Men Seeking Women

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Men looking in Eugene

I must be in the minority with this town (Eugene) 32yr

So dating in this area sucks. Our clubs are just college kids and social events are mostly hippies. I work full time and keep myself busy and would like if you did as well.
Age Is something I wont judge on because I've had good relationships with much younger and older women. I like a little bit of nerdiness with my girls, don't be too serious and if you have a dark sense of humor even better. Enjoy music? Cuddling up at movies or having a cocktail and being synical sound good? This is way too long I know but to sum it up. 6 feet tall, handsome, sweet with a horribly naughty side and just looking to chit chat and see what happens. " blah" in subject or your reply goes to spam.

  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

The right woman desired. (Eugene & Springfield) 49yr

An Intelligent girlfriend who enjoys conversation, likes the outdoors, has a sense of adventure and is independent (she doesn't need a man around all the time but enjoys him when he's there), HWP.

I'm solvent, emotionally mature,, work out regularly, affectionate, can hold up my end of a conversation . LTR is what I'd like.

Important--put " Desire" in the subject line to separate you note from the spam. Spring rains arrived again on Monday.


  • Location: Eugene & Springfield
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

looking for my 4x4 lover (lane) 39yr

I love to go wheeling and would love to meet a woman who can enjoy it as much as me I live out of town have my own place and own several 4x4's and 4 wheelers. I am a bit country and a bit metal love live music I am average build 5'11" and I have never meet anyone online but sounds fun I am not to picky about looks for me I am looking for a great personality. 4:20 is fine but no hard drugs hope to hear from someone fun ;o)
  • Location: lane
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

date and romance (Eugene) 53yr

Where are all the great girls. are all the women on craigslist looking for business hookups? If so then I am not your guy. Good luck though! just looking for a great girl to be with that is not overbearing. Must be fit or close to it. don't smoke and is not on depression medication. Like coffee and can dream big. Great things are there for the taking. I like bikinis and surf boards. I like business oriented women. Look to what you can do and not to what you cannot do. If you understand this statement then we can talk. Ernest
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

cosplay/fantasy (SW Eugene) 40yr

I'm an attractive, physically fit, youthful looking male, looking for a younger girl with imagination, who craves wild experiences, to indulge some fantasies:
anime, hero, fetish, dress up, cosplay, light bondage, rope playetc. Please be a NERD and at least a little pale or pudgy.
I'm totally clean, respectful and disease free, have never done/will never do any I.V. drugs
maybe you just want to email and text back and forth a bit first, thats OK if you're really into meeting later
your pic gets mine, HURRY UP!
  • Location: SW Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

seeking love and friendship (Cottage Grove) 39yr

HI,

I am seeking a great woman for this great guy here. Lately it's been hard to find such a person since all the people on craigslist seem to be spam for fakes, I do know that there are real people out there looking. I've met some before.

A little bit about this guy here. He is great company friendly, has a good sence of humor. He enjoy lots of different activities including movies, music, walks in the park, bicycle rides and trips to the coast. He enjoys camping and fishing, taking little hikes. He does crafts too.

His personality can be a bit quirky but he has an excellent heart. He is loyal, trusting, trustworthy, responsible. Has his own place and a good job, has a car and makes his own money. Enjoys coffee all day long.

If you are interested in getting to know him, please feel free to send a message with a picture and he will get back to you as soon as possible. He is a local to Eugene and Springfield too. Please nobody under 29 or over 46.

Take care
  • Location: Cottage Grove
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

All the beautiful women are what makes Eugene great (Eugene and Springfield ) 25yr

What I am looking for is casual fun and companionship. I smoke herb so you must at least not mind someone smoking herb. I don't like the stress and drama of relationships. I'm 100% drama free so you must be also. I love pretty much anything outdoors especially when we have some awesome weather like we've been having in eugene. If you want to meet up over coffee or drinks and see where things go from there email me. Please put the weather for the day you email me for Eugene in the subject line so I know you're not a bot or spam
  • Location: Eugene and Springfield
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Charming and Athletic (Eugene) 30yr

I'm fun, daring, and adventurous and seek a woman who likes to have fun! Let me buy you a drink and we can see where this goes! I'm 5'10, athletic and in good shape. Let's meet up! Send me a pic and I'll send one back!
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Giving this a try... (Eugene) 50yr

Hello, I am an attractive man, over 50 in search of a casual relationship that includes sex that can be ongoing. I am looking for a woman, preferably an over 40 non-smoker who can communicate intelligently, and who is interested in a non-committed sexual relationship. I am not looking for a beauty queen, in fact quite the opposite, but I do need to find you attractive mentally and physically, please. . . no large women (BBW's). First an email or two, then perhaps coffee, and then. . .? I AM married, so this HAS to be an extremely discrete affair, if it happens. ....you can be married or single, and must be drug and disease free. You must be available during the day, no weekends.

I am attempting this ad in hopes of an honest reply. Please put "RE: giving this a try" in your subject line. If you are located a few miles out of Eugene it is a plus, but certainly not necessary. I don't mind travel within 50 miles or so. Let's chat if you're interested, I am Caucasian, but your race is unimportant. Again, I do want to emphasize the importance of discretion, it's a must.

Please respond by email, or you can post an ad in the "women looking for men" category, with contact instructions. Again, just put the key works "RE: giving this a try" in the subject line. I do feel that the right woman "YOU" are out there somewhere, I just hope we can connect.

  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

I want a girl who's naughty & fun! (Eugene/Salem & surrounding areas) 36yr

Hello ladies! First of all, my ad is 100% honest and completely out in the open because if you start off lying about yourself or keeping everything a secret, you're guaranteed to attract the wrong person. They will just fall for who you're pretending to be but when they find out who you really are, they won't like you anymore! The only way you'll ever find your match is if they can see your true colors right off the bat. Secondly, let's be different from everyone else on here and try to have an actual conversation instead of sending these little emails here and there and then disappearing for a week. That serves absolutely no purpose!

With those things aside, here's what I'm looking for...

I really miss having love, companionship & affection in my life and I want a normal relationship like most everyone else. The only difference is, I want it to be with a girl who will appreciate the fact that I won't cheat on her or desire any other women but I'll let her enjoy another man when she wants to! I had a girlfriend a while back who corrupted me and now I'll never be the same! Her biggest fantasy was to get it on with a guy while her man watched So I decided to make her wish come true because I wanted her to be happy and I learned a couple of things about myself in the process. That sharing my lady really turns me on and that I can still love and respect her afterwards! Nothing changes. I have broken this profile up in two separate categories. The first part focuses on the relationship aspect of things and the second part targets what I'm looking for sexually. If you have a few minutes, read it over and let me know what you think!

These are my top 2 relationship qualities...

#1. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and my ability to truly love someone is something that no one has been able to match yet! All it takes is one person to completely change your life and bring happiness into the picture so when I commit to my partner, I go all the way with it but then I find myself standing alone at the finish line. A lot of people are afraid of their own emotions and get scared when they start to feel vulnerable. Then it isn't long before they become destructive and screw things up so they can go back to a "comfort zone". Not me. I have no fear of love and I realize that when it's the real thing, it's too powerful to control. That's what makes it so wonderful & exciting!

#2. I'm a communicator and I don't believe that time automatically heals things or that "kissing and making up" is the final answer either. Problem solving is and it's the single most important attribute that you can bring into a relationship. If you can't work through one simple disagreement, you'll never make it as a couple. You have to be able to sit down eye to eye and discuss your issues until you can reach a solution. Then both people have to keep their word and follow through with their end of the agreement. Those who can't do this usually end up as part of that ugly divorce rate we have in this country!

My favorite things to do as a couple are...

This might sound silly but I really enjoy cooking together! You crank up some tunes, practice a little teamwork in the kitchen and create something tasty to eat for dinner. Sometimes it's fun to come up with new recipes and try different things too! Another thing I love to do is go for long drives, stop at the scenic points and take pictures. I am drawn to the mountains, lakes, rivers and particularly the ocean. You can find new restaurants to eat at along the way and maybe even settle down for the evening at a nice cozy motel. And last but not least, snuggling under the covers and watching movies is high on my list as well! Especially in the winter months. Maybe order a pizza or some Chinese food and make it an all day event!

Here are some additional things about me...

1. I'm faithful. I have never cheated on anyone and I never will.
2. I can be completely goofy at times but I also know when to be serious!
3. I am drug free and I don't have a criminal record.
4. I'm a very warm and affectionate person who loves to cuddle!
5. I'm not abusive in any way and I've never hit a woman.
6. I'm a hopeless romantic. My favorite love story movie of all time is the Notebook!

Why I want a one sided open arrangement...

#1. First of all, don't assume that it's because I'm not able to satisfy my woman. I'm a very unselfish lover and a pleaser so I've never had that problem! It's just something that really turns me on. Watching those sexy body movements and listening to the familiar sound of your own lady enjoying another man is the hottest and most erotic thing a guy can ever experience!

#2. I also enjoy the total openness and wide open communication that it brings to the relationship. There's no reason to lie, sneak around or be deceitful when your partner is giving you the green light to do it!

NOTE: Don't get me wrong, I don't want this to be the "highlight" of the relationship. It's just something I want my lady to have as a treat and added bonus but only when she wants it! No pressure.

I would be perfect for a girl who fits into one of these two scenarios...

1. She has a FWB on the side that she doesn't want to get rid of. She isn't attached to him, she just likes the way he makes her feel.
2. She's always wanted to explore her sexuality but has been afraid to. She would love to have a man who wouldn't judge her for it!

Which number best describes you?

If I have captured your interest so far, please feel free to drop me a line. I have to be perfectly honest though. If it becomes difficult to communicate with you or I have to ask the same questions over and over before I get an answer, I will move on. There a lot of women who say that they're tired of games and that they want something real but I haven't met one yet who is willing to put in the time and effort that it takes to get to know someone. Love doesn't just come knocking on your door or fall in your lap. You have to be willing to work for it!

One final thing... please be between 21-40 and NOT heavyset.

  • Location: Eugene/Salem & surrounding areas
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for a young stoner GF :) (Eugene)

Yes I want a girlfriend and make this spring awesome! so maybe you sick of stoner boys who can't keep it together...lol I'm your man
I'm like a rock with no drama, we will be a kick ass team together! I love live music,going and traveling to concerts,art,weed...
my sex drive is high i'm open minded with sex but noting to weird...lol
what else would you like to know just reply and send a pic i will send mine

  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

fish in the sea? (Eugene) 30yr

I'm a nice bi-guy looking to text or talk, go on dates with. Shy Guy that likes to hang out watch movies and cuddle, kissing and maybe extra if we really hit it off. I don't smoke just do some 420, and drink a little.I want to end up with a relationship not a one night stand or hookup. Looking for a girl that dosent have kids, but would want some someday. I love dogs and other pets. I'm a shorter guy 5'6" and 145 lbs. Like younger or my age shorter and in shape.Please if you respond put mermaid in the subject and have a pic of yourself.
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

MATURE WOMAN (Eugene, Oregon) 32yr

I am 32 years old, five ft 10, one hundred sixty pounds. I am looking for a mature woman between 35-45 years old. I have always been attracted to older gals. Please send photo and I will send one back. I will treat you like a queen.

  • Location: Eugene, Oregon
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

STURGIS ODYSSEY (Springfield/Eugene)

Attention women bikers! This is no bull. It is an open invitation. Originally placed under 'strickly platonic' but did not get one single hit. Not even from curiousity seekers. Surprising. Or maybe not so. Please refer to original ad "STURGIS ODYSSEY" - 'platonic' of May 2nd under 'm4w'. It begins----"LISTEN!" Read it and see what you think. Inquiries welcome.
There's gotta be some out there interested in this. Are there no women up to this challenge? Hard to believe.
  • Location: Springfield/Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

laughingeyes72 (Springfield) 40yr

Im looking for laughingeyes72. I read your profile, liked it so much i had to read it again.
Im 40 divorced, I have two young kids that are my whole world. I have a good job and had it for years. love to ride motorcycles but now i find myself riding the kids minibikes with them more than riding big bikes for me. love to fish, camp, go to the coastor anywhere else fo that matter. Im a hands on country boy. like to hold hands on walks. like to give hugs from behind with a kiss on the neck. when doing dishes, cooking, or any other time i can sneek in a little nibble. Im 5'10 about 225 OK to good looking i think.
I dont smoke.
I do drink, but not very often.(It makes me want to sing)
love to go out dancing, or stay in and dance.
.There is so much more id like to chat about.
just hoping you dont make me join Match to get ahold of you.
get ahold of me, I'll send pics if you want
  • Location: Springfield
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Just chill just Xbox maybe drinks?? (Springfield) 26yr

I'm a chill guy, I'm a full time student, I'm not tall, i don't have a six pack, I'm not a hippo, and I'm just looking for a chill chick to drink and kill people will (I mean on the Xbox for those of you you right off the bat that I was a psyco) I'm not looking for sex or anything I'm looking for chilling maybe we will see how it all goes down.


I'm not adding a pic to this cus and a chill friend it shouldn't matter what I look like its only Xbox people!!
  • Location: Springfield
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Picky but hopeful (Eugene ) 32yr

So I'm 32 and maybe it's the sunshine but looking for a cutie to share this nice weather and go camping and road trips with. I'm handsome and keep busy with work and hobbies. I prefer hwp or petite women but it comes down to if we click. I'm into music so hope you are too. I'm flirty, sarcastic and like to laugh. I'm a very sweet and faithful guy but a very dominate guy in the bedroom. If you'd like to know more put" sunshine" in subject. 21-33 please
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

looking for a short and thick fwb 18-24 (eugene)

let's rock each others world as much as we can i love foreplay and want to be please me and i please you
i do live alone and want this to be awesome i also have a car if need
i'm open to other adventures out of the bed like go for a walk or to the beach,music
massage,cuddling,giggling is nice
pic4pic
  • Location: eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

☼looking for a spiritual partner for friendship and ltr (Eugene) 60yr

Hello everyone. I hope you like my ad.

There are many wonderful people on craigslist.
The woman I met a few months ago had
plans to move to another city when I met her
and she moved about a month ago. She was
wonderful. We had a lot of fun together.
We prayed, we partied, we chanted, we
did tantric.
.
I am truly a loving person.
Been having a slow time finding my ltr.
It should be slow.
.
If you have a heart I'm interested.
.

  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

unrequited love (mars) 28yr

All the quiet tide
And it could not hide
The sadness, of wanting love
And never reaching out
The drink, at arm's reach
And never with the thirst, quenched
The sun, at my elbow
But never, do I pull aside the curtains
A life out there, somewhere, but I never go out and find it
She's out there somewhere, a woman whose name I don't know
She'll take my heart, and all of me, and love me for me
I'll be Lancelot and she'll be Guinevere only the kingdom won't fall like once it did
I'll be Arthur, I'll be Lancelot
And I'll fight for you, hand, foot, tooth, and nail
I'll write poems to you, and leave them on the counter, or at your side
When I'm gone, I'll still be there, and I'll love you true, for as long as I know
I wish you'd just look at me
I wish you'd just take my goddamn hand already
I'm here right now
I've been here all along
I just don't know where you are
Where are you oh tell me
  • Location: mars
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking to settle down... (Eugene/Springfield) 23yr

I am looking to settle down with the one person I've been seeking for quite some time. I know what I want and I won't settle for less. I wanna be able to find the one and spend the rest of my life with. I graduated high school nearly five years ago and I've always been mature, responsible, and kind to those who have been in my life.

Fortunately, I learned my lesson a long time ago that condoms do not work and neither does birth control at times. To show that I am responsible, I take care of myself, those who are involved in my life, and I learn from my lessons. I am a full-time single dad, meaning I have full custody of my (soon to be 6yrs old) son. In order to better our lives, I decided to go to school. I am in my last fiscal year of college to get my two-year associates.

I enjoy spending time with family and friends. It's nice to know that they are all so close... I'd like to slowly settle down with the one I've been searching for. I'd like to find a Christian gal who enjoys family, the outdoors, and spending time inside snuggled on the couch and watching a movie alone or as a family. I'd like you to be family oriented and either have kids and/or want to have kids of our own. The most that I'd ask is that you do not smoke cigarettes or drugs of any kind. Please be between 21 and 29, and in good health...

To show that I am real, we had sunny weather for about two and a half weeks!!

To show that you're real, please put your favorite color in the subject line and add a picture along with something that will catch my attention. :)
  • Location: Eugene/Springfield
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

I hope to be that above average man (Eugene) 23yr

I know for a fact that I am not that so called, average guy. How can I prove it to you?

I am not that average male who wants sex every second of the day. I am not that average male that needs a female to cook dinner each night. I am not that average male that needs a female's income for support. I am not that average male that lives off his parents for money/support. I am not that man that will see "bye bye" when the pregnancy test comes up positive.

I am 23 years old and I've been out of my parents home since before graduation of high school. I had my first job in less than a month after I turned 17 years old. Having to support a child, and a family at the time, at the age of 17 is hard without any support of the parents. Eighteen months after my son was born I found myself alone, taking full responsibility as a mother and a father. When I was a child, I had nothing. I've never been fishing, jet skiing, hunting, and I've been on a boat once in the last 23 years of my life. My son will be six here shortly and I am trying to the best of my ability to give him everything I didn't have. I love hiking, bike riding, and photography. I enjoy playing with numbers. I am trying to better myself by going to school while my son goes to Kindergarten.

I use my iPhone to capture all the memories that I didn't get to have. We love going to Skinner's Butte, Alton Baker, Splash, Island Park, and Thurston Park. We love going to Putter's to play some games and play miniature golf. We love going to Thistle Down Farms during the fall and getting a pumpkin and riding the hayride. Capturing the moments of my son smiling and enjoying father and son time is precious. My son and I live on our own, in our own little home, that we own!!

I am looking forward to hearing from women who are between 21 and 29 (no younger or older please) and who are in good health. I wanna be able to take long hikes and be outdoors and not be stuck inside watching TV all of the time. I'd like to find a woman who has some of the same interests but different ones too. I would like to find someone who doesn't smoke or do drugs of any kind...

If you wanna know more, hit me up and let's chat!! Please tell me more than your first name. I'd like to know more!!

I am real!! We had about two and a half weeks straight without rain! Now it's Monday, and it's sprinkling outside...

Please put your favorite color in the subject line so I know you're real :)


  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Something different. 18yr

I'm not sure what I should write here because I am not sure what I am looking for.
I want a friend. Someone to talk to. To make laugh. To make me laugh.
I want someone to vent to. To talk about how bullshit work is.
To talk about how stupid people can be. How stupid I can be.
I want someone who will trust in me. Someone who'll vent back. Who'll let me help them when they need it.
Someone who will text me randomly because they want me to smile.
Who will text me at four in the morning because they can't sleep.
Who will call me when they need.
Who will answer when I do.
I don't care about appearance so much as a good heart.
I don't even need to ever see your face so much as know you're around.
I have the capacity for romance, but that is not what I am actively searching for.
My romantic desires are secondary.
If they are primary for you, then maybe we can put on a balancing act.
Who knows.
Email me if you have gotten this far.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Duke: Can't Find What Your Looking For? (Eugene) 28yr

If you can't find what you're looking for maybe you are confused as to what you want. I'm looking to meet new females for friends or a relationship. You know it's funny what people say about using this site. "I just don't have the time to meet anyone" lol So you're saying you don't have any extra time other than the time it takes to create a brief message. I have the time because I make the time for ventures or relationships, obtaining my fulfillment out of life. This site is one of many attempts to outsource in meeting those goals. I have a pretty firm grasp on who I am and know what motivates me. If you're looking for a fairy-tale there are many book stores to choose from. If you're looking for a man with certain traits and formalities then please do keep reading.

Please read the previous paragraph! lol I would describe myself as a man on a mission. A man that knows his purpose and where he is going. A man that has the upmost respect for woman and men alike. A man that values love, compassion, honesty, and integrity. A man that is handsome, gentlemen like, well kept, healthy, intelligent, stable, and motivated.

My promise to all that choose to step out of their comfort zones, seek what makes them feel whole, and or is motivated to venture into meeting someone new is as the following: I will not try to change you, I will not try to control you, I will not try to correct you, I will not judge you, I will not hide anything that rightfully you should know about me but, I will treat you as a woman, not a man of my own nature and find a way for both of us to understand each other.

I stated I'm looking for friends and or a relationship. If we get together and after connecting we are not what ether of us are looking for, then it is pointless to "pursue" a lifelong commitment. However, there may be some qualities that we share in obtaining a healthy friendship. The depth of this message I hope rules out primal needs to compulsively fornicate upon contact. Or to find a quick fix to commonly misunderstood psychological desires such as loneliness. If you are healthy, believe in yourself, and need from a man understanding, respect, dedication, stability, and devotion then I may be the one to serve you as a worthy mate.

PS: I'm not as boring as I sound. lol. In addition I'm simply just trying to meet new people that find value in this message. So please if you are in search spend the time to evaluate what is offered here.



  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Seeking Totally Dysfunctional Co-Dependent Disaster Of A Relationship



Yep.



'Emotionally and financially unstable' artist/bohemian/drifter type looking for a gullible and spirited princess to knock his sorry ass into shape.



Handsome, brilliant, sexy, blah blah blah, but shit is fucked up and you're just the one to fix it!



Come try and save my ass and let's see if we can't destroy each other in the process!



Toodles!
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

wheres the nerdy girls at (springfield) 30yr

Hey I'm looking to find a nerdy girl to hopefully fit the puzzle that is me lol. About me I'm 5'11" about 240lbs and am 30. I do enjoy board games and video games. I watch some anime and enjoy fantasy and scifi books. I do read a lot but also enjoy going hiking and playing disc golf. I also love the beach. I'm currently a student at Lcc for electrical engineering and plan to transfer to osu (even though I'm a huge duck fan). I love all types of woman as physical appearance means less then chemistry although I do love nice hair lol. Please put any color followed by any animal in your headline reply and hopefully we can chat soon
  • Location: springfield
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

all the places they said, couldst not break (mars) 28yr

I peered from Heaven's skies
I glowered and glared and the fires of Helios set to me
And I burned with tallest fire, and fell to the Earth
Just so as archangels became devils
I traded Helios' glare for char and blackest night
I traded love for reason
And to Hell with reason for reason meant nothing to me, thence
Fairest once was I, upon all of this,
but never again, not upon all of my days
All the lighted fires became burned, unanswered desires
All that once had filled now so verily emptied
That satiety itself became hunger itself
In all of the places where once I was invulnerable, now I was a wyrm
All the places they said, couldst not break,
there amidst all those places was where was I broken the most, now
And how differently, then, the stars looked at me
And how differently, then, I looked at the stars
Atop the skies and a thousandfold satisfied, I saw their beauty, once
But now and never and nevermore ever again
From these burned lands, and from this emptied heart
all the stars show me is a heart, reforged as a siege gun
that my love may transcend the heavens
and verily become an instrument of war
a war which, most astutely, is wrought from a love
which more and most of all, has become unrequited
They said to me that I had no choice left
but to love thyself
but how could a devil do such a thing
whose love, even on fairest days
he had given entirely to things beyond him
That on such darkest days as these
he gave what remained to what remained
the former his woeful-wounded heart
and the latter his newfangled war
that if love would never look at him
someone under all these stars, most surely would
though for surest-different reasons
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

I want to cuddle with a curvy girl asap 18-23 (Eugene)

I would love to have friend like you who wants to get together and cuddle in bed when we can and be friends
i really want to give you the attention you need and and make each other feel good
i live alone if my place is needed
pic4pic
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

43 Looking for a friend at first (Coast) 43yr

looking for a good match. Moving to Oregon and looking for someone that likes to travel.Fish, go to thrift stores and yard sales Do not smoke or do drugs. Like
Music and movies. Do not mind traveling to meet the right person.

  • Location: Coast
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Worth a shot (Eugene) 35yr

Thanks for taking the time to read this. I am going to give this a shot. I am a father to a 5 year old girl so it's not easy for me to get out and meet new people. I love music, travel, the arts, a good film, a good coffee or beer. I like to grow vegetables in the summer and the occasional beard in the winter. I am of average height and weight, maybe even on the slender side depending on one's definition. I enjoy being active, but also staying in and relaxing, and cooking a good meal. I am looking for a woman who is confident, caring, quirky, and curious. I like to surround myself with people who have a thirst for knowledge and new experience. Finally, I hope it doesn't sound superficial, but I am interested in women who are closer to the petite side of the physical spectrum. I'm not naive enough to think I will find my soul-mate on craigslist at this time but I realize that physical attraction is necessary if any deeper connection can be made. I don't really know what else to write at this point, but send me an email and we can talk from there. Put the last thing you read as the subject line so I know you are real.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking to pass some time (Eugene) 27yr

I'm newly single and really excited at the possibilities in store for me. It is late tonight and I'm not really keen on meeting ladies at bars, so I figured I'd go through a different source.

I guess I'd have to start with the fact I have two kids. They are 2 and 6 years old and really smart and handsome boys. I guess that would mean whoever I'm choosing to spend time with wouldn't barf or go into spasms at the mention or sight of them. Having a kid of your own would be an attractive quality, though I'm not too concerned with that.

I'm not really cruisin' for any sex-based relationship. Been there, done that. From experience they have taken the focus off of my family and work. I would like to meet someone that is busy themselves but wants to add an occasional dinner or hang-out/drink/something to their schedule. I'm really into trying this out on the slow scale. I haven't had much success "easing" into a relationship, mainly because I've always been in such a damn hurry. Well, I'm not anymore and I just want to be happy and know that someone thinks about me more than they see me. That's kinda rewarding, yea?

A little more about myself:

6'2" 230 lb. I'm verging on the athletic side of big and powerful. I got in shape recently and it's suiting me nicely.
I cook VERY well. Probably because it was my occupation for so long.
I don't smoke anything and would prefer the lady I spend time with wouldn't either.
I like animals and babies.
I laugh a lot and I love to make people laugh.
I'm into a lot of random music and movie genres, and am usually open-minded to different tastes.

Anyone wanna get coffee? I'm always in the mood for some coffee :D Go ahead and write a little about yourself. Maybe talk about the things I mentioned as they pertain to you and see where that gets us?


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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Can you spend the night? (Eugene) 28yr

Im really missing that feeling of waking up with someone. Maybe Spooning and falling asleep to a movie. I am aware this is a random idea and may not be for everyone, I am merely putting idea out there. Ideally we can have an ongoing friendship and more sleepovers, Im aiming for one by the weekend. Tell me a little about you and Send a picture. 420 friendly a BIG plus.
Oh and I smell nice and have a clean home without roommates. Lets get to know each other.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Date night!? (Eugene) 23yr

Hey, I'm 23, graduating from U of O, have a good job, and will pay! Duh! :)

So, I'm looking to take a nice, cute girl out on a date sometime this week. It doesn't mean it's going to be serious or weird, just a dinner or something, good conversation and hanging out.. I've got a lot going for me and am usually super busy, so I'm not some bum who can't get a date lol. If your interested in wanting to go out, hang out and that all, then send me an email with a pic and maybe we can talk and go out sometime this week!
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

christian seeking same (eug)

Im looking for a decent christian lady really. it is a simple request but seems to be like finding an earing in the sand. I am a quality man very kind and loving, tall, handsome, romantic and athletic. I have a great career, house car and older kids. am not hung up on age (but like 30 -60 im in that range somewhere)it really is just a number to me. what is important is heart, charachter, integrity, personality, etc
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Ladies? (Eugene/Springfield) 27yr

So i have posted here a lot and still no luck? Is there a girl out there that is suck of being alone and wants to began a LTR with me? I am a sweet nice guy once you get to know me. I am working on gettin things pulled together, NONE of us with have it completely together we are HUMAN we are not PERFECT LOL. Any way i love camping and want to go to a Rodeo in July here in Eugene. I love country music and i enjoy playing my drum set a lot, YES i am a drummer. I work 2 Jobs and drive a chevy truck. text me and we can chat a lot more ok. fivefouronefiveonesevennineeightzerozero.. Have a great evening. If you like what you here text me i will be up late.
  • Location: Eugene/Springfield
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

The Moth, Snap Judgement, Science Friday, PCC, Hult Center, OCF (Eugene) 50yr

Is there anyone out there that enjoys these type of shows. I am 50, hwp, long hair beard, self employed, down to earth. I enjoy camping, gardening, walking by the river, home projects, traveling. Send me a note, picture and something about yourself and we can go from there.
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

ok honestly (springfield) 25yr

ok honestly i just want a normal girl. One who is emotionally stable and physically fit. A girl who is outgoing and loves family. Tattoos and peircings are good but even a purist is good. I want a girl that i can cuddle or go to the beach on a whim. I want a girl who likes having sex but also making love because there is most definitley a difference. A girl who likes camping, shooting, and other outdoor stuff but also loves a good scary movie. I am tired of flaky girls and troubles. Even if she had a kid I would be down with that because I love kids. I'm almost ready to literaly move out of this country to go and find my mate elsewhere. I am a classy country boy. I mean I dress well but i love all the fun stuff the country has to offer. I'm 5'10'' and 5'11'' if i don't slouch. I'm blonde and have blue eyes. I am athletic and love to workout. I am going to school to become a personal trainer. I go to school full time. If you feel like you might meet my needs email a little about yourself and a pic. Also put your favorite color in the subject or somewhere in the email so i know you're not fake.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Let's hang out! (Eugene) 22yr

hey! So a little about me, I'm a full time student at the University of Oregon, double majoring and should be graduating here soon. I love being active and playing sports, working out, just basically doing anything remotely active or outside. I'm in good shape and people tell me im a good looking guy, if that concerns you ha..I'm super social and always like to be around my friends or new people, laughing and just having a good time. i pretty much get along with everyone. Honestly, i just enjoy meeting new people! I have my life together and am very motivated and ambitious. I have many goals in life, and fully plan on achieving them. Obviously I'm posting on here for a reason, and thats just to meet some new people, go out on a date, or just hang out if I have some free time. If something comes from that, i'd absolutely welcome it, if not, that's fine also, I'm sure it would be a pleasure just meeting you :) Anyways, I prefer someone who likes to be active as well and takes care of their body, who is ambitious as well and has goals... if that sounds like you, and you want to reply, email me and send a pic or I most likely wont respond, ya never know! element of surprise haha. Maybe ill hear from you!
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I likeit when they callme big papa (the tuck)


LMAO..So anyway looking for a GAL That can laugh at herself , me and this biiizzzaarr world..Weight is only a #..but you must be healthy..Handy with either acupuncture or chiropractic wouldnt hurt either..yea right thats gonna happen :)..Please send a pick and in subject line your favorite comedian....looking forward to laughing at ummmm i mean with you///
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I would be a very sexual really oral boyfriend (Springfield) 47yr

Of course there is more to me than that but it got your attention didn't it ? I am sure someone will flag this post so I won't go into details about me or what I am looking for if you want to know more and possibly get to know each other and see if we were made for each other please write , and when you do put " I am curious " in the subject line . I am hoping to find a long term relationship but if nothing else fwb might work too .
  • Location: Springfield
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Older guy seeks younger daughter type 20-35 (Eugene/Spring.) 40yr

I'll Give You The Attention and Advice Daddy Never Could!!! SO I KNOW YOUR REAL AND NOT SPAM PUT DADDY IN THE SUBJECT LINE

Do you feel lost and alone like no one understands you. Stay awake at night in the big city thinking their should be more than this. Have you always felt bored romantically with boys, when the men you want never talk to you pass you by on the street, maybe you get the occasional look, but you feel shy talking to the kind of men you like. Dream at night of being taken and having a daddy to serve, of having a strong man put you over his lap. Get excited by the idea of being taken hard, or softly. Have Dominant men always excited you, but you don't even know how to talk to one, or what to say, you just know you have a deep need to be taken.

I'm a Dominant man looking for my own lil girl, but experience for you isn't necessary, being the hottest girl isn't necessary all I truly ask for is a sweet disposition and a desire to be Daddys girl. I've had girls before while in college or just new to the city and looking for a similar dynamic now. A girl who not only needs a protector and leader, but always someone to cherish them to talk too, someone they can tell their deepest secrets too without hesitation. If this sounds like something you'd like, something you crave, something you SERIOUSLY want to pursue, Send me a email
ARE YOU TIRED OF BOYS OR MEN WHO ACT LIKE BOYS Don't know what they are doing or how to do it??
Do you want experience real experience
  • Location: Eugene/Spring.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

EXTREMELY BORED!!! (west Eugene) 24yr

I'm feeling pretty bored, jus got off work and dont really have plans.... so I'm wanting to hang out with someone and not be sitting home alone tonight. I'm pretty chill and if you have time to hang our tonight email me :)
  • Location: west Eugene
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Talk nerdy to me :D (Autzen) 21yr

Like the title says I am 21 years old. Im a student ,5" 7' and I'm pretty cute I've been told even though I am bigger. I am also working losing weight. I am a junior the university of Oregon. I would easily classify myself as a nerd because if it's nerdy I most likely like it. I am big into all sorts of video games ask me I will gladly share, and borrow if you're lucky :p im a musician also. I play many instruments and sing. I love movies and tv shows as well as going out with friends. I try to balance it out with school and I do a pretty good
Job. My best trait people say is the ability to make anyone laugh at anytime. I don't drink very often, I don't smoke or do drugs. So anyway if you like what you ree, gimme a shout out. I would love to hear from ya. Email is slower but I so check it many times a day. You can have my number if you email me. Pic 4 pic if you want. And I DO want a gf, a relationship. I've been getting tons of people that want just friendship. I have no problem with friendship first but I'm looking for a relationship ultimately.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for LTR (springfield/eugene) 30yr

summer is coming and i love to go to the park for a walks or play tennis someone out there want to go for a game or for a walk hit me
if someone want to know me and see how it goes im looking for a nice cool girl from 18yo to 30yo
maybe it turn more and be more that just friend im looking for a gf too
we can talk maybe hangout i live on springfield and i do have a car i dont have kids yet but i love kids
30yo and 5.10 tall and im 160bls
( five ---4--one--232--one--one--7--one)
if your looking for someone to talk about anything please feel free to txt cuz i know i like to see who i am txting so can you please send a pic with the reply...thank you for reading and have a great day!
  • Location: springfield/eugene
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for T.R.A. (South Eugene) 39yr

Looking for my Tonya. There's no sunshine when you are not around. Wish we could watch the eclipse together! I miss you terribly. :(
  • Location: South Eugene
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for a mistress that wants to be treated like a princess! (Eugene) 53yr

Hi,
I live and work in Eugene Oregon and have lived here most of my life. I'm smart, funny, cute, witty, handsome, sharp, kind, passionate, compassionate, rough but also tender. I'm employed as an engineer so I've got a good paying job and I'm willing to shower that special woman with all sorts of goodies. I really enjoy the company of women and I can really entertain them with charming banter as well as witty sarcasm. I can also take her to sky with my passionate and wild sensuality. I must admit I'm a really good kisser and I know all the right buttons to press ;) I like to do all sorts of outdoor activities like hunting, fishing, swimming, skiing, boating, rafting, camping, biking. I love to hop on my Harley and go for couple hour ride -- maybe to the coast or to some secluded lake in the mountains. I'm not one to just sit around the house -- not when there is so much wonderful things to do outside. I've got the list of skills and abilities that every woman wants in her man. I can fix anything be it computer, plumbing, cars, boats, houses, broken hearts, and people's opinions ;) I can carry on a conversation about any subject and you'd be surprised at the breadth and depth of my intellectual interests.

I'm looking for a woman that I can treat like a princess and pamper her immensely and be my super special mistress. Discretion is guaranteed and expected. One who likes to have a drink or two, go for long rides or drives, have wonderful intellectually stimulating conversations. Have very sensually physical encounters -- the ones that leave you saying "wow -- that was AWESOME." A woman who smiles when she sees me walk in the room because she know how wonderful the day is going be!

I'm real and not a bot. Reply with a duck color and a Eugene street name so I'll know. More pic 4 pics ;)
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

FWNB ASAP (Springturkey/Eugene) 18yr

For you that can't read...it says Friends With NO Benefits as soon as possible....okay? I need a late notice date for the prom. You only graduate high school once so I'ma reaching out already. The girls in my graduating class think I'm a needy nerd, what do they know....I'm not here to judge. Please no one over 65 cause I have standards that I'd like to maintain. Respond with a face picture and one of a nice dress...that would help. I can pay $$$ but would like to get there on the strength of mutual attraction....and then who knows what might happen next!! boing!
  • Location: Springturkey/Eugene
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Seeking fun woman that loves life,music,420, and the outdoors !! (eugene)

Hello Ive been missing a good connection with a female. One that doesnt hate or is impatient or selfish or demanding. I have some good connections here in Eugene but ive been single for a while and its getting a bit lonely and cold at night : ) I want someone that can talk about anything with me and not hold back or lie because they think truth will hurt or someone that has a history of cheating or too many boyfriends I am a great cook and i love the outdoors. I love music as well. I seek a good strong connection I am a pisces and Cancer, Taurus, and Capricorn women are all pluses in my book..I belive in Chivalry and romance and get teary watching chick flicks lol i am not your avg guy i am not a Duck fan, i know i know hate me lol, i dont watch much tv and love movies and you tube for music i cant get enough of the you tube vid hook up for all my fav bands. Which to name a few Are The Allman Bros, The Dead, John Scofield , Widespread Panic, Derek Trucks Band., OId school hip-hop. Jazz the list goes on. Ive been playing guitar for several years so its is important to me that you listen to some similar if not the same music. I am not a country fan or a metal fan but can listen to anything for a short time.. I am 6 ft tall 205 lbs. I am in decent shape and eat well, you be too please. I am 420 friendly so that is a plus. I love to take off and go to the coast or for a hike or a camping trip and of course music shows and festivals, Email me and lets chat i will send you a pic if you send me one in your email.. Have a great and peaceful day thanks for reading. No Pic or a descprition about you and i will just delete your email without reading it thanks


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Posted: May 20th, 2012

This is foolish (Eugene) 33yr

Ok, I am stumped. And this has become my resource or maybe rather my outlet, I don't know. Lately I have been overwhelmed, no consumed with a terrible lonely feeling that at first glance I assumed was simply a need to get laid. I would not do anybody the disservice of insulting their intelligence and saying that I didn't try that route before this one. But the thing is that the problem is simply more than that and it remains. The problem is that I am lonely. And believe me I wish that there were some other way to say it, some other word that could in some way express it yet supplant the power of the word lonely to express a feeling that I am coming to believe all people experience and must be validated. The thing is that I am not a kid anymore and this has come as a great surprise to me. I find that I am no longer satisfied with baseless relationships that diminish with as little thought or effort as they began. I am not such a romantic that I would profess to want a 'soul mate', but I would profess that I want a mate, or at least the prospect of a mate-the thought that the promise and potential for a mate is there if we only see fit to work the challenges together. For the first time in my life, I want to care about another person and not just care about the benefits my life gains from the presence of that person. I want to experience honesty, not the honesty that we use in poesy or prose, the type that says 'I will never cheat on you' or that 'I will tell you the same random truth that I would tell any person who ever had the courage to ask because I have no fear of it so I have no fear of the telling,' but the type of honesty that requires true exploration and is founded more in the internal than the external. And so here lies my dilemma; I have no idea if such a person exists, if another person has ever thought the same thing or even if such a person exists if they were not born into a world that was larger and more sophisticated than my immaturity and have no time for me now. If such a person does exist I would love to talk with them though. Any rate. I hope that somebody reads this, if for no other reason than for my own piece of mind; perhaps you may find it interesting and want to talk further, if so I am here. Maybe it will simply be enlightening and refreshing to know that there is a young man out there who has very human thought and very human struggles, I truly don't know. I hope this reaches you... whoever you may be. Talk to you soon.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Are You The One? (W. Eugene) 56yr

Hi my name is Steve. What am I looking for...that's a loaded question? I'll try to answer for those that are willing to read on. I'm 56 years old, divorced since 2005, own my home, have a car and live alone. I share my place with my buddy "Bart" (he's a Dachshund/lab mix and a Heartworm survivor). I'm currently unemployed but, I receive unemployment and am actively seeking work in the Eugene/Springfield area. I lost my job I held for seventeen years and am going through bureaucratic hell to try and either get it back or receive some monetary settlement. The reason for this...I was subjected to some on-the-job traumas and was diagnosed as having PTSD. You're probably thinking "What's up with that"? I assure you I am completely functional (mentally and physically!). What I try not to do is dwell on those traumas and rather deal with everyday life on a day to day basis.

I'm hoping to find someone who is honest, respectful, open-minded, patient, liberal, laugh-out-loud and who also takes life one day at a time. I'm 5'8 and approximately 185lbs. I still have almost all of my hair (it is thinning in the back!) which is a blend of dark and gray. I have all my original teeth! I do smoke cigarettes. I don't do drugs (if you do 420 it's ok). I do not drink (I'm a year plus sober...I do this by choice in regards to my PTSD) but, if you imbibe "socially" I don't mind. I enjoy cooking, great coffee, ice cream (Prince Puckler's or Umpqua), BBQ's, camping, Saturday Market, "putzing" in my garden and yard, live concerts, a variety of musical tastes (country, rock, blues, jazz...I'm very partial to the likes of Lyle Lovett, Mark Knopfler & Dire Straits, The Dead and most other musicians of that era). I enjoy Broadway shows at the Hult, movies, crossword puzzles, shooting pool, darts, board games and lawn bocci ball. I really enjoy playing golf (although if I broke 90 I'd probably faint!). I love the coast and high desert and on occasion I cross country ski. In the fall and winter I do enjoy watching college and pro football on the TV (GO DUCKS!!).

If based on what you've read and are still interested in inquiring further...I'm looking for a LTR with someone whom is between 40 to 60, HWP, disease free, understanding of what I wrote above (in regards to the PTSD) and willing to go slow getting to know each other (not looking for FWB or a quick "roll in the hay") then I'd love to hear back from you! I will gladly trade photo for photo if any interested parties request it. Oh yeah...please reside within twenty miles of Eugene. Let me close by saying...GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF US WHO ARE HARD AT IT PUTTING OURSELVES OUT THERE!!! It takes a lot of courage!!! Please no SPAM!!! Serious only need apply!
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Hi.. Im Ryan (Or) 31yr

im a 31 almost 32 year old guy that is fun to be around and laid back, and loves to laugh. I dont like drama and all that fighting and bickering. I like the outdoors. I workout regularly and stay in shape and try and stay healthy. I am looking for a woman that is honest, loyal and trustworthy. Someone that is ready to settle down and be happy. i dont want to ramble on but i attached a couple of pics. If your interested in getting to know me shoot me an e-mail.

Ryan
  • Location: Or
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Any beautiful women out there looking for something serious? (Or) 31yr

My name is Ryan and I am almost 32 years old. I am 6'2, 240, shaved head, blue green eyes, tan skin, average build, a bunch of tattoos. I like the outdoors. hanging with friends. going to games. travelling. warm weather. Hawaii. I am looking for a woman that is ready for something serious and just wants to be happy. Someone that doesny fight and bicker a lot. Someone that isnt miserable everyday. I am a very laid back, mellow guy and I dont like drama at all. Anmyways heres a couple of pics of me. If you are interested in talking more shoot me an e-mail and send me a pic or two and well go from there.


  • Location: Or
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Friendship and Sex ? Maybe More (Springfield) 47yr

Who says you can't mix the two ? I am open to no strings also but would love to find a new friend that would enjoy spending time together doing fun things outside of bed as well . Must be clean , discreet , drug disease free . I am very sexual , sensual , extremely oral . I love foreplay , a multi orgasmic woman . I am open to a friendship becoming more if it goes there. If you write " touch me " in the subject line we can get to know each other soon
  • Location: Springfield
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

WANTED:25 TO 40 ISH,BLONDE,ACTIVE,SWEETHEART,THATS REAL&NO GAMES (EUGENE/SPFD)

HELLO,
I don't really think this is gonna work! I have only answered to personal ads in my life. First time she lied to me about everything,the secound would rather be smacked around than treated like a queen. Crazy spfd tweekers!
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I am a decent looking guy, 6' , 180 , Brown hair , green eyes , I am a loyal,honest,secure,hard working adult.
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All I am looking for is a blonde,bubbly women who is ready for a real guy to do real things in life with.
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Not looking for tweeks I don't mind 420,not looking for drama,
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Not down with posting any picture,but will send one if I get one.
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Are you really out there? I been looking for you all my life? I've looked everywhere and only find heart ache and disappointment.
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I'm here where I've always been,waiting for you !
  • Location: EUGENE/SPFD
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Rider Needed (Eugene) 50yr

Looking for someone to have fun with. 50, 5'10"in tall 210 I look young for my age
Have a place to live, car, Harley. Lets go riding, love music like going to concerts
and movies and having fun. Easy going send a pic and
I will send one back no pic no response. No druggies
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Kiss & Motley Ticket (Eugene)

Choice Tickets Too See Kiss & Motley Crue. Sun Aug,19, 2012.
Send A Picture, And Tell Me Why I Should Pick You, And Why
You Want To Go!
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Want to hang out with a sweet asian girl (Eugene) 26yr

You don't have to be too terribly cute, but I do like short and average to skinny weight :)
I think asian girls are very cute, and they typically have a great many of my favorite physical features.

But enough about that stuff - I want to hang out and have fun in the sun, shade, or indoors relaxing. I'd like to learn a new language, and/or help someone else practice this one.

I'm a Caucasian male, around 195 lbs 6 foot tall. My brown hair almost touches my shoulders. I've lived in Eugene for a long time.
I like video games, ballistics oriented play in the park, and glow-in-the-dark stuff

I'm not absolutely set on a romantic outcome - friends and activity partners are fine to.
Send me a picture of yourself, if you'd like.
* Please put something in the subject line that relates to trees so that I know that your reply isn't by an automated phishing program *
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

The Sirens (Mars) 28yr

The hour was late
Ere late
The eyes, shut
The mind, closed
Not even the wind stirred
As dead, as dead may be
All the dreams ransacked
All the love, gone
Darkness begot darkness
The war was over
And all was oh-so so very quiet
A kind, enough to die by
Filled with sadness and regret
And amidst the gloom, Sirens called out to me
Beautiful creatures, nigh as beautiful as they are deadly
But amidst a silence of this kind, it is a most alluring beauty
One full of promises, promises which will certainly break
But promises nonetheless, promises which the darkness does not make
So I listen, my heart all broken glass, to those calls
In this peace, which, cannot last, and they call out to me
And my heart, rends, hearing them, hearing them and no one else
I am alone with a dark quiet, lost amidst Sirens
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Seeking: Smart, Soulful, Rebellious... - m4w


...relatively new, and alone, in Eugene...would like someone to talk to... musician, songwriter, writer, romantic. into film, modernist lit, radical theory and labor history, aesthetics. bit of damaged goods as well, aren't we all. hmm.



drop me a line if you want to hang out.



thanks.



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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Artists, not 'Artsy'; Radicals, not 'Liberals' - m4w



self-willed and strong but not reactive or without receptivity...


very talented but more importantly creative, more 'expressive' than 'impressive'...and not precocious at all about it...


affectionate, compassionate, intuitive, loyal, cooperative, but not pushovers or passive aggressive in any way...


...don't subscribe to the myth of 'total independence': we need each other, and are honest about it..we just don't act as crutches and don't shy from taking or giving criticism where it is needed...


Romantics, absolutely, and to a fault...just not cursed with the cheaper excesses of sentimentality...


an innate sense of style and an eccentric beauty all our own...


not materialistic and don't have unrealistic expectations....our emphasis is on experience, ease, and mobility...we're not 'careerists', but forces of nature, sensualists, catalysts..


working class background and are damn proud of it...


broad and well-informed tastes in literature, film, music....and an insatiable curiosity to keep learning and absorbing more...


You? Me?




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Posted: May 20th, 2012

The Now - m4w

here for you, drifting in and out of your periphery

but always
the safest distance.

strange and sad enough to know with certainty
that within a season we will have forgotten each other.

another one of those disposable exchanges

the skies you might have seen beyond the monitor...

that late afternoon glow and shudder.
sounds of cars and wayward human voices

smell of burnt coffee.

rhythms that have lost their sway over our nerves

my words.

all of it receding, draining inexorably into a past either not worth recalling
or too painful to revisit

i want to find the present and steal it, with someone, with you:


we find ourselves stranded, having abandoned any prayers that we are alone,

in that park that 'no-one feels safe in anymore'

in tortured wet kisses laced with nicotine and sweat

hands and hips driven with half-animal fervor, rifling through layers,

clutching each other, almost, trying to hide the depth of our need

and failing

conquering only this place

this shelter, this chasm, that survives, with us,

and heedless of us,

beyond dignity

and beyond hope.

the now



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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Great guy looking for friendship possibly more (Eugene) 40yr

Hello... I'm 40, well adjusted professional.. I have HSV and HPV, i have no problem giving you more details just ask.. I have adult children and grand children, love them to pieces...Love to ride anything. I love live music, dancing.. I like all kinds of music from country to reggae, good old fashioned rock and roll, list goes on.. I love the beach and love to travel... Looking for someone close to my age that I can relate with, build a friendship and maybe more.. I'm a Christian, looking for same. I'm a big guy, not fat just beefy... 6'4'' 280.. green eyes.. I've been told I'm pretty handsome... Write me back and send a picture... :) Thanks for looking..





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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I wanna make you smile (eug/spfd) 27yr

Hey I'm looking for a sweet girl to get to know and have some fun. I'm laid back and always down to go out and have a good time. I've got a great sense of humor and I really enjoy making people laugh. I work full time, have my own place, and car so I can take care of myself please be able to do the same. I love music and going to concerts is one of my favorite things to do. Im tall, built stocky and muscular. I like slender to curvy women but please be somewhat hwp. If your interested in chatting and knowing more about me send me a email with a little about you and a pic. Put your hair color in the title so I know your real.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Genital Herpes (Eugene) 42yr

I'm recently single after a long relationship. My partner gave me genital herpes like 10 years ago, at the beginning of our relationship. Enough people have it now and I really don't want to put myself in a position where I'm tempted to lie about it so I am just stating it up front. I'm looking for a single woman 35ish+, that has genital herpes also, so long as that's all she has. I am just an average looking middle aged guy so I don't expect a Playboy Playmate but I'm also not desperate. I just want to be able to date again without worrying about feeling the need to lie. I don't care what race you are. I don't care if you're a little overweight as long as you carry it well. I don't care if you have money as long as I don't have to support you.

If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself and we'll go from there.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking for a LTR? 20yr

im just a reguler guy looking for some one to spend some time with. i play guitar have horses and live on a farm of some sort
im athletic, smart, funny, and muscular. so if you wont to get to know me hit me up.
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking to expand my friendship circle in Eugene (Eugene) 28yr

Hey I'm 28 and just wanted to see if anyone wants to hang out sometime soon and see where it takes us....your pic gets mine. I enjoy most anything that Eugene has to offer. Seperated and trying to find more friends since Eugene has some of the best people around. Hope to hear from you soon!
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Boredom makes me do crazy things... (Springfield, Oregon) 26yr

When I am bored I tend to do unconventional and crazy things. Not crazy in a weird or dangerous way, but crazy in a "not many people do this" kind of way. One time I was bored and so I decided to get ordained online by the Universal Life Church. So yeah, I am a ordained minister. Another time I got bored and so I decided to look up the children of the late great John Candy on Twitter... and I found his daughter!... and she tweeted me back! Kind of cool in a way... She seems nice... Haven't heard from her in a little while though. I also have about the same number of followers as she does, so I find that a little odd seeing as how she is the offspring of a legendary comedic actor such as John Candy. What else... Hmmmmmm... In college I would get bored and I would go on long walks. I'm not talking a walk around the block or a walk across campus... More like a walk across town... Walks that would last a good three or four hours... and sometimes late at night. On one of these boredom walks I stumbled across Hendricks Park for the first time... I came to this dead end in a Culdesac neighborhood up in the Eugene hills but decided to keep walking anyways as there seemed to be a path behind the barricade... Not to sound corny or anything but as I stepped into the wilderness it was kind of like stepping into Narnia through the wardrobe... One minute I was in a dreary culdesac... The next I was in a beautiful garden... Pretty cool in a way I guess. So yeah, that's what I do when I am bored. Random adventures to anywhere and doing anything with a great group of people is pretty much the best thing in life. That's me in a nutshell I guess. Other than my exploits in boredom I workout 4-5 days a week at Mikilas Boot Camp and am currently in the absolute best shape of my life and I am getting in better and better shape everyday. I am also looking foward to seeing a movie entitled "Safety Not Guaranteed"... Random factoid I guess but I thought I would share anyways... the movie involves time travel to a certain extent and anything involving time travel is good in my book. Okay... I am going to stop now... If you would like to meet up sometime please feel free to email me... All I ask is that you are a Killer Queen a la the famous Queen song. Goodbye for now!
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for a curvy girl :3 (Autzen) 21yr

I'm looking for a curvy girl who is interested in the possibility of a relationship. I'm a bigger guy and I'm also losing weight too. Just to be clear, Im attracted to curves, not circles. If you were a circle then you would be bigger than me and I'm really not interested in that. Sorry.

I'm 5'7 ( your height doesn't matter all that much to me), I go to school, have a place l, and I drive. I'm interested in many things, I'm big into music and nerdy culture though. I'm quite hilarious and can make ANYONE laugh. Hopefully you can make me laugh too. Quiet and reserved people are difficult to get along with because I like to talk, but I don't want to be the only one talking.

Anyway, I'd you're interested you should reply, I'd love to hear from ya! Please try to put your favorite movie, tv show, or video game as your title in the email to weed out spam. Also, pics are welcomed and will be reciprocated. Bye :D
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Kinda picky...but I am looking for Miss Perfect (Eugene) 21yr

I am pretty new to Eugene and am finally getting acclimated to all the school work so now I have free time and want to find someone cool to hang out with and hopefully go out with. I am hard working and motivated and have big goals for life. Even though I am a hard worker I always have time to hang out with friends and my family. Speaking of family, my family is very important to me and I am definitely a family guy and I am always there for my friends and family. I love sports. I played a bunch in HS and still love playing basketball and football with my friends. I am a nice and very respectful guy who knows how to treat a lady. I have a great sense of humor and I love to just have fun and laugh. I am a proud Christian and it is a major bonus if you are too. In terms of hobbies, I love to play sports, read, go to movies, get dressed up and go out, and I love to stay in with dinner and a movie too.

Now what I am looking for...I want someone who either likes sports or doesn't mind me mindlessly rambling about sports. I like shorter girls (at least shorter than me so under 6'), I am not into "Big Girls"...I'm not necessarily into anorexic thin but just not unhealthily big. I have always liked blondes but that would just be a plus. You have to have a passion...something that you love. I am a smart guy so someone who is smart enough to hold an intelligent conversation is also a must. Age wise just be within a few years of me (like 18-24 but I'm not too worried about that). The only other thing I can think of is I do not want anyone who smokes cigarettes (weed is fine).

I can't think of too much else. Please put your favorite color in the subject and I will want to see a picture of you so the sooner the better so I know you are real.
Thanks for reading!
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Tall polite secure sexy Guy (Eugene OR) 36yr

SEARCHING FOR A ATTRACTIVE FUN DOWN TO EARTH , HOT CHICK WITH NO DRAMA READY FOR A REAL MAN AND REAL LOVE FIVE FOUR ONE TWO TWO EIGHT TWO THREE EIGHT THREE, IS ME THE , T
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

420 cuddle buddy (Eugene)

It would be awesome to have a friend to smoke some 420 i'm a connoisseur...lol and enjoy
cuddling,spooning,massaging,touching,rubbing,caressing,petting would be so nice
just have some good times with out making a big deal about it just a friend to share fun
i'm way into music,art,comedy,herb
my place or yours I'm easy going,positive and open to be friends
pic4pic i will reply for sure

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Posted: May 20th, 2012

A kinky sleepover - m4w (eug) 29yr

It would be so fun to have a sleepover i do live alone just get in bed naked i'm very open minded and know it takes a some time to have a good kinky time
and when we wake up have some more fun and then go on with our day! if you might be interested reply i will send you my pic

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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Big boobs? Lol (Eugene) 21yr

Well I wanted to post something that would grab attention lol. If you're reading this than it clearly worked. I am actually am looking for a relationship too. Everybody knows guys like boobs, but who doesn't? XD well I'm particular to big breasted women. Usually that ends up being curvy gals, and I also like that. Quite a lot actually. Also, I'm a bigger guy and I hopefully that's not a problem, I'm actually doing something about it. I don't have a height preference either, and I am 5' 7. Anyway, shoot me an email, preferably with a pic and some things About yourself. Also, try to title the email with you're favorite movie. Have a good day!
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Ltr & love UNCLAIMED maybe deserved...... Between me & God (Eugene & surroundings does NOT matter:)


Will you give me, US a CHANCE? Well see..

I am who I portray, The words within are NOT for MOST. and certainly will be a GIANT leap of faith, NOT just for you. But for yours truly as well.
The words within although to SOME will be less than ideal. To the ONE with the "right" ear perhaps my gut to post here out of my range will have made right choice to finally find thee.


If you don't think (our) success is worth some time to develop UNDERSTANDING..... Were NOT going to succeed and that is what i want the outcome to be success. How about you?

Everything I write is TRUE and HONEST to a fault, We know there is 3 sides to every story, Mine, hers and the "right one" in Gods eyes. Just so were under NO illusions, I am NOT a preacher, I don't go to church, Please dont judge me for I have seen and experience things that do give me SOME wisdom. I wish I was wrong most of the time !

We all have our petty likes and dislikes. What is important to some, may NOT be on the radar screen or as important to others. BTW; How did your last "type" work out? Remember this as you either BELIEVE in me, US or you continue seeking "YOUR TYPE".


Sooo many fall in love with my words, Sooo many have NO clue what type of man there overlooking. I would trade ALL them praises for the "right one" to come forth and "BELIEVE" we can make a BETTER life, Lets stop being indecisive, I put myself in that category as well, SHOW ME, I WILL SHOW YOU.

Talk to me but don't be mean as some have been in the past, If it doesn't FIT no hard feelings right? Take NOTE: I respond to everyone, I give everyone the same information and treat everyone with respect, However if you are one of the cynics and like to vent. I usually will ignore you. If you STILL choose to vent, I do share some of these type of responses with the ones that have some HOPE for a BETTER than expected outcome. I do forgive the ones that have so much anger, You are blinded by your past and possibly by the devil himself.

Unfortunately were judge too much by the cover, And NOT the content of the heart and soul. Again maybe I am just as guilty. And do feel take ownership of such guilt. Were NOT even close to perfect.

May (our) hopes and dreams be realized, Better than expected. NO hidden agenda, Yeah really !! But please read carefully, Think about ALL the things I mention, there is a reason I write about it, MEANS IMPORTANT ! At least for me, But understand this is NOT all about me.

Here is more:

Hello, My name is Robert... About time for an introduction huh?

I use CAPS for emphasizing and importance, NOT screaming, geez !

EVERYTHING YOU READ HERE AND BEYOND IS WITH OUT ANY HIDDEN AGENDA, NO criminal record, NO duis, NOT seeking pity or a free ride, Yeah really !!

I AM SEEKING TO START A FAMILY or ADD TO EXISTING IN THE FUTURE (FUTURE IS A KEY WORD :).

SINCE THE ODDS ARE MOST WOMEN CONSIDERING SUCH WILL MOST LIKELY HAVE CHILDREN ALREADY......

(I will accept them as my own ). SHOW me and I will SHOW you, actions speak louder than words, Yes; Even these words.

I have been yearning and feel my life will never be complete until I have another chance at Fatherhood ( I will explain more in a more private setting) I have a story to share which MAY give you better UNDERSTANDING, I watch programs were I almost break down when the baby comes into this world. Will you give us that chance?

STORE THIS IN YOUR MEMORY BANK; Life is never guaranteed, Literally beyond our next breath or step. Someone that is willing to come together ASAP. Meaning living together, Before you consider that VERY important life changing decision, I hope you read forth. Yes; I am serious, But don't want to jump into chaos and drama ever again, so let's do our homework or just keep wondering and being alone with NO one to care for you, to love you or have your back, Can I BELIEVE you will reciprocate?

Also worth mentioning is I believe were living in VERY perilous times, NOT preaching just a "gut" feeling.



I am capable of protecting my family (WE) MUST HAVE A EMERGENCY PLAN (more on this later).

Lets exchange photos, I guess I will send mine first. That's how the game is played right? But before we do, tell me something about what you read, Please give a name as well.

I am not into playing games, This is too profound. Who knows Gods will for US. I just keep trying to be understood and NOT misunderstood.

If you believe age is more important than attraction and substance... Were NOT of the same mind set and so we agree to disagree (exchange pics) and go from there, NO HARD FEELING EITHER WAY were adults. NOT kiddies. This paragraph apparently is NOT computing to some, Because I still receive responses that ask my age and photo right of the bat, Not Hello Robert my name is ________________________.

I am a man of my word and if I write or say something, You can rest assured, It is meant and with TRUE HONESTY even when it doesn't shine the best light on myself. YES; A character flaw for some, I will never change just for the sake of getting my way. I will point out; Is this beneficial for 'THE FAMILY"? US? .. NOT me, Understand?

I'm HUSKY (muscular but not overly, 5'6".) I am very clean.

At a minimum... (oral & physical hygiene is important to me & it should be for you also).

See I believe etiquette IS important, even if we find out later were NOT meant to be together. We accept even reluctantly as I have in the past and move on.

Trust me, I would have preferred this search to be over, UNDERSTATEMENT ! ... And I wouldn't mind if we BELIEVED enough in each other, If we TRUSTED each other enough to NOT have to wait too long to start (our) life together, But MUCH must be overcome, Like TRUST, Yeah I am repeating that because I DO have trust issues, maybe just like you.

Here's more:

TOLERANCE, COMPROMISE, RESPECT & UNDERSTANDING...

Very few have those 4 important qualities together, I speak from experience (REPEATED)

Though this ad does NOT have as much information as I would like to write about, It is a start, If you work with me, Everything should make better sense, once we get beyond... Well see if my (OUR) destiny is together.

Though there are MANY other men on this site you could consider and most likely in a better place and under BETTER circumstances than Robert, Perhaps my character, compassion and HONESTY should be given a chance to come through.....................

Sometime around late July or Aug, I will be wanting to buy a piece of property were I (we) can live. Well see if (we) can agree were to purchase, If purchasing is NOT an option at that point (we) can rent. Again that is a ways away, lots to learn and overcome, I am currently residing on the West Coast of Florida. Why I choose(d) to post my ad in Oregon is NOT by accident. A couple of reasons below.

I believe my destiny may have changed as I decided to re post the ad that brought a certain woman I thought was "the one" and now fear has set in. Paralyzed instead of "BELIEVING" in ourselves.

But I want to emphasize, Were we choose to reside is NOT as important to me as WHO I CHOOSE TO BELIEVE IN.

Very important statement below....
It is from my past, current and future suffering (I believe in natural remedies for pain control).. figure it out. If NOT ask :) I said I am NOT perfect, for those that shun.

In short my day in court is coming up. I had to apply for disability (more in a private setting).

Been judged for this in the past (understandable) and anyone reading this through the prism of life biases can judge me however they want. I am NOT going to try and change peoples perception(s). I am what many have perceived correctly. But for my own or there reason(s) don't take time to UNDERSTAND.

I am NOT rich, But I am more valuable that MONEY, I am NOT a cowboy, though I probably would look good in a cowboy hat with my long hair. I am NOT perfect, never will be. But I try to do my best and my character is unlike NO others (for the good).

I am a "GOOD" man that has been through a lot, deceived, judged, misunderstood. They (my past relations) have said they "loved" me.

But....................... yet to find one that will BELIEVE and make me a BELIEVER....... Too many reason(s) to talk about, But perhaps if your not jumping to conclusions at this early stage, Things will become clearer or NOT :)

Even when there is SOME attraction, There is MUCH more I want to know about who I am considering, How about you? I am low key, But an open book when it come to my ( "BEST relationship 2 come"). Remember this phrase.

Actions speak louder than words, even these words, Prove to me your SPECIAL & KNOW what you want and I will SHOW you I am but very few "good" ones left, that does NOT believe the "good ones" finish last or unfulfilled.
UNDERSTANDING, FIRST AND FOREMOST.

REPEATED; I am NOT perfect, Actually I have done many things I am ashamed and sorry for, But in all confidence I try to do the "right thing", No matter what were talking about, I have flaws, But as long as God knows whats in my heart, I don't need people to acknowledge that deep down I am a good person. Note; Exclusivity is NOT guaranteed, since nothing is ever guaranteed in life right? The following is a recent experience:

NO JUDGEMENTS PLEASE..

It hurts me every day we should be together and were NOT. It hurts me to NOT see a text for hours on end. It hurts me to feel WE wont be able to overcome those fears. It hurts me to have NO choice to keep my option(s) open just because of today. Yeah I felt awful !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But what hurts me the most is living in chaos and a dangerous environment. So yeah I want out VERY bad, But I would rather live in hell than keep on drifting and dreaming....

If that makes any sense. YES; I AM IN A BAD SITUATION (She knows) and YOU will if you really BELIEVE anything I wrote here. NO secrets, even when it does NOT shine a good light on myself.

People have changed much. Lots of cynicism, unrealistic expectations JUDGMENTS and crushed hearts, Yeah for when much is revealed, Judgment shall be passed. Too bad they will never know me. Will you give US a chance?

I am pet friendly, a dog should be part of "THE FAMILY". The smiley faces is the way I would like our future to be, I know naive right?

There is a lot to learn from one another, I am an open book and have a deliberate process so YOU have a clear and HONEST insight into who YOU might be able to BELIEVE IN, Can I say the same? Show me and I will SHOW YOU.................

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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Hippy Goddess wanted on Maui (Maui) 49yr

Aloha beautiful souls. Looking for a beautiful natural partner who is heart centered, spiritual, vegetarian who likes dogs and musicians. Prefer a petite woman (under 5'5") who is 420 friendly. If things work out, i will fly you to Maui so we can connect and explore. Please send me a photo and I will do the same....have a beautiful day
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

I am looking for a fun, spontaneous female!!! (South Eugene Hills) 33yr

I am 33. a white male,, 6 foot tall,, gl guy here. looking for a fun, spontaneous female.. I prefer thin and fit , but wont discriminate a bbw, .. Please be real! have photos.. be sexy , clean, and ready to go in my brand new hottub!!
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Be my goddess on Maui (Maui) 49yr

Aloha beautiful souls...anyone seen my beautiful hippy goddess? She's heart centered, kind, spiritual, vegetarian who is 420 friendly. She is also under 5'5" and petite. Come visit me in Maui (I will help u with a ticket) and lets see whats up! Send me a pic and i will do the same....namaste
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Sharing a life of creativity, service, and love (Eugene) 51yr

I am Seeking a Woman for a Long-term relationship.

My Interests
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sharing / caringpersonal growthloving / being loved
seeking Gods willultimate realityuniversal family love
exploring new placesfine art / architecturescenic gardens
healthy eatingcooking togetherdining out
walking / hikingreading / discussingdocumentaries
progressive politicseconomic justicesustainability
learning / teachingproblem solvingprayer / meditation
sciencephilosophyreligion

About Me
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I would like to share a life of creativity, service, and love.

My passion is the pursuit of truth, beauty, and goodness.

I practice honesty, integrity, trustworthiness, and loyalty.

I live in obedience to the perfect will of my heavenly father.

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Description 51 year old Man, 6' 4" tall, with Thin body type
Eye ColorGreen
Marital StatusDivorced
Do I have Children? No
Do I want Children? Undecided/Open
Do I have Pets?No
Do I Smoke?No
Do I Drink?Socially
Do I do Drugs?No
EducationBachelors degree
ProfessionComputer Tech Support
ReligionWe are members of one universal family

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May you attain lasting peace, love, and joy through a sacred relationship with God/Spirit/Reality.

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Posted: May 19th, 2012

SUPER FIT AND HEALTHY ANIMA WITH INQUISITIVE MIND SEEKS ....... (SOUTH EUGENE) 50yr

Looking for a partner for some adventures. Someone as thin and fit as I am, which, I guess means someone pretty high up on the level of education they have achieved for themselves as one's ability to make appropriate choices as to their nutrition and whole lifestyle for that matter is dependant on their ability to obtain truthful information and guidance which requires active search, investigation and ability to tap into the cosmic consciousness which our species has catalogued over the last million years or so while avoiding the myriad pitfalls of corporate misinformation.

So yes I am a reasonably responsible citizen of the planet consuming as few resources as possible and giving freely to those with challenging circumstances, knowing that the only thing separating me from others is luck of the draw.

Anyway, I don't mean to lecture the choir here, just letting you know that a somewhat intelligent person wrote this post...and acknowledging, as you well know that the price we pay for the truth is expensive in terms of expenditure of our time and so therefore, it seems that we find ourselves alone more than we would prefer and not present at a lot of social networking opportunities. That is to say "we are fucking lonely".

Well, not really lonely for after all, we are happy with our selves and like whom we have managed to evolve into, but we do agree that primordially, we are social creatures and it would be fun to share some intimate moments of wonder and recognition with the opposite sex for balance and wholeness. Ce n'est pas comme ça?

Even though I don't speak French, I love the way they put things.....

So this afternoon I am busy cutting the roof out of my car to improve the openness to the countryside, the sky and the sun as I finish preparations for a glorious summer of exploration and re-establishing my intimacy with our world....

Care to join me? Hey, and if you have any experience installing sunroofs, or would like to learn, I'd be happy to teach you a few tricks with my tools.

Yes, Virginia there is more to sex than a few hours in bed.

For the fun of it, have a look at my picture here and if you would like send me a pic of yourself and let's engage in some conversation.

Who knows, you might discover a prince behind a frog.
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Sub! Some Like It On The Edge! Do U? (Eugene)

No more frustrations and inhibitions for a wet ride to the erotic side of desire. An Xtra Naughty girl you can be for an older guy or even Daddy if thats what you like?? with a twist of kink and moan. Fit to be tied and to please you will be teased want only. You can expect explorations down under and over easy to please and receive. You will experience things rough,and soft caressing, pinching, teasing, nibbling, pleasing, biting and exciting. Instruction provided! Direction given! Possibilities unlimited! Limits respected! Discretion guaranteed! Satisfaction assured! Safety priority! Yes safety is a must for you to trust so this works! Yes I like it! I like it all! Almost! If you are into BOY'S "move on." I am experienced, mature, Dominant, clean, positive, creative, I'm 5 foot 9 I'm 185 lbs.40 yr. with a touch of kink. You must be over 20 "height/weight proportionate or just not huge,"you prefer mature men, naughty, adventurous and love to please and explore your fantasies. Picture appreciated. but we can exchange later. SO I KNOW YOUR NOT SPAN PUT SUB GIRL IN THE SUBJECT LINE
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Hold me,kiss me,cuddle me (River road area) 27yr

So here's a big truth about me: I have not been in a real relationship in over 7 years. So pretty much my dating life sucks. So here's the thing: I don't want to be alone anymore. I'm looking for a long-term relationship. I don't have a car. I don't drink and smoke weed. I don't do hook-ups. I want to meet you,go places I've never been, and want to get to know you. I would love to get married someday and have kids too,but that only works if two people are willing see pass the faults,flaws,and failures. Love is a two way street. Both people have to be willing to take risks to find and earn love. So please, no spam,no links, no lies, and be just be the real you. Last of all, don't be way older than me or way younger than me. If you have a picture of you, please do send. If you want call/text me, send me your number. Thank you and have a great day!
  • Location: River road area
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Looking for a old fashion girlfriend (Eugene) 31yr

Looking for a old fashion GF maybe you know and understand what that is?
A women who cooks and clean for your man and pleases him in the bedroom as he needs it!
Since you don't live with me you won't be cleaning I am a man i can take care of myself, i work,own place,drive,cook for myself, not a slob!we also work as a team i want to do things together
I know what to do when it needs to be done, i know how to take control and make it happen
I'm kind,funny,giving,loving loyal to my women
really i know there is more then what i am saying here so if this interest you reply and send a pic i will send mine back and go from there





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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Gamer girl wanted (Eugene/Springfield) 21yr

As the title says, I'm looking for gamer chicks. It's hard enough to find them but I do know that you are out there. I prefer being around the type of person usually. You are more fun if you are nerdy :3

I'm 21, 5' 7" and I go to the UO. I have my life together for the most part. I am a bigger guy but I am currently getting healthier. But I'm still decent looking anyway :p but you can be the judge. Pic 4 pic, put your favorite game as the title. trying to sort out spam. Thanks :D
  • Location: Eugene/Springfield
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

22 year old from vegas (eugene) 22yr

Just moved here a few months ago from Las Vegas. Looking to get to know some girls. Ive raced dirtbikes since the age of 5 all of the country.
respond to email with a picture. also 4/20 friendly
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

ARE YOU ASIAN???? (Eugene Campus) 28yr

Im 28, white male,, 6 foot tall,, college guy here. looking for an Asian female.. I prefer ltr, but I am open to friends too! :) Please be real!!!
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

looking for LTR - m4w (Springfield Eugene) 23yr

I'm 6'1 I've got blue eyes light brown hair
I don't smoke I drink occasionally also I'm 420 friendly
I have a great sense of humor and love to make people laugh I also love spending time with my family and friends
I enjoy camping, fishing, sports, I also love to play video games and watch movies, I also like to read, I like pretty much all kinds of music,
I'm looking for someone about my age 20 - 27, independent, not afraid to speak their mind, good sense of humor and who likes video games, sports, movies
reply with your favorite color as the subject to let me know your real
pic 4 pic
hit me up if interested or text me
five 4 one 6zero six 8ninefor0
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Drinks and dancing tonight? (Eugene)

In the mood to go out and have some fun tonight. Dancing, drinks, laughter, good times! I have 2 jobs, a car, home, etc. I have been single a while now and ready to meet someone for something potentially long term. As long as we are attracted to each other and have common goals and interests I'm pretty much open.

I am in good shape, told I'm attractive, 5'9, 175 lbs, blue eyes. Everyone says I look about 28 but I' a lil older than that. I have normally dated women between 23-30.

I'm most attracted to 5'1 to 5'6, fair skin, pretty smile, pretty eyes, slender body.

Reply with a picture and I'll respond with some.

The night is about to begin, let's go tear it up on the dance floor!
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

looking for a young sexy bbw fwb (Eugene)

yes sexy....lol i want a friend to have lots of fun with!! i have a high sex drive and want this to be on going a few times a week would be awesome :)
sexy as in a nice smile or busty,beautiful face,long sexy hair, a spanking ass to me is sexy... i also love you to be easy going like me...lol
i do live alone and i do drive so reply i want this to rock!! send a pic please i will reply with mine i hope you think i'm cute

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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Has it been awhile since you had a man (Eugene) 29yr

Maybe it's been awhile since you had a man to touch and caress your body,kissing on your neck and your lips,give you the sensual feeling you need to feel like the women you are... i know how to take control and make it happen without making a big deal about it!
I not here to judge or ask why, feel free to tell me all you want?i have positive energy to share and will be respectful to our time
if this might interest you reply we can chat ,trade pics and go from there.
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Fun? hot tub tonight at my new place, new hot tub... (South Eugene ) 33yr

I'm 33 white male,, 6 foot tall,,fit, well hung, attractive guy here. looking for a fun female.. I just got a new house with a new hot tub!! :) Please be real!!!
  • Location: South Eugene
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Older guy seeks younger daughter type 20-35 (Eugene) 40yr


I'll Give You All The Attention and Advice Daddy Never Could!!! SO I KNOW YOUR REAL AND NOT SPAM PUT DADDY IN THE SUBJECT LINE

Do you feel lost and alone like no one understands you. Stay awake at night in the big city thinking their should be more than this. Have you always felt bored romantically with boys, when the men you want never talk to you pass you by on the street, maybe you get the occasional look, but you feel shy talking to the kind of men you like. Dream at night of being taken and having a daddy to serve, of having a strong man put you over his lap. Get excited by the idea of being taken hard, or softly. Have Dominant men always excited you, but you don't even know how to talk to one, or what to say, you just know you have a deep need to be taken.

I'm a Dominant man looking for my own lil girl, but experience for you isn't necessary, being the hottest girl isn't necessary all I truly ask for is a sweet disposition and a desire to be Daddys girl. I've had girls before while in college or just new to the city and looking for a similar dynamic now. A girl who not only needs a protector and leader, but always someone to cherish them to talk too, someone they can tell their deepest secrets too without hesitation. If this sounds like something you'd like, something you crave, something you SERIOUSLY want to pursue, Send me a email
ARE YOU TIRED OF BOYS OR MEN WHO ACT LIKE BOYS Don't know what they are doing or how to do it??
Do you want experience real experience
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Lets have some fun!!! (Eugene ) 29yr

Hello Ladies!!

I am a 29yr old single guy who recently moved to the Eugene/Springfield area. I am seeking fun and exciting people for new adventures in the Pacific Northwest. I enjoy the outdoors(camping hiking fishing) going to concerts and just hanging out and cuddling while watching TV. I really have no expectations from this ad but if you are looking for a guy that loves to have fun and knows how to treat a woman right send me a message....... ;)

I am looking for anything from just hanging out to dating to some NSA fun send me a message and lets talk more!!!
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Good looking, attractive, nice, fun guy (Eugene) 24yr

NO MEN!

Hey so,I am looking for a fwb, nsa type of relationship, ongoing if possible. I am disease free 6 feet tall, attractive, good looking, easygoing and an overall fun outgoing guy. I am very non-judgemental, if you are not sure just give me a try and e-mail me.
Personality and submissiveness is a big in my book. Sexual wise I am look for one or two things. Either you have big boobs because I really want someone who can titbang me or you love oral or both. You don"t have to be slim and stacked, If you are a bigger gal i may be ok with that so give me a try:) If you are interested in chatting, and seeing if we are a good match send me an email with a pic of yourself and we'll chat and get to know each other. I am very giving person as well

if this is still up i haven't met anyone.

  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Nature Lover Sun Lover healthy sbm (Eugene) 40yr

I am a good match for a earthy spirited true nature lover who loves inter racially . Im not into obesity or dating someone who looks 10 years older than me and or cant hike for 5 miles. Im 50 turned 50 in Hawaii I look no older than 40 and thats a young looking slim build brown skinned dread locked very clean no drugs or tobacco or heavy drinking I am a honest decent moralistic man w/integrity and strong disciplines and an intelligent healthy go getter and career minded goal oriented fun spiritual monogamous free thinker i enjoy vitality in a woman ages 30 to 50 I even like silver headed women who are fit and vibrant and energetic pretty but not vain and is open minded and honest and honestly sweet hearted and kind to all she can be. Peace and Love is all I seek!
  • Location: Eugene
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

paging Betty Page (J C) 43yr

can you pull off the look, or maybe norma jean ? i need a date for the car cruise . come ride in my flat black '63' dodge truck . i am 5 ft 8 in 175 lbs bald with haze/blue eyes
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Nerds Encouraged (UofO) 21yr

Heya, high chances if you're reading this, you're a girl of the nerdy persuasion. (54I)
That's a start. I'm looking for a girl entertaining and likes to be entertained. Any aspect of nerd or geek culture is a good place To start. I have other (232) interests, such as music, but we can talk about that later.

About me: I'm 21, 5' 7, and I go to college. I don't live at home and I drive. I love texting, and would love a new texting buddy too. I'm ultimately looking for a relationship. Whether its slow and steady or relatively quick, I want someone who wants a relationship. I wouldn't mind a fwb situation, but I'm rather tired of it.

If you email, please try to title it with your fav color, a pic, and little about you. If you txt me, Basically the same lol. I will respond promptly, most likely within the hour because I check my email frequently for school. Anyway hope to hear from ya! (I7o7)

Number is written throughout the message :D
  • Location: UofO
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Toned guy w/tats - m4w (Springfield) 21yr

Send a pic for pics of me in return. I'm toned, and have lots of body tattoos,21, and am down for anything
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

You me and my bud;) - mw4mw (Springfield) 21yr

No spam..........PLEASE

You can have me and my budddy we are tattooed and toned.
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Single, young, attractive! (Eugene) 22yr

Hey there, Im basicly open and looking to meet anyone interested! dating, hanging out or whatever..new friends etc. About me? well I graduated Massage Therapy school in 08. I am from the bay. I love hip hop and dif kinds of music..I grew up skating, Im athletic, slim, healthy. Ima sweet heart type of guy, I like to make a girl happy. I love to cuddle and kiss. Been in Eugene 2 years. If anyone wants to know more jus hit me up!
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

The Thought of it all :) (Springfield) 34yr

Just the thought of it, Sometimes people think about things, but are way to afraid, or embarassed to really give it a try. Maybe they have tried, but it wasn't the right situation for them. Ok, So what am I talking about you ask? Simple. I am talking about Poly Relationships. The kind where there is enough love and trust to make it even better than a "Normal" Relationship. We have been searching for the right girl to fit into our situation for a bit now. So far, we have found those who aren't wanting long term. We are looking for the live in girlfriend, wife, lover, friend. The girl who is very much Bi, and wants to have the best of both worlds. The girl who wants to live life with no regrets, and with all the love she can handle. Somewhat experienced is great, but not a deal breaker. We aren't just about sex, although that being great, its not what we are about. We are about the love and desires of others. Be free to explore and to get to know yourself, and your partners. If this is at all interesting to you, send me an e-mail with poly in the subject line. We will get back to you fairly soon. A pic, and a number would be great, as you will surely get one in return.
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Posted: May 18th, 2012