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Women looking in New Haven

here for friends (stratford) 28yr

Up On here looking for cool people to be friends with to hang and chill with so if you down holla at me

  • Location: stratford
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Hoping to find...wm4w, w4w (Waterbury) 29yr

Hoping to find a female that I can get to know & eventually become mines! The only thing is you have to be ok w hubby joining in & watching from time to time...I'm so horny & want to make this happen asap!! No guys or couples & please no black girls sorry no offense but just not my type! Please send a pic & some info about you...lets get to know each other & what ever happens happens :-)
  • Location: Waterbury
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

cute rocker hippie chick seeks same (watertown) 23yr

looking for a cute chick that listens to diff types of music but def is ok with metal, smokes pot at least once in a while, and is at least 21. just looking for someone i can hang out with and if we happen to get it on so be it.. send me some info and a pic and ill gladly do the same.

muahz!
xoxoxo
  • Location: watertown
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Married But Love Women? Or Late Bloomer? (southern ct)

Hello questioning gals,

As a married woman who has recently discovered she is at the least bisexual, and more than likely gay, I am looking to meet other women in this situation, and potentially to create a sort of support group for women in our rather unique situation. We can:

--discuss the challenges of accepting this identity
--share reading lists and reflections (it turns out there are a lot of books on this)
--enjoy the pleasures of learning from each other, and being comforted by those who understand how difficult this can be

If this interests you, drop me a line and I will see if we can put some people together. We can be as discreet as each of you needs--though I myself am quite open, I respect the need for privacy, and will keep all email addresses private.

  • Location: southern ct
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Why is it so hard...

To find a cute sexy single bi female with no drama?
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

In search of a friend or more.. (New Haven area)

Hi there!

Life is about taking risks..so here I am. I'm in a good place in my life and I am looking for someone to share it with. I'm in my late 20's (close to 30 ah..lol). I enjoy going for walks, my pets, reading, the casino, vacations (I'm long overdue!), going out to dinner, going to local bars for one or two drinks or hanging out at home curled up with a good movie. I am a simple person and I enjoy the small things in life. I am a passionate person and I am truly grateful for my family and friends. I am a kind hearted person, honest, trustworthy and I have a great sense of humor.

I am more into sporty or fem women than butches. Sorry :( Preferred age range: 30-early 40's.
Hope to hear from you. Send a picture if you can I can match the words with the face and I'll do the same in return.
Thanks for reading.
  • Location: New Haven area
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Looking for love in all the wrong places (Bristol) 36yr

im GWF 170 lbs, brown hair, brown eyes, femme and cute ..I like walks, cuddling, spending time with partner and friends...I m looking for a femme woman in her 40's who enjoys the same as i do. looking for a woman from slim to average. i m not into head game i've been hurt to many time just looking for friends first and see where that can lead to, also would like some1 with a great sense of humor and personality. if interested please e-mail me and send me a pic of yourself and when i get the email i will do the same. Hope to hear from you soon
  • Location: Bristol
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Married female looking for FWB - w4w (Stratford) 39yr

Looking for a female I can get to know, become friends & whatever happens happens! Please send me a pic & tell me a little about yourself. I will be waiting.
  • Location: Stratford
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

I need a real woman 33yr

I am an attractive, discreet, fem professional black woman of average build. Looking for a discreet fem for shopping, happy hours, hanging out and hopefully, into something sexual. I havent been with a woman in quite some time and I really miss the touch of a woman. I prefer a hispanic or black woman in her thirties. Please reply with a picture and if I like what I see, I will send one back :) LADIES ONLY!
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

New in area...Worth looking at!! 32yr

Hi there! If you're reading it's because you were curious..as am I! I'm real down to earth, funny, witty and awesome personality! Kind of looking for the same! I am very attractive and would love an attractive female in return! Not shallow just picky but can guarantee I have close to the whole package! Nobody is perfect but I am worth it! I am interested in meeting new people and taking it from there! Please send picture if interested, will send in return!!!! Keep it real and I'll do the same! Don't let me down!!!
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

discreet relationship wanted (meriden) 35yr

Unattached BiDWF looking for a bi-female for friendship and possibly more. Don't mind if you are attached but he will not be involved. This would be my first relationship with a woman so I would like to keep it discreet. I have been with women before but not what I would consider a relationship. Physically, I am considered attractive, 5'7, slim build with long dark hair and hazel eyes. My preference is towards a slim to average build white female between the ages of 21 and 40. Feminine but more of a country chick then a city girl, good head on your shoulders and matured past the playing games stage. I'd prefer a non smoker social drinker. Your picture gets mine
  • Location: meriden
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Looking for my sould mate are you her? (Bristol) 36yr

Ok here it goes again Ive been on here for about a month and no luck in finding who and what im looking for. Im 36 brown hair/eyes 169lbs pretty cute i dont have a pic on my computer but i do on my phone so the only way i can send is if we trade numbers. im very outgoing,friendly,romantic and love to seep my girl off her feet. I do have a very healthy sexual appetite and no one can ever keep up with me. Can you? Im looking for a woman 35-48 yrs old athletic-med build preferably femme but soft butch ok too.. some one who makes me laugh who loves with all her heart and soul some one just by the thought of you i get butterflies in my stomach and my heart races until we meet again. I do have a hectic work schedule but i will always make time for you.. im not looking for head games, bs or one night stands im looking for my soul mate the one i cant wait to see when i get out of a long hard day at the office. if this is you please contact me. please be DDF NO Couplss and NO MEN also be Caucasian or PR and NO BBW Hope to hear from you soon :)
  • Location: Bristol
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Why is this so hard? (A little place in ct) 35yr

I'll try to keep this simple..... I am a 35 yr old white women in search of someone real, kind, honest, sweet, and affectionate Women that is looking for someone real...no games tired of them I prefer white women who are single and full lesbian tired of women who have bf's or husbands or want a gf cause men pissed them off....I like petite to avg build I am avg build myself... Please do not email me send a pic then don't respond to me when I email you back...please no men, no bi women, no THREESOMES or couples and NO GAMES...please be atleast somewhat attractive...I am attractive and very serious...I prefer women between the ages of 27-35 and please no BBW sorry ladies it's just my preference...I am very honest, affectionate and sweet and I'm looking to find a relationship that will hopefully turn into something long term...I'm not rich and you need to except this I'm in school right now and only work part time at the moment...I just wanna find someone that I can cuddle with and laugh with...hope to hear from you
  • Location: A little place in ct
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

1st Mothers' Day (203)

It's my first Mothers' Day & I would love a sexy female to play with
  • Location: 203
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Join us? wm4w, w4w 29yr

Looking for a sexy female between the ages 25-40 that has it all together & is single to become our girlfriend. Someone that likes to take orders (sub) & will do everything that her masters (hubby & I) tell her to do or else!!! Please be real, ready to vv, shaved, clean, d&d free (420 ok), & sorry no guys, couples, or black girls!!

If your interested please replay w pics, & a little about yourself!!
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Are you sub or dom? 29yr

what would u do or like done to you? FEMALES ONLY NO GUYS OR COUPLES!!
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

I'm femme&pretty. Are you? (The valley) 23yr

Hey ladies. So I'm looking for a cute femme sexy girl to have some fun with and play with. It can be no strings attached one time or we can be each others girlfriend on the side ;-) I would like you to be in shape and/or good looking when naked, pretty, and loves to fool around.

I'm pretty sexy nice body, I'm married however my husband will NOT participate or have any idea about any of this. Discretion is a must!!!

So if your hot and love to play with a hot girl as well, I'm deffinately your girl! Email me with a picture. No picture no response sorry!
  • Location: The valley
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Want BiFem to Ride SYBIAN with me (NHaven and Fairfield) 38yr

I am a bi female, 5'4'' 130, b-c cup, shaved, and dirty blonde, normal career woman, not into drugs or any unsafe behavior, i am very clean, and safe, looking for one,, ONE bi Female to join me and possibly my bf riding our new SYBIAN... If you dont know what the sybian is,, google it and you will definitely want to ride it.

It is the most fulfilling and intense orgasm you will ever have.

Not looking for money, nor games..

If you are interested in meeting or chatting about meeting please respond.. MUST include Location and Age in your response.. MUST PUT "RIDE SYBIAN" in the subject or I will delete.

I dont want endless emails,, I dont need your x rated pics,, i do want you to be honest, upfront and truthful.. i dont care if you are involved or married,, but this is just for us,, NO bf's or hubs watching you.

thanks

Jenn
  • Location: NHaven and Fairfield
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Looking for sexy bi female (Branford) 40yr

Horny bifemale 40 y/o, sexy, fit, and attractive professional - haven't done this in a while but know what to do to please you. No drugs, clean, and safe. Please write back if you are interested and have some experience - no one that has never done it before. If you write to me with a full pic of yourself, I will do the same. No games please. If you are the right girl for me, you won't be sorry! Looking forward to hearing from you with pic. Thanks. Looking forward to hearing from you. Jo
  • Location: Branford
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

looking for a lover, friend, preferably both (New Haven) 25yr

I am a 25 year old white, very attractive, femme/tomboyish lesbian. I am educated, have travelled all over the world, and in general have a lot of life experience but at the same time am down to earth and laid back. My passions range from music to art to my work to passion itself. At the same time that I love to go out and have a good time and am very social in that way, I also love to just be with a few good friends, or cuddled up just talking, listening to music, watching a movie.I am looking for a confident and older woman, ideally between 26-40.Ihave a profile at dating4lesbians.xmatch.com With photos attached. I find older women incredibly attractive, and a mentorship relationship incredibly sexy. At this point I am looking for a lover, friend, preferably both. I am not closed to something more long term but am definitely in no rush for that, while I have fallen victim to a glance across a room, I am taking it slowthese days. . ..aka no uhauls?. So ideally I am looking for someone I connect with on both a physical and emotional level, someone I can laugh with and also have great sex with if it works out that way OR a good friend to hang out. I want someone who can stand on their own, as can I,but at the same time even at the friendship level, someone who knows they can rely on me and meon them. . ..I guess it can come down to really just someone reliable to have fun with on what ever level winds up working. So if you feel you may relate to my rambling, and would like to chat and see where it goes feel free to get in touch.
  • Location: New Haven
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

ANR/ABF wanted (New Haven) 49yr

I am seeking a compassionate, intelligent, mature woman, 50-60, for a long-term loving ANR/ABF relationship. I love cartoons, 70's pop and R&B, 70's/80's TV, seafood and gummi worms. I am left-handed so I have a unique view of the world and an excellent sense of humor. I am loyal to the people who are important to me and can be relied on in a pinch. I have high values and am honest and won't lie just to save my own. I have found that to me it is more important to be fired for being honest than move up under falses pretenses and lies. Honesty follows you, lies haunt you. I am the least perfect person I know which makes it easy to accept that someone else may not be perfect either but I still try. Only serious replies please.
  • Location: New Haven
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

I don't need my heart anymore (Just here in ct) 35yr

Idk what to say anymore, cause all I get is hurt...I'm just so tired of getting to know a women and she just plays with my head and emotions...I'm tired of having a heart..,I'm tired of trying to give it to someone and then they break it...I don't want it no more, I just want to be loved and to cuddle...but nobody wants it....I wish I could be mean, I wish I can't care...but I this heart that I do t want anymore...I don't wanna hurt anymore....I just wanted to be loved and to love a women....I'm a lesbian that wanted love, but nobody else does....if there is one single women out here that is cute and is just as serious as I am or feels the same way...I'm right here
  • Location: Just here in ct
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Posted: May 5th, 2012

Married female looking for FWB 29yr

Looking for a female I can get to know & what ever happens happens! Please be ready to voice verify, send me a pic & tell me a little about yourself. I'll be waiting
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

Living Loving Laughing (CT) 44yr

Just a little gesture goes a long way.Looking for LTR. I love listening to live music;It soothes the soul. Im not a big fanatic for fitness however i enjoy bootcamp style exercise and personal training sessions. I stand very far away from drama. I love to take long drives in my convertible. I enjoy long walks on the beach. I'm very big on warmer weather; not a fan of the cold weather. I have a big heart and I enjoy good humor and welcome a person with a good sense of humor.
"Walk in the rain let it fall on my face Theirs a shadow of doubt but a sky full of grace ; And Im not like you and everyone else."
Looking for someone 40 and older. PLEASE NO dudes, couples.
  • Location: CT
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Posted: May 2nd, 2012

I just wanna know what it's like - w4w (fairfield county) 35yr

I am straight, but want to experience the softness of a woman. No men or couples. No crazies. I am not looking for a serious or romantic relationship. My ideal female partner will be feminine, between 28-40 and takes care of herself (is physically active). I love curves. Latinas or black women are preferred. Emails with pictures will get a response. Enjoy the picture.
  • Location: fairfield county
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Posted: May 2nd, 2012

Still looking for a GF :-/ (203) 29yr

I'm just looking for a female that isn't into games...someone that is single, w or w/out kids, drives, has a car, own place, gd head on her shoulders. I'm happily married, have a son, own car, own place, full time job & part time business. Please send me a pic along w a few lines telling me about yourself.
  • Location: 203
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Posted: May 1st, 2012

24/f looking for fun - w4w (wallingford) 24yr

hi, no bs
24/f looking for another female for me to play with first...I'm bi, I have a bf, if we click and u want he can join.... we both can play sub and dom roles depending on what u want/like or wanna try ....if u want nothing to do witt him, I'm still looking for a female friend to mess with n just be friends ....

if interested , reply back....i have many, many pics, if u want mines, send urs :)
  • Location: wallingford
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Posted: Apr 27th, 2012

LADIES READ THIS THEN RESPOND (NEW HAVEN) 42yr

I am an attractive female looking for that special someone!! I am a very adventurous, spontaneous, loyal, trustworthy, honest person, who has so much love to give:) I love to laugh, listen, and most importantly enjoy life. Im not a judgemental person.,.,I love ppl for who they are on the inside. I don't play games!! I love to talk, and most importantly I listen!! Im a great friend and am a loving partner. Im serious about finding my life long partner, no matter the age, size. I am a strong believer that inner beauty shines brighter than your exterior. If you want 2 play games do not contact me keep it moving!! If you want to know more about me leave me a msg!!! Hope to hear from you soon:) PS- Also looking for friends to chat with:)

What I'm Looking For

I am looking for a genuine person that is not into games!!! Im not going to type all that I am looking for, I'll know by our conversation if you are the one!!! I don't want anyone pretending to be someone they r not with the motive of using me or playing with my mind!!!PLS RESPOND WITH A PIC u've seen me now let me c u
  • Location: NEW HAVEN
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

Looking for a bi friend :) (Nh county) 18yr

Hi, I'm a white bi-sexual female looking for the same. I've never really done much with a girl but i want to tryy, I'm looking for a fwb to hang out with but also "experiment" withh. Preferably someone whose 420 friendly, white and not over 25 :) reply with a face pic and age and put your town in the subject so i know your real :)
  • Location: Nh county
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Posted: Apr 22nd, 2012

Can I call on you when I feel this way? (203) 29yr

I'm looking for a new bestie....someone I can call when I'm happy, sad, excited & when I'm just horny for a females touch! I'm married & get it great at home it's just sometimes I just need that females touch & lately I've been wanting it more & more!
  • Location: 203
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

College student needs love (New Haven) 18yr

Hi :) I am a college student in New Haven looking for a beautiful white woman(Sorry, just what I'm attracted to). I've been with women before and am now looking for something new. I am 5'9" white and athletic. I wouldn't call myself a butch or a femme, more in between. Looking for a relationship, not just a hook up! Please, no men, couples or BBW.
  • Location: New Haven
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Posted: Apr 12th, 2012

Females only... - w4w (Waterbury) 29yr

I've posted on here in the past & even though I've met a few females still haven't found what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a female that I can become good friends with in & out of the bedroom. I am married & would like him to join in from time to time. Please no single guys or couples!! I do prefer light skinned/white females sorry
  • Location: Waterbury
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Posted: Apr 11th, 2012

discreet plz (around ur way) 21yr

Im mostly looking for friendship....but if it leads to more so be it...only kissed one girl in college..no more than that tho. im 5'6, maybe even a little taller, i wear a size 5...so guess im slender-ish...im black, im very pretty....um..if ur interested respond with description of urself.
please be disease and drama free...ur pic, gets mine.
  • Location: around ur way
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Posted: Apr 10th, 2012

Looking for friendship and possibly more.. (New Haven) 24yr

Hi ladies,
I am a bi female who just got out of a long term relationship with a man and am looking to get back into the game with the lades.
Never dated a girl before, have only casual relationships with girls, and would be open to any type of relationship, depending on what we both feel comfortable with.

Just would like to find someone who I am comfortable with, and have interests and ideas in common with.
Would be happy finding a friend and we can decide if we have enough chemistry to take our relationship to that next level or if not we can be partners in crime as we scope out the New Haven lez scene, as Ive always wanted to check it out but never felt going alone.

Im a professional, open minded, and like going for hikes, traveling, cooking, movies, good conversation, and the occasional wild night out with my girlfriends.

Im 5'1, small frame, brunette, light eyes, and attractive.
I prefer attractive fem girls, however the occasional tomboy turns me on.

Please respond with pic and a little about yourself and what your looking for and I will send my pic in return if I think we would get along.

Thanks
<3
  • Location: New Haven
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Posted: Apr 10th, 2012

Are you out there? (central/southern CT) 30yr

After reading some of these posts, I guess its probably best to tell you what I'm NOT looking for first:
I'm not looking for any men, or a hook-up, or someone to play games with my head and/or heart.

Honestly, I am looking for someone I can trust, someone who will be my best friend and more, my "soul-mate". I want to build a relationship with someone who shares the same interests as I do: I'm an outdoor girl, I'm into sports, I love to watch movies, read books, go out for a beer every now and then, laugh until I cry, and recognize the time to be serious when the situation calls for it. I have a sarcastic sense of humor, I'm honest, faithful, not the best communicator in the world, and it does takes me time to trust but I love deeply.
I am white, 5' 2", dark hair, brown eyes, thin/athletic with a tendency to be a little bit accident prone :-) I am just as comfortable wearing heels and doing my makeup as I am lounging in sweatpants and sneakers.

My "type" is based more on personality, but also looking to find someone who is similar to me.

Please type "movies" in the subject line when replying. Your picture gets mine. Please, no nudity. Thanks :)

  • Location: central/southern CT
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Posted: Apr 9th, 2012