Men Seeking Women

Ok ladies, we all know there are many hot single men out there, but you only need one good one! You're probably a good-girl type, sincere and ready to start a long lasting committed relationship with a good guy.. If so, checkout the single men dating below..

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Men looking in Las Cruces

Tease and Flirt (Las Cruces) 33yr

I'm at a boring job and would like to take my mind away for a little while by flirting and teasing someone fun who isn't looking for more than playing the texting game for now. Have no problems getting to know someone and finding out what your interests are what you like. I'd prefer that actually. Id like to make this as close to *real* as possible without it being so.........

  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Not Appreciated. - m4w (Mountain View ) 33yr

Tonight I'm looking for someone that is in the same mess I'm in. Tired of the boredom of doing the same thing day after day and looking to spice up their lives a little bit. People that know me would never believe that I'm trying something this bold but I guess that why I want to do it. Tired of not being appreciated and not appreciating anything in return. Not looking to change my life, just look to FINALLY have some secrets.
  • Location: Mountain View
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Text Me (Las Cruces) 30yr

I'm a 30-year old male that has gotten a little burned out on going out of my way to try and meet new people. I'm not looking for no strings sex or someone to vent or cry to. I just want fun conversion with someone that would like to talk to another adult about their day, about their thoughts, and see what happens. I'm hoping this works because for once I'd like to just be me without trying to impress someone and I think hiding behind a phone screen might let me do that. Age, race, status is not important as long as you're honest.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Coming Back to the States (el paso/las cruces) 33yr

Hi there. About to move back to the states after being stationed overseas. Just got out of a relationship, not looking for anything serious right now it might be a possibility later on. For right now I'm just looking for someone to hangout with and have fun between the ages of 23-34 (going to movies, dinner, etc.) If you're interested, email me. No pic, no reply.
  • Location: el paso/las cruces
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking (LasCruces) 21yr

Looking for someone to have a relationship with, im on the huskyside, .Just sick of being alone, ill provide pics once we start talking..

  • Location: LasCruces
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Thrill seekers? (Cruces) 27yr

Any thrill seekers or adventurers out there? Cruces can be boring sometimes, but there are some interesting and fun things to do around here, you just have to find them...

I am posting here to find a nice girl to hang out with over the summer, and see where it takes us. I love to travel, be outdoors, cook/eat healthy, and volunteer when possible. Some qualities I look for in a girl are :

-Adventuress
-Smart/clever
-Funny
-Wordly
-Ambitious
-fit/works out

If you think that's you, I'm sure we'll get along great. Reply with a bit about yourself, have a little picture, and we'll chat. Take care :)
  • Location: Cruces
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Tonight only! $100 24yr

Good looking guy wanting to have fun on the night before I leave for my summer internship.
Clean, hung, and DD free. You wont be disappointed!

As the title says... I have some left over from my moving stipend =)

Post in your title your favorite position.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking For A TOYFRIEND......LOL (El Paso / Las Cruses) 40yr

Hello Ladies.................

I'm looking to meet a female for a ltr affair. This is by no means a classic way to get laid. If you have an open mind and want to live a thrill this may be for you. If you are married, a couple, have a boyfriend, that would be okay. . .. . ... but I prefer single women or bi. . .. . .. just be fabulous, sweet, down to earth and a bit adventurous. I ask that you don't smoke and be drug and diseases free even if no risky behavior will be undertaken for the sake of our partners.

I'm in my 30s, and married as well. I want someone who is maybe missing something from their relationship or they've thought about this for awhile and are ready to try it. That describes me as well. Pretty much looking for friends with benefits. I don't want no games, no drama, no strings attach, and just want to have fun. This is about a little bit of risky romance... with all the perks that may or may not come with it. . .. . .. . . the thrill of meeting someone new, miss giving and receiving those flirtatious texts, the thrill of having to rearrange a schedule and make up an excuse to get some free time.. that first hello.. the seduction.. the kiss.. the thinking about each other while away.. etc.

I am married, yes, i know this is frowned upon. Stepping outside a marriage for intimacy is possibly the worse thing i am about to do in my life... however... I can not leave my marriage, I do not want to for personal reasons that have nothing to do with any financial ties or dependency. As a matter of fact if it were to end my wife would be at the winning end and my life style would not change a bit...

I have black hair, brown eyes, hispanic looking, 5'6", healthy, friendly and in good shape. The person I'm looking for would be someone who is missing that incredible feeling that comes from the start of a relationship. I'm not out to disrupt your life and want to add something new for you. . .. . .. a friendship, passion, pleasure, spontaneity, and fun with the time we spend together. I'm respectful to what you are looking for in a man, and will not complicate what we are trying to accomplish here. Please have a fun personality. I'm clean all the way around and ask that you are too.

So, do you like pina coladas? If you like Pina Coladas, and getting caught in the rain. If you're not into yoga, if you have half-a-brain. If you like making love at midnight, in the dunes of the cape. I'm the man you've looked for, write to me, and escape.

Life is too short so lets all have some good clean fun.............

Give me a shot... you may be pleasantly surprised.

Add TOYFRIEND in subject line.


  • Location: El Paso / Las Cruses
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for a keeper (hafb) 23yr

I'm starting to get real tired of the single game and I just wish that the girl of my dreams would just fall out of the sky and land right in front of me and we could live happily ever after. Obviously this will never happen but hey a guy can dream right. I'm 23 6 feet tall and in pretty decent shape. Well if you think you could be the girl of my dreams or maybe just want to talk and find out more about me then you should definitely message me. Put your fave song and artist in the subject so I know your not a fake girl. Your pic gets mine. Well I hope to hear from you soon and hope you have a wonderful day
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for an LTR (las cruces) 25yr

Well i have never done this before... so here it goes. I'm really sure what to say but i enjoy dirt track racing and various out door activities. I am 6' 2" brown hair, blue eyes, about 230 lbs. If you would like to know more just ask. If you send a picture i will send one back. If you reply; in the subject box make it relate to racing so i know you are real or that email will be deleted. Hope to hear from you...
  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Me (LC) 19yr

I'm a 19 year Guy looking for a girl who wants to take things seriously. Warning: I do have a big sex drive. Put serious fun in the subject bar your pic gets mine.also please be clean.thank you
  • Location: LC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for love (las,cruces) 52yr

im looking for a woman between 38 to 60 to hangout with go to the movies dinner drives in the country and start a relationship with 5seven5 six eight 0 8five 3four
  • Location: las,cruces
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

make out friend - m4w (las cruces) 26yr

Im attached but lonley good looking male looking for a friend to hang out with and watch movies maby have drinks and make out. I can host when i have time. Drama free and just want to have someone around to cuddle and have fun with. No bs please. We can trade pics if you would like. Age not important just looking for good conversation and a little physical contact. If that sounds like what you want please email.
  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

nice smile (el paso) 50yr

I like to meet a nice lady...just for friendship and maybe more if there is a chemistry...professional and like to have a nice conversations...
i do prefer a lady with a few extra pounds curvy....i am 5'9" nice smile medium built very healthy....like to have a good time...
i am very clean ...i like to learn spanish too....
  • Location: el paso
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

It is time... (Las Cruces) 28yr

I'm 6'4" slender but toned, I work full time and go to school full time. I am missing some one who can be there for me when I have a bad day and will also be there to have fun on the good days...I'm getting way past the point of settling down. I was married once, no kids and nothing connecting me to her. I want to find someone who is supportive and not completely into themselves. Send me a pic with your perfect idea of a first date, and please be a little out of the ordinary with the idea, it will spark my interest even more. Tattoos are a huge plus. Change the subject line to days gone by so I know you're real.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Chances that life dont give (Las Cruces) 30yr

Im looking for a partner in crime that wants to take the journey thru life with me.

Me: Honest, hardworking, sometimes I do get lazy ;) one woman kind of man, business type but learning to enjoy life. Im 5 4, hold a steady job, got my own place and transportation. I dont smoke but will drink lightly with friends.

You: Real, honest, faithful, and able to hang in there thru thick & thin. Would like to be around my age.

Im conservative, reasonable & fair. Not the typical kind of guy, loves to share, go to the movies, take late night strolls thru walmart, sharing fine moments.

And tell me more about you. What are you like, what you looking for in a LTR or in your guy. Please, change subject to - Ok.


  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Ill make you laugh till you pee, and feel beutiful (Las Cruces) 31yr

Im a 31 year old male seeking a fun, loving, faithfull, sexy, single hottie. She must be indapendant, fun, loves kids, sexy, and humorous, in the age range of 24 to 35. Im all the above looking to share life with that special one. I would like to get married to someone cuz being single and ready to mingle aint me i stay sexy for my woman and satisfy only her. I really would like to find a sexy hot lil single mama that needs a good strong man in her life. I own my own tree service buissns and and currently relocating to a new address in Las Cruces. So hit me up ladies.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Looking For My Partner To Be (Truth or Consequences) 68yr

Hi i am wanting a live in friend partner and maybe will work in to more as time gos on.If it will or not that is all okay too.We will just have to see what comes in time. I would like someone who doesn"t smoke or drink.Now about me i am a hard working man i am 5ft"6" 169lbs blue eyes a average build .What i like. Being with someone doing things with someone .Something be sides SEX there is more in life then that.It will be there if and when it comes to that time.MyI like takeing out my boat to the lake and fishing or just injoying the day with someone.I like animals and gardening or just siting with someone i injoy looking at the TV with.Any time my friend or partner wants to do something or go somewhere we will go and do it.A relationship is 50/50 to make it work don"t you think?If you would like to move to Truth or Consequences too miles from the lake to live and see how it gos let me know.Please send a picture along with some of your likes and dislikes and your Intereste.I would like you to be 35 to 55 years old and please be single.You can allways ask any thing you want to know about me i will be vear honest and know i am not some nut .I am Honest Loyal Sincere and compassionate and Romance.I like to Talking i like to Laugh I have a big Heart and i know how to treat a Lady.So what are you waiting for Email me I am the LONELY one for now.
  • Location: Truth or Consequences
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Feel Lonely.... I need you! (Las Cruces / El Paso) 23yr

Hello There,

I am a 23 years old International Student at NMSU..... I have been here since 9 months and feel pretty lonely..... all friends i have are mostly from out of states and boring or just are all guys.... I am looking to find somebody with who it would possibly lead into something serious or long lasting....... if not, at least friends ;)

About me, i am 5'6" and 160lbs, i workout and i am in good shape..... I have a job at NMSU and my own car..... I am going to movies, sometimes even theaters, dinning, bowling.... but alone.... and it kills me..... I really wanna have a friend who would spend time with me, and i will make sure to treat her very well.....

I am not ugly, neither i am too handsome.... but i got a good personality..... i am honest, i have respect to everyone specially ladies, i never discriminate any race or religion..... above that all i am funny and love to live up the life at its best.....

If you are interested and wanna know more, hit me up with a picture.... and i will be very glad to get back to you with my pic and we could start from there.... NO PIC = NO REPLY

Thanks for reading !!!! hope to hear from u soon ;)
  • Location: Las Cruces / El Paso
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Anyone real? (El Paso West) 29yr

Im sorry, the first time i decided to post was a whole mess, more porn sites that real people answered, im going to be more specific now, i am 29, divorced, great job and one 3yr old daugther that lives with her mom. I would describe myself, with goals, very smart, hispanic, funny and outgoing and handsome. But you tell me lol. What am i looking for? Love but love its found by friendship and spending time together, i would like to meet someone from 20- 29, but really age not that important, just someone smart, with goals and good looking!   Hope this time works. Your pic gets mine i guess! And if it clicks we can text or talk. Preferably family centered! Please send pic i will do too, attraction is important. Hispanic or asian a plus
  • Location: El Paso West
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

any asian woman looking for a partner (Las Cruces) 40yr

I'm a single male 40 yo, intersted in aisan women. I'm 5'7", about 160#, picture upon request. Send me what you are interested in, long term preferred.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

seeking single woman (Truth or Consequences) 25yr

i am 25 years old and single. i am a romantic kind guy. i am a fun loving guy once you get to know me
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  • Location: Truth or Consequences
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Need to fuck now! (Hotel 6) 24yr

Fuck tonight women only 5o5 5i5 9oo6 your pic gets mine!
  • Location: Hotel 6
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Young college guy (Las cruces) 21yr

Just found out I'm gonna be stuck in cruces all summer while all my friends are gonna be gone
I would like to meet someone to spend the summer with to swim hang out have fun
All ages ok races sizes lets just have a fun summer :)
  • Location: Las cruces
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Texting buddy (NMSU) 25yr

I'm bored out of my mind and I need someone interesting to text. A bit conversation about anything from life to ambitions to family to whatever we can talk about.
I just got done with my semester and I have the whole summer off but I would like to make texting friends. I'm a smart guy, I can hold a conversation about anything and I'm also respectful. I don't require a pic to chat. I just need someone to help pass the time when I'm not busy or just say hi before I go to sleep.
Hope to hear from you. My number is 5twozero two16 seven111. I''m not picky about race, body type or personality. Just be yourself and everything will be ok. Cheers!
  • Location: NMSU
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

My estate can be yours. 64yr

I live in Scottsdale, Arizona. Yes, Arizona. Why am I posting an ad in Las Cruces, New Mexico. The answer is somewhat complicated. I have a terminal illness that my doctors have given me only nine or so months to live at the most. In this time I have been told that I have four to six months of being vital. I am divorced with no children and have only one sister who I am not close. Because of this and not having a current girlfriend, I am offering a lady in another city the opportunity to inherit all or most of my estate(some probably will be given to charity).

The reason for the ad in your city is multi fold. First, I do not want anyone reading this ad in my area(Phoenix) as I do not want people I anm acquainted to respond or know of my illness(it could be very embarassing). Second, because of the economy, I thought maybe someone in another city who is either unemployed, has their house foreclosed, or another circumstance might be interested in this intriguing offer. Lastly, it could be an opportunity for someone to start a new life with my estate upon my passing.

There are requiremnts to be able to be considered. There are as follows:


1. You must be able to move to Arizona and live with me.
2. If you have children they either must live away from you or will not take a majority of your time and energy.
3. You must be physically fit.
4. Your weight must be within 15 pounds of the suggested weight for your height and bone structure.(no exceptions).
5. You must be sincere and not a game player. I am and expect the same from you.
6. You must be a good conversationalist. A college degree is not required, but being street smart and fun is required.
7. Be sensual.
8. Like to do different activities. (travel, fine dining, the outdoors, sports, cultural events and being spontaneous).

If you think you qualify and are truly interested, please reply. I will make a decision with three weeks.
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

lets play today (las cruces) 45yr

I am so horney. reply to me and lets get together for some fun. I'll take great care of your pussy!!
  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Only the curious need apply (Las Cruces)

Hey ladies,

Okay, so this isn't your normal I need a girlfriend ad and its not for the prude,
or anyone under 18 so I warn you before you read on...

This is me reaching out to any woman, 18-35
curious enough and passionate enough that is wanting to and willing to have a constant
partner and grow sexually with in a "committed like" kind of relationship,
not necessarily fwb, not necessarily boyfriend girlfriend, but more of something where
we know we can connect intimately on this level and really
enjoy it to a certain degree that would make us even more sexually
intelligent and live out what you think about when you're home alone. Think how a relationship
would be in a romance novel or a really amazing European/french film, one that is so deep and really
focused on the instinct and pleasures of the human body, intimacies with a partner or partners,
pheromones, touch, taste.. We'd meet up whenever we're hot or just spend a day together or night
together or whatever just feels natural.

If you've read this far I assume you'd be interested, just email me and in your
reply put "curious" in the subject. I'm attractive, professional, under 30 and hwp.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Sugar baby wanted:) (Las Cruces) 30yr

Need some help? Like to have fun? Don't want a boyfriend ? I can be your answer. I'm discreet and sexy. Are you too? Let's help eachother have some good times. Full length pix and a little about you gets us started. If you are down let me know by putting DOWN in the title so I know your for real:-)


  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Want To Please (Las Cruces, NM) 45yr

Want to please an adorable woman, age between 18 to 45. I'm very oral, 5' 9" tall, blue eyes, ash blond hair.
  • Location: Las Cruces, NM
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

I was asked when the last time I went on a date was and my answer was (Las Cruces) 24yr

So I was asked that question by my coworker today, and that got me thinking... its been over 3months since I went on date! Just been terribly busy with work that haven't found time for personal matters. Just looking for someone to hang out with... we could do dinner/lunch, movies, drinks.. whatever! About me, I am young professional, new to the las cruces area easy to get along kind of a guy. shoot me an email and i'll write back... picture for picture! and to weed out the spam that is most of craigslist...creatively include "Deming" in the subject line... thanks! hoping to hear from you...
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Must love cuddling haha (LC) 20yr

Basically just looking for someone to be friends with first then more if it happens :) I like cuddling movies going for walks drives playing video games it would be cool of you like playing too haha I'm pretty competitive but friendly not psycho haha. I would like someone who doesn't smoke or drink as I don't buy if you do we can see haha. Send me a pic and a number to text if you're interested, and please put blue in the subject line so I can erase spam. Thanks!
  • Location: LC
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Help with bills? (Las Cruces) 100yr

Are you a young lady that needs help with bills or just want a little extra money to shop and buy nice things? Maybe you just have a fantasy or fetish for older men. I am looking for a younger lady for a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship. I am married but I am serious about what I want. I am looking for a confident young woman who is attractive and sexy. Please be HWP and between the ages of 18 and 32. I dont care if you are single, in a relationship or married. If interested reply with your zip code in the title to weed out spam and include a recent full length pic. No pic no reply!
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

love, laugh, and love somemore (las cruces, NM) 26yr

I am gentle and loving man that is a bit over weight but i am working on sliming down i have been looking for love in all the wrong places and i am in search of a non crazy woman that can turn my constant frown upside down i am 6'1 about 277 pounds my freinds call me the gentle giant with a big heart i am not searching for a one night stand i want a absolute real relationship someone that i can cook with, and who likes a real romantic dinner with candles and rose pedals spread over the table someone who like to cuddle as much as i do and curl up in a blanket with while watching a movie on my couch, i want a woman who is sweet and loving that i could kiss all day long and not get tired of it and a woman who can keep a smile on my face as we lay our heads down to sleep, i am looking for a girl who is open minded about the world around her and willing to try anything once if you know what i mean must be 5'6 or shorter caucasians, asians, or hispanics preferable i dont check my emails enough so if you are the person i described jus text me at 5 seven 5 3 seven 3 7 two 1 seven hope to hear from you soon jus send a text and i will definately send one back and i dont like playing the are u real game yes i am real and yes i am a man and yes i really want love
  • Location: las cruces, NM
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Summer fun (las cruces) 21yr

Just found out I'm gonna be stuck in cruces all summer while all my friends are gonna be gone
I would like to meet someone to spend the summer with to swim hang out have fun
All ages ok races sizes lets just have a fun summer :)


  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Texting (Alamogordo) 42yr

Looking to make new friends, send a way to contact & pics so I know you are for real seven two0six twosixfive23zero
  • Location: Alamogordo
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

DO I MEET YOUR QUALIFICATIONS? (Las Cruces) 38yr

Tell me what you think! If you like what you read please respond with at least 10 things about yourself. PUT THE WORDS "10 THINGS" IN YOUR HEADING REPLY.

Otherwise I won't respond.

Pictures are nice but not required

ABOUT ME:
No facial hair/clean cut
Non smoker
rarely drink
not married
no kids
no police record
I like dogs and cats

I can clean the house
I have values and morals
I am a one woman man
I am a little bit old fashioned
I will hold the door for you
And send you flowers for no particular reason (to your job so your co-workers can see)
I like to kiss!

I have a wide range of interests
I like an unusual kind of music, (no not that)
I like horror/scifi movies
I like to give massages!
I am considered intelligent
I am a good listener
I can be funny
No Drama

I'm looking for a SF, 27-42yo. range, to go out with and have fun with and go from there.

And if your only question in your 1st reply is "let me see your picture" then we are probably not a good match. I am looking
for someone that is attractive on the INSIDE first and the outside second, if you know what I mean.

And I would prefer that you were from Las Cruces

*My post is REAL as should be YOUR reply*

Hope to hear from you
Have a great day!

  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Serious relationship 22yr

I'm tired of all these games with certain women I meet, so here I am trying something new.
I'm 22 currently in school for Computer Science and information technology. My hobbies are playing video games on my free time, working on side projects , paintballing, and hanging out with my friends. I'm a carefree guy, open to try all kinds of things that are fun and exciting to my other half. I recently started to work out more often since school is just finishing up, not saying I'm a big guy just saying I could use a workout in my eyes. Now I'm a lil shallow and I hit admitting it but I prefer to be honost about it instead off getting all these emails but I'd like the person to have an average shape not overweight by a hundred pounds but like 30 like myself and trying to work it off so I can have a workout partner.
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Looking for daytime fun (Las cruces) 45yr

Looking for a fun woman that would like to get together for some daytime playing. I'm available 9 to 5, but pick up my little girl at 5. I'm 6'2", blue eyes, professional, and women say I'm handsome. You have to host. If you want a guy that will do anything you want except men., reply with a pic, and you'll get mine. NO MEN. If you are going to ask me to sign up on a pay dating site, please don't bother. Lets hook up!
  • Location: Las cruces
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

cut nice guy (alamogordo) 24yr

I am hispanic 170 pounds. I have a job and like to read and play games.
I wanna meet s girl either hispanic or white. Someone skinny but not too skinny
And someone who is out going.

I hope to hear from someone just on email topic put i wanna hangout

  • Location: alamogordo
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Athletic male looking for exercise or hangout friend (Las Cruces) 29yr

Hi all :)
I am 29 and new here to Cruces so I am mainly just looking for friends but for some reason I get a long better with females.. I am 5'8, white/hispanic, and very athletic. I have a sports bike and like going for rides and I also have jet skis because I love the lake. I have a lot of hobbies so it's hard to list them all but I like shopping, hiking, watching movies, going to parks, some video games, ocassional bars/clubs and other random things :) I am in school and also work at a job I love and I like being around other people that are motivated as well. We can email, text, or whatever but please email me with a little info about yourself and your pic will get mine :) please put favorite color in subject line so i know you are real
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

looking 4 all nighter girl - m4w (cruses) 43yr

Looking 4 a cuddling contestant-u got yor cuddle on?
  • Location: cruses
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Geeks need only apply (lc/ep) 27yr

Have you ever been to a Con? Have you ever thought that you could've made a great companion for the Doctor? Ever wanted a sci-fi themed wedding? Ever people watched in your spare time just because your good at it? Life's too short and regularly annoying not to enjoy the company of those who share your interests, problem is that this area is not very condusive to those interests. I'm a nerd, a geek, and a social reject in many senses and am proud of it, I wear my sci-fi costumes to work, sport my gamer based tattoos, and have a knack for the sarcastic, I believe that no matter how much a person feels complete they should always want more, more out of their lives, more from their imagination and thats the kind of person I can never find. I don't want someone who accepts my geeky lifestyle but embraces it, someone who enjoys a good anime, a good book, and even a good rock concert or sci-fi con. I want someone who's independent, someone who has her own interests we can share and explore together. Age and race are not important, personality is the most important thing I'm looking for, though if your cute hottie it certainly doesnt hurt lol.

5'8', athletic military build, tattoos, no piercings, any more and you'll have to send a pic first, email conversation is a must before going any further.
  • Location: lc/ep
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

27 and looking for something to last (las cruces) 27yr

I am not sure how this online thing works when looking for a woman. I am 5'3" white country boy who is a little city but mostly country. I am not the perfect man and I know I have faults just like anybody. I have red hair, a couple tattoos, I do smoke, drink socially. I am not going to put restrictions on what im looking for just a real sweetheart who can let loose and have fun. If you wanna know more feel free to message me about anything. Btw if you wanna see pictures they are all on my phone.
  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

FWB N MAYBE SOMETHING MORE (las Cruces ) 20yr

Hello there ladies me im attractive n very fit. N athletic im looking for a girl who will be willing to meet up whenever n wherever to have some NSA. Fun so hit me up with a message ur pic gets my pic :)
  • Location: las Cruces
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

lets go out. (Alamo. Las cruces.) 22yr

I'm new here and living in such a Podunk town its hard to meet people.
I'm just looking for someone to hang out with maybe more if it comes to it.

me: 5'10. Blond. Blue eyed. Some tattoos. Average figure.

I'm not a weirdo or a creep. You must not be either.

put one of your hobbies in the subject line so I know you are real.
  • Location: Alamo. Las cruces.
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

RE:Any travelers or adventurers? - 27 (LC) 30yr

Has anyone else noticed that the age of this guy has ranged anywhere from 25 to 30?
He's really a lot closer to being 31.
Be careful ladies.
  • Location: LC
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

busco dama para romance no solosex (las cruces) 42yr

bien parecido activo divertido nuevo en las cruces me gusta el area pero no conosco busco muchacha joven
me muestre lo bonito de las cruces..dejame tu foto y tel..pon romance en tu respuesta 18-45 en realidad
busco afinidad y no kiero una noche no drogas tomo ocasional recuerda poner romance..
  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

Seek cute marriage minded bride (Tx)

Are you an attractive marriage minded younger lady? I am an older SWM who wishes to meet a slim younger marriage minded lady willing to relocate. Letter and photo appreciated.


  • Location: Tx
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

Moving to Las Cruces (Las Cruces) 35yr

SWM looking at moving to Las Cruces from the east coast. Interested in hearing if this is a good place for a single fun athletic professional.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 5th, 2012

ARE YOU BOARD?????? (NMSU)

im board here in Las Cruces and looking to have some fun this weekend so we can go out and do stuff, im single guy, grad student in NMSU so if u r board and u want to go out just email me with pic plz and put in subject line"fun"
  • Location: NMSU
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

I LOVE CAREER WOMEN! (Las Cruces) 34yr

Hi. Im a single unattached muscular white male. I'm not complicated. I have a good job. I work out. I have my toys, and I have a house. I don't need anyone to "take care of me" I am looking for a career oriented woman to have a relationship with. Sure I would like her to be attractive. I am attractive, but more importantly, I like women who are in their mid to late thirties because they are more mature and their priorities have shifted. I dont smother, and if given the opportunity i can show you that there are men of substance around here. Thanks for reading. :)
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

dance partner needed (Las Cruces, Alamogordo) 50yr

Looking for a dance partner for tonight. If you like to dance to Clay Mac, and your up for it , let me know. And a pic would sure be nice. Thanks for reading this post.
  • Location: Las Cruces, Alamogordo
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

hmm (Alamo, cruces ) 22yr

I'm 22 blonde hair blue eyes.
drug free, social drinker and non smoker
I'm cool with all kinds of people, do what you do I don't judge.
I'm kind of a nerd but you wouldn't know it by looking at me.
I have a job and my own car, you should at least have a job. I don't mind picking you up but I'm not a a sugar daddy.
if you want to know message me, I will send a picture in my first reply, all I ask is your first message tells me about yourself.

  • Location: Alamo, cruces
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Posted: May 3rd, 2012

young lady 18-24 - m4w (Las Cruces NM)

Hi.

My guy friends are too boring. So, Im looking for a girl to hang out with. And I am single so we can take it to a deeper level if you want to. Im going to keep this simple for now. reply and send me an email, and a pic if you want to (looks are not that important to me) with a number so we can txt and find out more about eachother. thanks : )


looks not that important, but we both have to click. Im just looking for a cool girl who is not afraid of exploring her sexuality. be open and willing to try things and you are fascinated by all kinds of things.

You can also email me directly:

tonybalazano at yahoo (dot) com
  • Location: Las Cruces NM
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Posted: May 2nd, 2012

lets have some fun!

Looking for an open minded woman that is available to have some nsa daytime fun. Have to pick up daughter at 5, so i'm available from 9 to 5. I'm tall, slim, professional. Send me a pic and i'll do the same
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Posted: May 2nd, 2012

Looking for daytime fun (Las cruces) 45yr

Looking for a fun woman that would like to get together for some daytime playing. I'm available 9 to 5, but pick up my little girl at 5. I'm 6'2", blue eyes, professional, and women say I'm handsome. You have to host. If you want a guy that will do anything you want except men., reply with a pic, and you'll get mine. NO MEN. If you are going to ask me to sign up on a pay dating site, please don't bother. Lets hook up!
  • Location: Las cruces
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Posted: May 2nd, 2012

looking for nice older woman (Las Cruces) 22yr

tired of these younger girls, i just want an older woman to take care of me :)
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: May 1st, 2012

Married for Married.....a discreet classy lover...passion anyone? (lc) 49yr

Discreet attractive, ddf, hwp man looking for a woman. Looking for someone who needs a safe regular affair with some passion. Please be attractive and hwp..... Put "classy with needs" in the ref line. not trying to break up a marriage.... just something supplemental.......... thanks
  • Location: lc
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Posted: Apr 30th, 2012

For JLS | 1 year later (Obscured by Clouds)

JLS:

It has been a year since we last spoke. I wish you love, beauty, and pleasure.

***

The Morning After

(Puts a record on: The Pharcyde's "Passin me By")

All I could think of was the past 24 hours. That infinite pleasure between Warhol's Dracula (or was it Frankenstein?) and your best oatmeal breakfast. Ever.

I took a picture of you - you in your side glance smile with the sun in your eyes, and I will never forget your cute fascination with tea, telling me "I get into these kinds of things" - kettles, loose leaves, and film - oh yes. (I can never see movies the same way again.)

I will never forget you walking, in the nude, towards that tiny living room and me - heart racing and already smitten - waiting for you to rush back so we could talk more about watching our very first sun rise. And we did.

The contingency of it all - the chance to be there and see you the night before. ME: randomly visiting and between career moves. YOU: fresh into graduate school with the most beautiful voice and smile. As much as we clashed, I wouldn't have traded it for anything.

Everything has changed in your wake; I am alive to what pleasure can do and what love really should be like. In the end, it's all that we really are: a mix of those moments between the hard work and tragedy of living short lives.

I thank you for everything and for changing my life for the better. (Poems shouldn't end this way, yes?)

(Takes the record off and smiles with a mind full of good memories that will always trump the bad.)

***

J
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Posted: Apr 30th, 2012

Friends with benefits? Anyone? (Las Cruces) 20yr

I can't believe how hard it is to find someone like-minded.
I tried posting in casual encounters but that's not my crowd. It's hard to explain; I'm not looking for someone to have sex with. I'm only looking for someone to fool around with, but I want to be able to be friends with that person! You know, like clothing optional friends.
I'm twenty years old and nerdy. If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, please email me. We could all use something to help clear our minds, especially with finals coming up!!!
If you're interested please put your favorite color in the title.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 29th, 2012

Seeking (las cruces) 21yr

Im looking for a relationship, havent been in one in a while, im just looking for the right one, im 6'1, a little chubby , im shy at first, but once i get to kno you i talk more, , i dont belive in cheating, and i dont like it done to me., so if your interested email me,
  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: Apr 29th, 2012

gettin to know you (alamo) 22yr

I'm 22 yeas old, 6 ft, 180 lbs. white, military. have a job(obvisouly) a car. my life is pretty much set up just missing one thing and it could be you. (haha cheesy i know). ive got a pretty good sense of humor. i enjoy being out doors and all that stuff. riding motorcycles. im into horror movies and most types of music (not rap tho.. its kinda just annoying). im down to earth and chill about most things, and due to my job i have a pretty high tolerance to stupidity and annoying people. i prefer white to light skinned women but hey, if you think we will get along dont let that stop you from replying. you also must be drug free and good hygiene. well if you have any questions please reply and add a little bit about your self. pictures are more likely to get a reply and put any car make and model in the subject to help me know if its spam or not.

  • Location: alamo
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Posted: Apr 29th, 2012

Mellow guy seeks good times (lc) 24yr


My life is complicated enough; all I'm looking for is suggestions for simplification. Maybe I could help you out too.

Coffee+DVDS= happiness

Put "movies" in the subject line-
  • Location: lc
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Posted: Apr 27th, 2012

lets have some drinks (las cruces) 43yr

Just want to have drinks with a woman. I am looking for friends first and maybe if the chemistry is right we can become more than friends. I like to party, 420 friendly. If you just want to have some drinks and meet someone new, let's take a chance. Hit pic to get mine. Have a great one!
  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

Serious relationship only (Las Cruces) 51yr

I am 51 years old, in excellent shape, divorced, semi-retired, no baggage.

I am interested in meeting a mature, serious lady for friendship and a possible long-term relationship.

You must be adventurous, dynamic, willing to travel and explore new places.

Please include your picture(s) in your reply.



  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

need a lil fun in my life - m4w (las cruces NM) 22yr

Lookin for a good time. no strings attached going to bars staying in ;) im up for just about anything
  • Location: las cruces NM
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Posted: Apr 25th, 2012

where are u??? (LCNM/EPTX) 28yr

It's funny how some girls keep complaining/saying where's the good men??? but when someone that is worth their time and love tries to get close to them simply run away, because or at least that's what you girls say... You are afraid of falling in love and go back to the same shit/tugs that you girls were running away/trying to avoid in first place.... If this is you, plz do yourself and me a favor and don't waist your or my time!!!

Now if you are looking for a serious relationship, possibly a LTR plz continue to read this add.

I am 28 years old and I'm not very good at describing myself bet here I go....

I'm outgoing, and loyal to my believes, like to go to the movies, concerts, museums, dancing and drink once in a while (mostly socially but not very often) like to travel and in fact I do it a lot because of my job...

Don't do drugs so I'm hoping you don't either, I'm drama free, consider myself to romantic and if on a relationship I like to give 100% to the other person hopping to get the same in return, I like it when that special someone push me to make the best of me the same way I would do it for her.

Don't have kids but definitely want them in the future and if you have already have a kid or two I'm ok with that.

A walk in the park, a romantic dinner or just a night in cuddling and watching a movie are thing that will always be on the menu!!!

The last movie that I watch was THE HUNGER GAMES and a song that I like would be I DONT WANT TO MISS A THING from AEROSMITH but I like mostly all kinds of music both English and Spanish.

I'm a big guy but working on that so if that's just not for you I can still be just be a good friend (or not and you can move to the next add)... sorry but it is what it is and I know that just the fact of me mentioning it will turn away more than one... (So wish you luck on finding what you want)

YOU: Plz have some goals in life, school, work, family or something that you are really interested in and you are pursuing... as far as looks as far as looks I'm not very pikey... lol as long as you put the time and effort to look good and feel good about yourself, like I mentioned before I'm working on getting back in shape so a gym partner would be nice but not a must...

If you still reading and think we may have something in common or sounds interesting for you plz send me a msg and tell me a little bit about you, let's be friends and see where this take us... Your pic will get mine, to avoid spam put in the subject line your eyes color, age and favorite food.

Anything else you want to know just ask and if you're ok send me your phone number and I'll text you back....
  • Location: LCNM/EPTX
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Posted: Apr 25th, 2012

Love to fine some to ride with me (Alamo) 48yr

Need a sweet Lady to enjoy a ride now and then with me as My wife can't ride any more and I do enjoy going for day ride's so it will be nice to hook up with a clean sweet Lady that enjoys riding on back of my bike. So if your out there and are for real send a pic and what you enjoy doing and I will get back with you with my pic and Ph #. Hope to be talking and Riding soon have a nice day sweetie.
  • Location: Alamo
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Posted: Apr 25th, 2012

seeking coffee or drinks with older woman (Las Cruces) 26yr

Hi y'all
my name is Joe, I am really into older woman. I'll be honest mature woman drive me crazy, but I am really shy around them and afraid of trying to make the moves on them so I hope this places works for me, however I rather date one between the ages of 40 and over so please no one younger then this age requirements.
Thank you

  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

CLEAN CUT male seeking companionship (onate area) 24yr

im jay im 24 respectable clean cut male looking to find a best friend and see how far it goes. im open to race and age as long as i can stare into your eyes without a problem. i work and secured so not a bum. looking for something special and hopefully soon. be real put companionship in the subject line to weed out spam. ill send you a pic as long as i recieve one first or will NOT reply.
  • Location: onate area
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

Country boy (Silver City) 24yr

I just moved to Silver City and am looking for friends, possibly more if we get along well. I love being outdoors. I own a dirtbike and ride it alot, plus I go camping, hiking, rock climbing, and rappelling. Pretty much if it's outside, I'll do it. :) I enjoy sitting down and watching a movie as well and occasionally play video games. I'm very energetic and usually go all out during the day, then calm down in the evening to do something inside. I'm 6'1" and 200 lbs. I have a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor and am pretty easy to get along with. Love having a good time just hanging out doing spur of the moment things.

Interested in a girl that would have some of the same interests, not neccessarily all of them though. :) Must be shorter than me. Preferably 20-25 and not overweight. Thanks for looking!
  • Location: Silver City
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

Girlfriend? (Las Cruces) 25yr

Any girls needing a guy in their life?
I could use a little cutie in my life..

18-35 please, I'm white if that makes a difference to you
attractive, professional, business owner, sane, not a douche.

<3
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

crossdressers (Las Cruces) 44yr

I am a 44 yr old crossdresser. Am seeking a relationship with another crossdresser. I want to get together and dress up, maybe have a relationship.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

Hang with me my apt pool? (Las Cruces) 25yr

Hi ladies,

I can't believe it's come to posting an ad on craigslist but I'm in need
of a lady friend or two that are down to earth, attractive and cool that would
like to become friends and pool side with me, or just hang out period. Its pretty
horrible being my age in this town and trying to meet people,
especially when you don't bar hop every night. I'm a very calm, laid back guy,
very down to earth and intelligent, I'm white, good looking, and live alone :(
I actually prefer hanging out with a group of girls than a group of guys,
I'm not gay, women's company is more enjoyable and stimulating than a bunch of
dude bros.

SO with that said, is there anyone that would want to hang out in this forsaken
desert land? Send me an email with POOLSIDE in the subject of your reply message.
Thanks
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

I want to be a cuckold in a relationship (Alamogordo) 41yr

I am a single white male. I am 41 years old with a good job. I am very creative and intelligent. I am masculine in my everyday life but my penis size is not so masculine. I am seeking a long term relationship with a female that is any age, weight or race. The only prequisite is that you like black black cock, whether you have had one or not. I want to treat my girl to the best bulls that can be found, to do the job that I cannot. Don't get me wrong, I love sex; but my "girl" deserves the best. I want to give her the freedom to cheat on me whenever she feels like. She will have a strong, loving and secure relationship and a loyal, supportive man. I want someone that will take this seriously and jump into this lifestyle completely. This will not rule our lives. You will be appreciated and respected for your decisions and never be made to feel like a slut. You should not contact me if you are not sure of yourself. Please send a picture and put a name of a car in the subject line if you have read this. I am also on yahoo messy alamogordo_cuckold
  • Location: Alamogordo
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Want To Be My Secret? - m4w (Las Cruces- *NMSU*) 29yr

Want to be the reason for the smile when people want to know where I was last nite? Want to be the reason why I'm acting differently than usual? Im not married, or even in a relationship, but I do love secrets. I'm more than willing to keep any secrets you have!
  • Location: Las Cruces- *NMSU*
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Chemistry Not Words (Telshor - Mall ) 32yr

What I'm looking for is something that I can't put into words. I'd like to find someone that I can meet, get to know and see what develops. I don't know if I'm looking for a long-term relationship or a casual date because once two people meet it's up to the chemistry and the spark from there. Yes, I am open to something long term but if we meet and it only resulted in an evening out of the house and good dinner that's fine with me. I'm just looking for no pressure and no expectations, take each other as we are and see if there's something. And that's why I'm here - I've given up on other dating sites because I'm not looking to sleep with someone in the first hour, I'm also not looking forward to waiting till marriage! Just want a nice, mature relationship that's allowed to grow without constantly questioning if I'm doing the right thing. Who knows, maybe we can just IM or TXT if that'd make you more comfortable, whatever someone considers to be "normal" these days ;)
  • Location: Telshor - Mall
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Tease and Flirt (Las Cruces) 33yr

I'm at a boring job and would like to take my mind away for a little while by flirting and teasing someone fun who isn't looking for more than playing the texting game for now. Have no problems getting to know someone and finding out what your interests are what you like. I'd prefer that actually. Id like to make this as close to *real* as possible without it being so.........
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Not Appreciated. - m4w (Mountain View ) 33yr

Tonight I'm looking for someone that is in the same mess I'm in. Tired of the boredom of doing the same thing day after day and looking to spice up their lives a little bit. People that know me would never believe that I'm trying something this bold but I guess that why I want to do it. Tired of not being appreciated and not appreciating anything in return. Not looking to change my life, just look to FINALLY have some secrets. Yes Im real, Mayfield was chosen the #1 high in the state in todays newspapers.
  • Location: Mountain View
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Take A Chance? - m4w (University / Valley ) 32yr

Looking for something I can't put into words. Don't know what I want because I won't know what it is till it's here. Hate pressure, hate expectations. Want to get to learn somebody again. Want to have someone I can txt when I see something funny. Want someone who will call me when they want to talk about their day. I've been told that the feeling is love but I'm not sure. I'm willing to find out....
  • Location: University / Valley
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

tired of lying (Las Cruces) 31yr

Sometimes you fall in love and get hurt. You do all the things right, you try to be the best you can, and you still end up losing. What's happens from there? For me it was pretending to be happy, pretending I didn't care, pretending that I was just as happy out of love as I was in it. I'm tired of lying to myself, ready to move on, ready to get to know someone again. Not sure what I'm looking for, don't know if this is going to work, or ever get read, but I'm tired of not trying. Can you understand someone who wants to move slow? Not waste each others time? And most importantly...be HONEST
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Open Letter To You (Las Cruces ) 32yr

I'm writing this letter hoping that it reaches the right person.

I'm not from the area and was sent here for work. I do love the scenery and the weather but have found it hard to meet people. I'm not sure what I'm looking for but I'd like to get to know someone who is interested in more than just endless flirting emails without any hope for things to progress. When you're in a town you don't like with a life you're starting to not be so crazy about you want to reach out. Yes I like to be physical in a relationship, I love to touch and be touched, but I also like to talk and I like to learn and I like to laugh. If you're like me, in-between not wanting to get married and not wanting to be treated like something cheap...please write me back. Hope to hear from you.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Try & Forget - m4w (By Mountain View ) 30yr

Long time girlfriend left to pursue a career. Looking for a fun night with a fun woman to forget about her and get some self esteem back. Dont care what you look as long as long as you can keep me entertained. Drug / Disease free please! Your pic for mine...
  • Location: By Mountain View
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Just one date (Near Campus) 35yr

I am just looking for someone to take out, no strings, dinner, a movie, maybe a drink. If we hit it off, then cool, if not then oh well. put "kjsaidht" in the subject line to weed out spam. Your picture gets mine
  • Location: Near Campus
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

does this really work? (lc) 39yr

Don't really have time for bar flies or girls looking for a sugar daddy. What I'm looking for is something real, someone I can converse with share my day with. A woman that is outgoing. A woman with a lot of class but that is not afraid too let loose and relax. Someone who's interesting and keeps the relationship interesting and keeps me wanting more of you. And above all someone who is not afraid to live life without regrets. now about me. I'm Hispanic, career oriented, well mannered , respectful type of man. I know how a woman should be treated and will do my best to always keep a smile on your face. I love to learn new thing about you and show you how important you are to me by keeping you involved in my life. I take care of my appearance and stay fit so you like what you see and I would like for my partner to feel the same way about herself. I want a strong, classy, sexy, unbreakable relationship. I know it sounds impossible and a lot to ask for but, I know I have so much to offer someone special so I can only expect the same. Thank you and hopefully you're out there somewhere .

  • Location: lc
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Looking for the one (Alamogordo) 27yr

Hello..I am 27 In the Air Force been in for 9 years...I own 3 cars...A 95 Buick Skylark, a 2005 ford focus, and a 2012 chevy cruise...I am looking for just ne woman...just one...A woman who want a no bullshit relationship...Only serious women please hit me up and i will send you my number
  • Location: Alamogordo
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Posted: Apr 22nd, 2012

Moving to Las Cruces (Las Cruces) 35yr

SWM looking at moving to Las Cruces from the east coast. Interested in hearing if this is a good place for a single professional.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 21st, 2012

Something serious. how about lunch? (las cruces) 20yr

I'm 20 years old. Full time student and I also work. I'd like to find a girl that would like to be friends then maybe something more serious later. I'm 5'8 190 pounds. Very respectful and caring. Send a pic I'll send you mine
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Posted: Apr 21st, 2012

Trying To Figure It Out! (Las Cruces) 43yr

I do not know what I am in search of. I do want a Woman to spend some time with. I am for real and would like a companion to spend my time off with. I like to chill and I like to Party and have a good time. Want to meet someone who feels the same as I do. Email me back and lets conversate some and get to know each other better.
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Posted: Apr 21st, 2012

Let's Hang out (Las Cruces, New Mexico) 32yr

hello ladies 32 male single white male from Las Cruces Looking to hang out tonight. go to dinner and a movie or dancing or whatever you would like to do.

  • Location: Las Cruces, New Mexico
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

need a girl in my life (las cruces) 27yr

hey there...im a 27 year old white dude who is in need of a special someone...i haven't been in a real relationship for a long time, and i miss it very much...im not one who plays games or takes advantage of anyone...i love to play the guitar and listen to music...it does something to my soul that just makes me better...if my special someone is reading this, email me...i cant wait to get to know you, bye...write special in the subject line...
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

dwm seeking attractive bbw (LC) 41yr

im an attractive wm , divorced , non smoker , no drugs , I work ful time 4 the state and travel some to abq , Santa Fe on business so not ALWAYS here , but like to have a lady to come home to. Im looking to take things slow but also seeking a possible relationship should our friendship go in that direction.(im NOT looking for a casual hook up or FWB , sorry)
I like most sports , but not a fanatic about watching sports all day on tv or anything like that .I like going out to dinner , walks , movies. im a social drinker , I love a good margarita with my plate of tacos or a cold beer on occasion but not a heavy drinker.I like to just spend a lazy day doing nothing at home or getting up early for a day trip to the mountains , and a pit stop at the cassino.
I work the regular 40 hour grind, however sometimes do work OT (have to pay those bills somehow)
I prefer a white or hispanic "fluffy" lady , not really into the barbie type. Im a pretty average guy ,have a goatee , med length hair , pretty casual sort of guy for the most part. im not big on "high fashion or the GQ look , sorry if thats what you are looking for then im not your type of guy. I have my own home , car , looking for a woman whos employed , semi-educated, respectful , and all that goes along with that.
If you want know more , then tell me about yourself , more than the one liner , I WILL delete those kinds of replies. Keep it real as BS types of replies will get deleted.
A pic , even if just a body shot 4 now would sure be nice , but we can e mail some 1st and go from there. If we seem to be at least a semi match , then progress from there.
thanks and have a good day

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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

whats goin on tonight (Ft Bliss) 22yr

ladies hmu with what there is to do tonight jus got back in town need someone to hang out with. email me for the number thanx
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

Something a bit country 24yr

Hey yall, looking for a cute girl to have some fun with as this school year comes to an end.

About me, im taller, good looking, going to NMSU and working a few jobs.

If your down to go out dancing or have dinner some time let me know!
Put your favorite singer / band in your title!
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

Are you out there ? (Las Cruces / El Paso) 23yr

Hi There !

I am 23 years old, single and looking for a GF, FWB or something long-lasting....

About me : I am out of state student in NMSU, I have a job and my own car.... I am 5'6" and 165lbs average shaped.... I am respectful, responsible, honest, have a great sense of humor, love to enjoy the life..... movies, outgoing, long-drives, etc....

Please be over 18 and below 30..... race, height and weight doesn't matter (not too overweighted).... Also please be drama-free, and drug free....

We can start as friends or however you would be comfortable with..... NO PIC = NO REPLY, i will send you my pic as soon as I get your email.... Hope to hear from you soon, I am sure you are out there !!!!
  • Location: Las Cruces / El Paso
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Posted: Apr 17th, 2012

seeking single woman (Truth or Consequences) 25yr

im 25 years old and seeking a single woman
  • Location: Truth or Consequences
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Posted: Apr 16th, 2012

u likey long hair&tattoos (lascruces) 50yr

If U like long haired tattoed sweet bad boys read on im very unique got a great persoality funny witty and charming ,im a artist moter head hessian type biker those who know me say im good people kind honest charmin sweet friendly outgoing smart talented &creative ooh and so much more im 50 but lookin my early fortys kinda short [as if i care stocky with a long straberry blond mane and soft longish beard a bit of a carecter as well as a lone wolf l need abest friend a sweet heart to share my life with some one .to show me life in lame cruces doesnt total y suc and to fill this hole in my heart .some one pretty ,nice ,caring and unjudgmental whos kindas got her act together as far as job or career ¬whos not into bar thing.im not like most men all losers liers and fakes mindless sheep i dont watch sports with the fellas yuc rather train mice to sail ,snails to race or even paint porcupines purple, im more in to snuggling up at home and watching a movies with that specail one maybe sit a talk im a real talker and great listener or go riding ,off roading ,exploring .I ,i allway treat women as a lady should be only with kindnes caring honest dignity and respect ive never had kids and not big on them[maybe if i had my own it'd be differnt] so prefer some one without them, liveing at hom.e also never married sadly imust say. maybe i will ye,t time only knows .?also into riding, racing ,off roading books, movies the fay .wicca the paramormal magical&mystical stuff im a good artist and cook too ok wrote a book belive me i could go on like i said therse alot to my laid back pretty mellow ol self lif intrigied please drop me aline and picture ill do same . DISCLAIMEr sorry no big or.fat or .black[dont breed outside my species] or obama loving loving dems need reply sorry im tea party and i love my country and have a big mouth about thing i care about 1 last thing I smoke ,hardley drink any more ANd have my own messy house i share with asmall pride of free range cats . guess im turning into one of those crazy olcat ladys think.. NOT.. cats r just cool they k now how to live,,MENTION code words;;purple pocupines to show u r real and read my book..otherwise no reply

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Posted: Apr 14th, 2012

Companion-girlfriend and salary (W TX)


I am an older never married white christian male with no baggage. I wish to meet a mariage minded white christian lady under 34 who is slender, attractive to me, Ok with an older man in her life and pets in the home. I prefer a lady who does not smoke, use illegal drugs or have naked pics all over the internet. I also may be entitled to have someone come in and help with meals and cleaning and be paid for helping me so the lady may also have a job and salary.



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Posted: Apr 14th, 2012

Military Man in search of a Woman w/benefits... (Las Cruces) 34yr

Male loves the women & I will be no drama! Looking for a f&$k buddy NOW as well as yours real soon! Will email you for conversation once you have reached me, I do not discriminate ladies!!!
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 13th, 2012