Men Seeking Women

Ok ladies, we all know there are many hot single men out there, but you only need one good one! You're probably a good-girl type, sincere and ready to start a long lasting committed relationship with a good guy.. If so, checkout the single men dating below..

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Men looking in Central Nj

MWM with a strong desire to connect with a passionate BBW (South Mercer County area)

Before I got married, I experienced the pleasure of making love with a bigger woman. Now, 30 years later, I have a strong desire to re-experience that pleasure. I don't intend to leave my marriage or to change your status. I am looking for an ongoing, discreet "Friends with Benefits" relationship with a passionate BBW/SSBBW. Size/weight is NOT an issue, although I will admit that I do have a preference for very large breasts. Likewise, age, height, race etc, are also not an issue. An intellectual connection is important as well as the physical intimacy and I'm looking for someone who feels the same way. I'm 59, very romantic, passionate and affectionate, Drug and Disease free and a non-smoker.

Put "I'm Big and Beautiful" in the subject line. I'll trade your Picture for my picture.

  • Location: South Mercer County area
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Oriental Affair (cnj/mammouth) 43yr



.This is not pay for play nor am i looking for a one night stand. I am intrested in asian(Chienese,Philipino etc) intelliegent and mature woman only a few gems out there :) I am not looking for a one nite stand but a LTR very discreet.We all go on with our lives every day not realising what we are missing because of the daily burdens of our doldrum lives if you relate to this please email me ......if nothing else i will gain a friend out of this but what i am really looking for a is a lover a friend a confidant who is there no matter what:) is that you?O am a good looking successful male hwp .Zipcode in the email header please so i can weed out spam mail.Please be real and sincere in your response and have the willingness to communicate before moving forward..
  • Location: cnj/mammouth
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

MWM seeking a woman who wants more intimacy (Betwen Princeton and Trenton)

I'm in a long term marriage but the intimacy and passion is not what it was. I'm looking for an ongoing, discreet "Friends with Benefits" relationship with just one woman who is in a similar situation. I'm looking for someone who wants an intellectual connection in addition to physical intimacy. I would like to meet a few times a month for a few intimate hours. I'm Drug and Disease free and I don't smoke, you should be also.

Put "Looking for intimacy" in the subject line.
  • Location: Betwen Princeton and Trenton
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Married seeking discreet sexual affair (Near Princeton)

MWM seeking a woman for a casual No Strings Attached sexual relationship. I have superb oral skills, a very talented tongue and a great desire to satisfy you. I have a somewhat flexible schedule for daytime or early evening meetings. I'm looking for someone I can meet a few times a month. I'm D&D free and I don't smoke, you should be the same.

Put "Looking for NSA pleasure" in the subject line.
  • Location: Near Princeton
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Married man seeking passionate woman (NJ)

Are you a passionate woman, living a life where that goes unexpressed? Are you seeking to find a relationship where you can be as passionate as you dream of? I too am in the same situation - a very passionate married man going unfulfilled. But its not just about the physical aspect of passion - what I am seeking is that mental and emotional connection that makes the physical that much more intense and meaningful. I am in my mid 40s - intelligent, interesting, successful, creative with a sense of humor. If you, like me what more from life but aren't finding it, then write me and lets see what else we have in common.
  • Location: NJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Athletic handsome guy (CNJ) 27yr

Hey there,
I am a 27 male in cnj. I have a good career, car, and am very ambitious. I enjoy being productive (i.e.. exercise, reading, cooking/eating healthy). I am looking for an equally ambitious, or at least supportive and encouragimg female. I don't lie or cheat, and I'm sure you hear that from every guy, but I don't and would expect the same respect from you. D & D free. Talk to you soon.
Ninezeroeightthreeonethreeoneonetwofive
No guys plz
  • Location: CNJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for a married woman 49yr

I'm a 49 year old married Italian man looking to find a white married woman to share special times with would like this to be a long term friendship not looking for a one night stand put married woman in subject to show your real
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Seeking a mature lady for good times (hopefully close to you.) 50yr

Hi,

I would like to make contact and meet up with an easy going sincere and mature sensual lady who is interested in having some nice erotic sensual petting and massaging,, i would love for her and me to be able to have relaxing sensual times together
I am a nice single white man and i adore been with an older more mature sensual lady and we can take it at our own pace it will be all smiles and pleasures along the way.
I am a generous man also and perhaps we can help each other out if you like , or just a great and valued friendship is great also.

I can tell you more when you get in touch but this is a real and sincere post,... please,, when replying,, put "Sensual lady" in the subject line so i know it is not spam and unwanted email.

Thanks, lets connect up and have some real and genuine fun together
  • Location: hopefully close to you.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

married & missing something 49yr

Hi, Im a white married man, I've been for nearly 20 years now and I'm tired of the same day after day life,so now I'm here hoping to find a woman who might be tired of her life style and looking for the same as I, well I'm here bye for now
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Applications for SB now being taken Apply within (Rutgers) 42yr



I am an inshape 42 MWM who is now in the process of taking SB applications. If you don't understand what the title means and what I'm looking for then this probably isn't for you. Please be available to get together a few times a month for a few hrs on either a sat or sun afternoon. Please include your age, gen loc and a pic in your response. Put .....baby.....In the subject line to weed out all the spam

  • Location: Rutgers
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Combine fun with meaningful connection (CNJ) 44yr

Hello,

I've noticed that these ads tend to fall into two general categories: let's meet tonight and have sex, or an offer for a very, very specific situation. What I'd love to find is a reasonable, fun woman who is looking for a reasonable and fun man. I'm professional, in good shape, respectful and don't come in with a lot of preconceived notions or expectations. I am looking for an intimate relationship, yes, but other than that I don't have any hard-and-fast guidelines or requirements. All I ask is that you be a good person, honest and fun. I am HWP, d/d free and I hope that you would be too!

Hope to hear back from you soon.
  • Location: CNJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

★★★ Married guy seeks girl in similar ★★★ (NNJ / CNJ) 40yr

Do you remember the first passionate kiss when you first fell in love? The fluttering butterflies in your tummy, sweaty palms and the desire to be kissed again. Remember how it made you feel? Someone to hold close, cuddle in a dark stormy night and feeling safe in those strong arms. Champagne, candlelight dinner, a warm bubble bath, flowers petals on the bed and a warm oil massage. How about falling asleep in their arms afterwards? Are you open-minded fun loving thoughtful caring and have a great sense of humor and believe in a relationship? Do you love to kiss? If you do then you may have found the right person. I am a true Taurus. I am a talker and love a good conversation I am also a good listener. I love slow dancing whether it be at home in the bedroom or under the stars on a warm summer night making wishes. I Love making new friends, enjoy all types of music and movies.

About me: 40yrs old, 5'10, 169lb, Italian mix, cute smile **Attached**
Have pics.
  • Location: NNJ / CNJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Take a chance with me (Trenton) 21yr

I thought about it, I realized that I rather hang out with one woman then multiple women. I would like to just have a coke and a smile with a person rather then do shots in the club and make out with someone I don't know.

Personality - Talkative, Laid back, Goofy, Mature, Understanding, Intelligent, and Can hold a conversation very well ( one of my specialities)

Looks - Well, look at the photo, thats me.

IF you want to take a chance, just message me and talk , I'm friendly to all. I'm not looking for sex, just more of a friend then we move on from there.
  • Location: Trenton
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Seeking less than ltr, but more than nsa (Middlesex County) 39yr

So I'm very recently out of a long term and recently long distance relationship. I'm still in the denial phase as I haven't let it affect me yet. I'm hoping to find someone who has their own place. I don't have mine and not looking to rent rooms. I'm good looking, not great looking, decent to athletic build, blessed down below and probably better than any lover you've ever had. On top of the physical, I would like to hang out, watch tv/movies, drink, I cook and crack jokes. Just hopefully someone who likes to stay in. I understand how CL works. Women don't send pics first and they always want someone out of their league because they hold all the cards on here, so just let me know where you're from, age and verify you have your own place. I'll reply with my pics first. Please put New Friend in subject.
  • Location: Middlesex County
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

looking for a sexual affair (CNJ) 42yr

Married male looking for one female who can understand what I am going through and might just be in the same boat.

I am not going to leave my family, just need to replace what I am not getting at home. I am tired of being in a sexless marriage and cant take it anymore.

I need some romance and passion back in my life.

If you have pics, yes I do have pics too. Yours will get mine. I am fit and atheletic, mature, decent, clean , safe and discreet.

Please put "friend" in your reply so i know you're real.
  • Location: CNJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

You Can Take a Girl Out of Italy But the Italian Never Leaves Her (New York City and New Jersey) 41yr

Which in my belief, isn't half bad at all :). If you agree, then we should probably chat!


Why not keep the blend of Italian tradition with the values of a modern American woman? After all, the qualities of tradition are what makes and Italian girl so great....


To this end, I seek that single Italian (or mix) woman from ages 24 to 45, who is single, doesn't have any children, and is a non-smoker. Hopefully, she is attractive inside and out, and also is gainfully employed as well. Additionally, you are seeking an LTR.



A short note with your photo and a bit about you would be smashing (hey, wait, that's British...lol). I will return in kind. Please put something in your subject line so I know it's a real reply and not CL spam (which is numerous these days....).


I am 41, gainfully employed, with brown hair, green eyes, and I'm 5'9". I'm broad shouldered, handy, witty, and romantic. I do not smoke, nor have any piercings or tattoos (you should be the same...ears OK...). I have a variety of hobbies from museums, concerts, the beach, socializing, reading, writing, home improvement projects, cars, and just about everything in between.


Would love to hear from you if you are on the same page here. Until then, I shall wait for that one reply that truly shows the beauty of an Italian girl:





****Please put "Now That's Italian!" in the subject line of your reply so I know that your reply is for real!*****

  • Location: New York City and New Jersey
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Daddy Daughter Role Play (Middlesex County) 43yr

I am a fun, friendly, easy going guy who enjoys all sorts of normal things except one; I'm completely turned on by stories and movies about daddy daughter incest. I am looking for women age 18-35 who share this taboo fetish. I would like to talk to you over email share thoughts and fantasies with one another and then I'd like to role play incest roles with one another in person. If this sounds interesting or exciting to you, please email me and we can take things from there and make plans to get together and have some fun. I am excited to hear from you soon. Please put... Daddies Special Girl....in the subject line so I know your not a bot or spam. No P2P type of girls. Just looking for a regular everday girl who's into this type of fetish

  • Location: Middlesex County
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

**Let's be Lovers & More** Married Male seeks Married Female-Discreet (Monmouth County) 44yr

Ok, if you are reading this then we already have something in common, which is - something is missing in our marriage. No affection, no laughter, no intimacy, no sex, no listening, no respect, etc...

I'm sure that you have tried just as I have tried to get your spouse to respond to your wants, needs and desires only to be ignored or just not taken seriously. It is exremely hurtful and draining knowing that the person whom you love or loved just doesn't care enough about you any more.

Hopefully, we have the same idea as to what this will be about. Which is a long term and (monogomous) discreet secret love affair to give and receive affection, to laugh with, to be on a level of intimacy that we have lost with our spouses and to have someone to talk to and listen to when life at home just gets too unbearable.

We both know that we are not looking to change our family lives but, we definately want to have some excitement, butterflies in the stomach, first kisses, first touches, affection and intimacy and knowing that there is someone out there to talk to is going to be an amazing feeling...

About me: I'm 44, most say I look like I'm in my late 30's, 6' tall, white, 180 lbs, athletic, in decent shape, reasonably attractive, brown hair, blue/green eyes, non smoker, non drinker and did I mention married. ( I'm somewhat funny too.)

About you: Just be reasonably attractive and reasonably in shape. I'm open to age and race but, you must be married and discreet.

Plesae put the word "Discreet" in the subject line so that I know you are real.

Looking forward to meeting you.

  • Location: Monmouth County
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Willing to try one more time! (Central New Jersey) 49yr

What does it take to finally meet that special woman out here? Willing to try it one more time. I am a 49 yr old single white male... never married...who is down to earth, laid back, easy going, passionate & romantic. Just looking for that simple woman who is cute in the face & thick in the waste....a plain jane type woman. Does not take much to make me happy. Just your company & willingness to meet is to meet is all I need. Lets get together....you never know, we just might be what we have been looking for in each other. I am real & not spam. Please type on the subject line your name & age so that I can weed out spammers. Talk to you soon.
  • Location: Central New Jersey
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Does online dating even work? (central)

I'm tired of looking for a fun chick.....I feel like it's hard to find a laid back, easy going person without any drama...so now I'm here...on CL.

I'm in my mid 20's....I work full-time....but I have yet to find someone that I click with. Age isn't an issue, so if you're in the same boat and want to get to know someone, then lets give it a shot. Tell me a little about yourself...age...and what town you're from.

Put your age in the subject line so I know it's a real response. Send a pic and I will reply with mine.
  • Location: central
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Lonely MWM seeks equally lonely Married or Attached Asian female (Middlesex Somerset Counties) 41yr

Hi Ladies, I am a 41 y/o MWM 5' 8" in shape who's in a sexless marriage and looking for either a married or an attached ASIAN female between 21-50 y/o, who's in the same situation I am in to get together with every so often for an ongoing physical affair along with being each others special friend, I am EXTREMELY attracted to asian women and I would love to find an asian girl who would be up for this sort of arrangement. I am NOT looking to change either of our current situations or for a serious emotional attachement but it is important that we have the upmost respect for each other and that we get along and like each other. NO P2P type of girls or girls looking for a sugardaddy. Please include a pic with your reply if possible or be willing to send one after a few email exchanges. Your pic will most def get mine. Put... LONELY FOR LONELY ...in the subject line as to weed you out from all the spam and so I don't accidently delete it. Thanks for taking the time to read this and hope to hear from you soon
  • Location: Middlesex Somerset Counties
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for a LTR (Monmouth) 24yr

Hello there everyone!

I tried this before but didn't end up having much luck so here I am posting again lol. I'm a 24 year old Indian male and I'm looking to find someone for a long term relationship. Not trying to jump into that right away, I like to take things slow and get to know the person first and hope that things click! I'm a pretty easy-going guy so it won't take long to get along with me. I'm always up for doing anything so I'm pretty out-going as well. Love listening to music, watching movies, video games, I could keep this list going on and on!

For you, I'm really more about the personality than anything else. Sure, attraction matters but just a little, nothing more. Same thing for age/race as well. I do have pics to trade as well but I don't need you to send a pic over email since I didn't post anything here. If you're interested though, we can definitely trade! If you are interested and going to respond, could you put your favorite color in the subject line (just so I know it's a real person and not spam)?

Thanks for reading! :)
  • Location: Monmouth
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

MARRIED AND SEEKING MORE (NJ)

Married and seeking more from life than the status quo.....the same old routine.....the run of the mill, day to day experience. I am looking for an adventure, some excitement, more passion - a connection that makes you smile and gives you something to look forward to; someone to think about during the day. I am a fit, attractive, mid 40s, well educated, successful business owner. Hoping to meeting like-minded woman in similar circumstances for friendship, fun and most of all a passionate relationship. Write me if you would like to chat.
  • Location: NJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Car Date Spoiling Tonight (Piscataway) 40yr

Good Looking generous nice guy looking to "spoil" and cute
girl tonight. Lets meet for an Oral Car date around 8pm tonight
If interested email me and put "Piscataway" in the subject so I know your real.

  • Location: Piscataway
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Any Indian/Desi Females Want an Affair? (Central NJ) 39yr

Good looking married nice guy looking to meet a married or still at home Indian / Desi
female who needs to be appreciated. Let me kiss you the way you want, let me use my tongue
to bring you to intense pleasure like no other man has. Lets make love and cuddle afterwards.
If you'd like to meet a nice guy like me send me a note.
So that I know your are for real put SERIOUS in the subject line.
Put in a description, location, picture maybe? Be able to talk on phone and meet for coffee
to chat.

Hope to hear from you
  • Location: Central NJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Naughty Chat\E-Mail at work? (CNJ) 35yr


Are you horny at work?

Well I am horny sitting at my desk wondering what a naughty female would do to me. Im Real and hopefully you are to. Just tell me what you are wearing and we can get things started. who wants to play??

Even if you are at home needing someone to talk naughty to you via e-mail. I will make you so wet and make you want my nice hard cock. I have pictures. But pic4pic

Love when a girl is in g-strings and thong turns me on everytime. All it takes is a simple e-mail telling me what you are wearing, and we will begin

Ill be waiting to play with you. I promise to not waste your time. If youre looking for naughty e-mail you will get what you ask for.

You can be any age over 25. I dont care, just want to make you wet at work or home

I am 35/m/CNJ
  • Location: CNJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

WMM seeking lady friend (hazlet ) 49yr

yes I'm married and looking for a woman being treated the same at home as me (like shit) lets chat and see if we click coffee lunch what ever you like
  • Location: hazlet
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Tonight is good (Hunterdon) 34yr

Lets have some fun! Im funny good looking and in shape, you should be too...
  • Location: Hunterdon
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Married Man Seeking Married Woman (New Jersey) 52yr

I am seeking a married woman for romance, friendship and fun. I am a married male in search of that hard to find person who is somewhat content at home but not enough to be truly happy. If you understand my meaning then we have a great starting point. I enjoy secret emails, good conversations, morning coffee, hard work, consistency, stability, spontainety, intelligence and a good laugh. I am looking for a connection that can turn into something passionate. Very discreet. If any of this interests you please write.



  • Location: New Jersey
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Short, fat, bald...but filthy rich (Wink!) (Craigslist Zoo) 48yr

Hey. . ..at least I got you to look didn't I - GRIN. Seriously, if this post didn't get you to at least crack a smile then I'm not sure what else I can do for you!
  • Location: Craigslist Zoo
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Any Big Beautiful Women Wanting a Date? (Middlesex county) 49yr

Hi. I just love Big Beautiful Women. They are so sexy. Would you like to meet for a date? I am single and please let me know that you are as well. And include the name of your town in the subject box so i know you are not spam. Tell me all about yourself and let's meet soon.



  • Location: Middlesex county
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Dinner,movie,then ? (edison) 40yr

swm on the chubby side I m looking for someone to spend some time with,I m fun down to earth very to the point well traveled and I love to laugh.Let me know about you and what your like.(a photo is nice)
  • Location: edison
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Low opinion? (east brunswick) 49yr

Id like a girl who is laid back and easygoing and will do what is asked of her because thats the way she thinks it should be. If I ask you to suck my cock while we are driving you will do it. Let me play with your clit and pussy anytime i want. Feel your tits whenever I want. Why would you wnat to do these things? Because you feel thats what you deserve and enjoy....your opinion is a littel lower than average and you make up for it by being a "good girl" when asked to. This relationship could be a one time thing, but I rather it be an ongoing thing, and even maybe a permanent thing if you show you are good enough. Its all up to you to prove yourself to me. Put GOOD GIRL in the subject line or be deleted. Please also send a pic in your first reply. Hurry Im sure this position wont be available for long.
  • Location: east brunswick
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Discreet Female (Mercer County) 25yr

25yo wm, good looking and athletic. Totally sane and ddf.
Looking for a fwb type relationship with an open minded and kinky woman.
Not looking to change my situation or yours just looking for a little fun.
Please be between 18-40. Email me for pics and details.

  • Location: Mercer County
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Hot 6'4 Built Guy for FWB (cnj) 29yr



I'm a sexy, very fit tall white guy, about 6 '4, 195lbs thats just seeking someone for friendship and ongoing playful fun. If you are looking for the same shoot me an email back and I will you more about myself. I promise you will not be disappointed.

  • Location: cnj
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

looking for a loving BBW (JACKSON,FREEHOLD,TOMS RIVER,HOWELL) 59yr

I AM LOOKING TO MEET A LOVING OLDER BBW WHO MISSING HAVING FUN
IN AND OUT OF THE BEDROOM
YOU MUST BE A BBW,OVER 50YRS,CARING,LOVING,OPEN FOR A LOT OF FUN
WRITE TO ME AND LETS START OUR TRIP.
YOUR EMAIL TITLE MUST SAY LOVING BBW OR I WON,T OPEN IT
PICTURE A +
  • Location: JACKSON,FREEHOLD,TOMS RIVER,HOWELL
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Seeking special friendship (Alpine) 48yr

Looking for a woman who misses the friendship and closeness of a romantic man in her life.
Life is not about material things but spending time with another sharing... and enjoying ourselves in the process.
I'm an educated, 6'1" tall, slim, married, romantic, passionate guy looking for a special friend, for an ongoing relationship.
Life is too short to spend it alone or unhappy. Agree?
Why not take a chance and find someone with the same needs as you?
Let's meet for a drink. You never know what could happen...
  • Location: Alpine
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Married and lonely (Cranbury) 44yr

I have been browsing the CL ads for awhile deciding if these people are really real, and if actual real people answer these ads. That being said, I am not sure if this is the best idea but what the hell, nothing ventured, nothing gained, right???

I am married, and home life is ok, but i am definitely lonely. Not lonely in the sense of not having people around me as at home i have 2 children and i do work with other people, but lonely in the sense of mental, emotional and physical fullfillment. It seems that instead of a wife i have a friend at home that i share duties of parenthood, but not much else. We are friends raising our children. Plain and simple. Something really tells me that there are other people in the same situation. I know i am not totally miserable but i am just feel that i am missing so much!

I am 6' and in good shape. I have dark short hair and a goatee. I am not a smoker, dont drink that often and absolutely do not do drugs. I know i am not perfect but i have been told that i am nice looking.
I have a pretty open and fun personality and i like to do things that are out of the ordinary at times. I can be a bit sarcastic, a bit too open, and open minded. Shy is most defintely not used to describe me.

I guess i am looking for a friendship/discreet relationship. Want to talk, email, text and be able to see each other when we can and see what happens. No pressures, just our own escapes from our otherwise way too quiet lives. I want to be able to raise someone heartbeat and have mine raised again....thats really missed. I do have a picture that i can send, but i will not till we exchange a few emails.

Look forward to hearing from you


  • Location: Cranbury
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for a younger girl (18 - 25) (Bridgewater) 29yr

I'm looking for a younger girl between the ages of 18 - 25
Looking for whatever. Just want to hang and have fun.
I am very easy-going, attractive, smart, funny, etc...
I have a job, car, money, etc...

Hit me back and send a pic.

Because of so much SPAM, please put "Sometimes" in the subject line so I know you're real.
  • Location: Bridgewater
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Bored MM for a Bored MW (CNJ) 50yr

Title says it all,,,, just a bored married guy looking for bored mw ...for talking texting and maybe meeting for lunch ,,,, it dont always have to be about sex ,,,, friendship is nice ...im a good listener and i dont care what you look like either..just be a nice person
  • Location: CNJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

CULTURED MARRIED MAN SEEKING THE SAME (NJ) 45yr

I am a married man very much into Cultural pursuits - art, music, museums - looking for a like minded married woman to connect with on different levels. I am intelligent, fit, attractive, successful, down to earth and generally a kind, reasonable person. If you, like me, are missing something from your life and circumstances can not be changed at the moment - still you want to Live your life to its fullest, then perhaps we have something in common. Please write if you want to hear more.
  • Location: NJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Love jogging or the gym? - m4w (Hazlet) 39yr

Looking for women who workout....Either the gym or jogging...I want to massage and pamper your sore and achy feet....No reciprication at all....Nothing sexual....Just love rubbing warm and sweaty feet.....Serious only reply...Thanks!!
  • Location: Hazlet
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Married and lonely? (Monmouth Co) 42yr

I'm a unhappy Married man looking for a unhappy Married woman for affection and attention...Its about time I think about myself and look for someone in the same situation...I'm not looking to leave but I am looking to make my situation more bearable...It really stinks to go through life with a spouse that doesnt show ANY love or affection towards you...I am attractive and have a great personality...To find out more please respond....Thanks
  • Location: Monmouth Co
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Are you a flip flop kinda woman???? (Holmdel) 38yr

Hi....Shockingly enough its hard to find women that are into the foot thing...I really find it hard to believe that a lady wouldnt want a foot massage or some other form of foot play....I believe there are women who are into it or would love to try it....If this is you then please reply....Serious only...I am very serious and you wont be disappointed...Thanks for looking!!

  • Location: Holmdel
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

hugs and kisses (old bridge) 49yr

good morning. well to start I'm not looking for a night stand or a sex only women LOL, I'm seeking a woman to become very good friends with I'm not looking to change our lifes but I'm missing the butterfly in my stomach feeling and would love to know how that feels again I'm 49 white not tall LOL not fat ill share pictures once I know your real please put butterfly in subject all other will not be open why to much spam here, PS I'm married and more like a roommate deal no love its been gone a long time now
  • Location: old bridge
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Want to go out this week? 22yr

Hi,

Well im a real person looking for something real lol. Im 21 yrs old and I a full time college student while working full time. Im south asian but I grew up here all my life. Im physically very fit and workout all week and love sports and the outdoors. Im a very sincere person and would love to meet more sincere plp. Just please be around my age and when replying put your age on the subject line so I know your real lol. If you have AIM my sn is assassinsway. Also if you dont mind include a pic in your reply too.

Hope to hear from you soon =]

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Posted: May 21st, 2012

DWM seeks to Date a Sweet & Sexy woman (New Brunswick) 56yr

Trying this again. Will a Real woman please step forward !

I'm the Real Deal not a spammer !!! BE REAL AND NO GAMES IF YOU REPLY... Let's have some Fun!

I am a divorced male, 56 years old but don't look it, I'm a retired police officer/SWAT team member ( Don't hold back because of my past career ), I'm 6'3" tall, athletic slender build, I don't drink or smoke, I like to work out, most types of music, movies, easy going, comfortable to be around, sexy, I seek a woman from 40 years old and up, slender, athletic, curvy in the right spots or average build for a dating relationship that is personal and intimate. I like to have a girlfriend that is all woman and a woman that walks the talk, easy going, down to earth, photogenic, and can be flirtatious with the one that she is interested in, comfortable to be with and is sexy. Just be you! Are you that woman? I can show my interest BUT can you ? and not play games!!! and keep the Interest up.
I'm not looking for Miss Typical but a woman that's all woman with that devilish side and not afraid to experience it.

Likes in a woman ---- Attractive in my eyes, easy going, nice personality, sexy and not uptight. Did I mention not Uptight!

DON'T EMAIL me and put links to other web sites for me to go to because I will not respond. Don't include highlighted words also that lead to other web sites. I'm Real and I'm Good !!!

Reply with PICTURES !!!!!

  • Location: New Brunswick
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Need A Friend (Manalapan) 38yr

Hello
I could really use a female friend. You know, friends first, then see what happens kinda thing. I am 38 yo wm, tall, fit, d/d free, good looking. I am into music, concerts, movies, beach, bike riding, working out etc. If you think you might be a good friend for me, hit me up!
  • Location: Manalapan
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Single and ready to connect (Hamilton) 28yr

Handsome newly single man in Hamilton. Im 6 foot with longer blonde hair, bright blue eyes and an awesome sense of humor. Im just looking for someone to chat with and see where it goes from there. im very honest and upfront about who I am. I am a real person not a spam bot. I do have pictures of myself too. My real name is Mike.. Nice to meet you...
  • Location: Hamilton
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Single Man Looking for Lover (Mercer County (CNJ)) 30yr

Hi, I m a lonely man live here in Hamilton, NJ all along. Originally I'm from India and I been living in the USA for 19 Year. I'm 30 old male, 6ft tall 210LB. Average looking person. I have a job in the IT Company and also have my own car. I'm very hard working man. I'm single and never been married no kids. Very simple life work hard and live better. I'm very shy person it is very hard for me to go and talk to a girl, even some time girl's talk to me and I got very shy. I want someone single and no kids, if you are divorce and don't have any relationship with anybody that fine with me. Age 26t to 36 NO drug user or highly alcoholic. Please let me know if you want to see my Picture.

Thank you, and have nice day



  • Location: Mercer County (CNJ)
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking to meet someone nice =) (Freehold) 22yr

Just looking to meet someone new and see what happens...Really not expecting much from this, but if you want to get to know someone send me an email. Who knows, maybe we'll click lol..
  • Location: Freehold
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Seeking to Meet a Female (Central NJ) 40yr

SWM * 5'11* 165lb * fit * Italian * is seeking a female over 21 for dinners, movies, drinks and etc... I am clean-shaving, do not smoke, live in Middlesex County and open to all races.

If interested reply back with at least your age, height, weight & your about location. Also so that I will know that you have read this entire ad, please put --- Female Interested -- as the subject line of your reply. No pro's or escorts wanted. Thank you!

  • Location: Central NJ
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Skype, I'm drunk (Nj) 23yr

I want to have fun on Skype, this is all. I'm good looking
  • Location: Nj
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

looking for SOMETHING (monmouth county nj) 31yr

hello my name is anthony. i am single no kids never married.i am very open and honest i live in monmouth county nj.i am 6 feet 7.and i have 9 tatts
  • Location: monmouth county nj
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

28y/o Looking for Serious Relationship (Ewing,Trenton, Lawrenceville, NJ) 28yr

I know this probably isn't going to work, but hey, I'll try it....

I am a single man, 6' tall, 28 years old, weigh about 200lbs (athletic to muscular build. I love going to the gym) no kids, I drive, have a car, no drama in my life what so ever. I recently moved to the area a couple months ago so I don't have any friends here. I only have family. I like, or would like if I had someone to go with, going to the movies, bowling, shooting pool, working out, things like that. I am a laid back type of person. I also enjoy cooking. Im not going to put my life store here because I dont think this will work anyways, but send me an email if your interested. I do have pics so send me your pics and i'll send mines....put "Serious Relationship" in the subject line so i'll know your real please. I will not respond to emails that don't have that in the subject line and a pic.
  • Location: Ewing,Trenton, Lawrenceville, NJ
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Friends First (Manalapan) 37yr

Then see what happens! I am wm, 37, 6'1", d/d free. 420 friendly. Looking for a friend then we can take it from there. Real replies only. NO SPAM!!!!!!!!
  • Location: Manalapan
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Dynamic/Goofy icebreaker (Monmouth County) 30yr

Here is the gist on me: Pretty well educated, speak 5 languages(used to be 6, forgot one), I simply love intelligent and witty conversation!

Also a silly element to this post, let me know what you think, I am joining a group in my grad school that calls for a pretty crazy task. I have to met someone who would be a stranger in terms of never meeting them before and let them tie me up. Total trust game, I would stay clothed, you would stay clothed (you could watch TV or be on the net while I am tied up) I just can't be able to get out(hence the trust part)




  • Location: Monmouth County
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Thursday Daytime (CNJ) 52yr

Anyone else also bored thursday and tired of sitting home? If so take a chance......e-mail....chat exchange pics and take it from there. Hope to hear from someone.......please be over 40 and be close to Central NJ. Thanks
  • Location: CNJ
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Seeking BBW for FWB - m4w (N.J.) 52yr

Seeking a BBW for NSA relationship. Over 40 please................thanks and please provide a picture.
  • Location: N.J.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Need Cute Girl$ (central NJ) 27yr

Soooo, I don't know, posting this seems kinda weird to me. But, who knows? i am white, attractive, and have a slight beer belly. I am looking for a cute girl, 18-22 thin or average. and has a good personality. Absolutely NO attitudes. I know the way the game works around here, so I am willing to spend money or take you on trips with me. I swear I am very normal, I just am tired of the BS associated with relationships. Just looking for someone to enjoy some time with. Ok, I'm sure this came aross horribly, but maybe someone will look past that and respond?
  • Location: central NJ
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Shall we? be.......................... (Highland Park - Matawan) 41yr

.......each other's lil secret?

lets~

fit


fun



safe


clean



ddf
  • Location: Highland Park - Matawan
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Normal guy seeks normal gal (Monmouth County) 33yr

Hiya,

I am well educated(recently finished a Master's), work in NYC, love the beach, intelligent, thoughtful conversation, and traveling. At this point of my life, I am not looking to play games, and would love to meet someone who serves as my dynamic counterpart and makes me a better person.

Think you can be that person? If so shoot me an email and we can go from there.
  • Location: Monmouth County
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

in apna bazar indian fem GREEN dress. (edison) 33yr

I saw u at apna bazar suger tree plaza today 3-4 pm wearing bful green dress.u were looking hot.u had a kid too.u look stunning.I wanna give u best oral ever.I was there in white shirt n i was stunned after seeing u.I m married too so it will b v discreet.mail me.
  • Location: edison
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

ISO REFINED YET 'DOWN TO EARTH'! (WOMEN 40-50) (RED BANK) 41yr


Myself:

Seriously relationship minded here yet very picky/discriminative and will not just accept anyone even to talk to on the phone, never mind meeting. I'm lonely, I'm not desperate.

Likes: Cooking gourmet at home, photography (nature), classy lounges/pubs, antiques & fine furnishings, hot trucks, animal welfare, Starbucks, Manhattan including Broadway, baking Christmas cookies while sipping on spiked hot cocoa & listening to carols, walking & hiking in nature, John Hughe's - Kevin Smith & Jim Carrey films, beautifully morphed (patterned/colored) Ball Pythons, travel shows on Europe, Atlantic City, museums, aquariums, cruising the backroads of the Pinebarrens in my 4x4, I don't really watch football but I'm still in love with 'The Miami Dolphins', zombie flicks, wine tasting, WW2 German history, Classical & Smooth Jazz to Alternative & Christian Death Metal.

Big lover here of: Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett, Bobby Darin, Sammy Davis JR, Ella Fitzgerald, Doris Day, Michael Franks, Dave Grusin, Diana Krall, Opera, etc...



You:

I seek a Caucasian woman who cares about her health and who cares about proper English! Nothing turns me off more than an adult who writes like an illiterate 5th grade dropout. Please know when to use the following; your, you're, then, than, where, were, wear, ware, to, two, too, there, their, they're, etc.. Impress me with your intelligence please.

No kids or no kids still at home please.

You must not be an alcoholic but enjoy 'adult' beverages at the same time. I do not want to sip on a martini by myself!



First date:

I'm not too keen on dinner as a 1st date for what happens if you can't stand the other? You have to sit thru an appetizer then the entre' then dessert, coffee,lol before you can jet. A drink or a Starbucks I would say is the best thing to see if you have a connection then if so you can always go and do whatever afterwards.



If Interested:

E-mail me your age, where from and a recent pic. Type "Your New GF" in the subject heading, this tells me you're most likely real and not spam. Remember the pic, no pic no response. Thank you!

  • Location: RED BANK
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for something casual (cnj) 30yr

Active person looking for something new...

reply back with 'casual' as subject
and tell me a little about your self
  • Location: cnj
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for a down to earth girl (brick, nj) 27yr

hey im 27 i have a car and i have a job. im 5'11" 275 as you can tell im a big guy lol. im looking for a girl that i can have fun with and hang out with. im a down to earth guy who pretty much likes anything. i have a great heart and personality. let me know if you are interested
  • Location: brick, nj
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Hot Girl Wanted (New Jersey) 34yr

Hello, I am just a business man who is recently single and does not have time to meet a girl who peaks my interest. I am really not a "Bar Guy" nor do I have the time to cruse the scene. What I am looking for is a beautiful girl 18-35 who knows how to treat her man and who is very affectionate like myself. Please send a picture with your reply. Look forward to hearing from you.
  • Location: New Jersey
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

scams need not reply! lol. (kinda) (east brunswick) 38yr

Hello I am hopeful to find a sweet soul to grow a relationship with. positive, respectful and caring describe me well. I live a clean and healthy lifestyle and stay active though enjoy relaxing with some good company. I have no children though love kids. if interested feel free to contact me bye.
  • Location: east brunswick
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

MASTER OF TEN YEARS LOOKING FOR FEMALES IN NEED OF A SPANKING (LAKEHURST) 48yr

MASTER OF TEN YEARS LOOKING FOR FEMALES IN NEED OF A GOOD BARE BOTTOM SPANKING IM SAFE AND SANE ILL COME TO YOU
  • Location: LAKEHURST
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

App for FWB (Somerset County) 23yr

I am interested in finding a friend with benefits or possibly something more. A friend who would be interested in going out and doing various activities. I am a 23 yr old , 5ft 10in tall, brown hair, brown eyes. Please reply with a pic and be sure to put "App" in the subject line or I will not respond. I will be sure to send a pic back when I get one
  • Location: Somerset County
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Nothing better than Summer... (Central) 26yr

Summer's here and I want to spend some fun time with a laid back woman.

I work full-time so it isn't always easy meeting people outside of work. I'm tired of checking out bars....I'm done with that phase. If you feel like meeting someone new this summer then let's try talking. If we click, then maybe it can be something more.

I'm 6'1, tall, slim build. I'm laid back and love to make people laugh. I'm a smart ass when I start flirting...but in a good way.....

If replying, send a recent pic and I'll reply with mine. In the subject line put your favorite color....so I know it's a real response.




  • Location: Central
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

What's Not To Like? (Princeton) 41yr

I'm anti-social, brilliant, frustrating, irreverent, charming, immodest and inquisitive (or totally bored, there are no in betweens). You're the same, in female form, only younger, but as in shape, educated, curious and open minded as me. Proximity to Princeton is ++, I'm not shlepping all over god's green earth to get laid. (if you laughed at that last part, you HAVE TO write back).


  • Location: Princeton
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Hey nerd, yeah you! (Ocean Township) 33yr

I love girls with a bit of a nerdy side. I share that nerdy side, I went to pretty good schools, feel most at home at Science museums, like arcades at the boardwalk, and working for a big nonprofit in a policy role.

Like what you have read thus far? Would love to hear from you.
  • Location: Ocean Township
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I AM LOOKING FOR A MANURE WOMAN (HAMILTON NJ) 37yr

HI LADS..

I AM LOOKIN FOR A MANURE WOMAN FOR RELATIONSHIP. U MUST BE EDUKATED, LOVIN, SEXXXXI AND WANT TO FALL IN LOVE WITH A NICE MAN WITH MARBLES.

IF YOU CAN HANDLE THIS, THEN YOU MIGHT BE THE MANURE WOMAN FOR ME.


  • Location: HAMILTON NJ
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for woman that likes bbc..cuck here (central nj) 48yr

would like to share bbc with a woman...possible ltr
  • Location: central nj
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for a nice and down to earth girl (Somerset , NJ ) 30yr

Hi, I'm Jay. Just a down to earth, relaxed guy from Central NJ looking to meet a decent girl. I've tried a couple dating sites and figured I would give this a shot.

I'm a chubby guy, I weigh 242 lbs but am decently tall at 5'11 so it's not too bad, but I do plan to get back in shape and the goal is to lose 50 pounds by this time next year.

I'm currently attending college at Rutgers university and working full time for a sports memorabilia company . I'm a big goofball, quite quirky and funny. I'm laid back, and can get along with just about anyone and seem to make friends everywhere I go. I love music(variety of tastes), movies. Love sports; basketball, football, baseball. I'm an avid reader, love watching movies, I own over 3,000 dvd's. Nice guy, doing the best I can, definitely motivated.

What I'm looking for is personality, communication, honesty! Personality can make someone more or less attractive, please be able to hold a conversation, it seems so easy but apparently it isn't for everyone. I definitely want to find someone whom I can talk to about anything and everything, communication is very important! As far as looks, I don't have a type, the girls I have dated have all been opposite ends of the spectrum, each one of them had something different that I was attracted to. The first thing I notice is face, I've always been a sucker for a cute face.

Essentially I'm looking for someone who can be my best friend as well as my lover. That being said, I don't jump into relationships but am definitely looking for something that could possibly develop into something.

  • Location: Somerset , NJ
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Well educated, believe a man's place is a a women's feet (Long Branch) 33yr

Good evening-

Have a job I really like, worked hard to get a graduate degree and love reading & traveling.

Also you ready that right, I believe a man's place is at a women's feet.
  • Location: Long Branch
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for a grl (new brunswick,nj) 21yr

Looking for a grl friend leave your pic and number if interested
  • Location: new brunswick,nj
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Married and seeking more (NJ)

Married for quite some time and seeking more from life, than the status quo. For me, its not just about sex....but about that connection between two people that makes you smile and feel excited.....its about the texts and emails you look forward to getting....about the anticipation of meeting.....the sharing of thoughts, feelings and ideas......and then its all about the passion that comes from feeling connected to someone, wanting to be with them....waiting for their touch.....if this means anything to you please write me. I am seeking someone like myself, who is intelligent, fit, reasonably attractive, passionate, kind and caring....someone who likes the arts, music, culture, the city, nature, travel, a good meal, nice glass of wine and just enjoying life.
  • Location: NJ
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Snuggle Time? (Jersey) 23yr

Hey Sweetie

What's up!? I'm 23 year old from central jersey and work in nyc. I have a great job and friends. Looking for something else. I don't mind traveling. I'm 6ft 220lbs brown hair and eyes. Athletic build. I love sports and the outdoors. I'll do anything once, twice if you are cute. :-P

Sometimes I like going to bars and clubs, other times give me a movie and a good cuddle. No games, no websites. Just real. I have no problem texting first.

Let's see where this can go...

  • Location: Jersey
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

got screwed over (cnj) 45yr

well heres my story and its not just a story its the truth. I was married for over 10 years and let me tell you this in the ten years of marriage my wife was so takin cared for I mean i never asked her for any help with anything . I did my own laundry, i cooked for me and her . i Fixed her car and everything in the house. I always worked and provided for her and me,also i am a very sexual person that i always pleased her before pleasing myself. So now i still do all those things for myself ,i am indenpent, got my own place , and im moving forward but this is not really what i wanted ,I want to stay togeather and grow old togeather but that just a dream now. It really makes me sad and it makes me hate women , all they want to do is take advantage of you and see what they can get out of you . I know that things arent always going to go as planned but working togeather and talking things out is the way to great rerlationship right? so lmk what you think i should do , thanks for reading any comments are greatly appreciated thanks wm in cnj
  • Location: cnj
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I EXCLUSIVELY Like And Only Date Black Women I'm Puerto Rican (Central Jersey ) 30yr

Yes I'm puerto Rican And I love Black Women. I'm tall 6'4 Athletic Slim Built. Am looking For A Women Who can keep it 100 Percent Real And know What She Wants. Be Attractive slim, Curvy, Thick , Reply With Pic Ask And I Send You One
  • Location: Central Jersey
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Are You There to Share Each Other? (Union County) 58yr

Hi,

If you have a hidden agenda don't bother reading any further, I'll see through you. If you are seeking a simple, fulfilling relationship to share the years left in life I would love to hear from you.

I'm seeking a woman to share time together. Sharing life one day at a time. To find the one to enjoy special moments. Oh yes, all the very special moments. Going out for dinner or the movies. Walking the malls or strolling the boardwalk at the beach. Maybe a day at the park enjoying the open spaces and fresh air. Or just having a companion to enjoy life with. iI the chemistry is right, I would be very interested in a long term relationship, we'll never know unless we meet and see if it can happen.

I'm a simple man living a simple life hoping a sweet, nice, loving and simple woman might want to share an easy but enjoyable life together as one. If there are any questions to be asked do so by all means. This is how we will get to know each other.

I'm 58, blonde, green eyes, 6'1", 170 and a Leo. Please reply politely if interested and thanks for looking in. Pictures to share.

Please answer with "Yes" in the title box so the scammers can be put in their place, lol.

Thanks for looking in.

R
  • Location: Union County
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

ladies looking 4 help (NJ/NY)

Well Hello, if u are between 21 years old and 29, good looking, looking for help from a gent please email me with pic and what you are looking for.
Thanks
  • Location: NJ/NY
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Us marine looking (Woodbridge) 32yr

Hello how are you doing I recently just moved to New Jersey I am a 32-year-old half Puerto Rican half Italian male. I am 5'9" hundred and 70 pounds I take good care of myself and I am also a United States Marine. I'm hoping that I can meet some new cool people to hang out with and have a good time. I'm single I have no children I have never been married I've been in the military for the past 13 years and I am a lot of fun. I am hoping that there're some women out there that would be interested in meeting a good-looking mail especially a man in uniform and if you're lucky maybe I'll let you see me in your phone lol. I just been overseas in Afghanistan for the past 13 months and I am finally back in the United States and I am looking to hang out I only been in New Jersey for five days. So if you live near Central New Jersey or New York you would like to maybe go out have a drink or whatever you would like to do plane I'll have some fun you could text me at 908 five nine six 8 five 8 seven. My name is dj pS been over a year since I've been in the presence of a woman let alone to feel her lips
  • Location: Woodbridge
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Shower or bath (NJ) 25yr

Im attractive and looking for someone sane..... Do you have a shower or bath that I could come over and lick endlessly in?

I am respectful but just want to meet someone outside of my friend circle.... I'll bring the wine

Send a picture if you're interested!
  • Location: NJ
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Deprived MWM seeks 30 y/o plus MWF for discreet friendship (Woodbridge area) 45yr

Hi ladies. I am a 45 y/o mwm , 5' 8" 170 lbs, shaved head, tattoos, .... the typical bad boy type..........The truth of the matter is that I have an extremely high sex drive and I'm in a totally sexless marriage thru no fault of mine and I'm looking for an older mature mwf, 30 yo plus (30-60) who's in the same situation to get together with for some ongoing discreet nsa intimate fun. I'm just really, really tired of being lonely and lets face it...cold showers and my right hand doesn't cut it anymore just as I'm sure your probably tired of your toys just like I'm tired of my hand. I just need some physical contact and hopefully since you are reading this you can relate and would be interested in this kind of arrangement. Maybe your hubby is to busy with work and when he has free time he hasn't grown up yet and still is going out all the time with his friends and neglects your physical needs. Or maybe he is getting up there in age and has a hard time rising up to the occasion so to speak or he just doesn't have any interest anymore. Please be willing and able to get together for a few hrs at least 2x's a month, preferably on a sat or sun afternoon. PLEASE be somewhat in shape, slim to average body type, up to size 12. Put.....MARRIED FOR MARRIED....in the subject line so I know your not spam. I do have pics to trade and yours will get mine. Hope your having a great day and I hope to hear from you soon. No P2P type of girls and NO GUYS...NO GUYS....NO GUY
  • Location: Woodbridge area
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Lover & Best Friend? (Hunterdon) 52yr

MWM 52 - (But look about in 40's all teeth and hair) looking for Secret Lover, Best Friend, and Confidante . Looking fro someone who I can laugh with, cry with, and be intimate with, or maybe have a quickie if we are both in the mood. A best friend and lover! Looking for something totally discreet for I DON"T wanted to change things at home, and either should you. I'm looking for someone who is in good shape and takes care of herself and not someone whom has made it career cheating on her husband. I've never been outside my marriage and I'm looking for that one special relationship. If interested - type interested in the subject line and tell me something about yourself and what you are looking for. Thanks.

  • Location: Hunterdon
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

firefighter seeking a real female - m4w (jersey city) 44yr

im a married fireman and im in a sexless marriage. first off im not looking to leave my family because of the kids. what i am looking for and have been looking on here for is one real female who does want to meet for and romantic and passion filled affair. if u are real and can handle this than e mail me i have pics and your pics will get mine. put "passion affair" in your subject line


  • Location: jersey city
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

SWM seeks relationship with a woman wanting to start a family (West Windsor) 39yr

Looking to start a family, want to fall in love. I want it all. Am I asking for too much? Is there someone out there who feels the same way?

While beauty is skin deep.... I am looking for an attractive woman.

Preferably caucasian, hispanic or asian.

Thanks.


  • Location: West Windsor
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

ANY STRUGGLING COLLEGE GIRL IN NEED OF ASST ON A SEMI-REGULAR BASIS (Rutgers Kean Mcc) 42yr

Looking for a struggling college girl in need of some asst to get together with on a semi-regular basis, that means once a week or every other week preferably on a sat or sun afternoon. If you need to ask exactly what I'm loking for then maybe this isn't for you. Prefer white, latina or asian but open to any race. Put your age and what college you attend in the subject line so i know your real and not spam otherwise it'll probably get deleted...exp..rutgers-21y/o....MCC-19 y/o. Those with pics get first priority. Please be a girl who rarely if ever does this but could use the asst. I am extremely respectful and will treat you with respect at all times. Discretion is assured as I'm sure you wouldn't want your friends to find out ! ! !
  • Location: Rutgers Kean Mcc
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

who want to go camping mem weekend (monmouth)

hi takin out the rv for the weekend three nights lookin for a campin buddy anytakers
  • Location: monmouth
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Fellow idealist? (Monmouth County) 30yr

I do good volunteer work with homeless organizations among other groups, so important for me to give back to the community! For me that is more important than most things with the exception of friends & family.

Also have a funny way for us to meet: Trying to join a grad school group, where my final remaining task calls for me to find someone whom I have never met and kiss their feet, how silly is that? Though sure it can make for one heck of an icebreaker!!

Well...intrigued? :)

  • Location: Monmouth County
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for passion (Holmdel) 42yr

I am married and 42. My marriage has hit a point where there is a lack of any passion or any resemblance of that fire that a relationship should have. I have children so I am not looking to leave or change my situation. I am not looking to change your situation either. What I am looking for is what I am missing. A woman in a similar situation that I can build a long lasting friendship with passion! If you are truly in a situation like me then you know what I am talking about. I am not interested in rushing anything or just sex. I am also not looking for a one night stand or for someone that has multiple partners. I am D/D free and I do not smoke. To know that I am on someone's mind and thoughts and that she looks forward to talking or emails or the next time we see each other. I am just looking for a special friendship. Tell me about you and what you are looking for...Put Passion in subject line so I know you are real....
  • Location: Holmdel
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Married for same (NJ)

I am a 40 something MWM, seeking a married female friend - open to all backgrounds and cultures. I love to learn new things. I am a very creative, intutive compassionate person who knows how to work hard and also have fun. I run a successful business, am active and fit. I am looking for a woman who is married but seeking more from life. Perhaps a faithful friend to chat with and spend time enjoying each others company. Please respond if you are interested in chatting further. Have a great day.
  • Location: NJ
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for a serious fwb... (central)

Tired of beating around the bush...there has to be some women out there who don't want a serious relationship right now. I'm looking to have some fun...with the occasional dinner and drinks.....if this sounds like you.....send me a shout.

Please be serious and mature about this.

Age isn't an issue, but be located somewhere in Central.
  • Location: central
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Dating Rule #1: Never Chase, Always Replace (Beyond the Rules...) 41yr

Many ladies out there have probably read the book The Rules. I guess if I had my own version, it might go something like this:

1) Never make someone a priority in your life who only wants to be an option.

2) If you always make failure an option, you'll never make success a priority.

3) Kindness and compassion are two stations in life. Make sure you get your ticket and don't be late..

4) It has been said that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, sometimes people need corrective lenses to see beyond the window dressing.

5) Philosophy is defined as the love of wisdom. Kindness and decency are the oil that makes the machine work;).

6) Never chase what is elusive---supersede it with something better.

7) Shallow people seldom make history, so make them history in your life.

8) Home is where the heart is. Make your house a home.

9) Love isn't about finding the perfect person, it's about fiinding that imperfect person perfectly.

10) Nice guys don't finish last. They wait in the shadows for the best and brightest to come around.


Who I'd love to hear from:

Sweet, loving, attractive, Catholic, non-smoking white (or mixed with Latina/European), professional women up to about age 47. You're non-smoking, don't have any children and are seeking an LTR.

Your replies wouldn't eventually be any of the following (the names have been removed to protect the incompetent, I mean innocent.....:

1) "Hi,
Sorry- I'm trying again with my old boyfriend. You sound like a great person~"

(This proves this person is either capricious, mentally defective, or both. Who does that to an old flame? (That is, replying to a personal ad when your intent is to make a go with that person.....)


2) "I am traveling for work the next several weeks my job requires a fair amount of travel - so I will gone but we should try to meet for a coffee when I get back?"

(That was February.....and poof, she was gone. If your life is that busy that you can't make the time for someone in your life, you're doing something wrong....)

3) "I will call you as soon as things settle with my ex (fill in the blank)".

(No thanks, save me the favor. Get yourself an order of protection).

4) "I'm focusing on having fun with my girlfriends right now...."

(In other words, the dirt you shouldn't have been dating is now coming back to haunt you....who needs this drama?)

5) "I met someone and I want to see how it goes".

(Next time, at least change it when you cut and paste it from Match.com. And for the record, that guy can have you...you're a serial dater)


6) "I have a friend that would be great for you, but you'll have to concede on (fill in the blank)......"
(And you never hear back, or the friend isn't anything like what you want..but you should be "happy" that someone wasted your time with someone they KNEW you wouldn't like. LOL".)

7) "You should lower your standards"

(No, you should raise yours...try it, it works!)

8) "So what she does/has/is (whatever the deal breake is, insert it here).

(Settling is compromise, but not in a healthy way, it's just going to backfire).

9) "You sound really great, I'd love to get to know you, etc, etc, etc...look forward to hearing from you..."

(They turn out to be one hit wonders...don't those wind up on the discount rack? Yikes...)

10) "Go after so and so (who is not interested).

(Read the headline).

I've been described as/known as:

1) Green eyes like a cat.
2) Witty and intelligent
3) Good natured
4) Zero tolerance for capriciousness, superficiality or any other buzz word of the day (or hour)
5) Driven and goal-oriented
6) Light, breezy and easy-going
7) Romantic to a fault
8) Family oriented
9) Broad shouldered/Italian/5'9", non smoker.

A picture will be furinshed in reply to your note and photo. I'll know you read the ad because your subject line is "Don't Break the Rules". All other replies deleted without reservation because it shows me that you didn't read the ad and your reply is likely spam :).


So, if this struck a chord with you, I'd love to hear from you. Of course, not in a critical way, as that is not the intent of this ad...it is merely to highlight that there ARE real people here seeking something, and I'm one of them.


After all, love is said to be about the "chase", but if we know we have something better that will fulfill us, why not replace :)?

  • Location: Beyond the Rules...
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

A cute girl to hang out with........... 24yr

Is a fun non-needy girl to spend time with on a regular basis so much to ask for these days? Open to something casual or exclusive. Don't be old enough to be my mother (18-30 is ideal) and please don't be one of those crazy clingy girls..other than that I'm pretty open. Feel free to send me an email if you are interested and would like to see a full picture of me and let's take it from there.

About me- super easy going, super high-sex drive and super cute
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

MWM SEEKING MF (Central NJ) 39yr

Not looking to change your life or mine just want to add some discreet fun. A little about me I'm Italian 5'7" athletic body brown hair/eyes DD free and most imported sane. No drugs but I am a social drinker. Race and age are not important but please no BBW. I love curves and a little thickness. So if your interested please respond with a pic and put "fun" in the subject line and let's see were it goes.
  • Location: Central NJ
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Dynamic way to meet a great person (Monmouth County) 30yr

I simply love intelligent and witty conversation! The kind that can go on and on as the time flies by.

Also have a very silly/goofy way for us to meet.. I am joining a group in my grad school that calls for a pretty crazy task. I have to met someone who would be a stranger in terms of never meeting them before and let them tie me up. Total trust game, I would stay clothed, you would stay clothed (you could watch TV or be on the net while I am tied up)

So what do you think?


  • Location: Monmouth County
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Posted: May 20th, 2012