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Women looking in Las Cruces

2 girls looking for 2 guys (alamogordo) 24yr

We are two girls in our mid 20's and will be in town Wednesday the 23rd from Las Cruces!!

We are looking for some some guys to show us a good time while we're in alamogordo.

We are not opposed to airforce!!

We are both blonde and love to have fun!

I personally have many tattoos and are into guys with tattoos. I like a guy who is funny, likes to talk shit and enjoys being roughed up . :)

The other girl has green eyes and a bubbly personality. She is looking for someone she can chill with and vibe.

Above all else we both like guys that are RESPECTFULl, easy going and fun!!

We also enjoy stimiluating conversation so bring your A game!!

You and a friend email us you pics and short descriptions of yourselves, or you alone :) and we will see where it goes!!

No Pic or description no reply!!!

WEdnesday is hump day... lets see what trouble we can get into!!!

We are real... its been hot as fuck and wish the rain would come back!!! go Aggies!!!!!

  • Location: alamogordo
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking...but not sure of what just yet (LC)

Educated, witty and fun woman in search of???..well that has yet to be determined. However, if you're married or looking for a casual encounter--not interested so please don't waste either of our time. I do like the outdoors and enjoy horseback riding, camping, golfing and a few other things. I love watching movies and wine tastings.

Will respond to mature (not in age but in thinking) responses from 25-35yrs. Military or not. Send me a smal bio and pic (if you feel comfortable) with "looking" in subject line to ensure you are not a spammer.




  • Location: LC
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

need summer lovin and maybe something more ;) (las cruces nm) 20yr

Hey guys im new to this online thing im a girl who is tired of games and done playing them... im looking for a guy how is between the ages of 20-28 im outgoing and I love life if you want to give it a shot put your favorite sports team in the subjct so i know your real! will do pic for pic as well
  • Location: las cruces nm
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Friends (alamogordo) 41yr

New to area and looking to meet new people. If you would like a new friend in your life email me.
  • Location: alamogordo
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Summer boyfriend (Silver City) 28yr

Here is the thing, I am a single mom, I work full time, and during the school year I am a student. As tippy can safely assume that leaves little to no time for dating. With summer here I find myself with a ton of free time. It is driving me crazy, so here is what I want; a man to talk to on the phone, text, and when he is available go on dates with. Of course if the connection is there sex is an option. I am a big girl, but I'm beautiful. So if this sounds like something you are interested in message me I'm hoping to have a date for the blues fest.
  • Location: Silver City
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

not too serious (lc) 38yr

I don't want anything really serious. I am desiring a Friend to chill with me, making out and all that good stuff, and great pillow talk. I could enjoy a day filled with those things. please don't send a one sentence response and a pic of your genitals, it doesn't do it for me. Have a great day!
  • Location: lc
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Nerdy gal seeking nerdy guy (Mesilla Park) 43yr

I am looking for a friend first but open to more if it feels right. All the best relationships start friends first. The problem is that too many men (and women too, I'm sure) are ready to jump into bed right away. I am not. I want to get to know someone. I'm in no hurry, I have all the time in the world to get to know someone. I'm not looking for strictly sex so if that's what you want, you are looking at the wrong ad. Sex should compliment the relationship not be all its about. That being said, if you are still interested, here's my stats...

Im hispanic, bbw, educated, self employed, articulate, cultured, like music, reading, gardening, theater, the farmer's market, art galleries. I'm spiritual, not religious, I enjoy long talks about life and our part in it. I am a bit sarcastic and can take a joke (not easily offended). I am a bit of an introvert. I am an animal lover and have cats of my own (my fur babies). I have medium length brown hair, brown eyes, 5'5", full figured, medium complexion. I love people and do a great deal of volunteering. I like to give back. That enriches my life. I'm far from perfect, I am a work in progress. I HATE talking on the phone but once I feel comfortable, I don't mind. Don't hound me to talk on the phone immediately. I will email, prefer texting. I don't drink but I am 420 friendly.

Please be AT LEAST 35, UNATTACHED (not married, no girlfriend). Please be honest as I am honest about who I am and where I come from. Smart and funny is required. No one liner emails please. Don't ask me for my picture without providing one yourself. Your pic gets mine.

I'm real, you be too. I graduated from Mayfield High when there were only 2 high schools. Got my degree from NMSU in '99.
  • Location: Mesilla Park
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

My kind of guy? Gothic, nerd, charming!

Hey guys! First I want to start by saying im looking for a ltr if your not stop reading I dont hook up. Second I definatly have a thing for nerdy goth guys but am not limited to them. Im not good at this describing myself stuff but here goes: I have 4 jobs very busy! I love out doors stuff but I can also stay in cuddle watch movies just whatever strikes my interest that day. I have my own car, my own plac, and my own life just would like someone in it to share my interests as well as yours whatever that may be. So if this sounds like you hit me up lets see what we can make of it. Just send me an email with a picture and if we hit it off ill tell you mare about me hope to hear from you soon!
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

questionable... (lc) 20yr

hey whats up guys, i am 20 yrs old and lookin for a man i can feel comfortable with, someone not judgmental and just testing the waters at this point. i normally dont have time to meet people because of work and school and other personal things, i came to a last resort. this site. but hey who knows i may find my prince;) anyways, 420 friendly:) hit me up
  • Location: lc
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

Genuine love (lc) 30yr

Aren't there any men out there looking for the real thing? All I ever see are men looking for hookups or FWB situations. Surely there must a mature man in his 30 out there for me. I'm seeking true love and there is nothing silly about that. Friend, companion, workmate, lover...this is what I am seeking. Please, be a happy, gentle person who loves getting out of the house.

I am 5'5" and 120 pounds.

If you are serous, please do write about yourself. If you cant write more than one or two sentences, it tells me all I need know. And please, even if you don't, "get" what it is I am looking for, don't play games with me. Everyone has a right to seek out what makes them happy.

  • Location: lc
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Posted: Apr 29th, 2012

My Chinese Horoscope says.... (Las Cruces) 43yr

that love and romance are in the air for me today.... I'm quite skeptical.... prove me wrong!

I am educated, articulate, sarcastic, romantic, I know how to play around and not easily offended. I like the arts, indie movies, music, cooking, glass beading, reading, writing and gardening. I am a homebody and not much for the bar/club scene. I do not drink alcohol.

You should be 35+, single/unattached, great sense of humor and want to get to know me. Your picture gets mine. Please only reply if you are over 35 and have a pic to trade. Let's meet for coffee and see what happens.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

My special one?

I am looking for that right person to start a relationship with... I had thought on a few occasions that i had found him but have yet to. I dont live in cruces but i dont live too far from it depending on how you look at it. Really looking for someone between 22 and 35, in decent shape as i am also. I will send a pic as i recieve on first. Im about 5'4ish, 120 lbs give or take, long hair ,colored eyes. I just wanna find someone i can fall in love with in time no matter what happens. So if your interested send a pic and please be real!
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

serious only! (las cruces) 21yr

I am 21 years old. I like to play pool and spend time with my family. I'm looking to be friends then eventually something more. I don't want anyone trying to get in my pants. Not gonna work. 18-26 only. Send a pic or no reply, not picky. I'm 5'7 thin, short hair
  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: Apr 21st, 2012

Just looking to see where this leads (las crues area) 37yr

I'm a very out going person .I'm not looking for a meal ticket I have my own place ...car..and job just looking for someone that can releave the boredom of the same thing day in and day out.Seems like all I do is pay bills and stay home bored of it lolSend me an e mail and tell me alittle about yourself
  • Location: las crues area
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

Lets see how this goes... (Las Cruces, NM) 23yr

I know the stereotypes for people who use on-line dating resources. But the reality is, there is nothing wrong with me.
I have been told I am very attractive and am pretty confident about that, but not to the point of being cocky or coinceided.
I work full time and am very independent.
I hate drama, am not overly sensitive and am a very down to earth, sane person.
I just havent been able to find the right kinda guy and find myself with a limited amount of time to get out and meet them.
Please feel free to email but if you dont include a pic I wont respond. You pic will immediately receive mine in return :) ABSOLUTELY NO DIRTY PICTURES. Have alittle class :) Thanks

  • Location: Las Cruces, NM
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Posted: Apr 17th, 2012

Wouldnt it be awesome?

I wanna find someone I can be with, someone who can make me laugh, someone i can talk about my day with, and who can share theirs with me as well. I want to meet someone im completely compatable with. Someone who can understand me. Someone who would wanna go out and have fun with me. I would like to find someone here in Deming just for convenience but not absolutly a must. I just wanna find someone right for me. If your interested email me with a pic and a little about you and ill do the same.
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Posted: Apr 16th, 2012

single ready to move on (las cruces) 18yr

hello i just want to find someone that likes to go out and to the movies walk go to the gym eat have nice time thats all the rest the time will tell if im tall mexican hablo espanol =] 5,7 not skinny but not oversize brown eyes and skin send me an email and will go from there as subject say hi or something crazy =] please 18-30 see you soon
  • Location: las cruces
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Posted: Apr 16th, 2012

Do you believe in forever? (Las Cruces) 32yr

I believe in forever and hoping and praying someone else out there does as well. I could dish out about my past marriage, divorce and what not but a past is a past and I want to look forward to the future. My grandparents died 28 days apart from eachother. I believe it's because they couldn't live without one another. They had an undying love that could walk through fire and come out stronger on the other side. That's what I want. That's what I'm looking for. I am a single mother, I do have a job, I do have a car and I am in no way looking for someone to raise my children or be a daddy to them. Thing's start out as friends and then go from there. I am 32, 5'6", curvy, short blond hair and blue eyes. I am looking for an honest, caring, loving man who is also looking for forever aged 28-45 roughly. Please be dd free and have a picture. Attraction on all levels is what everyone is looking for so physical is no exception. Your pic gets mine NO EXCEPTIONS!!! I hope to hear from you if your looking for a best friend, a lover and a confidant.
  • Location: Las Cruces
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Posted: Apr 15th, 2012

lets have fun now! (cruces) 41yr

Curvy, n fun, real, not a bot/site/etc. I love to party! Shaved, clean, disease free n WET /HORNY! Reply with ur fav party favor, n let's see who cums first!
  • Location: cruces
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Posted: Apr 15th, 2012

What if...?

That is my question...what if? What if you could meet someone who fits you perfectly? What if you could find someone you can see being with long term marriage or not? What if you could find someone who shares your interests and company. What if you could meet someone you cant wait to get to know and yet no matter how much you know cant get enough of? These are questions i ask myself everyday. I wanna FINALLY meet someone that has their life together or at least trying, i wanna meet someone i can share things with like my day and be completly honest with no fear of concequence. If your still reading this and are real and sitting there thinking i want that too...then email me and lets see if those questions can become facts.
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Posted: Apr 14th, 2012

searching for my other half ... (Sonoma Ranch) 25yr

I am gentle and loving woman that has been looking for love in all the wrong places and i am in search of a non crazy man that can turn my constant frown upside down i am 5'7 hispanic. i am not searching for a one night stand i want a absolute real relationship someone that i can cook with, and who likes a real romantic dinner with candles and rose pedals spread over the table someone who like to cuddle as much as i do and curl up in a blanket with while watching a movie on a couch, i want a man who is sweet and loving that i could kiss all day long and not get tired of it and a man who can keep a smile on my face as we lay our heads down to sleep, i am looking for a guy who is open minded about the world around him and willing to try anything once if you know what i mean. I am a single mother of a 7 month old baby girl, she is the most important person in my world, so if you can't accept her, please move on.
  • Location: Sonoma Ranch
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Posted: Apr 13th, 2012

looking for that right one (las cruces/el paso ) 31yr

I am looking for someone to get to know and speend my free time with. I am out going, I like to play pool and go on road trip and have a few drinks with friends, I have a good job and a car, i also have my own places, I am looking for some who know what that want, I dont want to talk to anyone who is just play games. Hit me up with a pic and you well get one back.
  • Location: las cruces/el paso
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Posted: Apr 12th, 2012

looking

I need something very specific...I am looking for a man older than 25, has his own car, a job and supporting himself, and preferably his own place. I will not support you i have my own kids to support. Im not looking for a dad at all! I need someone I can become friends with, hang out spend time with (but my schedual is very limited) but also someone whos open to more. No mind games no married men, serious only! If your still interested email me lets chat!
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Posted: Apr 12th, 2012

Tired of the little boys I need a REAL man... (Deming) 21yr

ITS EXACTLY WHAT THE TITLE SAYS IM SICK OF BOYS THAT DONT KNOWWHAT THEY WANT I WILL NOT PUT UP WITH MIND GAMES AND BULLSHIT....PREFFER SOMEONE HERE IN DEMING BUT I GUESS COMPATABILITY IS REALLY ALL THAT MATTERS. ILL SEND A PIC IF I RECIEVE ONE FIRST SO IF YOUR A REAL MAN THAT KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS EMAIL ME LETS TALK.
  • Location: Deming
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Posted: Apr 9th, 2012