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Women looking in Bakersfield

SOMEONE REAL?! (Bakersfield) 21yr

Let's start by me explaining what I DON'T want... that way you can weed yourself out and save everyone some time :)

I am NOT looking for... a fuck buddy, a friend with benefits, a marriage, a married dude, a dude with a girlfriend, someone who cheats, someone who lies, someone who's not in bakersfield, and old dudes.

Ok glad I got that out of the way :) If you fall under ANY of those, please fuck off immediately <3 Thank you.



Now what I'm looking for is really simple.

SOMEONE REAL. No liars, No cheaters, No bullshitters..

Race, height, weight, looks in general DO NOT MATTER TO ME.

One thing though... I'm 21 years old.. so please be from 20-28.



I am a 21 year old female just like it says up top. I live in bakersfield. I'm only looking for men. NO women :)

I am looking for a friend, Possibly a boyfriend.. depending on YOU of course :) I'm not desperate or in any hurry to be someone's girlfriend, I would like to expand the people I know, but only with real, cool people :)

Don't be shy.. email me with your name, age, pic and some info about you :)

LOL, and whoever flagged me before :) that was cute. especially considering that there's NOTHING wrong with this post:) stay classy ya dicks ;)

  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Black Woman Who Loves White Men! (Rosedale area)

Would love to meet a great man who can actually have an articulate conversation and brings something to the table. I have no kids, i'm in my late 20's, I have a real job, and a car, 5'7", and curvy (sorry, not a BBW).

And like the title says, I do love white men but i'm open to any good man. Send a pic, let's go from there.
  • Location: Rosedale area
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Sex (Your Place)

You help me with $$$$ ill help you !
  • Location: Your Place
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Married women near Airport - w4m (Bakersfield) 27yr

White female 27 . i can host.. i live near the airport and just wanna have some fun.
you be clean and not smelly, white or hispanic, 18-30, open minded
let's have some funnnnn =)


You must have PIX, not into surprises.. =)
  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Lonely Spirit In A Strange Place (Bakersfield ) 25yr

Hello :)
I just started working downtown as a caregiver in Bakersfield. Im not from around here. I catch the greyhound from Victorville and work as a house sitter for couple that travels for their work 4 days a week. I feel their cats, fish and iguana. I sleep there Thursday through Sunday night and I am looking for a little bit of fun. I haven't had any 420 in a few years and I am looking for a good time. I dont cant say where things will lead because I do have a boyfriend but he lives in Barstow so we were already long distance. I just want a good time and some good laughs while I am getting paid to watch tv and go on the internet

I am short and got a little meat on my bones. I love tattoos, spoken word, drive in movies, pretty girls, cute guys, making out, getting my tits sucked,comedy movies, hookah, shooting pool and going bowling(even though I am terrible at both) I wouldn't even mind just having someone to sit and talk with for hours on end getting to know one another and understanding each others views. Life is short. Lets meet and see if out spirits like each other. I am very down to Earth, very liberal, a free spirit if you will. I am a California native, born to a Jamaican father, and a mother of mixed race, white and African american

Email me and we can chat for while to see if you would like to meet. I do not have a car, as I stated I take the greyhound bus here for work but I can meet you somewhere or you can pick me up if you dont mind. I just want some good eye candy and even better conversation. Please be at least 21 years old and drama free. Talk to you soon
  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

looking for some fun tonight :D (sw) 19yr

Super bored looking for some fun! I am 19. I love walking around parks, listening to music, and talking. I have brown hair, long sexy legs, 38C. Send me a pic and what you would like to do with me :) Maybe we can hang out?!
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Are you a paramedic? (Valley Plaza) 27yr

I think paramedics are WAY HOT!! I would LOVE to have a boyfriend who is a paramedic.
If you are a paramedic and you're single, please reply. (Same goes for fire department.)
Oh, you guys turn me on. You are tall, you are handsome, you are noble...
I am a pretty girl, and I can't wait to hear from you.
  • Location: Valley Plaza
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Polyandry... is it for you? (Bakersfield) 28yr

I am here looking for my ideal way of life.... A relationship with 2 men (aka polyandry, if you think polyandry is just about sex please either look it up or do not reply. I am not looking for married men, men in relationships looking to get some on the side. This is a lifestyle.). This is not a one night stand deal, this is a woman who wants to make 2 men happy in every way. If you think this could be for you then let me know. Put your age as the heading so I know it isn't spam and ad a photo (yes, I have to be attracted to you). Don't forget to tell me about yourself. What do you like to do for fun? Do you work? Something more than "Hi" or Let's chat".... If I like what I see I will reply with my pic and we can go from there.
  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Simple as it will ever be (Bakersfield)

This will best describe what I feel:

For a long time I was in love
Not only in love, I was obsessed
With a friendship that no one else could touch
It didn't work out, I'm covered in shells

And all I wanted was the simple things
A simple kind of life
And all I needed was a simple man
So I could be a wife

I'm so ashamed, I've been so mean
I don't know how it got to this point
I always was the one with all the love
You came along, I'm hunting you down

Like a sick domestic abuser looking for a fight
And all I wanted was the simple things
A simple kind of life

If we met tomorrow for the very first time
Would it start all over again?
Would I try to make you mine?

I always thought I'd be a mom
Sometimes I wish for a mistake
The longer that I wait the more selfish that I get
You seem like you'd be a good dad

Now all those simple things are simply too complicated for my life
How'd I get so faithful to my freedom?
A selfish kind of life
When all I ever wanted was the simple things
A simple kind of life


  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Looking for romance leading to a long term relationship (china) 35yr

i am single Chinese girl looking for romance leading to a long term relationship. I am looking for someone who I can care, love and trust. I am good-looking, caring, simple, value family & friends, humorous and also enjoy good things in life, music, movies, sports, reading, dining out, conversation, cooking, traveling etc. If you are single professional/business man, age between 33 t 45, caring, honest and loyal, ready to commit to a genuine relationship and I look forward to receive your message. Thanks!
  • Location: china
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

LtR :) (Bakersfield) 20yr

Well i start off by sayin im black im pretty, funn ill make you laugh i love swimming beach trips outdoors ski trips movies cuddling and all that good stuff . Im looking for a relationship someone thats my bestfriend email me and will get to know each other and go from there im 5'9 so im looking for someone 6ft 20- 25 my preference are White and Samoan
  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

lovin' the sunshine (Bakersfield) 30yr

I really want to enjoy this summer, maybe learn how to fish or shoot or golf....or something! I keep pretty busy, but there's always time to get more out of life.

What are you doing this summer?
  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Rockin the beer gut (by panorama) 20yr

well i'm just a simple girl that loves simple things like beer and whiskey looking for her simple guy that like to just hang out and be with his girl. Now don't get me wrong, im not a party girl, not a club girl, just a girl that likes to hang out by a fir or with her man, and drink, hang out, and have a good time with a guy that can hold his own. Yes, I do like my beer and whiskey but I also love other things like offroading, sports, and just anything that catches my attention. I am looking for a guy that loves the dirt and knows how to treat a woman. I am a bbw but let's just call it a beer gut ;) haa nah i'm not ashamed yeah i am a big girl but i know how to have a good time and when i love some one it's to my fullest so hit me up if you like what you hear with a pic, age, and location.
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Need a man (Tehachapi) 18yr

I need a man that will be my best friend and my lover if that is you send me an email with ur name age and something about u
  • Location: Tehachapi
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

lets chill (bako) 22yr

looking for a chill guy or girl or both to hang out with:)
  • Location: bako
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

Trying Over Again..... (Bakersfield) 50yr

Trying this again, I am a single white female looking for a single white male. I would like to find a man that wants to start out as friends first and see where it goes from there. I enjoy the outdoors, walking on the beach, BBQ's, going to the movies. Oh and I am for real, not a spam or some web site. I am not looking for a friends with benefits. Oh and please don't ask for me to send you a picture if you are not going to send one to me.........

Thanks

  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: Apr 30th, 2012

looking for a LTR (Bakersfield) 20yr

Hey well im black 5'9 light skin pretty funny & jus loves to laugh .
Ready to be in a relationship been single for too long so hmu if your looking for the same thing i love white guys.

P.s plz have a face pic & no 1 over 24!
  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: Apr 29th, 2012

looking for somethin real :) (Bakersfield) 19yr

Hey yall :) Just lookin for somethin real. Can't seem to find a good guy so I thought I might try this.

About me: I am 19, 5'4", white, average build. I do have my own car and a part time job. I love bein outdoors, hiking, camping, wakeboarding, fishing, horseback riding, running, sports. I am outgoing, hyper, and loud at times. I am stubborn and determined. I love to have a good time and don't need drugs or alcohol to do it. I do enjoy the occasional beer however :)

What I am looking for: No shorter than 5'8", between 19 and 25, white, has a job, has a car. I want a guy who isn't afraid to make fun of himself, who is funny, sweet, outgoing, outspoken, and honest. Must love animals. Must love the beach and the mountains.

Well, if any of this sounds interesting, write me with your name, age, picture (your pic gets mine), and some information about yourself.
  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

Real man (Tehachapi) 18yr

Im 18 and im looking for somebody who will love me for who i am.. i have been brokenhearted enough and im judt look for somebody who wants to be with me. I love to sing and love all kinds of music. Ilove to be outdoors and i love animals.No men over 25 and u must live in tehachapi. If you are interested email me put real man in the subject

  • Location: Tehachapi
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

Where is that great guy? (Bakersfield) 28yr

I am looking to meet a handsome black or hispanic man in my area for a long term relationship. Wanting someone who is 28 or older as well. A little about me. I am a single white woman. Average weight and height. Likes- Movies, good books, cuddling on the couch. Dislikes- Liars, drugs (not 420 friendly here), and people who don't know the meaning of respect. I don't drink much but you don't need alcohol to have a good time, and I don't care if others do.
  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

BBW looking for a LTR!!! 29yr



HELLO GUYS,
I AM A 29 YR OLD FEMALE THAT IS LOOKING FOR A NICE THAT IS LOOKING FOR A LTR. IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU MIGHT AS WELL MOVE ON NOW. I DONT WANT THE DRAMA OR GAMES. A LITTLE ABOUT MYSELF I AM 5*7 RED HAIR AND BLUE EYES. I HAVE NO CHILDREN. I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEONE BETWEEN THE AGES OF 30-45 THAT KNOWS WHAT THEY WANT IN LIFE AND ISNT AFRAID TO BE THEMSELFS AT ALL TIMES. I WANT TO MEET SOMEONE WHO ISNT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND OR A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS THING CAUSE I AM NOT INTO ALL THAT. SO IF YOU ARE INTRESTED SEND ME A MESSAGE AND PUT YOUR NAME IN THE SUBJECT LINE SO THAT I KNOW THAT U ARENT SPAM I WILL DELETE IT OTHERWISE
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

YounngPhotographer Ltr (bakersfield) 22yr

Hi My Names Marriassa!,
Im 22 Aspiringg Photographer
looking for a ltr?? knows how to cook <3
no older theenn 25! <3 send me a pikk witthh ASL andd i'll returnn!!
im tired of the bs andd Games im lookingg for somethingg real!!
we cann go onn a feww dates meet inn publicc
get to know eachh other andd see were it goess from there <3
wanna knoww seendd mee ann email!! <3
inn subject write SOMETHING REAL
hope to hear from youu soon <3

  • Location: bakersfield
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

Life's to short not to enjoy ig (Bakersfield) 41yr

Blind hair, hazel green eyes, 5'5 very active, but few active pounds
I am divorce with kids. I'm looking for a guy who
Is smart, good sense of humor and can make me smile, who likes
Kids, and shares an interest in being active, please no couch potatoes,
I like outdoors, sports , swimming , hiking, morning jogs, and hitting the trails
On my bike.

Here where I will lose some of u.,,, althought I'm not
Ready or looking for. Serious right now, let's go out and have
Fun for now, but I am not a one night stand If u r just looking
To have for one nite please move on But if ur serious enought to want
To have fun and hang out and see where it goes please send me message
  • Location: Bakersfield
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

New start:-) (The valley) 25yr

Like the tittle says, I'm ready for a new start. I'm a single mom that does everything for her kids:-) I work full time and go to school part time. I love being outdoors, and taking trips. I'm outgoing and I will always speak my mind!! I'm not looking to jump into a relationship! I'd want to talk for a bit and see if we could get along and then see where things go from there. If you'd like to get to know me send me a message:-)
  • Location: The valley
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Posted: Apr 18th, 2012

Hold me tight (Bakersfield,CA) 24yr

I miss having someone around holding me. I'm straight forward type of girl. Just looking for someone to care for me and make me laugh. I love going out and watching a movie. Or going out and hanging out at the park. I'm someone who is down to earth and just loves to have fun. I'm a bbw and I love all of my curves. I'm looking for something longterm and looking for someone who is between 25-32. Put your age in the tittle, so, i know your real.
  • Location: Bakersfield,CA
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Posted: Apr 18th, 2012

LOOKING TO FALL IN LOVE? (TEHACHAPI) 32yr

SO, IM GETTING REAL TIRED OF NOT FINDING MR. RIGHT, NOT MR. RIGHT NOW.
I'M SOON TO BE 32 YRS OLD, 6 FEET TALL,CURVY BUILD, BRUNETTE, BROWN EYES, CUTE. IM NOT LOOKING FOR 1NITE STANDS, OR NSA. I'M LOOKING TO FALL IN LOVE!
I'M LOOKING FOR SOMEONE BETWEEN 25-50 YRS OLD, WHO HAS A GOOD HEAD ON THEIR SHOULDERS, A GOOD HEART, SENSE OF HUMOR, UNDERSTANDING, AND TALL.
HATE TO PUT THIS: BUT PLEASE HAVE A CAR AND A JOB.
  • Location: TEHACHAPI
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Posted: Apr 16th, 2012

Hispanic Lady Needs Spoiled & Loved (Delano) 20yr

Hi, Im looking for that special someone. That person who i can be my self with, spoil me like im his everything sweep me off his feet
have wonderful momemts with, someone that is family oriented, that is hardworking, loving, caring, loves to go out or stay in, goodlooking.
a lil about me: 5'3, dark brown eyes, black hair, NOT SKINNY Nor BIG WHALE(no offense ladies) im very loving and caring, single mother
going to school to get an education. best body feature: my eyes and smile. promise me, im not ugly lol will send pic if want one.
  • Location: Delano
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Posted: Apr 15th, 2012

a Mr. Right out there? (tehachapi) 31yr

Is there a Mr. Right out there for me?? I've been getting so frustrated lately, since I cant seem to just find that "right" guy for me. I'm tall (5'11 1/2"), curvy build, brown hair, and brunette.
  • Location: tehachapi
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Posted: Apr 7th, 2012