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Women looking in Monterey Bay

Curvy vivacious lady seeking tennis player (Monterey area) 49yr

I'm looking for a strong intermediate tennis player that loves the game as much as I do. I'm curvy and full of energy and play 3-4 times a week. I live and work in the Monterey area. I am divorced, a homeowner, intelligent, college educated and looking for the same.

I'm also looking for someone that is spiritual and knows what they want in life.

When you reply tell me about yourself and why I'd like to spend time with you. Namaste

  • Location: Monterey area
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

country girl looking for fun (prunedale) 32yr

Hello, my name is Katie, Im 32 with 3 kids, looking for a man between the ages of 28-40...I like a bigger man, tall and facial hair. i love country music and just about to go to another country show very soon. let me know something about yourself. As for me i love to camp, fish,hunt and ride quads and dirt bikes.......And tons more fun stuff. Im into white guys or portuguese ONLY! I cant wait to hear from you, Hurry cuz the rodeo is coming......:)


  • Location: prunedale
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

No time for BS/ Just fun n more (PG/pacific grove) 26yr

please dont reply if your just looking to fuck, or if your drama packed! email me something about yourself and i will email you back your pic gets mine
  • Location: PG/pacific grove
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Sass, Crass, & Class part duce (Salinas) 29yr

if you're here looking for a hook up, fwb, or anything like that, then move on.  I want to meet an awesome man, a man who ACTUALLY wants to date. Someone who wants to do The whole "talk, hang out and get to know each other first" thing and not the "jump right into bed ASAP" thing because let's face it, that's just pretty cheap, and I'm expensive (that's a joke).

About me: I'm quiet the character and a unique one at that. Im a 29 year old 5'2 Mexican who doesn't know how to cook and can't speak a lick of spanish. Pathetic, I know, but I make up in humor and spontaneous surprises. Im not a 5't blonde hair blue eyed bombshell, so if thats what you're looking for than i suggest you move on, but if you like short, curvy (not fat, i work put regularly), brown eyed girls than im a good one. I'm creative, artistic, and fouled mouthed. four letter words are my favorite, but I can contain myself when need be. People always compliment me on my "style", so if you like that vintage rebel type than that's me! Now I'm starting to sound like a manly chick. Just so you know, I'm pretty Girly too. I enjoy playing with my makeup, shopping, and dancing to music, but I also like mud and cars. On rare occasions i can get down right classy. I'm an expert at losing chess and any other board game for that matter. I'm a nerd for video games and science channels, I read a shit ton of sci fi books, and I'm constantly making jokes. 


if I intrigue you this far than email me. I will not respond to one liners, kinda pointless. No dick pics and only non nasty pic for non nasty pic. Serious dudes only this time. 
  • Location: Salinas
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

*a long term-relationship would be nice, no games* (salinas) 24yr

~~>>Whats up, Im looking for a relationship..or something that can lead into a nice relationship..pls dont respond if your a guy wanting to meet up for just sex and all that bullshit ;) <<~~

Pros:
Hardworker, ages 23-30,educated, no kids, funny, simple, nice height...thats all i can think of now.. :)

Me:
5'5, average body type, mex, funny, nice, simple, works full time for a bank, goes to class at night, likes to drink & dance, enjoys the gym and enjoys sports, loves music...

...Send me a msg and we can trade some pics and get to knojw eachother...
  • Location: salinas
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Friendship or more (Monterey area) 28yr

Hey there-As you see this is what I am looking for. I want to get to know someone first you know go out on dates, hang out, not wanting to rush into anything just yet. It would be nice to have someone to go out with. I know not sexy like "oh lets have sex". But like I said friendship or more- NOT a hook up. Hard to find honest guys who are serious. I work and have other things to keep me busy. Email me if you want to know more.

PS: If you judge everything based on looks please do not reply. If you ask for a picture right off the bat without getting to know me then do not reply. I understand you want to see who you are talking to but get to know me before you disregard me as a person for what I look like. Just a thought.
  • Location: Monterey area
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Newly single, needing to get out there (Monterey /Hollister ) 35yr

I'm newly single, and not sure exactly what I want right now. I know I need to get back out there, meet new people. I know I'd like someone fun to hang out with. I'm know I'm not interested in a wham bam night. I think a lot would depend on the man I meet. It definitely must be someone I can enjoy a great conversation with.
As far as the type of man I'm attracted to, I like/prefer tall men, average to athletic to stocky build. Somewhere in the age range of 25 to 44 or so, non-smoker, non drug user, light drinking ok. Open minded, non judgemental, warm hearted, emotionally generous, kind, thoughtful, affectionate. I am not interested in those who are not single, those who have a pathological aversion to good hygiene practices, someone who's ideal of bonding involves helping each other custom fit tin foil hats, or axe murderers.
About me: 5'3", chubby/curvy bbw, blue eye blonde. I'm usually told I embody all of the traits I appreciate in someone else. Not perfectly, but I try. Except for the masculine part, I pretty well suck at that.
Please send me a face pic, of you, and I'll send one in return.

  • Location: Monterey /Hollister
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Muse (Monterey) 29yr

Single very attractive (5'8, athletic, long hair) 29 year old professional woman looking to experience fun. I love mental stimulation and am sucker for interesting conversation. LTR is not expected or desired. I am truly looking for a friends with benefits type of arrangement/understanding. I seek occasional companionship without the drama of a relationship (no, this does not solely mean a sexual partner). Professionally taking care of others needs,  i occasionally need someone to take care of mine. A confident man that calls the shots is refreshing however, like a bird I do not want to caged. I have a busy life and seek adventures for the weekend, or occasional week night out. I'm not shallow when it come to appearances but I do require my companion to be financially and emotionally stable. What you drink, smoke, how you vote, etc is your business. In college, picnics, road trips, and cheap outings were fun, but now I'm looking for new adventures with  more substance and thought. 

If interested, share a little about yourself and the enjoyable things you want to experience with a companion.
  • Location: Monterey
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

bbw seeks mr. right (salinas) 31yr

the title says it all. im a bbw looking for mr. right. not a hook up, one night stand, or fwb. i can find that any time i want. no, im looking for someone i can settle down with. the guy who wants to take care of me. the guy who wants kids. please be over 25, have a job, a car, and not live with your parents. its kind of hard to get to know someone with their parents around all the time, and i live with my mom so we cant hang out here. oh, and im a smoker and not looking to quit yet, so dont be bugging me about it.
  • Location: salinas
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

Nice girl seeking an honest friendship and maybe more (Monterey) 41yr

I'm good-looking, kind and outgoing. I look younger than my actual age. I would like to meet a guy who I can hang out. You must be tall and educated. Send me your picture and tell me about yourself in a few words and ask the questions about me that you like to know.I won't answer emails without pictures. In the subject line, write your favorite place to have dinner. Don't bother if you are married.
  • Location: Monterey
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

fun movie night?! (monterey) 28yr

HELLO!
With all those great summer movies coming out (Avengers, Battleship...) it would be fun to go with someone as a "date." I'm 28, a Teacher here in Monterey and like to meet new people with similar interests. Some of my interests are: SF Giants, SF 49ers, outdoor activities (walking, biking, hiking..) and being around fun people!
Please e-mail and I'll send you back my info/pic! THANKS!
  • Location: monterey
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

Looking for some adventure! (Sacramento, CA) 22yr

I'm a pretty younger woman looking for something new and fresh! I am just wanting to see who is out there and meet some new people. I find it refreshing putting myself out there and talking to people who don't live next door. Ideally, I would like to get to know a man under the age of 35 just because I am younger myself... I am about 5'7", naturally blonde but have colored my hair dark for now, ivory skin, curvy body (not bbw or huge), I enjoy excercising and being active. If I sound interesting enough please respond with a picture! No pic no response. I 'll definitely reciprocate. :)
  • Location: Sacramento, CA
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

SOMEONE SPECIAL (MONTEREY BAY)

HI THERE, I AM LOOKING FOR A MAN WHO KNOWS WHAT LOVE IS I ALSO WANT A MAN WHO IS RESPECFUL, HONEST AND GOOD LOOKING. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR SEX, PLEASE DONT REPLAY THIS ADD IF YOU DONT HAVE THE PROFILE THAT I AM LOOKING FOR. REPLAY THE ADD WITH A PICTURE OF YOURSELF PLEASE NO DIRTY PICTURES.

•Location: MONTEREY BAY AREA

  • Location: MONTEREY BAY
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Posted: May 5th, 2012

Good-looking and energetic woman looking for older rich guy (Monterey) 40yr

I'm a financially secure woman, good-looking and have good body. I would like to meet an older guy who likes to enjoy life with a faithful partner. I'm 5' 6" and 130 lbs . kind and educated, not looking for drama. I have a good and secure job and enjoy it. I like to pamper and to be pampered. As a woman I have a lot to offer, But you should be the right person. 2 things that I don't like in a man : being short, having a big belly. I would like to meet a confident, secure, educated and financially secure older guy. NO married man. please send me your picture and write your name in the subject line.
  • Location: Monterey
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Posted: May 5th, 2012

Dipping toes in... (Monterey Penninsula) 30yr

This thirty year old is finally ready to break the vacation from dating.

I'm a work in process, bubbly and genuine. Have a keen eye for observation. Not a model but not bad at all. Independent, slightly old school, and fairly centered. Kind grace with a flair. My dog and cat are great company, a self-assured male around would do us all good.

You, between 33-55. Please be free to date without third party hearts in tow. Clear about friends first with interest in possible LTR. Willing to appreciate a work in progress gal with great potential and an open heart. If your able to introduce me to what a real relationship can be I'll be a loyal partner. Must love nature, music, kindness and exploration. Be spontaneous. Be forthright. Be you.

Interested?
  • Location: Monterey Penninsula
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Posted: May 3rd, 2012

Blond beauty seeking mensch (Monterey-Santa cruz) 43yr

Attractive darling seeking a true mensch for long term love and friendship, you will be very happy. Please send your # and name, tell me a bit about you and I will for sure be ringing to set up our time to meet each other. I am hoping for the right match
Shalom
V
  • Location: Monterey-Santa cruz
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

Hello there... (Monterey Bay) 20yr

Hello,
So before I go on about what I look for in a man, I think it's only fair that I tell you a little about myself. I am a twenty year young women (turning 21 this May). I attend college with an undeclared major, still trying to figure out what I want to do for the majority of my life. I consider myself to be caring, generous, kindhearted, outgoing, funny, and loyal; I consider myself to be more then that, but for the purposes of this post, I'll leave it short and sweet. I am 5'4", 130lbs, curly long brown hair, brown eyes, honey skin tone, white teeth, and slim figure. I would consider myself to be attractive, but I'll let you be the judge.
So a little about what I want from a man. I am looking for a man between the ages of 20 and 26. If you decide to respond to my post you should be independent; car, stable place to live, in college and/or have a career. I cannot stand cigarettes and will not ever consider dating a smoker of any kind; cigaretttes, weed, cigars. I am also a drug free person, so please don't reapond if you do drugs of any kind. Alcohol is okay if you like to drink socially.
So, I know I might seem a bit demanding, but I have high standards in myself, so it only makes sense that I have high standards in the man I date. Once you get to know me I am really an awesome person to be around. I am of course not looking for a husband on here, but rather a fun man to date with open options.
If I sound like someone you may be interested in then please send me an email, I am looking forward to meeting you. Please put, white, in the subject line so I know you read my post.
Also, one last word of advice, I will not respond to messages something like these; "can I get your number?", "wanna have a threesome with me and my girl?", "looking for a f*** buddy?", "lemme get your pic though".
Thanks :)
  • Location: Monterey Bay
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Vivacious BBW Beauty (Monterey County) 52yr

Ok...I swear if I get anymore ridiculous spam I am going to scream. This is serious ad for a LTR. If you are a serious man and not spam and you are employed, sweet, have a brain email me. Otherwise don't.

I know you are out there somewhere.

Your pic gets mine.
  • Location: Monterey County
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Posted: Apr 21st, 2012

Any real men still out there? (Monterey) 23yr

I'm looking for a real man. Someone that knows how to put on an actual date and have an actual conversation. For me, communication is key. I'm very affectionate too.
So hit me up if you think you can hang :)
  • Location: Monterey
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

Where are the intelligent men? (Seaside) 32yr

I'm looking for an intelligent man to engage with on an intellectual and emotionally mature plane. I've been in a long term relationship lacking intrigue. Challenge me, or maybe even conquer me. ;) Reply with "Challenge" in the subject line, pictures are appreciated.
  • Location: Seaside
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Posted: Apr 18th, 2012

Shiksa Seeks Mensch (Monterey Peninsula) 42yr

Superfit single shiksa, 42, wants to meet a Jewish man. (Why Jewish? I've got my reasons, which are not religious.) I am tall, funny, and educated. I work in the arts and as a science educator. You are smart, single, and probably work with your mind. Tell me about yourself, Mr. Mensch, and I will get in touch.
  • Location: Monterey Peninsula
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Posted: Apr 15th, 2012

Just want to smile (Monterey ) 27yr

Hi, i am in the Air Force and I am 27, looking for someone to make me laugh.... I love life, I love doing everything, and love love to laugh.... any guy out there who wants to start off texting and then maybe lead up email with a pic... I promise I will send one back. Love to hear from ya also one last thing please put you like most about a women in the subject line so i know your real and also that i know what you like.....
I got great curves
red hair
and green eyes
  • Location: Monterey
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Posted: Apr 13th, 2012

Thick Single Mom for friends, maybe LTR (Salinas) 23yr

Hey There!!!

Here's a little bit about me:

Cigarette smoker
Tall (over 5'11)
Thick (bbw) but attractive
Single mom
23 years old
Moving back to the area, after being gone for about a year
Have tattoos
Honest, loyal, kind-hearted, Caring, loveable, have a sense of humor (but know when to be serious), Sarcastic, fun to be around, Down to earth, Sincere (but know
how to be tough)
Love sports, quads, camping, fishing, shopping (sometimes), movies (both at home and theaters) cuddling, bowling, pool, theme parks, Mini golf (even though i'm not very good at it), road trips, casinos, bingo (yea i know, it's an old lady game lol), Spending time with the ones i love, Drinking (LOVE beer pong), bars, clubs,
dancing, Video games (rock band, guitar hero, super mario bros, MLB, Madden, etc), Reading, concerts, and much more.
My family is my everything, especially my child. So if you can't handle that he comes first, then move along.
Can NOT stand cheaters, or liars
I like all music from Country, to rock, to rap, to oldies, and everything in between!
Love to lay on my 'special someone's chest and have my hair played with
Want to eventually settle down, get married, and have 1-2 more kids (all in good time)

What I'm looking for:
I'm not looking for FWB, or NSA, just friends or an LTR
Someone who is honest, loyal, knows how to be sensitive (but stands up for his woman), Someone who has a great sense of humor (but knows when it's time to be serious) Someone who either loves kids, or has some of their own, Someone who doesn't mind being the first person I think of when i wake up, and the last person i think about when i go to bed (and the feeling is the same in return), Someone who doesn't have a commitment problem, and can talk about their feelings and our problems.
Someone who loves to spoil his girl, and spend as much time with her as possible, Someone who is outgoing and kind-hearted, Someone who won't judge me for little things that i do that you may not agree with (like if i listen to a type of music you don't prefer) Someone who will make me feel special, wanted, and needed. Someone who doesn't mind complimenting me on a daily basis. Someone who doesn't mind surprising me, Someone who listens to what i have to say, someone who can't get enough of me. Tattoo's are sexy, so if have some, it's a plus, but not a big deal.


If you're still reading this, then obviously you're still interested, so send a reply! The least that can happen is you and I both gain a friend out of this.
In The Subject Line put your favorite Movie, or i'll think it's spam, and won't bother reading it! Your picture will receive mine! PLEASE no b.s. one liner's and be creative when telling me about yourself.

Thanks, and Take Care!
  • Location: Salinas
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Posted: Apr 12th, 2012

Looking for a coastal romance/ltr (San Jose Area) 50yr

Hi,
I am looking for a friendship/romance that leads to a long term relationship with a man LIVING ON THE COAST/CARMEL/PG/MONTEREY. I figure I have this side of the world to offer in terms of concerts, fairs, and parks SJ/LG/SF/WG - I am a homeowner with lots of enthusiasm, am self reliant and want you to be too. I want a man who is established, and not struggling. I am not high maintenance but I really just want to start enjoying my time off, have fun and learn new things and perhaps travel a bit. Staying home, watching a movie and enjoying a home cooked meal are things I treasure as well. I work hard all week and need to relax with someone who hasn't forgotten how to laugh, walk in the rain and experience new adventures.
I am in my 50's, extremely healthy, workout and swim throughout the week and love adventure. I am a little on the reserved side, and playful by nature. I am looking for someone who is SINGLE, not separated or still in a committed relationship.
If you have kids...fantastic. I do not but I love them just the same.
I am very much into live music and concerts ranging from progressive jazz to rock/oldies and what's current, -I am pretty much open to all styles. I am not picky when it comes to food and love to try new things. I love red wine and an occassional cocktail but not a smoker.
I am hoping to meet someone who is romantic by nature, enjoys a joke now and then and who can be patient and encouraging.
PLEASE READ THIS PART VERY CAREFULLY: send some personal information about yourself-not just a line to hook me in, a few photographs will get my attention and why you think we would be a good match. (no pix, no info, no reply :P ) ****AND PLEASE LIVE IN OR BY THE COAST******
I am a real person, searching for a friendship/courting-dating situation. I have a good heart, and always try to do the right thing.



  • Location: San Jose Area
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Posted: Apr 10th, 2012

Together is Better~ 44yr

Being single is overrated! I would love to find someone cool to hang out with. I love to have fun. I enjoy goodtimes outdoors and inside. I like live music concerts, festivals, day trips to the country or the city, camping and traveling, and anything adventurous. I am not a fitness freak or skinny mini, just your average cute 40 something single mom. I have blond hair and blue eyes, and a contagious smile. I have been told I'm cute and fun to be with. I can be very passionate if the chemistry is right, and ideally that's what I am hoping for... CHEMISTRY! Together is Better!
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Posted: Apr 9th, 2012