conversation. It's a semi-casual event, so no special wardrobe needed. If this sounds fun, let me know and we'll go from there.

Please put a local landmark in the subject line so I can weed out the spam.

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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Grab a drink this weekend? 22yr

Hey let's go grab a drink.
Respond with your favorite tv show, where we should meet, and why.
Should be fun either way so I hope to hear from you soon!

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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Ahh, it's worth a shot... (Wilmington) 22yr

I'd like to meet someone that matches my personality. I'm way laid back, I like to party, and other than that I'm just kinda average.

Oh, and I haven't eaten breakfast in over 6 months and I'm starving...

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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Looking for freindship (Wilmington) 38yr

I'm seeking friendship, I've been in Wilmington for over a year now and have recently separated from my wife of almost seven years. Just looking to spend time with someone or someone to talk to and correspond with.

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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Open minds respond (Wilmington)

Me: I AM real gay marraige just was banned in North Carolina
6'5"
Red hair
blue eyes
SWM
I love all kinds of music for example i could be listening to "Somebody that i use to know" by gotey then "Jumpin Jack Flash" by THe rolling Stones comes on next im just a tossed salad if you will
I am in school and its about to be over for the summer so im posting since i will have some free time

You:
Im just gonna be honest i dont care about age, race, or any of that all i need to know is that you and i can talk to eachother easily

So if you have made it to this section you have earned a treat, If you like how i described myself in the above section call/text me at nine1zero-2three1-two2six6 just tell me your name in the 1st text please and thank you ;P (Southern hosptality) ,if you want to respond to this by email put your favorite color in the subjuect line so that i can weed out spam and bots because as we all know they dont lead to good conversations XD lol so thank you for your time in the reading of this ad and have a good day, evening or night depending on when you read this,

xoxo,
Grant

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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Romantic Rendezvous (Wilmington) 37yr

Lets start as friends, then best friends then may be a romance. Just tired of bouncing around the world of dating multiple women. Looking for single, that means not married. Relatively attractive, That means still cares what she looks like. Independent, that means can do things by her self, not so she never needs or wants a man. Well balanced, that means that she is not overwhelmed with life and has time for a man to be envited into. Sports and outdoors loving, that means that she actually enjoys to do things out side. Other important words to take into consideration would be, positive, happy, self sufficient, enjoyable, loving, loyal, non man hating and of course able to love the little things in life. I am 5-10, 185lbs, blues eyes and shaved head. Please be real and contact on the cell phone. Sorry not looking for any one outside of Wilmington. nine one zero four zero nine three nine six one.

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Posted: May 11th, 2012

LOVING SINGLE SEEKS FUTURE EX! (Wilmington) 37yr

I am Hard working, fun loving, in shape, work out often, 5/10, 180lbs, blue eyes, shaved head, like to cook, bbq, beach , down town, walks, wine, beer, liquer, not all at once, smoke sometimes, animal loving, just missing the special woman in my life to get back to the loving life instead of just living. I have been single for several years now. Its fun do not get me wrong, just mentally draining. I have no problem getting, being with, pleasing, having fun and just enjoying a good time of company and conversation with a good woman. Not married, never have been, good with children and pet friendly. Not looking too text and talk for weeks, if you are please get a friend from another country. What am I looking for, does it matter? I will most certainly not find it if I am not looking. Please contact nine one zero four zero nine three nine six one.

• Location: Wilmington
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Re:wants one guy to prove your not all the same - 27 w4m (Soon) 33yr

To the woman that posted this headline!!!! I hope this finds you, I am that man that can show you all men are not the same. All I'm asking for is one date. What do you got to lose? Sorry, I don't get to e-mail your ad before you had taking it down. If you see this send the pic you had on your ad for I know it is you. Then we can talk.

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Serious question for the 17-25 year old ladys (ILM)

Ok girls,,, Take 45 seconds and answer this.....

If you had to chose,,,

Would you want a guy your same age, hard body, and the looks, but treats your like trash and wont get a job.

Or a guy a few years older thats too busy with a career to be in the gym everyday, treats you well, and doesn't with his parents or buddys?

I'm trying to figure out what I have been seeing.

put vote and your age in the subject,,
I will post the results in 2 days

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

where are you ? (wilmington) 40yr

well where are you? i have ben looking for you my whole life..so i think it is about time we meet, im not looking for a quicky, or a one nite stand,butt there are lots on here who are,,just not me.what i am looking for is to meet someone hit it off at once,and live happy ever after,lol..but i do love the feeling of meeting someone you click with,i beleave in romance,being a gentleman,i have dated alot just have not ment that speical one yet!!!! i just moved back to wilmington,missed the weather,i like to have fun,i will try anything i think will be fun,so if i have got you just a little curios drop me a line back ,please send a picture or two,always nice to see who you are chatting with,you will never meet anyone like me,....

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Surely... (Wilmington) 39yr

...there are women in Wilmington in the same situation I'm in? If you're in the same situation, you don't need a description, you want the same thing I want. To be fulfilled by someone of the opposite sex that will pay you more attention than you're currently getting.

I'm not talking about a one time thing, but something that can last... let's talk.

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Quality Time Bubble Bath, wine, dirty camping? (Wilmington )

Looking for a nice pretty lady with the girl still inside her to do something on the weekends or whenever possible or the mood hits. Walk the beach getting sand between our toes, sip some wine watching the sunset, maybe wake up to the sunrise. Wow that would be nice. Go on a short hiking trip. If you are spontaneous enough pitch a tent on a little piece of privacy, have a campfire taking in the stars. Short term, maybe turn into a long term.

I admire a lady who takes care of herself first and knows she has great assets. Spontaneous uninhibited at the right times, naughty, or nice. Are you a bit daring, want to try something new, risk takers welcome. If these suggestions are too much, than how about a dinner, dancing to rock and roll with some hold on to your girl music. Sitting in a cozy corner getting to know each other. How about talking about doing something risque' then actually doing it. Oh that could be daring for the right person. Oh the list goes on.

I am W/M mid age going over the second hill but is good shape at 6'3" 226 lbs, professional, clean cut.non-smoker. I am open to age. Been out with younger and older ladies, most every time very nice. Long term goal is to have someone who can stand beside me sharing equally. If you are business minded even better. I will never raise a hand but open doors every time, make hot bubble baths and bring home gifts for no other reason than you are with me smiling and making me happy. B crazy or B nice will I here from you? Please do not ask for a pic without sending one. I will not fall for the dating and porn scams. If you do not think this is real, don't respond.

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

ok it's time for a summer romance (Wilmington) 52yr

wow April already and it is getting warm..... seeking a wonderful fun lady to share a summer romance with and heck it might just last forever.. local wilmington male HWP with an incredible sense of humor. I am looking to meet a compatible lady who is seeking the same .... a good friend and more..... there is so much to share.... please please be real..... talk to me

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Shallotte area only (Shallotte) 49yr

Seeking small to average, youngish lady in Shallotte area for occaisional date$
Respond with pic, and I'll do the same

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Simply A Nice Date (College/Oleander) 52yr

Just wanting to go out on a nice date and if the connection is there, we see where we want to go from there. No games, no gays, no BS, just a man and a woman going out on a simple date... having fun and enjoying themselves like two adults. Physical attraction is a must, so send a picture of yourself and I will do the same in return.

Always ready to do a late night coffee if you are... but must reply with a picture, which I will also do after getting yours and then we can exchange date ideas if we both are interested in pursuing it. To avoid getting a ton of spam email, please put the words "two adults" in your subject line. If they are not there, I will not open and read the email as it is most likely spam.

Interested in a white, 42-49 year old woman, who is not fat, and who is not involved with any one else at this time. Email me with any questions you might have about me, and I will reply with honest answers.

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Who says you won't meet Mr. Right online? (Wilmington) 52yr

If you are looking to meet someone new, are tired of the games, between 40-50 years of age, attractive and wanting to take one more chance...
I'm looking for a white, 4oish, attractive woman to spend some time with and get to know, then see if the magic happens between us. Without putting too much info here, I will simply say that I am attractive, not fat, (actually slim) and work for a living. I enjoy a lot of the simple things in life, yet like to step out and do things that are exciting, fun and romantic whenever possible. I am not someone who lives on a calendar or in a day planner, I love to be spontaneous.

Your picture will get mine. Must live in the Wilmington, NC area and be ready to go out for a nice date to get to know each other soon. Game players, scammers, gays, booty callers, (ect, don't waste your time...I am not attracted to wide, curvy, fat, big, thick....women, I'm slim and I like slim to average build woman.)

If you are serious, put the word "Serious" in your subject line. Tell me a little something about yourself, and send a picture. You do that, and I will respond in kind. I am not willing to be involved with someone who has a lot of left over baggage from their last relationship, so if you contact me, be sure you are done with them first.

Again, your picture with some information about yourself, what you are wanting, looking for, and other information you are willing to share about yourself, will be responded to with a picture of me, and a bit about myself.

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

bored looking for pretty girl to text 21yr

hey nine one zero i am bored and three nine eight need some one to talk to and maybe meet two seven two zero just text me and i will send pic thank you

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Too many fake people! (Southport/wilmington) 25yr

My Name is Andrew. Im 25, with Brown short hair and green eyes. I have some tattoos and scar but ask about that later. blah blah blah right? Im not looking for much. Im just looking to find someone that can make me feel like my old self again. I work full time as a supervisor for a security comapny that provides service to the film industry in wilmington. Im a gunsmith by trade and I shoot almost every sunday so if you are afraid of them then i can help that and im sorry i wont change my passions for anyone. Im all for the outdoors and if I dont get to get out into the woods and camp or hunt then i might go through some kind of withdrawl but im am no means a "redneck" just a southerner. I also enjoy the night life and dressing to impress and going to grab some drinks and dancing. In the winter I will be heading back into the military and have currently moved back home in southport so i dont have to worry about housing contracts and ect. I pay my own bills and have my own money so that shouldnt be an issue. I want a friend first. I have a small circle of friends and Im slow to trust so taking things slow and not rushing into a relationship is paramount. And ofcourse there has to be an initial attraction right? We are all adults, thats just what happens. Make me laugh, talk to me about everything and nothing, watch a scary movie with me. Im not hard to please and i am as loyal and loving as they come. I dont care about your past and wont discuss it unless its constructive. I want love, that shouldnt be too hard. Please be in shape to I need some one to keep up with me since im always on the move and love to go out and travel and try physically intense things from time to time. If you want someone who is smart, smart-assed, affectionate and loyal than I am your man. So lets grab some dinner and some drinks and see if we click. Send me a pic and put loyalty in the subject line or i wont open the email.

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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Anyone with herpes? (Wilm) 21yr

Looking for a girl to have a relationship with I am a comited person put your name in the subject line and we can get to know each other

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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Good wine and great conversation? (Wilmington) 35yr

I have two bottles of wine I have been saving and I am ready to enjoy them. Only problem, they are too special to me to drink them alone. Anyone want to join me for good wine, great conversation and maybe a good movie on such a rainy Wednesday night? No expectations, just like minded friend.... Hope to hear from you!

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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Sick of looking in bars for the right woman (Wilmington ) 33yr

Ive been told I am a good looking guy and I have no problem picking up women. I just want to find the right one, and I don't think I am picky. My only requirements are that we are attracted to each other, your honest and we get along in a friendly and intimate sence. No gross responses. Send me a photo and something about u and I will respond no matter what

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Posted: May 9th, 2012

looking for the one (rockypoint) 36yr

hello< well a little about me, i am 5 ' 5'' tall and weigh 140 lbs. I work out and take care of my self. I am not a drug user of any sort and have a 5 year old son. I am looking for a true relationship to be built on here and hoping maybe i can find that. I am not a player or looking for a hook-up. I am honest to a fault. I am disease free and looking for someone special. I will send a picture on request. I am very sincere and not into games.

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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Cartoons and funny jokes (Wilmington ) 23yr

Dark beer, cartoons and random outdoor adventures. Looking for a the gypsy of my dreams.

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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Tall SBM looking for a SWF for LTR (Wilmington, NC) 20yr

Hello

I'm a 6'6", educated, non-ghetto, somewhat nerdy black male with a preference for white women. I don't drink or smoke or do drugs. Smoking and drugs are not OK in my book. I am looking for a LTR with a woman between the ages of 18-24. I have a job but I don't have a car yet. I'm a little chubby and I have a preference for thick/curvy/chubby women. Since I'm tall, I also have a preference for taller women. Mind you, these are just preferences. I definitely look forward to treating my girl like a queen. I love having a good time and it's pretty easy to keep me entertained. I'm on here to see if there's a girl nearby who's worth my time.

I'll post a picture so that you can judge if I'm attractive enough. ;) Please send me an e-mail with a picture, a little about yourself and your favorite band as the headline. I look forward to hearing from you. Thanks for reading. :)

• Location: Wilmington, NC
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Where is my princess (Wilm) 38yr

I want a nerdy girl who smokes and drinks, swears, loves chinese food, is misanthropic and in general hates the world.
I have been searching for you my whole life...

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Posted: May 9th, 2012

ladies (wilmington) 50yr

want to meet lady for fun going out and no lie sex i work all week and sometimes weekends need someone for fun and who nos maybe turn in to something good im even willing to pick lady up if need to and dont mind if have children or married and not happy im discreet and very open hope to hear from you im white 5 foot 7 and bored and lonely dont care what race you are

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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Still waiting for my princess. (Whiteville) 22yr

I'm a 22 year old young man, with a career, a car, goals, and a head on my shoulders. I'm still waiting to find my princess. :)

Email me, send a picture and tell me about yourself. I'll do the same.

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Posted: May 9th, 2012