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Women looking in Orange County

buff and in shape works for me (oc)

want someone in shape, someone who works out. all around good guy your pic gets mine please be over 30.....

  • Location: oc
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Smart, attractive and alone (Seal Beach) 64yr

Looking for my best friend and a lover, too
I'm looking for love and hope you are too.



I have plenty of time on my hands to spend with you. I would like someone to spend some time with and have a good relationship.And find love.Then intimacy. Long term.



I'm 5'6" and average weight and live in a condo here. If you would like to talk with me....possibly exchange emails then meet, write to me.



A picture would be appreciated . Please be caucasion and single like I am and 58-65 No photo, no reply
  • Location: Seal Beach
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Don't Want to miss a good thing (costa mesa) 23yr

cute bbw blonde, in town soon so hurry over and lets fuck. i just need help getting a room, serious emails
  • Location: costa mesa
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

bored (irvine) 22yr

want to chat and possibly meet? you come to me and maybe watch a movie or something??? please be good company without expectations. please respond with a pic
  • Location: irvine
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Late night dinner (CM/O.C) 23yr

I'm a strong independent mother of one, but sometimes i need a man that can help with the stress life throws at you, I'm really looking for a man that would love to go to dinner or a movie and have a good time and maybe help a little with some small stuff, I'm in NO way a gold-digger or will i ever be one, i just need that male support sometimes being a single mom is hard and we all need time to relax and feel appreciated some times. Age does not bother me at all,i prefer older men.
  • Location: CM/O.C
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

long term :) (oc) 22yr

Im looking for a long term relationship. lets date and see where it goes. I roll pin up sometimes so you have to be ok with that style. I love big eyelashes and big red lips. please have goals and some kind of future. have a job and a car. i don't mean to sound picky,but guys who don't meet these small requirements are usually the ones that are dead beats. Please be stylish and good looking the taller the better,the more tattoos the better. I'm 5'4 latina curvy. Please be looking for something serious as i am. piercings are always sexy. I want someone I can lay at home with or go out with and have a great time. Someone who brings our the best in me and is a true gentleman,who wants to take me on a date not in his bed. I want someone who isn't afraid to be romantic and sweet and doesn't care if his friends see him kiss me. I want someone who is open with sharing their feelings. please send a pic be under 28
  • Location: oc
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Today, tomorrow and forever (OC) 39yr

Yes, I want it all. I want a love not only for today or tomorrow I want it forever, for a lifetime, don't you? Each and every day we spend together we learn more about eachother, our likes and dislikes, our needs and our wants. Looking forward to hearing from you, and seeing if we match.
  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Laguna beach happy hour? (Laguna beach) 33yr

i love happy hours.9fou9***4two4***4two***9one.Lets have some fun!5-3 125 dark hair and sea blue eyes.
  • Location: Laguna beach
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Partner in Life with Excellence (South, OC) 53yr


I AM A PASSIONATE , HAPPY AND REAL LADY WHO:

Is emotionally available and is not afraid to honestly speak my mind, or changes my plans, after all I am a woman.
Has strong will and personality and financially street-smart and responsible. No debts.
That clearly knows where I am going to and how to get there.
Nurtures and appreciates open-direct communication. I highly respect myself and others.
Enjoys the gift of life and the blessing of friendship.
Understands that relationships are more important than money. She is a giver not a taker and appreciate the same in her man.
Has the time to love and to be loved. I can take Mondays or Fridays off to extend out play time.
Set time aside to REALLY nurture a relationship WITHOUT TAKING IT FOR GRANTED or live it under RULES.
Has an open-minded, high stamina, is experienced, playful and creative attitude to sexuality. I know, respect and try to address the simplicity of my man's needs. I know how to enjoy life with historical responsibility and at the right time frame. One night stand will never happen.
Has a playful lady capable to laugh of herself and of her own mistakes. Thanks God, I am not perfect.
Understands and respect family and moral values.
Is a powerful team member as I know what it takes 2 to tango, specially during tough financial time. It makes relationships stronger and more solid.
Live the life passionately and in full with it risks.

ME:
I am ONLY for a gentleman who is beyond California's standards, as I am a professional Latin American lady, long curly hair, 5.3, natural busty, positive disposition to life. I am curvy, with extra pounds, as I am not perfect, but fix enough to play sports: bowling, body-boarding, hiking (7 miles intermediate trails), biking (20 miles a week), table tennis and badminton, boating, fishing and my new passion sailing. I love traveling (USA and internationally (15 countries and counting) and is a passionate reader. I do not care if you are SHORT, BALD, HAIRY, IF YOU OWN OR RENT, TYPE OF CAR, OR WHAT YOU DO HAVE OR DO NOT, YOUR SKIN COLOR, what I care is about your values, how genuine, honest to make a living means, happy about yourself, respectful with relationship, that you act according to your values (Walk the talk), and how you treat others. I am Non smoker, no drugs (prescription nor over-the-counter) or heavy drinker. Please, be 48 and older.

We are not here to change anyone, so understand that I love classic music, conferences on different topics; my mind is too bright to hibernate, a man with a open world views mind is very important to me, open mic nights and live concerts. Mostly I love to take my man with me to mingle with Latin American people, to dance, sing and eat until we drop or the police arrive. So please be open to cultures and different world views. Otherwise we will not last as a couple.

If you are on the search of lady with my values, I will love to know you better. Your pic will get mine. Friendship is the strong foundation for a long lasting trustful connection. To void spam, please reply by answering : How have you been impacted this world in a positive way?

  • Location: South, OC
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

music lover needs a dance partner (Riverside) 22yr

I am single and searching for my perfect guy. I prefer guys which do not have drama, who are over 20 and level headed. I'm 22 and got a wonderful body. If your interested let's talk.
  • Location: Riverside
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

email,text,talk,meet (SoCal) 40yr

Girly girl that loves sports and traveling. Motocross, baseball, hockey, football, please no soccer ;). Love Vegas trips, Palm Springs, San Diego, etc. Looking for a guy that's a one woman guy, no players, liars or cheats. I don't so I expect you not to. :)
Email me and put your favorite sport in the title so I know you're not a fake.
  • Location: SoCal
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

just one decent guy (SoCal) 39yr

i like sports. most sports......the faster the pace the better. motorcross, hockey, any kind of racing, baseball (i know, not really fast-paced, but i like it anyways). and as much as i like sports, i am still a girly girl. i still like to dress up and wear heels. vegas is a fun weekend trip. love the beach and just hanging out. low maintenance. any nice guys who know how to be loyal to one person at a time, please feel free to email me. no drama, no players, no guys who can't settle down with one girl at a time. thanks !!!!!! put your favorite sport in the title so i know you're real :)
pic for pic
  • Location: SoCal
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

:) (Laguna Hills) 22yr

I'm looking to meet new people. I'm sick of all the bar rats I've been meeting and pretending to be interested in how many shots they can take in one sitting. I'm all for having fun and going out and drinking with my friends. I just want to meet people with more substance than what I have been meeting. I'm a college student, I work, I volunteer, and I'm pretty awesome. I like to pretend like I'm really good at photography, I like to go to the beach/pool, I like to drive on PCH and blast music, I like to be sarcastic, I like playing video games, and I have turned over a new leaf and I'm pretty determined to try every new thing that interests me now. So I want to meet someone that I can be really lazy with, but also go out with at night and be active with and go on hikes. In guys I like sarcasm, tall guys, tattoos, cute smiles, fun, normal, attractive. I'm just testing this to see how it goes. I don't lack meeting guys when I'm out at night, but as I said, they are never my type so I figured I would try something else out and see how bad the luck is here.
  • Location: Laguna Hills
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

want more then just mirror reflection to keep you company? (Laguna beach) 42yr

I am simple.I am a woman to the core. I do not want to "get laid". I miss love making. I do not want you to send me pic of your genitalia.I am an artist, a good one , I know anatomy.Your member is not going to impress me. Your wit, your old fashioned good manners will.If you find a photo I took of car wash as interesting and beautiful as I do a plus:) Good hunting to you;)
  • Location: Laguna beach
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

seeking true partner for LTR (Orange)

Seeking just that, not for casual one-time, nsa, or similar. Also, just don't want a text or fb buddy. Why so hard to meet someone with a mutual connection and talk on the phone and meet up like the good ol' days?

---me...Good looking black female, early 30s, with a good brain , class, curvy in good health/shape. Interests include music(all kinds of music!), books, travel, sports (Angels, NFL, etc), arts, TV and photography. I;m like a girl next door type, get along well, no drama in my life. I'm not a party girl but like the occasional wine and dine at a lounge, concerts and other entertainment. I'm open to checking out any sport game and theater/opera. I would go to the beach, go on a bike ride, watch the birds or reruns at home.

I'm not seeking total perfection 'cause it doesn't exist but for you... should be a clean, smart gentleman, multi-faceted, from 30-39 roughly, not way older, from OC or LA, with a positive outlook on life, who likes going out and staying in for fun, very important that you have time to share (some weekends, evenings avail). Tall,music/arts buffs pro types would be bonus. Oh ...and non-smoking is a must. I like different looks,open to another race. Send a pic w/description of you, no bs-gets a response from me.
  • Location: Orange
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Tattooed smaller bbw (orange) 26yr

hello im kaisie im 26 5' 10.. im looking for someonw who shares the love of tattoos and old music rockabilly country punk im also looking for someone who is tall since im tall. please have no drama in ur life no baby mamma drama if u have kids. please be in the age range of 26 40 and im green frendly
  • Location: orange
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

BBW Looking to meet a great guy (Irvine) 24yr

Hi (:

I'm a 24 year old bbw from Irvine, some might say a ssbbw. New to the area and looking to meet a guy for date.
I enjoy reading, watching movies and going out.

Hope to hear from you soon!



  • Location: Irvine
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

And the Hunt Begins.... (South OC) 30yr


Looking to talk and chill see what it leads to. I'm 5'10" slender, exotic & very active. Just looking for something real. Pic for pic or just hit me up to chat.

Please be real and serious. Am seeking friendship, mutual attraction, honesty and LTR with GREAT benefits......
  • Location: South OC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

"Memorial Day Weekend" ("Fullerton") 40yr

Wanting to do something fun for the Holiday weekend! Finally have 3 days off, yeh!
Why is it so hard to find someone that want's to get away!
I am fun, in great shape, love to laugh, looking for a "HOT" guy, to have fun times with!
Where do I want to go, PALM SPRINGS, yes the HEAT,
Don't want to go alone, so if you single, hot, sweet, please sent a PIC, and a little about yourself.
No pic No REPLY!

Thank you!
  • Location: "Fullerton"
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

That special feeling (OC) 39yr

When was the last time you had that special feeling of love, when you felt so close to someone it really made you feel amazing. Well I am looking for that special feeling, so if you are too then I think we should talk....
  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

ltr (no fwb) (north oc) 18yr

Me: 18 years old, in college, have a car and drive frequently. I have a job. Im not 'girly' and most ppl think im tougher than my older brother. I like boxing and collect knives.I love nature and outdoor activities. I listen to metal and rock music and like action/adventure/ comedy movies. I am an avid Kings fan and i love adventures. I LOVE snakes and have several as pets. Although i dont fit the descripion of the common female i can assure you im straight and im looking for a real man who can keep up with me. I also do not look like barbie, so if thats what you want leave now.

You:18-23 years old, looks dont matter, you love camping and being outdoors, you can tolerate my style of music, you have a job or go to school. You arent just looking to get laid. You love animals and arent scared of any kinds of them. You are loyal and want a one of a kind girl who isnt afraid to get dirty. You aren't addicted to video games. You have some idea of what you want to do with your life. You dont party all the time, you dont do any drugs or smoke.

I want something serious. If you reply to this ad you need to be serious about dating. Also, you have to meet my dad. If you are still interested then send me a response. No flakes, and please fit the age requirements. Send me a pic of yourself and put your age in your reply or ill assume you are spam. Yes ill send a pic back
  • Location: north oc
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

BBW ready to be loved♥ (Long Beach) 19yr

Summer is coming up, Ready to hit the beach & have late nights... the only thing I am missing is someone to have have fun with(:

I am soon to be 20, I drink but not a drunkie, I rarely smoke. I have plugs. Had my lip pierced... took it off.. had my tongue piereced and also took it off.
Hard working girl. Recently got me a job :D I dont go to school but I am looking forward too soon. Mexican girl♥ I love animals, I have a chihuahua & a pug♥

Looking for:
-Hard working(Yes that means have a job. I have one so should you)
-Romantic
-Honest
-Faithful
-Respectful
-Fun
-Funny
-Outgoing
-Spontanious
-Single
-20 to 28

I am a real girl, so if you are interested send me an email.
Attached with a picture. Your picture gets mine :3
  • Location: Long Beach
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Dinner Date for this evening.. (South OC) 32yr

It's a gorgeous day. Let's do something! Near the ocean? Drinks and watch the sun set? I'm cute and nice... Wanna know more? Email me about you and a photo too!
  • Location: South OC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Romance and love (Seal Beach) 64yr

I am looking for romance, love and intimacy long term.
I'm retired, 5'6" and average weight, owning a condo here in Seal Beach.
If you are looking for the same, please be caucasion, like I am and 58 to 64.
Please send a photo with your response and hopefully be close by.
We can meet for coffee, get to know one another and look toward the future together if we are compatible.
Thank you. Look forward to hearing from you soon. No photo, no reply.
  • Location: Seal Beach
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

fun and sexxxxxxy (Riverside) 25yr

I am single and trying to find my soulmate. I prefer guys which dont have drama, who are atleast 20 and level headed. I'm 25 and got a wonderful body. If you are interested send me a message.
  • Location: Riverside
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Sweet, loyal girl looking for a real man (North OC) 33yr

Hi there,

I'm a 33 year old single mom of one little cutie, I have brown hair and blue eyes. I have a thick, curvy figure with a large chest.

I am totally drama free and have a great career. I love being outdoors and being active. I also love to cook and bake and I'd love to have someone to cook for.

Anyway, that's enough about me for now. I'm looking for a masculine kind of guy, that has a take charge personality.

Military men are welcome to email me.

Please put where you're located in the subject line.
  • Location: North OC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

looking to meet someone new (OC) 33yr

I'm a 33 year old single mom to a lovely baby girl. I have brown hair and blue/grey eyes. I have a thick curvy figure and a cheerful personality.

If you're interested send me an email telling me a little about yourself.

Military men are welcome (what girl doesn't like a man in uniform).
  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

BBW looking for a sweet innocent guy (N.oc ) 39yr

Bigger lady looking for a cute, sweet virgin to have my way with. You MUST be into BBWS. Your pic gets mine. Let's chat
  • Location: N.oc
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Good-bye weekend, hello BBW (OC) 32yr

Hello!

I really want to go out and do something fun. I am looking for a tall, swm that would like to meet for a drink or coffee and chit chat. I am even up for a movie. :)

About me: I am Mexican/White, tall, size 16/18, curvy, proportionate, and attractive. I am also educated and a professional.

Seeking a tall, swm that is educated or at least witty. I prefer someone older than me but not past 42. We all have our preferences, right?

I hope to hear from you!

Thanks


  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Happy Woman looking for a Happy Man (Anaheim ) 63yr

I am a sweet, bubbly, vivacious, and elegant woman. Looking for Mr. Right, not just Mr. Right now.... I have blond hair, and sweet brown eyes, and a laugh that makes you smile. I am a full figured woman, and I stand 5'6'... I prefer a man who is at least 5' 10" ... between the ages of 58-65.

I have a great attitude, and a great outlook on life. I have been divorced for many years, and a no-drama, best friend relationship with my ex, who is also the father of our only child. He is 23. I love people. Especially ones that have something positive to say. IF you are cynical, a grump, permanently angry at something, or hating of anything, you are probably not the right person for me.

I enjoy simple things and complex things, but it doesn't really matter as long as I am with someone who makes me smile.

I have been alone (out of the dating loop) for awhile, and I am ready to come out of hiding. I am 63 years young and looking for someone who is interested in the complete picture of who I am and all I have to offer.

If you are looking for laughter, companionship, conversation and more (if the chemistry is there), send me an email and lets meet !

  • Location: Anaheim
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Nolo Illegitimi Carborundum (Spectrum)



That is my new motto - so if you're tired of the OC b.s. too and are single mature and seriously looking to find someone who's as smart, fit, fun and classy as you are -- drop me a note, maybe I'll do.

Please just be caucasian and close to 50.

Note that this section is identified by CL as "dating/romance/LTR" if you're not interested in that, please just go to the next post.


  • Location: Spectrum
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Still Sassy in my Sixties; Seeking Younger Man 48-55

What I bring to the table: smart, sophisticated, spunky, attractive, sexy, healthy, fit, financially secure, witty, and fun, with wide-ranging interests and post graduate educational background. Hair is silver, 5'7" with Zero baggage. No kids. No debt. No drama. Looking for a monogomous long-term committed relationship filled with fun and laughter that connects intellectually, emotionally, spirtually and physically.

I'd like to request that you bring the same qualities (you may want to re-read them ;-) with the following caveats: If you have kids, they are grown and independent. You are 4-6 inches taller than me (translation 5'11" to 6'3") and about 5-15 years younger (I'm in my mid 60s and do best with men between 45-58)! I like a clean shaven face or well manscaped facial hair and conservative appearance. Education is negotiable as long as the rest is there. Are you game?

If we match tell me how in your reply and send a g-rated photo if you would like a response. I am located in North SD County about a half hour from San Clemente. Also, be sure to let me know why you prefer older women and we can go from there. Thanks for your consideration
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

BBW Looking for SWM to cuddle tonight (anaheim) 20yr

Its been a bad day and tonight id love to cuddle with a tall cute Caucasian older man tonight. So if your a interested in sexy thick curvy gals send me a message before it gets too late.
  • Location: anaheim
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

I want the family I've always wanted.... (SOC) 36yr

I'm looking for a sincere,honest,fun man to share my life with...I'm a single mom,I'm pretty,short bbw,loving,honest,loyal,funny as heck and live to care for my loved ones...I work FT in the medical field,I would love more kids,I'm not looking for a man who's not doing anything with his life and understands what's important in life...Please be honest up front,I follow my heart and don't wanna be hurt,just want my best friend:)
Pic 4 Pic
  • Location: SOC
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

420 Dinner & a Movie?? (HB) 20yr

weekend started it off kinda wack lets make it a good one tonight.... im a fulll figured latina very pretty with exotic features
im very sweet and well mannered... waiting for a sweet guy to ask me out tonight.. so
please dont be shy lets do this
your pic will def get mine!
  • Location: HB
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Alpha to the world, yet submissive to Me (LA Beach) 38yr

I have tried posting here before with very mixed results. . ..I'm trying again, in an attempt to find the elusive needle in a haystack. . ...

I am a "Soft Dominant" woman who seeks a submissive man, both Inside and Outside of the bedroom. You MUST lead a traditional life, perhaps no one is aware of your submissive side (an Alpha male would be great). Your submission would be to me, not to the world. My sub will be gainfully employed, drug and disease free, a happy person, mentally stable, educated, well rounded, chivalrous, have a great sense of humor, excellent hygiene, and is VERY attractive. You must also be SINGLE! I am not looking to "sneak around". Over 35 and MATURE would be great! I'm not looking for someone who is still living with relatives, in between jobs, etc. I live in the beach area of Los Angeles and am looking for someone who is not afraid of a little drive; I'm not!

I am looking for someone who has the TIME and MEANS to date their Goddess. If the only thing you want to do, is be punished by a Mistress, I am not the Goddess for you. My Dominance is a way of being, not something I do it you on a Friday night. I would LOVE to start out "dating" and end in a: serious, monogamous, wonderful, and truly Dominant/Submissive relationship. You must be prepared to do all of the things that that comes with dating. For example: getting to know one another, dinning, emailing, texting, talking on the phone, movies, hanging out, shopping, traveling, flowers, gifts, etc. You should WANT to do these things for your Goddess. Please not that I AM NOT looking for an "online or telephone" sub. I want someone who is searching for something real and "LIVE". I am also not looking for someone who wants: sessions, to play, "try it out", etc.

So, who is your Goddess? I am: 38, very tall (5'10), a woman of color, divorced with kids, I am plus-size and wear my weight VERY well. I am told that I am very cute and sexy! I have a soft sensual voice and a seductive smile. I have a great career and over all wonderful life. I am looking for someone who can RESPECT my responsibilities and understands that I have PLENTY of time and availability to be the Goddess that I am.

Only the serious need to respond. Do NOT send me an email with all the things you want me to do to you. A true sub, will ask what his Mistress wants, not the other way around.
Having said all of that...I am looking for someone SERIOUS and REAL. Not someone who wants to email all week then "disappear" when it comes time to talk on the phone and actually MEET.

If you're ready, say "Yes Goddess".


  • Location: LA Beach
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Feelin sad... (Huntington Beach) 19yr

i live in an abusive home... i just had to hear my mom say all this cruel things to me while she treats my sisters like royalty they all ganged up on me and im very sad right now i wanna have fun this saturday
all i ask for this weekend is someone to come and treat me nice.. im a pretty smaller size bbw very sweet im kinda shy...
im 420 friendly. just looking to maybe get dinner and watch a movie/cuddle i just need to smile since i dont do that too often....... so
if your interested please email me :)
  • Location: Huntington Beach
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Sunset at the Beach (Dana Point) 36yr

Anyone out there looking to share the sunset this eve? It's a beautiful day and Im looking for some company to watch the sunset with tonight. Race not important, prefer age 35-45 and be willing to travel to DP Harbor area
  • Location: Dana Point
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

CAN WE AGE GRACEFULLY TOGETHER? (ORANGE COUNTY) 54yr

I am WSF, warm, soft, sincere, caring, honest, faithful, open, feminine, affectionate, classy lady, well mannered, with the family value. I am living in healthy lifestyle. I am interesting in current events, like to discuss politics and philosophy. I appreciate the Fine Arts including museums, art galleries, exhibitions. I like to go to the theaters, concerts, also enjoy poetry, music, ballroom dancing, wine testing, fine dining with stimulating conversation. I love to travel, outdoor, dogs, cooking, gardening.

I am looking for the healthy relationship with a gentleman, who is monogamous, honest, caring, affectionate, with family value, successful, stable. I would like piece and harmony around us. I look for a relationship in that it will be emotionally, mentally and physically very satisfying for both of us. Mutual attraction of the soul and body very important to me.

Serious reply please only!

  • Location: ORANGE COUNTY
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Lakers! Let's go watch the game

Cute, fun, fit lakers fan looking for someone cool, fit, good looking, stylish to go watch the game at a bar.
Please share a picture and I'll share one as well :)

Go Lakers!!
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Looking 4 My Prince Charming (Brea) 20yr

My Name Is Jessica
20 Years Old ( Almost 21 )
In College Part Time *I Attend MT. SAC In Walnut*
I Have My Driver's license

Single (Guys Only)
Must Be Between The Ages Of *18-23*
Im Very Intrested In A Relationship

((I DO NOT SEND NUDES, SEXT , HAVE PHONE SEX OR ANYTHING THAT DEGRADES ME OR MY BODY))

PLEASE MAKE THE SUBJECT OF YOUR MESSAGE YOUR FAVORITE BAND :)

Please Include A Picture Of Yourself In Your Message--NOT REQUIRED- -

THANK YOU & HAVE A GREAT DAY.
  • Location: Brea
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

In search of a sexy black man. (Orange County) 32yr

Title says it all. Like em' tall, smart and good looking. Please send a photo with your response. I am a slender, cute, down to earth white girl ;). If you'd like to make commentary on my dating preferences, please save your breath, thank you.
  • Location: Orange County
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Looking to move to Colorado??? (No. OC) 58yr

I sooo want to move to Colorado and am wondering if there's anyone out there feeling the same.
Let me know what you're thinking. Fun to chat.
  • Location: No. OC
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

looking for 50 something professional (OC)

Me,...... charismatic, attractive, well educated, athletic minded fifty something, in search of YOU, a fiftty something, charismatic, attractive, well educated individual also.
I am looking for someone who still has sites on a hot , romantic, fufilling life...full of friends, travel, seductive evenings, lots of smiles, great meals and honest core
values.
Care to take a peek???

  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

A New Beginning (Garden Grove) 64yr

I am looking for a companion to enjoy my free time with. I am a recently widowed BBW and I'm ready to see what life has to offer. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. I am very active in the American Legion and love celebrating my country. I would love to have someone to enjoy dinner with, movies, concerts in the park and dancing. I am not looking for what my kids would call a "hook up" just a decent old fashioned GENTLEMAN who is looking for a companionship and friendship.
  • Location: Garden Grove
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

looking for classy, smart, fun bf (oc)

Looking for true bf, no hook-ups/FWB- actually f seeking LTR
My Description---
32 years old black female attractive fun, separated, no drama
great smile.
Interests: travel, sports, music, dining, art, walks, museums, lounges and more.

You---Must be 30s-40,gentleman, non-smoker/420, tall (5'10''+), nice looking,w/similar interests, from OC or LA, or just outside.
I'm open to dating other race.white preferred.

Send pic and description please and be REAL!!!
  • Location: oc
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

BBW for a sweet & caring guy (Irvine,ca) 30yr

5'3 250 pound bbw. Big brown eyes , long eyelashes, olive completed, full lips, of middle eastern descent , curvy .

Looking for a good hearted , respectful gentleman who knows what he wants on life , has morals dignity and respect for himself and others around him, and doesn't lie or play games , is true to himself and those around him, and has a definite attraction to bbw woman and would like a long term relationship.

If that is you, please reply with the word " winning " in the subject line along with a picture of yourself so I may send one back.

Looking to take time to talk and get to know someone . Not into smooth talkers, one might stands or guys who want to fulfill their one time fantasy .

Bottom line, of you're not serious, don't waste my time.

Thank you! :)
  • Location: Irvine,ca
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Chinese Lady Seeks Mr.Right (Southern California) 40yr

Professional, nice chinese lady is looking for her life partner. If you are educated, genuine,family oriented, financially secure, know what you want from life, I would like to hear from you and see if we can start from there. Preferably white or asian, between 37-50yrs. Please respond with attached photo to show your real interest.

Don't contact me if you are not seeking LTR. For all of those sick-minded or gamers/cheaters stay away with me.
  • Location: Southern California
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

bord and need sum fun (huntington beach) 23yr

hi my name is kerstie i am 23 yrs old i live in huntington beach ca i work and am going to school . just recently started live comply alone and i am very loney not used to it so yea i am just like for some to share my free time with i am very outgoing and love to just kick back no drama . i look foword to here for anyone who is interstead
  • Location: huntington beach
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Any SWM in forties looking to date? (SOC residents specifically)

Send a great intro and let's see! Men who send pix and name/cell get top priority and top chance to ask me on a date! If you have a brain and workout regularly, you'll really like me!
  • Location: SOC residents specifically
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Perfect with you (OC) 38yr

Do you ever wonder what it would feel like to have that perfect loving feeling with that one special person? I know it's out there, but yet so hard to find these days. I hope you are a great night and would love to hear from you. Thanks...
  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Looking for quality men...are you one? (N-OC) 47yr

I'm looking for someone that is fun to spend time with. I am not looking for anything long term...yet. I would like to be friends with someone first. If we click and things work out then great. If not, then we can have made a new friend. I'm not looking for a quick hook up or a quickie in your car at lunchtime. I'm not looking for a one night stand or a FWB situation.

I believe in long passionate kisses, cuddling on the couch with a great guy, and spending time with a quality guy. I'd like to meet someone to catch a movie with or maybe some dinner or even a walk at the beach or maybe a bike ride. Must enjoy sports (baseball, hockey, and/or football) at times I am a little obsessed. I'm looking for caucasian men between 42 and 52. Must not smoke, do drugs, or have excessive tattoos and/or piercings. Is it too much to ask for a great guy in my life?

I'm 5' 7", brown hair, brown eyes. I have some extra lbs on me. Some of you call that BBW. If you would like to know more about me then please send me a message. Please put your favorite sports team in the subject line. Hope to hear from you soon.
  • Location: N-OC
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Anyone Fun, Single, 40ish Going Country Dancing Tonite? (LA/OC) 47yr

Anyone heading out to the local country bars tonite interested in teaching a girl some dance moves? Me 5'7", brunette, brown eyes, average build. You fun, single, non-smoker, hopefully taller than me and patient :)

No pic, no reply. Thanks!

  • Location: LA/OC
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Summer Fun (OC) 26yr

I am seeking a non traditional relationship of sorts to entertain me for the summer and who knows beyond that. You should be well off, fun, positive, attractive, over 35 AT LEAST!

I would put more but it just keeps getting deleted. If you don't meet the above description don't reply.

I am 5'4'', 112lbs, blonde hair, green eyes.
  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Seeking My Other half........... (Huntington Beach ) 39yr

A 38 year old latin female is seeking her other half. This man should be a profesional with goals between the ages of 37 to 45 years of age. I want you to love and live life to the fulliest and knows how to love, treat and enjoy a woman. I want you to be a man with dignity, integrity. I also want you have a big appetite when it comes to sex. As for me, I am a petite female with a nice figure of 34D2434, long black hair, hazel eyes. Olive light skin. And, ready to give all to that special man. I love life and enjoyes it aswell. Im a lady in the street but very nutty in the bedroom.


P.S.
Please note that I am not into mind games or seek man that are cheaters. I am seeking a long term thing .
  • Location: Huntington Beach
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

seeking my match, 4 long-term (oc-orange) 32yr

Just throwing some things out. if you like, reply to me
Send pic with reply about yourself in a few sentences at least so I get to know you
NO naked pics, spam please-don't waste your time and mine :-)

ME--
Genuine, not fake
black f , 5' 5''+,in good/decent shape, not bbw not super skinny (I have pics to send, after i get your response)
Likes- most music (pop, rock, country, r&b, classical even, etc), writing, travel (local and faraway), sports (like a guy)
Looking to get to know someone for the long-term, can start as friend
not into partying but like occasional bar/lounge
I am NOt looking to just hook-up or have NSA.


YOU---
should be my age, 30s,
not into drugs, non-smoker
good/better than average looking
looking for gf, ltr eventually
educated (can spell, hold good conversation about topics, college ed a plus not not vital)
clean cut or some facial hair ok, no or a few tasteful tattoos
simple yet appreciated the finer things in life
White, preferably
pluses: tall (5' 10''+, professional, travel seeker (so we can plan to travel together), sports/arts fan



  • Location: oc-orange
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Clever Girl Seeks Adorable Boy (South OC) 30yr

text chat hang out cuddle
having fun indoors and out
that's what I'm all about
just need 1 special guy
to enjoy a springtime/summer romance.

it can grow to be so much more, so take a chance
and hopefully we will see
it really IS you
meant for me.
  • Location: South OC
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Just a date (Orange) 18yr

Hi, if you're reading this, odds are you're not who I'm looking for.
However, I hope that the small fraction of people who are what I'm looking for may read this.

I'm gonna take a different approach and not tell you about me quite yet, rather what I'd like to see out of you.
What I'm looking for:
At least 5'10"
Likes trying new things
Makes me laugh
Wants a long term relationship
Attractive (preferrably blonde, surfer look but not that picky)
Won't rush into sex and doesn't expect it
Has some level of intelligence
White
20 or under

If this all applies to you, I ask that you send me an email telling me your name, age, and city you're from. Oh and a picture of you gets one of me,

I will either email you back or we can talk on the phone and get to know each other.

To make this completely clear, I just want to get to know you if you're sweet and fit this description and just go on a date and maybe several more then see what happens.
  • Location: Orange
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Any guys that want to date? (Orange County) 51yr

Want to date, do things go places? If you fit contact me
Me:
51 Yr old SWF Italian, French, and Irish
Smaller BBW,non smoker
Cute, curvy, sexy, great smile, loves to laugh enjoys life

You:
35 to 50 Single, White, non smoker, at least 5'8"
Funny, charming, cute, handsome, kind, respectful, loves to laugh enjoy life.

  • Location: Orange County
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Intelligent and sassy woman seeks LTR (Riverside County) 27yr

I'm 27 and live in the Riverside/Perris area. I'm 5'1" and am a smaller BBW that wears size 15/16. I have a great job, a car, and a good head on my shoulders. I do live with my parents for the time being however pay them rent. I do not have any children and I've never been married. I'm a really kind-hearted, intelligent and responsible young woman who seeks the same in a man.

Please be between the ages of 23-35. I don't mind kids or divorcees, and am a sucker for blue eyes :)

I do have pictures...hope to hear from you!

  • Location: Riverside County
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Special friend needed... (Orange) 48yr

Tall and handsome will be a plus!
I would love to find and amazing lover, friend and activity partner.
Not looking to get married or move in with anybody, just a great friend
with benefits. Over 35 years old please..... send a face picture with first e-mail. NO Dickie Wickie pictures!

Be just like me! drama and std free. NO FLAKES, WACKOS OR CRY BABIES!
I am pretty, curvy, smart and fun!
What happened to the real men! the ones that can keep their word and be a true gentlemen?


Please be able to host!



  • Location: Orange
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

It's Thursday Night (Fullerton) 21yr

just to clear things up, i'm definitely real and not a robot.

If you just want to get into my pants or show me your penis, please move to the next posting. Isn't there a guy code where you only show penis pictures when its asked for?

I consider myself an extremely hard worker. I keep myself busy and usually on top of things. I can be the go out and party all night type or the girl you want to go home to after a long day and snuggle up with. I tend to take care of the people I like, but by no means will I ever be your sugar mama. If I work hard, you have to, too. I juggle school and work so I have no time for bullshit games. Physically, I have all my teeth and they're straight. I have extremely long brown hair, I tan nicely. I am not stick skinny or walrus fat, but I do have meat on my bones. I'm pretty fashionable, so hopefully you are too.

I'm looking for someone who can treat a lady right and know how to have fun. You have to be able to take care of yourself all around (mentally, financially, physically). Be spontaneous and outgoing :) If you like to travel thats a huge plus. I'm not interested in anyone who does drugs, I'd like to be around someone who is themselves and in control. I don't mind those who drink :) as long as you know your limit. I'm also looking for someone between the ages of 22-30.

If you're interested, reply with some info about yourself and a picture. No picture no reply

  • Location: Fullerton
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

cutie 4 cutie (OC) 20yr

looking for a cute white guy
your picture gets mine
  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Nice girl (Mission Viejo) 61yr

Hello there I would like to meet a good man for dating or friendship or companionship, hopefully someone who also enjoys being outdoors and enjoying the adventures of life.
  • Location: Mission Viejo
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

DATE...not sex (Disney) 23yr

Who wants to date?

It's sad I can't find a "good enough" guy to even go on a date with.

I found 2. One was sweet and a gentleman, but a fucking FLAKE-I didn't even get a date. The other, was looking for sex, like a chump.

I'm sorry I have SOME standards and don't want to date losers.

23-30years old. White. Non bum. Fit. Intelligent. Non smoking.

It's all I ask.

Send a pic and some info OR NO REPLY.

Asian.

  • Location: Disney
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Army ball? 25yr

My friend in the mid west is getting ready to go to the army ball and I was thinking that would be fun! Is there one going on out here and is anyone in need of a date? Must include a picture pkease
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Partner in Crime? (Irvine) 58yr

Beautiful woman seeks handsome partner in crime to explore and create adventures.
Do you have a secret wild side to your mild mannered persona? Can you imagine a lovely lady as your escort to dinner, theater, walks, and sporting events?
I am an untapped spring of refreshing good times.
  • Location: Irvine
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Try... 32yr

So let me try this Craig's List thing. Although, I'm not selling a couch...or any other household furniture for that matter. I'm just looking....
I'm looking for a friend, a confidant....something. Yes....Yes, I know this is Craig's List and, I probably won't find too much sanity on here. But I figure...what the hay, it's worth a shot! So if your looking for the same and, want no labels, no expectations....drop me a line.
I promise to pretend, to be halfway sane...
LOL!
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

You've got a friend in me :) (N. OC) 27yr

So I decided to go about this a little differently. Instead of trying to find " the one" and rushing into something, maye it would be easier to just take the pressure off and just look for a new friend. That way if things don't work out "romantically" then we each have a new friend. Which I could def use haha

Me: I'm 27 year old tattooed preschool teacher. I'm super laid back and easy going. Very low maintenance (jeans and flip flops kind of girl). I like to go out and do things but I'm also down to just cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie. Some of the things I enjoy are: movies, music, going for a drive, trying new places to eat, Disneyland, Vegas, the beach at night, good beer, sushi, comedy shows, and pretty much anything that sounds fun. Personally I don't smoke 420 but if you do every now and then that's fine. As long as you're not sitting at home totally baked all day

So feel free to send a message and hopefully we can chat and be friends :)
  • Location: N. OC
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

This could be a long shot 31yr

I want to start off by saying I'm 100% real and Have no use for your cc info. I just moved away from CA ( yes I live out of state but please continue reading) and now live in Colorado. This was a bad move and I would give anything to be back home. As far me I'm 31 no kids but would like them someday. Std free, white and single. Brown hair brown eyes. A little extra to love but very hwp. I'm looking to fall in love and start a family. I love hiking and hanging out at the beach. I have been told I have a great sense of humor as well. Seeking man 25-49 age race not important. I will send a pic if you respond with one. I am serious and hope to hear from you.
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Ready for summer! (Yorba Linda ) 18yr

So summer is coming up and I would love to find someone new and exciting to spend time with! I am looking for someone who is laid back, wants to have fun, and is open minded! Don't really have a preference on what you look like but tall and tattoos are a plus! Put how old you are in the subject.

INCLUDE A PICTURE.
  • Location: Yorba Linda
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Blondie looking for a manly hunk (OC) 52yr

I want you to have transportation and a job.

Must love music as I go to concerts. I love having fun. I'm looking for a man 41-53, boys don't bother even if you're cute. Underage is not for me.

Looking for the same type of person as me -- fun loving, caring, loves to BBQ and drink beer, family oriented. Flossing and nice teeth is a plus. Send me a pic and we will talk .

Cheers!
  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Do you?

Stay up super late like myself?
Yes its only 6pm but my night is just getting started!
no preference on age!
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

I really can't believe I'm doing this... (Huntington Beach, CA) 27yr

Well I'm a single mom to two children looking for a man who also has children. Not necessary but preferred. I'm very outgoing and love to do new things. As I am typing this I still can't believe I'm actually doing this! I'm not desperate just seeing what else is out there.... I guess you want to know what I look like... Well I'm a brunette with brown eyes, I'm mixed basically with White and Hispanic. I have had children so no I am not skinny but I'm not obese. I am currently working on my self to look better. So hopefully I can meet some one that can help me with that. Well I guess that's about all I want to put out there. If you want to know anything else just ask.
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  • Location: Huntington Beach, CA
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Where have you guys been (oc) 25yr

First I want to know what sustains you. Meaning what keeps you moving each day. For me its its simply love. Am I asking for too much i dont know. In a guy I like someone that can take control but realize that we are equal. I'm originally from the nyc and am definitely not your typical OC girl. Just so you know family is always first in my life and I spend as much time as possible with them. Finally man with no tats, tats, piercings, sleeves or any other body art is just fine with me.
  • Location: oc
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

In Search Of???? (O.C.) 37yr

I'm working at home, bored outta my mind, seeking a normal man.. Me, single latina, single mom, cute, long hair, curvy. You, please be single, not a pig and if you are gonna send a pic, no nude ones, please! Thanks!
  • Location: O.C.
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

Petite Italian Woman (LB/OC) 50yr

Life's too short to not look for new adventures. I am new to CL Personals. I thought it safer to answer ads than place one, with no results whatsoever. LOL. I am just bored with the circle I run & want to expand my horizons, so.. here I am giving it a try....I am interested in meeting men who want an attractive, easygoing, fun loving, goodhearted woman with whom they can share interests. I am fit and enjoy live music and dancing, & performing arts. Day outings are great such as bikes rides on the beach, fairs, car shows, wine tasting. I enjoy fine dining as much as fish tacos & beer at the beach. I am a judicial assistant for the state & work fulltime, confident, & emotionally secure. Well, are you interested yet? I really don't want to do the photos because it taints one's perception of the other. We can chat then decide if we'd like to meet for coffee or cocktails and who knows where that will take us. Love to hear from you guys!









  • Location: LB/OC
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Looking for my +1 (North Orange County) 40yr

I tried to post an ad last night and it was flagged as spam very quickly, so I'm going to try again in the hope that this time it will stay up for a while. I'm an actual person!

I'm a 40 year old BBW. I'm white, was married for over a decade and have no children. I have a good life and lots of friends.

I'm looking for someone that is looking for a relationship. Someone that likes to go out and have fun. Someone that also enjoys quiet nights in.

I'm attracted to witty, funny men that are at least 5'8" and over 35. If you're an Angels fan, that's even better!

If you think we'd be a match, please send me an e-mail and tell me why. Your picture gets mine.

Please note: I am not looking for a fling or a one night stand. If that's what you are looking for, please look elsewhere.


  • Location: North Orange County
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

This is what I want (La Habra) 37yr

IF this is you please contact me, if it is not please dont contact me.. Serious men only please.. I am not a add or spam or service girl. Thank you

A Master's Creed
~ The Dominants Creed ~
* Above all else a Dom cherishes Their submissive, in the knowledge that the gift
the submissive gives Them is the greatest gift of all.
* A Dom is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Them, but knows
how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift.
* A Dom is in control of Themself first and foremost, so that They may control others.
* As a stern and demanding Dom, They can cause Their submissive to cry real tears.
* As the consummate lover, They will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character.
* In times of trouble, a Dom will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never
forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals.
* A Dom is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality.
* A Dom would never ask a submissive to put Them before their career, or family,
just to satisfy Their own pleasure.
* To win a submissive's mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, a Dom knows They must
first win their trust.
* A Dom will show Their submissive humour, kindness, and warmth.
* A Dom must always show them that Their guidance and tutoring is deserving of their
attention, that this is a person they can learn from, and that they can trust Their direction.
* A Dom is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, They
will fight for Their submissive's honour.
* A Dom proves to their submissive that They are someone they can lean on, and
depend on.
* When it comes time to teach Their submissive their lessons of obedience, They are a
strong and unyielding professor.
* A Dom will accept no flaw. Nothing less than perfection from Their student.
* Never does a Dom use discipline without a good reason. When they do punish Their
submissive, it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand.
* A Dom is always open to communication and discussion; always ready to hear Their
submissive's wants and needs.
* A Dom is patient; taking time to learn Their submissive's limits, and knowing that as
their trust of Them grows, so will they.
* A Dom never has to demand ritual behavior from Their submissive. Their submissive
responds to Them out of the want of pleasing them. Compliance comes from the wanting
to please, not the fear of punishment.
* A Dom understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to Them.
* A Dom is secure enough to laugh at Themself and the absurdities of life. Open minded
enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow.
* A Dom's tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love.
* A Dom understands that E/each partner gains most from pleasuring the O/other.
* And B/both of T/them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.

  • Location: La Habra
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Looking for Tall, Cute, and Husky Man for LTR (North OC) 34yr

I'm interested in tall, cute, and husky men- the big teddy bear type. I'm 34, 5'4", thick/ voluptuous/ rubenesque body type (so I'm not skinny/ thin/ athletic/etc.!), South Asian, brown hair, brown eyes, and I work as an elementary/K-5 PE teacher. I'm smart, funny, down to Earth, outgoing, and active. I'm into zumba, kickboxing, dancing, hiking, movies, and anything else that's fun. I'm looking for someone that's smart, fun, outgoing, that has a good sense of humor, and is looking for things to develop into a LTR. If this is you, hit me up, and let's see where this goes. I look forward to hearing from you.

**Be in the North OC vicinity, and in my age range please!**


  • Location: North OC
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

BBW for Older (OC) 27yr

Looking for something ongoing. Dating. Not into one night stands.
Stat at home mom type.
Prefer men in their 40's.
Pic for Pic and response.
Don't email me if your married
  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

look n 4 him (Riverside) 22yr

I'm a level headed small town girl. I'm quiet at first usually, but I start to open up once I get acquainted ya. I am pretty social and open minded. A man that knows what he wants and takes it is attractive to me. Self confident, but not arogant. I want a guy who's genuine, kind, and affectionate. I hope I dont seem to choosy, I'm not really.
  • Location: Riverside
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

One love (OC) 39yr

You got it. I am looking for only one love, one man who is honest and that is not afraid to show his love. If you are on the same journey please say hi so we can talk
  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

ISO Tall Tatted!!! White Boy!! :) 4 BBW (i.e) 32yr

Ok i am going to try this again , but lets get some ground rules going lol I am not looking for a commitment right off, i am not into FWB,NSA or one night stands and i will not meet you after a few emails or phone calls, i want to get to know someone first to make sure we have some common interest first,

I am single no kids but im ok if you have them , i would like one someday...i am divorced and we still remain friends , I am 5"11 so please dont be shorter than me and email and say it doesnt matter to you ..it matters to me its an attraction thing...

I am looking for a man of his word and a blunt person dont tell me what you think i want to hear, just tell it like it is and i will respect that more.....i need a man to be the man in the relationship take charge of situations make me feel safe..dont get it twisted i am independant a little of a tomboy meaning im not afraid to change the oil on my car or crawl under neath it , i wont cry if i break a nail, i like to dress up and look pretty and be treated with respectful, yet after we know each other i am a smartass all the way and i will keep you on your toes lol, i love the beach, shooting pool, or just a chill night at home....i have been threw alot in life but i just pull up my big girl panties lol and roll with the punches to me there is always something in life that isnt what you expected but your reaction and how you deal with it is whats really important ...Please dont think after one meeting your gonna get lucky lmao and dont talk dirty to me save it for the bedroom if you make it there ...

so everything else i will only share with the right guy lol so shoot me an email with a pic and ill send one back if im attracted to you, not trying to be stuck up but hey lets face it physical attraction is important its not shallow just the truth..
  • Location: i.e
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

Seeing what's out there (Orange County ) 22yr

Just posting on here, to see if I maybe catch someones eye... PLEASE BE OVER 23 & UNDER 30! Thanks
I am 22 single, no children, going to college, I'm not your typically orange county girl, but that doesnt meant im a lazy slob either..i am as guys like to say "thick" I go to the gym 4-5 times a week and am very girly..
I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A SEX BUDDY OR A FLING..
****PUT "PINK" as your subject line so I know you're a real person****
Can't wait to hear from you
  • Location: Orange County
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

sweet girl seeks sweet guy (Santa Ana) 28yr

I'm smart, sassy, and amusing. I'm usually shy to begin with, however after I get comfortable you I begin to let my guard down. I am fairly sociable, however I do like spending some time to my self also. I prefer a man who knows what he desires and isn't scared to-go after it. I am attracted to self confidence however not arrogance. My guy has to have a nice heart. He has to be nice, passionate, and sincere. I am aware I'm looking for allot, but just trust me, I'm worth it.
  • Location: Santa Ana
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

SMH..

Great conversations then BAM! They disappear!

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Posted: May 13th, 2012

simple little date.. (westminster ) 22yr

Sort of had my heart set on meeting the right Guy but I will happily settle for awesome conversation over a cup of coffee.
I've been rated an 8 on average. But personally I think my personality always surpasses my looks.
So I'm looking for the same. Attach a pic of yourself and please keep it PG-13. No penis pics. Ill be happy to send one back and we can go from there

  • Location: westminster
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

Happy hour tomorrow? (Long Beach) 48yr

What a week! I am so ready for a drink and nice conversation!
I would like to find a fun and drama free gentleman for drinks
tomorrow. Preferably over 40, no sex no strings attached just
a good friend to unwind and relax with.

I am pretty, fun and drama free.

If interested please do send me a face picture only.

Thank you
  • Location: Long Beach
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

herpes 2 (like me?) (LA / OC) 27yr

Tall, curvy Latina looking for love in the H community. I'm not looking for a hookup.. I'm looking for love, companionship, adventure, someone to make breakfast for on Saturday mornings before we spend the day hiking or lounging on the beach ... Send me some details about yourself, send a photo of yourself and let's talk.. see if we can go anywhere!

Use your location in the subject line to weed out the random desperate guys that respond to EVERY AD.. I'm special ;-)
  • Location: LA / OC
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

single dad?? 33yr

looking for that single dad, someone who is out going and all around a good guy, are you active in your kids life? Men just dont like single women w a child, if they only knew what they were missing out on i take care of myself and dont need cl to find me someone, just turns out i dont want to meet someone in a bar, Im well grounded, i know what I want in life and will not settle for less, im out going and you should be to.. Tell me more about yourself, be honest plz, you should be in the age group of 30-45, im not here to play games. yes im real.. i will tell you more about me once i know you re real.. tell me your likes and dislikes? what do you do in your spare time? i will send a pic once i see yours.. no pic no reply
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

A Casual Date? (OC) 23yr

Hello there!
Curious about what I might find on here. Just looking to casually date, nothing too serious. I don't like going into these things with high expectations so I'm going to keep an open mind. With that being said, I'm not looking for a specific type, all are welcome to answer this ad :) just be my age or even a little older (35 at oldest)
As for me, I think of myself as fairly attractive, a bit on the plump side as most I've noticed on here are...if that's not your cup of tea then I can respect that and you may click the back button now. I would go into a list of descriptive detail but that does not give you very much, so if you are truly interested I will send photos no problem!
My interests are all over place, I love what most people love...movies, music, reading, the outdoors, random trips, food (obviously), etc...we can get more specific over email. I don't want to make this too long, so if you are interested in something more on the casual side and are up for meeting someone new feel free. Don't be shy :)


  • Location: OC
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

need you (oc)

looking for a white or Indian or mix of Indian/white male with a stable income that can rent room in my house be a live in roommate. Email me to get details and possibly numbers. I don't have a cell phone so will not be able to text.
  • Location: oc
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Prince Charming with a darkside (Orange County) 28yr

You: charming, sexy, modern gentleman. Fit, healthy, active, business minded, Financial smart, digitally savvy. Family man who is passionate about making a difference in the world. Who enjoys being around family, taking a spontaneous trip or adventure. Who is classy yet can be comedic. Traditional in social settings and sexual in charge behind closed doors who wants to explore positive sexual expression.

Me: Petite, white, fit, strawberry blonde, career focused yet ,enjoy womanly duties. Motherly, nurturing and sassy at times. Very fashionable, yet realistic and logical. Sensitive about making a difference in the world.

Please send an image and serious replies only. Thanks!
  • Location: Orange County
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Tall, hot and handsome on newport peninsula tonight (newport peninsula) 40yr

Looking for someone tall, hot, and handsome to hang out with on newport peninsula tonight. walk on the beach, dinner, movie, fun - lets enjoy the beautiful weather down here

Send face pic asap with height and weight and lets get together!

NO PIC, NO RESPONSE
  • Location: newport peninsula
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Grab a beer? BBW enclosed (714) 32yr

Hello!

I really want to go out and do something fun. I am looking for a tall, swm to go out for a beer or three. Yes, I had one of those weeks and now I need to celebrate my survival. Darn work!

About me: I am Mexican/White, tall, size 16/18, curvy, proportionate, and attractive. I am also educated and a professional.

Seeking a tall, swm that is educated or at least witty. I prefer someone older than me but not past 42. We all have our preferences, right?

I hope to hear from you!

Thanks


  • Location: 714
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

looking for a relationship (N. OC) 21yr

I am seeking a long term relationship.
A little about myself: I am a full time student, I work two part time jobs that I love. :) I love the outdoors and cant wait for summer to officially start! yay! I love being outdoors and just taking in the beauty nature has to offer. I am still finding all the cool things to do, originally from the east coast. I love sports, hiking, and the angels :) lol
You: be nice, 20-26, fun to be around, love the outdoors, going to school or have a job, own car, caring, lol and yourself :)

not looking for a hookup!

enjoy the weather :)
  • Location: N. OC
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

SBF Relocating to OC (Aliso) 31yr

Work is making me move to your beautiful OC. Love it so far and hope to meet great outgoing friends and maybe 1 best friend to enjoy the beach, summer blockbuster movies and much more.
I'm a French speaking Black. Petite, Cute, fun, well educated, love style p. I am new to Orange County and loving it so far. I am relocating for work and would love to make new friends and if possible more.

Would love to meet a handsome, charming, easy going and family oriented single man 35-50.

Please send a photo with your response and I will send mine back.

  • Location: Aliso
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

hit me up (orange county)

Looking for a guy to talk to and maybe hang out soon.. possibly friends may turn into something else but im not going to put a label onto what i want out of this. basically what ever happens happens.

im chunky but im confident and i find my self attractive. just tired of the guys i actually dont want coming after me. so lets get to know each other!!

please be between 20 and 30 years old. So hit me up with a picture and a little about yourself and ill return the favor with a few pictures of myself

Hope to hear from you soon!!
  • Location: orange county
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Where the asian guys at? ;) (Yorba Linda) 25yr

Intelligent, fit, asian/latina mix seeking a chill guy for possible relationship. I'm 5'3, 120 lbs. Looking for a versatile guy. One who does a little of everything from theme parks to clubs to cuddling at home to a good movie. I'm not a party animal or anything, but I do have a bit of a spontaneous ;) Your face gets mine! XOXO
  • Location: Yorba Linda
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Posted: May 12th, 2012