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Women looking in Chicago

Bigger gal seeks serious LTR (Lake/Porter County, Indiana) 34yr

I'm a divorced mom of two grade school children. I'm looking for a serious LTR. I have a tendency of rushing into things and hope to find someone who is looking for the same.

My perfect match would be a white man (sorry... just my preference) between the ages of 28 and 39. A non-smoker and light social drinker. Someone who has children and can relate to my children. Gainfully employed. Has his own vehicle. Must be drug free. Looks are not very important to me but I would prefer a man who is a bit overweight. It's what's on the inside that really matters.

I am a bit of a bigger gal with an even bigger heart. Not disgustingly obese. In the process of slimming down. I work full-time, make my own money and pay my own bills. Been divorced for about a year now and miss having someone to share my life with. I am a non-smoker and light social drinker. Drug free. Not into the bar scene. Not into games. Love to chat and text. Looking to meet someone sooner than later.

If you are interested in a serious LTR, please reply and tell me a bit about yourself. Please put your age and location in the subject box. :)

  • Location: Lake/Porter County, Indiana
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Flirty Fun Texts/IM's (burbs) 41yr

Attractive, outgoing, normal, sane, but like to be flirty.

Need to take my mind off of other issues, so id love to chat.
  • Location: burbs
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

SCAM ALERT re: what's up? (Oak Park) 26yr

Heads up guys. This post at 3:04 a.m. here in w4m is a scam. If you respond, a non-existent woman will message you to tell she's hot and wants to meet you. Then she'll try to get you to go to another website where you you will have to be "verified" with your credit card. Then they'll hit your card for big charges or steal your identity. Let's help each other out here guys.
  • Location: Oak Park
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Soft, smart (N Chicago) 49yr

Yes, that is me. In you I like smart, outgoing, friendly, job with normal hours, sense humor, a traveler. I miss having a travel partner. I have a responsible job, one divorce to my name, two great children - grown, tall, brunette, reader of history (Civil War, Lincoln, FDR, Churchill, WWII) and biographies. Favor Europe and Canada.
  • Location: N Chicago
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Waiting for the right guy

I'm looking for something long-term. I am not looking for a hook-up.
I'm out-going, caring, have a sense of humor, a degree in Psychology. I'm divorced, no kids. I'm 5'4" slim, very long blond hair, hazel eyes.

Who I'm looking for: A gentleman between the ages of 50-60, White, college-educated, stable, is single or divorced.

For fun, I like dining out, movies, dancing, concerts, for example.

Do not contact me if you are married, separated or do drugs.

Please respond with a pic and I will do the same!

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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Egotistic,cynical, narcissistic man? (Chicago) 23yr

I would like to chat with one....I'm a student. Any men who are educated 30-48
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

420, let's do this! (logan square) 22yr

come over. lets smoke. good conversation. laughs. maybe you can bring some beer. whatever is clever, dude.

send a picture or no one will ever give a fuck about you. :)
and i will send one back.
  • Location: logan square
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

seeking mr. right (Hobart) 23yr

Emails without a picture or band name in the subject line will get deleted

Im looking for a single white male interested in a getting to know eachother in the hope of a long term relationship....please have similar interest and be within the ages of 22-32

I love rock and metal music, tattoos and piercings
I like to read
Have a sense of humor and can take a joke....sarcasm is always appreciated
I like to play pool and go bowling go to concerts going to the beach
I like going out, but also enjoy a night at home on the couch with a good movie

im five foot seven and on the bigger side......please be within northwest indiana
Your pic gets mine put your favorite band in the subject line and include a picture so i know your real
  • Location: Hobart
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

passionate kissing (chicago) 20yr

i absolutely love kissing. Long, deep, passionate ones. french kissing <3
lets cuddle watch a movie, order in and just relax.... make out ;) I'm a professional lol
are you a good kisser? hope so! lol... i have had some bad experiences haha and they are the worst
if we click great.... lets see more of each other. if more, oh well lol
im in college, work, intern, I'm attractive, tall, single, funny, and outgoing
please in your subject "kisses" and attach a pic and just give a brief description about yourself plan and simple.
  • Location: chicago
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

SBF for SWM fun summer outings (Sw burbs)

I'm hoping to find a professional/educated guy to indulge in a few summer outings. Sporting events, outdoor concerts, etc.
I am mostly attracted to white guys, but I am open. Whatever your race, I prefer a man between 30-40, tall at least 6' with an athletic build.
In return, I can assure the similar qualities: educated, astute, tall, slender build. I'm a pretty laid-back girl. I'm able to laugh at myself...often...starting with I'm
Actually posting on CL. If nothing else this process should be fun. I tried it before a few years ago, it was horrible, but I wasn't very specific in what I wanted. I'm not looking for someone who wants to fulfill his "Black Girl Fantasy."
Oh, in keeping with the notion of being specific, I will include the regular rhetoric of being disease/drug free, sane,safe, non-smoker. Unfortunately, more than 1 e-mail exchange will be needed before
I send my pic, so don't ask. Otherwise, I will assume you are a perverted pic collector. I like my men patient! :) thanks and good luck to me!
  • Location: Sw burbs
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

im looking for mr right (chicago, il) 30yr

hi, i've been looking in all the wrong places for the right guy. all you guys want now a days is sex. why? why cant we just have a realationship thats not only about sex? well i love sex too.but not a;ll the time. well anyway im a student in csi, "computer systems insitute" and im learning computer networking, im into traveling, my laptop, listening to loud metal music, especially my fave band poison, going to concert/ rock clubs, meeting new friends, and spending lots of time with my special somebody when ever i meet him.
well im a single girl im 30, im 5'4, weigh about 115 pounds, and i have black hair and dark brown eyes. im looking for my other half a rocker type guy a single white,hisanic, or native american etc" must be between 33 to 45 "long hair" major plus, who will want to start off as friends first til we really get to know eachother first, please reply with a pic. and please dont ask me for a picture before i get a picture of you.
any questions please read ad. what i do for fun is what im into, thank you.
please put "death to all but metal" as subject so i would know its not spam. or bot. thank you for reading my ad
  • Location: chicago, il
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Masquerade Ball (NW Chicago) 25yr

Here's goes being spontaneous. :) I have an awesome masquerade ball to go to this Saturday.

Despite my best efforts, the hostess rsvp'd me for two...and then I totally forgot about the whole thing, until now. So here I am. I could ask a friend, but I like the mystery of a stranger, seems fitting. I'm just looking for an attractive, sane, normal, fun friend --no pressures-- who looks cute in a suit. I plan on showing up anonymously, since masks are required, and eating, drinking, and dancing the night away. I'm attractive, hwp, exotic, fun, normal. Hope to hear from ya, send a picture back!


  • Location: NW Chicago
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

friends with benefits? 21yr

im pretty much looking for a friends with benefits type thing with a guy under 30 who is funny, smart, has a job, and a car. im not looking for a relationship but i miss having fun with a trustworthy, decent person. i like to go out and party and also like staying in and watching movies.

please be under 30, respond with more than one or two words, your location, and with a face picture. emails without these things will be deleted and not responded to.
:)
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

lets make plans (chicago) 20yr

i got some free time this week and i was wondering if there were any attractive white single men who wanna go on a date. the weather is beautiful, lets do something fun!
over all, i am looking for someone to date. looking for someone whose a hopeless romantic, witty, adventurous, and so on. I want passion, i want excitement....
i am tall, attractive, nice fit curvy body. all that and a bag of chips ahaha

any who, if any of this sounds interesting please feel free to email me
and please attach a pic, i attach some on here at least.
put something funny and creative as the subject hahaha make me laugh
  • Location: chicago
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Wanna Chat....seeking a swm >40 (Dupage)

Seeking to chat with a single, white male over 40.
Lets exchange photos.
  • Location: Dupage
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Summer Time Fun! (Chicago) 20yr

Hola! I've done this before and I must say I love CL. Some people think its weird....but I have met some of my CLOSEST friends on here. :)

Anywho! I am a 20 year old African American college student back home for the summer.
I am looking for someone fun and exiting I can go out with while im here.
I love the lake and sweet stuff like cuddling while watching a movie.

I am not looking for anything TO SERIOUS.
A SB/SD relationship is cool and a normal friendship is cool too. Just depends on you,
and what your looking to offer.

I do work two jobs but I find the free time to go out.
I do NOT drive, so you must.

No need to describe my frame you can see that below right? lol :)
Please be over 5'8, fit, and I would really like some replies from ALL races. Not just my own.
Well reply away! Put Fun in subject line and PLEASE attach pictures or I won't reply.

xoxoxoxo
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

BBW seeking friendship first......... (anywhere)

............intimate relations are an option, just get to know my mind. Looking for companionship , friendship, someone that has similar interests.

I have many interests, travel, cooking, bowling, karaoke, movies, comedy shows, plays, painting, writing, concerts, dinner, cuddling and kissing.

Always well dressed, clean, and fashionable. I do not leave the house in sweats or pajamas. I am loyal, honest, and caring.
  • Location: anywhere
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Coffee and Chat (Kankakee) 37yr

I would like to have a little fun with a man. Talk about life issues and anything else we can think of. Please be close so we can meet. And...please be a new guy..any man that already emailed me.. I am just not that into you....be smart fun etc...
  • Location: Kankakee
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Looking for my tall dark and Handsome 20yr

Hi i'm looking for a nice guy who is good looking I'm sexy Light skinned and thick (not fat) lmao. I'm from Atlanta and i'm in college anyway if u like hmu your pic gets mine
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

abusive post is a scam (chicago)

I read this person is a straight up con artist and will lie through her teeth from the first moment. The point is for her to tell you to abuse her so she can threaten and black mail you. No means of taking care of herself, she is on the verge of being evicted because she owes everyone money. No job, horrible attitude and doesn't look as once did, pics are misleading. If you pay use a credit card or debit card so when you realize you've been frauded, you can have some recourse. Is possibly working with a male cohort. This is a con.
  • Location: chicago
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

WAITING FOR MR. RIGHT (CHICAGO) 50yr

I work as a supervisor for DHS. I am currently enjoying the Lord as much as I can. I have 2 sons they are both grown and married. I am currently not searching to be with someone but am interested in seeing what happens. I am very outgoing. Love to travel. Have a sense of humor. Love spending time with family and friends, especially outdoors and enjoying the weather. I consider myself to be very beautiful. I have been divorced for many years. I have dated but have not found anything serious. I deserve a man that will be only with me and in my life. Not looking for flings. send me an email with a picture please so I can know who I am speaking with. pic for pic. I am Puerto Rican, have blonde hair, and brown eyes. I am 5'4. any questions please ask thanks and have a very blessed day!
  • Location: CHICAGO
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Separated - just seeing if there is someone out there (Fox Lake - Lake County IL) 36yr

I am currently separated, white, 36 years young, 5'6 , light brown hair, green eyes, average build (I am a little over weight, I just need to find some motivation to get back into shape :) and I have kids.

I have been looking at ads on craigslist and I have not really found anything that seems like a match. Men are looking for a barbie doll or they are too far away, etc.

I am very simple. I usually wear jeans and t-shirts, though I can dress up. I don't smoke or do drugs. I usually have a drink once a year if that. I am usually the one who fixes the cars or things around the house. It would be nice if I could actually find a man who could do repairs! I don't really have much of a life outside my kids right now. I want to change that.

I would like to find one person that I click with. I am looking for something long term, even if things were to be NSA or FWB. I have needs. :)
I need to keep things on the down low since I still live with my husband for the moment. That is a story for another day. (we do not have a physical relationship, we barely even talk to each other. We have 'polite' conversation at best.) I am ddf - you should be as well. With this said, I don't really have a place we could come back to.

I just want to find someone to be with. I would like to be able to go out and do things and also be able to just hang out. I do need a physical relationship. It has been way too long! I would like to read the new book 50 Shades of Grey, but I don't want to read it until I have someone to climb into bed with afterwards. I'm in my mid 30's, this should be my prime!

I would like to meet someone who is white, maybe under 45 years, non-smoker, no drugs, ddf, someone who is willing to try to take me out of this shell I have been in.

Please do not send pictures that you would not show your mom. I will not reply to those emails. That is a big turn off!

Please tell me a little about yourself. Age, location, what you are looking for, etc.

  • Location: Fox Lake - Lake County IL
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Not just a pretty face..... (Calumet City) 24yr

Hey, I'm Kelly and looking to meet someone to spend the summer with and hopefully build a connection. I haven't dated anyone for quite some time and I'm hoping I'll be able to meet someone that matches my interests. I'm new to this website so we'll see what responses I'll get.

So what would you like to know about me?

-I'm originally from Colorado... moved here to Indiana just a years ago.
-I am 24 years old, 5'7, and skinny.
-Green eyes with long light brown hair.
-Currently in colleg
-Attractive

To be brief, people consider me to be a very fun and friendly person. If this post intrigued you in any way, shoot me an email. I'll be happy to hear from you all... thnx!!!

Love,

Kelly
  • Location: Calumet City
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Delirious fun (Chicago land area) 49yr

Recently single entrepreneur, seeking another entrep or biz exec. to enjoy what life has to offer. I'm fit, fun, witty and sexy and would like to enjoy the summer with someone special. Short or long term, let's explore each other's minds, wants and desires.
  • Location: Chicago land area
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

I <3 swm (Chicago) 21yr

I am a pretty black girl that is tired of being single, I have been single by choice and now I want a relationship. I am into white guys (but I am open to others), that are about 5'10 and up in height, slim to average build, I would prefer you be in the city on the north, north west, loop or west side of Chicago, that goes the same for the suburbs. I am not interested in anyone from the south, south west or nwi area, I want you to be close to me so that's why I have that preference. I am very attractive smart fun sexy clean and doing something with my life ( you should be too) I like to go out to bars and clubs occasionally but love staying in and making our own party at home :) I am thick which means I am not fat but have meat on my bones in the right places- thick thighs hips and ass, busty tits and pretty face. I would hope we have some things in common but the only way to find out is to meet. I would like to meet asap because I am a real female and have nothing to hide, you should be willing to meet asap as well, if you are interested and want to see if we click then send me a reply with LTR in the subject NO PIC NO REPLY SERIOUS MEN ONLY PLEASE. I AM NOT looking for a quick hookup, one night stand, fwb, nsa I am looking for DATING and/or LTR if you arent looking for that then please move on and dont reply. Thanks
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Any nice looking guys like a chunky girl? (Lake County IL) 35yr

Apparently, the vast majority of good looking men are solely attracted to slim, "fit" women. I'm a pretty chunky girl, no doubt about it. Zaftig, volumptuous, "full figured", whatever floats your boat. I'm also VERY pretty, curvy, sexy, healthy, and working on improving myself. I'm active and couldn't remotely be considered slovenly or unattractive. Marilyn Monroe? Old pin-up girls? Yeah, I was totally born in the wrong era! If you don't like my type, I totally respect that, just please keep it to yourself.

Who am I? I'm saucy, sarcastic, funny, sensual, caring, intelligent, sensitive, open, snarky, enjoy doing nice things just to see someone smile, sing in the car, slightly scatter-brained, loyal, a bit impulsive, honest to a fault, fling open all the windows and listen to it rain, walk in the autumn leaves because I love the smell and sound, baker of sweets, hopeful romantic, believer of love at first sight, the magic of Christmas, and soul mates.

I'd love to remember what butterflies and first kisses that make your legs go gooey feel like again!

Your pic gets mine; you won't be disappointed. Also, please attempt some originality in your subject line to help weed out spam.

I'm definitely real; I'm trying to figure out where summer went...have you seen it? ;)

  • Location: Lake County IL
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

SAME SHIT # DONT LIKE (CHICAGO ) 20yr

Hellooo cl well i guess id give this a try. aint finding better in the same places plus im bored , well what can i say im single n been having a blast for the past couple months but i aint the "crew" person , lol im a one man lady n if its just for fun then it is but its about that time to get into a little something. im 20 years old turnin 21 in a couple weeks. im a chubby girl one thing about me thats important is respect u dont get respect if you dont give respect im puerto rican grew up in the humboldt park area but now live in cicero wanna know more email me =)
  • Location: CHICAGO
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

I want us to stop wasting time... (nw suburb) 25yr

AND JUST FIND EACHOTHER ALREADY!!!

I'm an easy going person who is looking for honesty and fun. I've gotten the club/bar scene out of my system for a while now though I still enjoy social gatherings just as much as the next girl. Long term I'd like to find someone who knows who he is and knows where he wants to be. I love to laugh, take day trips or weekend road trips and just enjoy life. I'm looking for someone genuine and hard working who knows how to enjoy himself and kick back sometimes.

Currently work for a bank, seriously considering going back to school in the fall to do a 2 year Radiologic Technology degree. Otherwise, just living on my own and looking for a distraction from all these adult responsibilities :o). I'm really good at making people feel at ease...Successful at cooking as long as I don't try to get too fancy... hehe.

Favorites...

Music... Dubstep, Hip Hop, Rap, R&B, Dance
Shows... Family Guy, Gossip Girl (i kno sorry), Sons of Anarchy
Food... Polish (raised on it), American (duh Chili's rocks), Mexican, Italian

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The six things I could never do without are...
Music
Food Seasoning
Water (love waves and beaches)
Friends and Family
Nivea Lip Balm
Hoodie Weather

Looking for a MAN 25-35 with no kids/crazy exes and a genuine desire for the real thing... not just a FWB. PLEASE SEND PICTURES... I'm hesitant to reply if I don't know who I'm talking to...

P.S. I'm sorry about no picture on here... I say this because I often find myself skipping over non-pic posts... I'm just cautious but I definately have pictures once I know you're real.
A brief description... brown hair, hazel eyes, 5'7, curvy/bbw... I'm hesitant to say BBW coz I'm far from obese lol. You definately can't mind a real girl though... otherwise... here goes!
  • Location: nw suburb
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Greetings 44yr

I'm a big fan of friendly people. Are you such a person?

Here I am on CL, just lookin' for someone witty, fun and bright. If you are tall with a smile that conveys your zest for life, all the better!

Get in touch if you would like to learn any particular details about me. I for one would love to learn all about you.

And finally, I'd like to add that I hope you are having a lovely week.

Thanks and good night.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

A lady's Choice and a gentleman's Agreement (NwBurbs) 24yr

Looking for a LTR with a male between the ages of 25-32 Please no married men and you should have all of the following, a job, car, and should be at least 6'2 inches in height. Pretty easy right? Please include a picture with your response as I will have one for you in return, no junk shots, save those for later. What you need to know about me, Outgoing, fun, hardworking,sexy,flirty. Will you be this lady's choice?
Please also include in your subject to weed out spam, what your favorite movie is.
  • Location: NwBurbs
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Chat... Anyone awake?? (algonquin) 24yr

Just a simple girl... Just wants to chat. Im 24 not tied down or anything like that. Looking to eventually hang out with someone and go from there. Send me a message and ill tell ya more about me. Please send a pic so I know you are real. Thanks!!!
  • Location: algonquin
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

420 makeout budy - w4m (Chicago)

I am a very sexy bbw looking for someone to smoke with and make out. Maybe have it turn into something more. I am looking for someone that is under 28, white or Hispanic, good looking is a plus. Tall is a mega plus but not necessary, and please live in the city. Put your favorite food in the subject. Thanks!
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

SBF interested in SWM..... (Northwest suburb) 33yr

Hi
I thought that I would have some luck on Craigslist, but I guess I was wrong. I know that it can't be this hard to find a sane guy. I am looking for a friendship and if something leads to a relationship then that's fine. I am currently interested in White Males, its my preference. I am a black female that knows what she wants. I have a great job, my own condo, and a car. I am a very outspoken person but I also have a goofy side. I love to laugh and I'm hoping to find someone who's compatible with me. I work crazy hours, but will make time for whoever sparks my interest. I am fun and love going out, but i also love staying in. I can also cook and I was in the Air Force as a cook, so I'm use to cooking for people. Also Im 5'4 and I have a nice figure, Im not fat I workout 4 times a week I think i have a great butt and legs. I do have tattoos, so if your not into those please don't respond. Also, I would like to add that I haven't been married but I would like to get married in the future, and would like to have a family too.. If you are not into marriage oor don't want kids please don't respond to this post. I'm not trying to trap anyone into marriage but I just want to be up front and not waste anyone's time. Also, please like talking on the phone, yes i like texting too, but it is really good to actually speak to a person sometimes. I really like tall guys, so please be 5'11 and up. Any questions don't hesitate to ask. Also Please send a recent picture and I'll send you one back. Please no sexual offers,not interested. I'm looking for someone between 29-40. thanks
  • Location: Northwest suburb
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Some nights... (City)

...I sleep better with someone next to me. And I think tonight might be one of those nights. I need a man late 20's to early 30's, any race, who is looking for something similar. Send a pic and I'll tell you more.

You'll be sleeping on the right side of the bed ;-)
  • Location: City
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Any decent guys left? (Griffith) 44yr

I can not help but wonder 'do all men play games or are there any decent guys left?' I'm looking for an honest man, not into games or one night stand, leaves the drama alone and wants to know me and wants me to know him. Does any man like this still exist or are you all players and just want sex? Email me if you think you fit the bill.
  • Location: Griffith
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Football Lover...... 30yr

Hello There....

I am a black, professional woman, 30 years young and very ambitious. I have an outgoing personality with sprinkles of sarcasm at times, a great sense of humor and definitely understands the meaning of loving life each day. I am very straight forward, driven and an out-of-the-box type of person. Some things I enjoy doing: working out, traveling, bowling, watching movies (only if they keep my interest), the arts (museums, poetry), and many other things....did I forget FOOTBALL?! Yes, I love football and cannot wait for the season to begin! I am about 5'3, with a very light complexion, thick/curvaceous build, yet very proportionate with beautiful brown eyes and just about shoulder length hair...

What am I looking for?
Someone who is Between 28-37, non-smoker, and preferably no children (I would consider one child, however), great sense of humor, driven, motivated and positive attitude! :-) Please place your favorite song in the subject line with your reply as well as a picture.....


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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Bahamas Cruise - 43 (All Chicago) 43yr

Looking for a Cruise partner. All expensives paid except for $150.00 and Passport. You will need a "PASSPORT" for this cruise. The cruise is scheduled for late June or lastest late July, the sooner you respond the faster we can plan our travels.
  • Location: All Chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Bahamas Cruise - w4m (all chicago) 43yr

Looking for a Cruise partner. All expensives paid except for $150.00 and Passport. You will need a "PASSPORT" for this cruise. The cruise is scheduled for late June or lastest late July, the sooner you respond the faster we can plan our travels.
  • Location: all chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Wanna be my cuddle monster? (Streamwood) 25yr

scruffy or bearded? teddy bear type? smoke (420 and/or cigarettes)? laid back? like bbw? able to host? silly/goofy type? Single?
any or all of those? reply back! tattoos are a big plus btw
if not, you can still reply i guess...haha
lets be that cute goofy pair!
oh and pic for pic
  • Location: Streamwood
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

If you like BBW's Click Here (Downtown) 34yr

I am white, cute, successful and funny i have no children.

I am seeking a WHITE MALE (just a preference)who is interested in dating and the possibility of something long term...

Please be Attractive, have a nice smile and most of all be respectful...If you do not like bigger/full figured women please move on
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE Be single I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOKUP

AGE RANGE 27-35

*Send Pic in Initial Email for the possibility of a response*



  • Location: Downtown
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Facebook? I'd rather poke my eyes out with a fork. 37yr

I don't litter, and I'm stunned by those who do.
If there were a turtle in the road...or near the road...or eyeing the road from a safe but still iffy distance, I'd pull over, get out of my car, and relocate him or her.
I don't refer to women or mixed company as "You guys."
I value family.
I buy organic when it's financially feasible.
I recycle.
I have lots and lots of faults but I neither smoke nor drink (much), brush and floss regularly, say please and thank you, and treat the elderly with the kindness and respect they are due.
I'm smart but not genius material.
I have and will never watch Dancing with the Stars, American Idol, etc., etc., barf, barf, barf...
I'm not averse to making barfing noises to communicate my displeasure about something.
I have decent looks but nothing to get crazy about.
Given the option to go poke around a pond looking for frogs or go shopping...I'm up for frogs and ponds and muck every time.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

LOOKING TO GET MARRIED (chicago) 65yr

BE HEALTHY IN GOOD HEALTH AND TAKE CARE OF THIS FINE LADY .WEDDING RINGS REQUIRED, PLUS PRENUPTUAL..
  • Location: chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Live, Laugh , and Love (mobile) 45yr

I am recently divorced but separated over 13 years and never looked back. Would like to be found by someone looking for a woman of color that is commitment oriented and not someone for just a physical fling. This I know is not really the place for the more serious types but I thought I would try anyway.
You must be able to tolerate extended courting and dates. I am really more interested in your emotional well being, your views on life and how you handle adversity rather than anything temporary that will most likely fade if we don't fall in love. Yes to fall in love again is the ultimate desire of my heart. I don't think many people believe in love anymore, but I do. I know it should be rooted in strong principles and spirituals beliefs. It is also based on trust, acceptance and the willingness to build a future together. Unfortunately I can't be patience while you figure out what you want. So if you don't think you want to be in a committed relationship that can lead to marriage don't contact me. Sorry to be so rigid on this but I try to weed out upfront the men who are just out there getting whatever it is they think they want only to find out that it wasn't and then they are on to the next quest or adventure. Also, I am allergic to cigarette smoke. So if you smoke or are in the process of quittin, I am not against you personally but my health does not permit me to be around smoke or smoke infested places.
I am 5'7, reasonably attractive full figured woman of color and look younger than my age. I am a single parent of four 3 adult and one still home. I am AA (if u think this means alcohol anonymous, then we are probably worlds apart) and have my own basic necessities a home, car, etc. I would like to someday retire early if I could and do some traveling and more volunteer work. I love to give but I don't have a lot of money so I give of my time, mostly within my family but I love opportunities to help my community as it truly needs it. I would like to relocate someday to a place where there is less traffic and noise. Which leads to the fact that I am sometimes quiet and I enjoy tranquilty. I recently realized I love nature. I want a flower and vegetable garden and a beautiful climate. Both parents are still alive so I don't think I will go too far but someday who knows. I am not as active as I would like but I try to at least walk 3 to 4 times a week. I'm looking to gradually increase my activity as I know it improves health. I enjoy the theater and many genres of music. Did I say I am ready to retire? Wow if I had a lotto win I would do so now!!! Lets live, talk about something that makes us both laugh. . .. And LOVE!!!

  • Location: mobile
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

good karma is on its way (Oak Park) 29yr

I'm a unattached girl who's straight forward and spontanious, who wants a guy to spendtime with. I'm affectionate and out going. Above everythin trustworthyness is most important. I have got a good humorous side, I always have} my friends smiling. Ask me any thing, I'm an openbook.
  • Location: Oak Park
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Intrested in Friendship & Dating? (Northwest Indiana) 48yr

Hey Fellows!

SWF here, 5'5" curvey, blonde, educated and a real lady. Looking to find a sweet down to earth_ Single Gentleman_that has his own vehicle and employed: A Gentleman that is interested in friendship/dating and looking for a real woman to accompany him to dinner, movies and other areas of entertainment. I have an upbeat personality, like to talk and laugh and looking for the same in a gentleman. So... Simply lets meet for coffee or a drink and have an open & honest conversation to see if our personalities click and go from there!

Please read the following carefully:

Only Single Gentlemen and Age Appropriate Please 40's-50's &↑

If your interested an serious write me back and Include your picture and a small scenario about your interests. If you don't send a pic and a scenario you will be considered spam and deleted & no response returned. As there is so much Spam and game playing going on Craigslist unfortunately.

Your pic gets mine. We can voice verify and make arrangements to meet with no endless emails.

Very Important here: "Serious Inquires Only, lets not waste each others time, Please!!"....Looking in NW Indiana area reasonably close to Porter, Lake or Laporte Counties.

Just as Simple and Sweet as that.....Hope to hear from you soon! BTW I am real not Spam or Bot!

Thx for checking out my ad and have a great day!! :)


  • Location: Northwest Indiana
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Want to go to a movie or two? (Arlington Hts.) 43yr

Are you as bored as I am? I want to have fun this summer! I'm open to friendship and maybe more.

I'm a little chubby, but not hard on the eyes.
  • Location: Arlington Hts.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

I am looking for someone to share love! (chicago) 49yr

I am looking for a man to love, to be happy, to share life with! I am SWW, physically fit, intelligent, attractive I am looking for someone to develop a relationship and have great life together, filled with excitement, love and adventure. I am looking for someone sane, safe and intelligent. I would appreciate a picture. Thank you!

  • Location: chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Seeking OLDER gentleman to go to Japanese dinner tonight. (Old Town Chicago) 58yr

How about having Japanese dinner TONIGHT in Chicago? Please send phone numbers and I will call you... Hope to hear from you soon!
  • Location: Old Town Chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for ANYTHNG (city) 20yr

not sure of wat my title shuld b , but im african american and race doesnt matr as long as ur cute , jus send a pic wen u reply n maybe wen can hook up
  • Location: city
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

This is not the craziest thing I'v done, but close (West suburbs) 40yr

Hi and thanks for stopping to look. I am actually a smart, successful, pretty (so I'm told), not arrogant, 5'6, 140 blonde who works out 4-5 times a week. It's not that I cannot get a man it's just getting the right man. I want what I am..in a man, fun, giving, smartass at times (or more that sometimes), that cares about how he looks and is successful and is just missing the one piece of the puzzle. I have kids, been married, not looking to do that again, past those days. I pretty much am up for anything, love all sports, Sox are my team, I am "romantic" about them. Travel, good restaurants, hole in a wall places, good wine, good beer, NO smoking, never smoked can't stand the smell. I wear heels so I appreciate a taller man. I am not high maintenance but I treat a man like he is the only person on the face of the earth and when I with him I enjoy him feeling the same about me. Is it possible to find this on craigslist? Probably not, but what the hell, no one gets hurt. That being said your picture gets my picture. If you do not get a picture back it's because I am not interested. That sounds harsh but why play games, personality and sense of humor is super important but looks in the beginning do count. Don't feel slighted, I am a pretty good looking person and I have been turned down and I know it does not feel good but it doesnt mean you should turn yourself into a complete asshole just because a person is not attracted to you. There I said it, let's see what happens.... or doesnt happen.
  • Location: West suburbs
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

would you like... 23yr

a massage by a college cutie?
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for a fun date...do those exist? (Lakeview) 34yr

While I'd love to start this post by saying I'm looking for a long term relationship, I think all I want initially is a fun first date.
I've been on some first dates recently that have been plain awkward and I consider myself someone who can talk to anyone.
If we make it past the first date we can move on to a second. I just want to take one step at a time.
A little about me: athletic, sarcastic, work in Real Estate, blonde, hazel eyes, I've been told I'm funny, outgoing, love to have a good time
What I'm looking for: 35-50 year old, athletic, active, no criminal background, fun, laid back, professionally successful....the rest I'm pretty open about. I am ONLY seeking males
In the subject please put your favorite sport or team so I know it's not spam.....respond with a photo and you'll get mine.


  • Location: Lakeview
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Maybe you? (River North) 27yr

Well, I am an F, 27, attractive professional looking for you. Not sure who are you, but definitely need to be educated, attractive, deep thinker, someone who loves to read and explore, someone who sees no limits to discover the world.

Absolute silence leads to sadness. It is the image of death.
Jean-Jacques Rousseau





  • Location: River North
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Newly Single (Schaumburg) 49yr

I can't believe how hard it is to meet a nice guy .. I'm newly single, Asian, 49 and super cute... I'm looking for a guy who wants to get to know me -I like younger guys but you must be mature and know how to treat a lady.
I will only respond to emails with a pic and I will send one to you...
  • Location: Schaumburg
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

LTR....Click to add to cart (IL/IN BORDER) 25yr

ME:
25, college student, family oriented
No children
Drink, but no drugs; 420 friendly
6 piercings, 5 tattoos
Big kid at heart
Love to watch/attend sports: white sox, bears, bulls, blackhawks, lakers, patriots, saints
Enjoy going to concerts and shows
Enjoy going to the movies, listening to music, hanging out, playing pranks, staying in at times

YOU:
Between ages of 21-32
Take sarcasm as well as dish it out
Know how to have fun
Willing to try new things
Has sense of humor
Piercings/tattoos a plus
Spontaneous


NO PIC=NO RESPONSE
  • Location: IL/IN BORDER
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Here I Am.... (Milwaukee) 42yr

This is a recent picture of myself....if you are interested in potentially dating me....I will give you some details. I am seeking an individual ages 25-40, who has an over the top personality and also does mind or is uncomfortable with media exposure.

Feel free to email me for further details.

By the way, I am the lady in the Brewers hat..

  • Location: Milwaukee
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Hang with a cutie =) 18yr

Hey I'm a black beautiful girl who wants to hang & possibly date an handsome guy. I would prefer someone who's
-fun
-honest
-adventurous
-mobile
-smart
-silly
Age 18-21 ONLY
Btw NO PIC NO RESPONSE (your pic gets mine) ... Don't reply if you're about games.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Adorable Me (Chicago) 35yr

I am a sensitive, intelligent, passionate affectionate,loyal, witty, inteligent, humorous, efficient, creative, sensitive, caring, generous, communicative, sensual, charming, reliable, cleverly neat woman looking for someone special to share my world with and potentially, to grow old with....
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for a hot and steamy makeout session (west burbs) 27yr

Exactly what the title says. Want hot makeout sessions with a like minded individual. Love kissing love passionate hot and heavy petting and all that goes along with it. Haven't made out with anyone since high school and damn it, it just sounds fun. Maybe meet up for drinks, flirting, and then have it lead into some hot kissing. Want this to be a reg thing not a one time thing. Hoping to find someone who's married or in a long term relationship that is missing this as much as I am. I promise I'm extremely cute smaller bbw with amazing lips and amazingly fresh breath. I have bit tits if that helps capture your attention lol. I am married so being discreet is a must! Just want to have some good old fashion fun with something that I've been living with out for far to long!!
  • Location: west burbs
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

fun date this evening (Oak Park) 22yr

I am a single woman who is vibrant and straightforward, in search of a companion to spend time with, learn from. I am sarcastic and romantic. Above all else honesty is most important. I am known for having a very strong will power, clever, and funny enough to get people laughing. I am interested in learning more about you, definitely don't hold anything back.
  • Location: Oak Park
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

My brain hurts.. (LP) 35yr

Kinda been feeling like life sucks as of late. And today has been a mentally draining mind f''' day. I'm still trudging on, but I'm at the point where, I'm posting on craigslist for some mental distraction via physical attention.

It's nearly impossible to find on here, a cute, fun, great kisser and lover. Let alone one that's cool with me having hsv, i know it's lame. But, I'm clean, don't pass it, etc. It's way more common than people realize.

420, whiskey, beer, good music. Maybe you love giving massages, I sure could use it. It's the mood I'm looking for...beautiful man, passionate sex, distraction from reality in my brain. And in a perfect world, if we enjoyed ourselves we'd do it again. Not looking for a ltr, I guess a fwb kinda thing.

Attach a real and current photo or I'm not going to respond. I'm not a bot or website whore etc. I'm a very good looking, presently feeling exhausted from the blah of life, in shape and looking for a great roll in the hay. Also, please do not contact me if you are involved in a relationship (even if you say it's open), I don't want the drama.



  • Location: LP
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for LTR- No games (Waukegan) 38yr

I am looking for a possible LTR with no games. I am way to old and way to tired to deal with any drama. PLEAAASE do not have a wife/girlfriend or be in any kind of romantic relationship. So if you are still reading ...thanks and let us get to know each other. I live in Waukegan and I have a teenager that lives with me full time. I am 5'2, brown hair,brown eyes and 200lb+ pounds. If you are still reading great! I love to laugh and explore new places when I get the chance. I have a Betty Rubble laugh when you you really get me going. My friends would say that I am trusting, loyal and overall a great person. What I am looking for is: Male 38-42, kids are ok, smoking ok, drinking (not hardcore) ok, must have a job and no drugs or jail record. Is this asking to much? lol Thanks for taking time to read this and look forward to hearing from you?

  • Location: Waukegan
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Are there any decent men out there??? (McHenry County)

Hi Guys,
I guess craigslist may not be the ideal place to look for a man...but oh well :) I am currently in a loveless relationship. I am very unhappy...I want to meet someone who is honest, loving, is a gentleman....
  • Location: McHenry County
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Who wants to take me out on a date?plus size/bbw here (very north) 30yr

I haven't had any luck as to what i was looking for so here i am again..... I was hoping the bbw lovers out there would read this and respond....Very interested in being spoiled rotten.(money, gifts, shopping, things like that) Must be discreet, ddf...I'm 30, plus size/thick, attached, blue eyes, brownish har, smoker, 44H breasts and a size 22 (plus size) I'm a college student and looking for work...So, I figured a date would be a great way to see if there is chemistry and the interest to move forward into something long term. I like bowling, movies, darts, getting our drink on and having fun, pool, roller coasters,...whatever...I love piercings and tattoos, so bonus if you have either or both, not a deal breaker tho...i have neither, but hoping to change that. I'd like to just find someone to be myself around and just live life. I miss the company of a man and the connection, but also want to know what it feels like to be treated like a princess. So, shoot me an email...maybe we can text..then go from there...Tell me about you in your email..i'm down for single or attached....looks aren't that important to me, your personality is, and i'm open to white guys only, sorry that's my preference. let's see what happens, if anything we will make a new friend :) I am currently unable to host and I am not mobile...but that will change soon..gotta fix the car ;) So i know you are real..put your favorite food in the title of the email. :)

<3

  • Location: very north
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Young and good looking? (Rolling Meadows)

If you're under 25 you're great for this. I'm a girl looking for a summer relationship, someone to hang out with and maybe lead to more. I'm tall, blonde, blue eyes. Enjoy the outdoors and indoors too if that's your thing. I try to stay in shape but not too fond of healthy food lol, the excercise makes up for it. Let me know if you're interested, I don't have many specific desires just tell me about yourself. However I'd love it if you were over 6 feet tall. Looking forward to hearing from you.
  • Location: Rolling Meadows
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Cuddle Buddy (North burbs) 23yr

cute bbw looking for a cuddle buddy...I miss feeling the warmth of someone next to me...love that feeling. This is not an ad for sex..So if that is what you are looking for then please do not reply. I would like you to be single (w/ no kids), white, sane, 23-35 and able to host. Email me info about you & a pic if you can :)
  • Location: North burbs
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Happy hour (Chicago) 29yr

I'm sick of protestors, secret service agents, and general chaos....so let's go to happy hour. Any single, cute, funny, smart guys care to join me? Your picture gets mine.
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Interracial Dating (Chicagoland/Southern WI) 43yr

I am looking for my Best Friend. He wants, needs and importantly has time to share in a healthy passionate monogamist long term relationship. Sharing in a mentally, emotionally and physically stimulating union. An intellect, a good conversationalist yet diverse with many interest as I can offer the same. A sense of humor and to see the glass as half full is essential. To be happy, confident, secure, assertive, masculine, generous, romantic, spontaneous, and youthful are imperative. For all that I seek, I can reciprocate. He can not be described completely in these few words as I can not, we will know. One that has learned time is precious, fear is an illusion and to share life together is to be blessed.

Thank you.

sbf 5'3" 150lb lg bn hair gn haz eyes


pix please hwp ddf 35 to 50






  • Location: Chicagoland/Southern WI
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for a great guy for a LTR (Western Suburbs) 37yr

SWF looking for a great guy for a possible LTR. NO games, NO drama.

Me.......
5'3
Athletic body
Brown eyes
Brown hair


Open minded
Spontaneous
Adventurous
Passionate
Funny
Honest

Tell me about you...

  • Location: Western Suburbs
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

One day you're gonna want me for your girl... (Northside) 24yr

I am...
24.
Chicago born and raised.
College educated.
Just looking for a sane, adult relationship.
I may only be 24, but I've got my head on my shoulders, and don't like to play games.
Perfectly imperfect.
Sassy, witty, and all around bad ass.
Girly girl, who doesn't mind getting dirty.
Love hockey games and a good beer.

You:
25- 35ish.
Educated and career minded.
Not into partying all the time, but can bring out your inner frat boy when needed.
Usless trivia aficionado.
Don't mind a girl with her own views on the world.
Great smile, and fantastic hugger.
You made it to the end of this post and enjoyed what you read.

It's a plus if you....

Are not turned off by/like/have tattoos.
Were in any branch of the armed forces or are a cop/fire fighter- something about a man in uniform....
Can write something more than "hey"...give me something to be intrigued by and respond to.

Looking forward to hearing from you
  • Location: Northside
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

are there any guys... 30yr

Who arent afraid of commitment?? I would love to meet a nice guy preferably someone who is over 30 and is active . Anyone also seeking long term? Reply with a pic. I wont disappoint.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

down to earth (River west) 25yr

About me: Yes im a real woman, and real meaning down to earth. Im five foot eight, tan, dark hair, blue eyes, and do have some ink on me. I dress well, up or down, have curves, nice body, and like to stay active. I enjoy anything out doors, sports, cooking, and get togethers. Im a big animal lover, and enjoy the dog park. I like patio's and cocktails also....nothing like getting off work, and sitting outside with someone else who's good company, a great conversationalist, and sexy.
Im looking for: A man between 26-35, attractive and takes care of himself, im tall so I like my man to be taller than me I prefer 6 foot or taller, I do not like skinny guys who dont have some build to them...(sorry just isnt my cup of tea) theres someone out there for everyone. I like men who are intellectual, have depth to them, have insight, knows what a woman wants, and just wants to date and potentially see where it goes. Email with a picture, a bit about yourself, and tonight lets meet for a cocktail, and if all goes well... this week sometime I'll invite you over I'll cook you dinner and we can eat on my roof with an amazing view of our skyline :)

  • Location: River west
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

A mid summers night dream.... (On a Cloud) 32yr

So, as I was standing there, the weather was warm with a cool breeze. As I look around....love is in the air. The audience was full of couples. Holding hands. Moving to the beat. That stolen kiss on the neck. A sweet kiss on the lips.

So, why am I standing there alone? I am cute. I am sweet. I am nice. I am caring. I am giving.

I have to think....and laugh to myself. If the guy next to me could find love....and the girl sitting in front of me was married....THERE IS HOPE!!!


  • Location: On a Cloud
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

FML (:/) 19yr

So i typed out this whole great description like two seconds ago and when i went to submit it my ethernet cord came out and everything dissapeared so now this is the description

Im 19 and black

I date interracial mostly

No penis pix

Email me if youre looking for a something serious eventually...

That description sucked but i dont give a poo. Email me:)
  • Location: :/
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Bored at the Office (Elmhurst) 23yr

Anyone else still sitting at work counting down the hours until they can leave for the day and enjoy a nice cold beer in this wonderful weather? I am.

Until then, let's chat? I know that nothing productive is going to get done in my office today. In my opinion, one accomplishment at work means you can be lazy the rest of the day. Settled a case? Check. Time to be lazy.

If we hit it off, wouldn't mind grabbing a beer with someone this week or weekend!
  • Location: Elmhurst
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Where's the hot guys with tattoos? (Loop) 25yr

Im a 25 yr old attractive, tall, woman with blue eyes and black hair... dresses well, very smart, confident, and easy going. Im looking for a sexy man who has an edge but has his life together. I prefer men who are tall, white, takes care of himself, tattoos a huge plus, high drive, easy going, and not looking for just a hookup
  • Location: Loop
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

xsport workout partner? (northside) 30yr

Looking for a guy workout partner. This is NOT code for sex. . This is a real ad. I can get pretty ADD when lifting weights so I figure a partner would help and why not one of the opposite sex. Nothing like trying to impress the opposite sex to get that extra 20% out of you that you didn't think you had. Lol.

About me I'm very laid-back get along with most every normal person. I'm single live on the northside so any gym is cool. I'm 5'3 got quite a bit to lose weight wise. But not looking for this to be a romantic situation or sexual for that matter so physical attraction doesn't need to be there. But you can't be a tool. Personality has to cluck. Well if this sounds interesting at all shoot me a message.

Pic for pic
  • Location: northside
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Gorgeous, Voluptuous WOMAN seeks DATING (CHI-TOWN) 29yr

The title says it ALL, Gorgeous, Voluptuous WOMAN seeks her gentleman who is SINGLE. Who is also seeking dating, and eventually a long term relationship. I am NOT, looking for a hook up, one night stand, or FWB situation. I have a contiguous smile, tranceful eyes, bubbly outgoing personality, and watch out now a sense of humor ;). I love to laugh. I think communication is a huge part of any relationship. I have a very close knit family and group of friends. I love painting the town red, or just relaxing athome. I am a girly girl but can also just be one of the guys! I am NOT into endless emails without meeting. So lets say you reply to my post, please include a pic, and in the subject title put your name so I know your not spam. Good Luck in your search, and HAPPY MONDAY :)




  • Location: CHI-TOWN
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Are there any single CHRISTIAN men on CL? 30yr

I am a sbf seeking a mature christian man.

If this is you send a reply if not do not waste my time

don't ask for a pic this is not what this post is about very attractive woman here but not looking for someone you just want a pic.


Seeking a deeper connection must be open to going to church.

Thank you
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Hello Dinner and drink 2nite?? 30yr

SBF looking to meet a mature gentlemen for a nice dinner and drinks tonite at Outback in gurnee.

I have no pic but very attractive hwp no kids no drama!
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Who's on CL? (Chicago) 32yr

Looking to make a new friend or friends. Im a single 32yr. old, latina. Im a social drinker, non-smoker, i like going out, meet people, go to movies, bowling, bars, im pretty much up for anything as long as we r having fun. Im not into games or lies. Once again im looking to make new friends so age/race not an issue just be honest
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for bbw lovers (northside) 27yr

fun , friendly bbw looking for some company. lets meet for drinks, or coffee , and see what happens. looking for a gentleman . 420 friendly is a plus but not neccessary. oh yeah, please be single and looking to meet.

  • Location: northside
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

looking for my man (north chicagoland) 49yr

I am an attractive female, very loyal, trustworthy, reliable, caring and affectionate, educated, and no drama. I'm 5'4, 135lbs, red hair, very cute, European.
I am NOT looking for a ''friends-with-benefits'' situation.
I like younger guys, but you must know how to treat a lady.
Single/divorced/Caucasian men between 35-48 years/old only with serious replies; I will only respond to emails with a picture and I will send one to you...

  • Location: north chicagoland
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

[bbw] maroon 5 is correct. fairy tales are full of it (western burbs) 20yr

Excuse the cynical tone bit I'm pretty damn tired of people right now..
just in general.. so i'm trying cl.. just to see what happens..
because the people i know now.. are.. frustrating..

ahh, and as for the bbw title.. i put that first because it looks like thats important here...
so heads up.. i am a big girl...not pumpkin round kinda big...
more hourglassy lol. boobs..ass.. a bit smaller in the middle..

so yeah..42ddd, size 22 pants..
NO SECRETS lol
because i am soooo tired of bs.. and bars.. and fuck buddies lol


so yeah.. now i'm looking for something special..seeing what happens
  • Location: western burbs
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Sweet and Sassy (Chicago) 25yr

I'm attractive, hwp, sweet, a little fiesty at times, hard working, going to school, and overall a laid back person. I'm looking for other nice, laid back responsible people to be friends with. I'm a non smoker, and not a huge drinker.

I love movies, going out to eat, hanging out with friends....I do lead a very busy life, but it'd be nice to have a friend to go out to eat with once in a while. I also am a proud mother <3 He is the greatest thing that's ever happened to me.
Respond with a pic and I'll send one back :)
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Lonely Married Woman seeking older man 32yr

I am a married 32 year old female who has fallen out of love with my husband. I am looking for a caucasian male between the ages of 40-45 who can make me tingle again. If this sounds like you please message me.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

SBF Seeking Great Guy (Any Race) 26yr

I look for manly qualities compatible with honesty, sincerity, level-headedness, and lack of melodrama; in other words no BOYS allowed. Intriguing men who are intelligent with a sense of humor move to the front of the queue for sure, nothing turns me off quite like bland mediocre stilted personalities even if there is a handsome face to go with it. Tell me about the last great book that you read, movie that you saw, trip that you took, or dish that you ate.

What would you say is your best quality? What qualities are your favorite in a woman? I look forward to hearing from you :)

The age range 26-34 seems ideal, but I'd be willing to move that number a COUPLE of spots for someone that I felt compatible with maturity-wise so I suppose that 24-36 is more accurate.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

looking for someone cool (Chicago north) 31yr

Hey guys!

I'm a single black female. Employed have my own place no kids never married no drama no Bishop. I'm short and thick. 

Looking for someone to get out and do things with. Oh wait it has a name.... its called dating. Notlooking for a fuck buddy or a one night stand.
Looking for someone fun and outgoing with a sense of humour. If you always have a chip on your shoulder and have a temper I'm not the girl for you. 

So if this sounds interesting to you message me. I also refer white guys. Sorry just what I like.

Pic for pic. 

. I do not care how big your dick is or do I need a pic of your penis. .......I also will now come over to your place tonight... I am not a hooker so if that's what you're looking for go to the "casual encounters section" . 
  • Location: Chicago north
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

SBF; Big N Beautiful seeks (Chicago ) 35yr

Looking for someone who is like me career minded, single, focused, thoughtful, and understanding. I want someone who is independent, serious but able to laugh. I would like someone who is able to hold a conversation. Someone who isn't in a rush and can take it slow; I'm shy but warm up quickly. I seek someone who prefers BBW, who is open , honest and a sincere gentleman. Please Respond with a picture and tell me about yourself; I will do the same.
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Give it a go (Lisle) 23yr

Hi. I hate talking about myself so this should be interesting.

Im looking to meet someone to hang out, maybe date and who knows even fall in love with.

I'm 23. I work fulltime and yes own a car, no bums please You should be under the age of 30. I'm a very skeptical person, so you should be 100% honest and open. I love a guy with tattoos and/or piercing. Also I'm white, you need to be as well. Funny is nice, more importantly you need to be a gentleman. Also I am very blunt and direct so dont be easily offended, we will never work out.
I really really wanna go to six flags so you should like roller coasters. Yesterday I went mini golfing, would love to go again. I love animals so it'd be cool if you had some.

Send me an email, lets chat after I get up from my nap. :)
  • Location: Lisle
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

I'm single are You? (South Suburbs) 38yr

I am a SBF 38 years old, drug disease drama Free. I am looking for a Man Ages 45-55 years old. For a ltr. I love dining in or out plays concerts adventurous fun bowling skating. I live life to the fullest.. I been married before .. So I'm looking for the same. Men serious apply only!!! No phonies or fakes!!!! Race is not an option.. Subject line ''let's talk '' . Thank you for reading my AD!
  • Location: South Suburbs
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

military man seeking ltr? im the girl for you! (joliet area) 24yr

There is something strong, brave and manly about a man in the military.

They're selfless and handle extreme conditions and love those around them unconditionally.

Is there a good looking man, 23-35 in the military looking for someone to write, send them things and be here waiting for them? Do men in the military still seek love and want the ultimate relationship?

I am educated, self sufficient, loyal, romantic, honest and funny :)

I am white (tanned), green eyes, medium length brown hair, average build (slightly curvy in some places), good teeth, take care of myself.

Email me and we can talk and swap pictures..!

Please dont be married and looking for a hookup..or home on leave of any kind looking for a hookup, id like something a bit more than that :
  • Location: joliet area
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

really lonely..failing at finding a good relationship! - w4m (Grundy County) 24yr

So, I ended a long, terrible relationship a couple months ago.. signed up for online dating and have gone out on dates.. but I am FAILING miserably!

I am college educated, fully employed, cute, laid back and easy going. I love affection and being with my significant other. I have goals and morals, good values and want something long term and real. Is it wrong to want to get married one day and have kids?

I can send pictures..text.. whatever.

I'm 5'8", green eyes, long brown hair, tan, average weight (possibly curvy not BBW or overweight), great smile.

Please be in the area.. I am from a small town near Morris, south of Joliet. I am open to different ages if there is attraction.

  • Location: Grundy County
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Monday Chit Chat (burbs) 36yr

Anyone just feel like chatting today? Blah day so far outside.

Bubbly, outgoing, cute girl on this end.

How was your weekend..let's chat
  • Location: burbs
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Chivalry and Honesty (Libertyville) 42yr

Good morning
I do not get out much socially, so it hasn't gone well meeting people.
I am looking for an honest and caring man. Please, no married, just seeking sex, seeking a fwb or nsa. None of that will work for me.
I have lots to offer a man in the way of companionship. I am a great cook, great sense of humor, respectful, active, kind, helpful, loving, understanding and hard working.
Wear many hats in life. I need someone who is willing to let me into their life and really get to know me. Someone who brings out the best in me. The bonus for me would be if you were maybe divorced with children, either at home or weekenders. Drama free family life is really what I seek. I am 42 but prefer someone older than myself. Disease and drug free also. Do not smoke and am a light drinker (wine). Honesty is a must.
Thanks for reading.
Me
  • Location: Libertyville
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Single blk fem. looking for a good guy, (Downers Grove) 33yr

Hi there

I am an attractive blk female looking to be in a long-term relationship with someone looking for the same thing. I am looking for someone I can hang out with, do fun stuff with, like going to sporting events, recitals, concerts, etc I am NOT looking for a ''friends-with-benefits'' situation, but someone I can get to know as a friend first and let things progress naturally. I am height/weight proportionate, 5'2, 120lbs, educated, self-sufficient and no drama. I have a laid-back disposition and looking for someone with a gentle nature. I am open to race ( have dated inter-racially ).

If you'd like to know more, please email me, serious responses get a picture, Thanks.
  • Location: Downers Grove
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Warm Heart (Suburbs) 51yr

A journey, that's what life is all about with no destination, but open to the out come. It's much better sharing it with a partner, friend and long-term mate. This DWF 51 is still searching for her beloved, strength in character, loyal and loving man. He must be divorced/single 50-65 prefer a non-drinker(social drinker okay), ready for just one woman (no serial daters) and has some time for relationship. I'm very loyal, trustworthy, reliable, caring and affectionate. I expect you to be too. If you are a single dad that's great as I am a single mom. As far as height and weight, I'm 5" 5' and over my ideal weight by 25 pounds. If you are over your ideal weight by a few pounds, that's okay. My looks are average with red, silky hair, clear complexion and very dark eyes. So, are you ready? It would be wonderful to bring in the sunshine and warm weather together. I have many interests. . ...just enjoy the simple things in life. We can chat more when you reply. Single/divorced men only with serious replies. . .
  • Location: Suburbs
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Where is Mr. Right? (Will County ) 28yr

Old people make me cry
Goodbyes make me drink
Tom Petty makes me drive too fast
The Bible makes me think
Children make me laugh
My mama makes me wanna treat a lady right
Like Daddy always has

You make me wanna buy a rose
You make me wanna shine my shoes
Baby, you make me wanna dance
Better than I do
You make me wanna be a man
Who makes ya laugh and makes ya cry
Wanna be everything you need
You make me wanna make you love me

Girl, I'm not poetry
I'm not the finest wine
But I'll toast to you and me
And I'll try to make it rhyme
I'll learn your favorite song
Stand in the yard with my guitar
And sing outside your window all night long

You make me wanna buy a rose
You make me wanna shine my shoes
Baby, you make me wanna dance
Better than I do
You make me wanna be a man
Who makes ya laugh and makes ya cry
Wanna be everything you need
You make me wanna make you love me

You make me wanna buy a ring
You make me wanna put you first
You make me wanna talk to God
Even when I'm not in church
You make me wanna be a man
Who makes ya laugh and makes ya cry
Wanna be everything you need
You make me wanna make you love me

You make me wanna make you love me

Yes it's all the lyrics to a song but it describes everything I want in a man. For something new and different! I've set many goals for 2012 and I'm looking forward to obtaining them all! I've met a few guys on here but they unfortunately were not was I was looking for in a relationship. Below is a little about me and what I want in someone. Hope to hear from you soon.

I'm 28 years old. College educated, I have my BA and MA. I'm family oriented. I attend church on a regular basis and I'm very involved in my church community. I enjoy movies / I love listening to music and discovering new bands. Not much of a watching tv person but I won't miss an episode of Psych and Grey's Anatomy. I love spending time with my family and friends, they mean the world to me. I enjoy going to the movies, concerts, bowling, downtown, trying new things or just relaxing at home. I like helping others and giving back to the community. Im a "bigger" girl but I'm working on changing that and it's going well. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I love to laugh and learning new things. I'm a girlie girl and I enjoy being one. I find the simple things in life bring the most enjoyment. I'm looking for something long term. I value the education I have received and I love my job, however, I believe wife and mother are the two greatest titles a woman can have in her life. Eventually I want those titles.

What I'm looking for: A man between the ages of 30-40. College educated. Must have a job. Drama free. Someone who wants something long term and who doesnt play games. Is SINGLE, not looking to be your dirty little secret or your number 2. Attends church or at least leads the Christian lifestyle. Likes to give back to the community. Sarcastic sense of humor is a major plus. Find someone who is a girlie girl attractive. Doesn't live at home, don't need someone who lives in their parents basement. Is marriage and child minded. Not saying now but down the road would be nice. Lives within 30-35 mins from Lockport. I don't mind driving, and yes I have a car but I don't want to travel an hour to see someone I'm dating. Enjoys the simple things in life and can see the glass as half full.

I won't email back and forth. If we click within the first few emails let's have a phone conversation. I won't respond to a few words or anything that asks if I want to hook up tonight. I've put a lot of thought into my ad, so you should be thought into your response.

Thanks for reading my ad. Hope to talk to soon.

  • Location: Will County
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

One more shot.. Is my country boy out there<3 (Chicago) 22yr



So i know this may be a shot in the dark but here's what i want. I know it's CL but who knows.



Well for starters im not just looking for sex. I want something real.

I want someone who can have a full on intellectual conversation with me that doesn't involve sex.

I want someone who will hold my hand and tell me im beautiful.

Someone that likes to stay home on Friday night and cook dinner and watch movies with me all curled up in sweats.

Someone that isn't afraid to introduce me to their friends as their "girlfriend".

Someone who isn't going to play mind games or lie to me about stupid stuff.

Someone mature yet still has a kid inside that likes to come out often but at the right times.

Someone who ISN'T Clingy, jealous or psycho. (Most of my friends are male but im NOT sleeping with them)

Someone who won't judge me for my past but love me for who i am now.

Someone who has goals and isn't afraid to go for them.



Now about me.



I'm 22. 5'9"

Brown Hair.

Green/Blue eyes. (They're pretty amazing)

Im a country girl.

Born and raised in Michigan.

Listen to country, Rock and very little rap.

I think i'm tough but i'm really a big softie. lol

I use LOL wayyy to much.

I enjoy starting water balloon fights and silly string wars in walmart.

I love big trucks and fast cars.

I'm a sucker for southern accents and pretty smiles.

I love tattoos and have 12 myself.

Oh and im moving to Parker in about 2 weeks.


Well that's just a little bit about me. If you think we might hit it off shoot me an e-mail. I have several pictures to send from my phone but only one on my computer and because of my job i refuse to put my face on here.

No picture, No reply. I know its kind of shallow as some say but i would like to know who i am talking to.

Put your favorite country song in the subject line so i know your real.
  • Location: Chicago
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Full Figured BF seeking Swm (C OF C) 20yr


I will make my ad short and simple. I'm in my 20's, 5'3, brown eyes/hair and med brown skin complexion. I like simple things, movies, music, a great conversation and even better company. I work and have my own and you should too.



You should be in your early 30's thru early 40's, taller than me, educated, serious, honest and looking to go out and have some fun. I would like to find someone that I can connect with on a mental and physical level.

Please send a photo and a brief bio about you. I'm looking to see what develops. Maybe we can catch a movie or go out and have some drinks if there is any mutual chemistry!



So that I know your not spam, put your favorite movie in the subject line!

I am not looking for a booty call, fwb or one night stand. Please do not waste mine time or yours. Please no Hispanic men. No offense, I am just not attracted to you.

  • Location: C OF C
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Posted: May 21st, 2012