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Women looking in Albuquerque

Just for the novelty (Albuquerque) 23yr

Meeting women in Albuquerque has become arduous and I've come to Craigslist, not out of desparation, but in the hopes of possibly meeting new friends or someone to see casually...and to be frank, the novelty of posting on this site. I'm not looking for anything long term at the moment, but that is always subject to change if I happen upon the right person. I am slender, around 5'6", and androgynous. I'm attracted to feminine girls, slender or curvy, and ethnicity is not an issue. I'm interested in art, literature, fashion, music...the whole gamut. It is a huge plus if you are too.

Put the title of your favorite book in the subject line, tell me a little about yourself, include a picture, and we can go from there. :)

Obviously, no men or couples need reply.


  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

(N)ever Ready (ABQ) 42yr

It seems that there's never a good time to start dating... there's always something. I find that lately I wish I had someone to share with more than I care to be alone, so perhaps that means now is the time. I'm an independent minded person looking for the same. I believe in chemistry and find both substance and physical attraction to be important. That being said, I would describe myself as down to earth, genuine, femme but not a girly girl... maybe sporty femme? Hate labels. I enjoy cooking, hiking, camping, backpacking, good food, my dogs, and gardening (although you would never guess that from the shape of my yard right now), not into the bar scene, and tend to be a home body. I'm intelligent with a dry sense of humor. I'm looking for someone who has similar interests, is on the femme side, is a non-smoker, drug free, manages their own baggage, can write a complete sentence without reverting to txt speak and doesn't have any warrants for their arrest. I'm absolutely not interested in married, bi, fwb, players, barflies or U-Hauls.

So if you're interested, shoot me an email and tell me a bit about yourself...
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Do you kiss boys & girls? (Albuquerque)

Are you bisexual or bi-curious? Are you having a difficult time meeting other bi women for friendship or more in Albuquerque? I know I am.
I'd like to try a *secret* group on facebook where we can all interact and hopefully start meeting women that we actually want to meet. Maybe we can even get together as a group for a comfortable ice-breaker. Let's give it a try!
If interested, send me an email & let me know. I will want to see a pic & voice verify before I add you to the group-to keep us all safe.
Hope to hear from you ladies soon.
And really, NO MEN or couples.
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Wet Fun - Watersports Pee Play (Albuquerque) 36yr

I need a casual friend that's into this as much as I am. I can only cum when it involves pee. I want an easy going play partner that can give and receive. I am single, white, non smoker, unattached, and a lot of fun. No men at all!! Reply back with a pic, your experience and why you might be the one. Be real, I am. Hope you find whatever it is you're looking for on CL!
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

spontaneous (Albuquerque) 22yr

I am 22 and educated. I love the randomness and spontaneity of life. I am looking for someone who is okay with staying home to watch a movie or cuddle. However I also want someone that I can have a blast with on a night out on the town. I am on the heavier side. Ladies, shape doesn't matter to me. I believe there is so much more a person can offer than just physical attributes. If you are interested send me a reply with "spontaneous" as the title.
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Sexy Bi (Albuquerque) 32yr

Sexy Bi Woman in NE part of Albuquerque. Looking to meet other Bi Women for friendship and maybe more.

Anyone out there? SEND A REAL PIC IF YOU WANT A REPLY.

I'm real. These CL games get really boring, really quick. If you want to talk, email & be capable of a conversation. :)

No couples or men.
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

me for me?? (abq)

Im a girly girl I suppose....love someone who can take charge...have a kid..."out of the closet" dont have a type....looking for friends and wishing for more....text me? send pic and number and Ill send the same,,ps Im a bbw
  • Location: abq
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

interested??? (albuquerque) 26yr

For starters im a down to earth laid
back kind of person who enjoys to
be outdoors and be active. Im into all
types of sports, i like trying new things
and meeting new people. Im completely
out and would like the same.
I don't have kids but love them. Im not about
the whole labes but i guess you could
say im a tomboy im not girly or butch.
I prefer to date more of the girly type
or tomboy not really into the butch.
Im a hopless romantic who loves to cuddle
and have movie nights, but i also like to
go out to bars and dancing. Im
looking for someone who
is grounded likes to have fun
not stuck on the x or has
drama in there life. someone
who knows who they are and
what they want.If this sounds
like something your into email me with a
a little about yourself and a pic would b nice and ill respond with one too.

No couples guys or fwb not looking for just a
a hook up. no closet lesbians sorry
  • Location: albuquerque
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

very difficult (abq)

I understand its w4w so i am not trying to ofend women when I post here. I am a ftm (female on male hormones) i post on m4w but dont really get any replies due to the excessive amount of adds posted by males its hard to pick one. also when is it ever the right time to tell someone "btw im a transgender". I figure there is a chance i could meet a women that is open minded enough to get the chance to know me. I am not freakish looking nor do i have a ton of issues i am stable and work. My personilty is very random and very optimistic. i love to socialize. I spend most of my time at work or the gym so i would like someone that would enjoy activities with me and that likes to be active also. I like fem girls i dont mind the race. I make great company for any one and enjoy meeting new people.
put your favorite song you bust out dancing to when nobody is around in the subject line.
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Her 21yr

I'm a sucker for musicals and single roses.
I love to read or cuddle to a great movie.
I also enjoy working outside and getting my hands dirty.
I'm spontaneous, yet fairly set in my ways.
Good grammar is sexy, but not as much as confidence.
I'm average height and fit.
I like fit, feminine women.
I want to meet you! =]
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Will you be my friend...with benefits? (ALB/RR/Corrales) 23yr

Hey, I am 23 and single. I am looking for a friend with benefits (it can be a secret or not), because I truly want someone who will actully be a friend and do girlfriend stuff, like shopping,going out to dinner or even staying in and watching movies. I am looking for someone to vent about my day to, someone to talk through my issues with. Yet at the same time, have some "alone" time together. I am a nerd, I love to read, watch old and new movies and I like to cook/bake. I am 5`7, with curves. I don't care if you have a boyfriend or kids. I would like to take it slow at first, so we can see if we can actually be friends then add on the benefits later. Please put "F...WB" in the subject line so I know your real. Please no couples or men. Please tell me about yourself and what you are looking for, also you can send me a pic and I will return the favor.




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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for my match! (Albuquerque ) 25yr

Hi there!

I'm a happy, smart, creative girl with a passion for life and all of life's pleasures. I'm sort of a hippie. I enjoy vegan cooking, the outdoors, meditation, etc. I'm good looking and although I don't like to put too many labels on myself, I suppose you can consider me a soft butch or andro. I'd love to meet a good looking, smart, pleasant girl who enjoys good conversation over cooking dinner, going to breweries,road trips, hanging together at home watching movies. The possibilities are endless. I guess it all has to do with chemistry, so if I seem like your type, feel free to email means we'll see how our chemistry works. :-) Talk to you soon!
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

friends? maybe more =] (abq/rr) 22yr

heyy,
well i guess for starters am a soft butch. lol.... i love being outside, driving, meeting new people, listening to music (ill listen to anything at least once if i like it ill keep listening to it if i dont i can say i at least listened to it lol), i do drink but not a whole lot just not really my thing, i love to smoke hooka. am like a teddy bear cuddling n kissing are my favorite thing to do lol. i do work a lot though. i know when to make time for someone though....
i guess you could say what am looking for is friends or fwb to see where it goes. =] if we click we click if we dont then theres a new friendship being made =]

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Posted: May 20th, 2012

Looking for friendship first than go from there (ABQ) 35yr

I am 35 year old woman. I am on the heavier side, 5'7", blue eyes. I have a big heart and I wear it on my sleeve alot. I was married to a woman 2 years ago and her and I raise our two kids together. I love to spend time outdoors as well as spending quaility time indoors. Love animals, have two cats.

It has been two years since I have tried making new friends and even dating. So I am a little shy at first but open up in time. :)
  • Location: ABQ
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Up for a hike? (unm) 26yr

I love to hike. I have been exploring the Sandia foothills but I'd also like to start hiking the east mountains. I'm looking for a companion hiker but not more than that. I am in need of more female friends, especially gay/bi friends. I'm a total tomboy so my friends are all male, including my roommate.

I'm 5'6, 115 lbs, active, Native American, and bi.

Email me a photo and a little about yourself. And I'll send you a photo and maybe we can find a time to go on a hike.
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Bi Seeking Same for FWB (Abq) 30yr

I am an attractive bi woman who would like to meet other attractive bi women for real friendship first. If there is a connection, I would like to possibly add 'benefits'. I am really not interested in random hook-ups. I am not Barbie but there are men and women who find me attractive. I am comfortable in my own skin, in my body, and exploring my sexuality. I would prefer not to be intimate with someone who doesn't feel similarly.

My stats: married, no kids, Hispanic, early 30's, average to plump. I wear size 12 & 36c. I am educated, spiritual, active, & fun-loving. DDF, not 420 or smoking friendly, light drinker.

My husband is aware of my exploration & is supportive of me in that and in most other things. It would be great if you were in a similar situation. Regardless, I don't need to flaunt a physical relationship but I am not interested in sneaking around.

You should be fun but mature.(28-38 yrs old). Have interests outside of bars and shopping malls.
Intelligent but not pretentious. Realize that knowledge doesn't give you license to be negative and rude. Funny. Sweet. Good-hearted. Down to Earth. I don't have a physical type really but would prefer to meet someone feminine. If you were a red-head, I would be super-excited. LOL

This may be a tall order, but maybe you are just what I'm looking for. Please respond with a PG photo of yourself if you want a reply.

NO men & No Couples. :)

  • Location: Abq
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Black-xican in Need (DT/Old town ABQ ) 25yr

Hey, I am 25
Love to dance!Love to sing!Love nature and being outside
Also love staying in with my thoughts and Pandora (I would die without pandora)
It is hard for me to meet chicks because I dont want easy booty at the club and I have the worst gaydar ever! hahahaha
I am a hard working young lady, that is very independant. Own car, own crib (well with a roomie), On my Own and you should be too!
No chicks with boyfriends or husbands, No chicks that sleep around with everybody hahaha I am std free and sooo not easy and you should be too.
If I can make you laugh Great
If you can make me laugh Even Better!
So if you are not ghetto or a user and think you can be down with a classy blaxican hahaha hit me up. I promise I am very light hearted and cute! Or so I am told ^_^ I am don't have a flippin smoke'n hot ripped bod but it is getting there. Maybe you could help and we could work out together. That would be flippin hot hahaha. Just looking for a friend first because that is how it all begins
  • Location: DT/Old town ABQ
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Friends First... Maybe more :) (Nob Hill) 27yr

Hello Ladies:

I am interested in making new friends and making the most out of life! I've lived in NM for a while now but I haven't been able to find that special, not that I can honestly say that I have been looking. I would like to meet a liberal, atheist/agnostic, single, kid free, well educated, professional woman. I am 27, black, size 16, 5'6, single, no kids, and drama free. I know people say that but I really lack the time and patience to entertain non-sense. I like watching movies, going out to dinner, hitting the clubs (twice a month at the most), cooking, watching tv, and relaxing. I participate in outdoor activities but I am not an outdoorsy person. I walk my dog and just started going back to the gym. If you thing that we could hit it off as friends feel free to say hello.
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Girly girl looking for the same (West abq) 23yr

Had I'm looking for a fit and girly girl to flirt with thru text and send pics then see where it can go from there. I'm not looking to be pressured or looking to pressure anyone. I'm new to this all. Email me or text me with some pics 505 five zero 4 zero 322
  • Location: West abq
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

Message in a bottle... (Alb) 43yr

To whom it may concern, seeking throughout the world (mostly Albuquerque), someone to share life with, the good and the bad. Could it be you? Interested in feminine women, life is short answer back if your interested.
  • Location: Alb
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

friends with benifits (albq.) 20yr

my names contessa my 21st birthday is june 6 im also bisexual im looking for friends to goout with on my birthday but also looking for fwb when u reply back put fwb in the subject line
  • Location: albq.
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

)))))))) Nothing More * Nothing Less((((((((( 36yr

Hello ladies....let me start out with a bit about myself - I am 36, 6' tall, 198 lbs, love to be outdoors when at all possible, very spontaneous and very easy to get along with. I am seeking a woman who is into BIKING/CYCLING, outdoor fun and simply one who loves to enjoy what life has to offer! As mentioned the reason for this post is I am looking for a woman who is up to joining me most evenings out on the bike trail along the Bosque. If you are interested in getting your daily exercise and meeting a new friend by all means message me with your thoughts! I have pics to swap upon request...lol Have a great day - make it a good one!!!! Till then -

~JM~


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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Let's Have some fun TODAY (ABQ) 24yr

Any attractive (not fat) woman wna have a couple glasses of vino and a nice dinner tonight? Maybe more after dinner if we click? I'm 5'3'' about 113 attractive. What I'm not into: Just my preference, no offense- Not into african americans, trailors, BBW's, girl's that look like dudes etc. I want an intellectual, feminine woman to have fun with tonight. NO MEN CONTACT ME- you're wasting your time. And YOU must be comfortable with yourself and comfortable liking women. YOU ALSO MUST BE STD FREE-I AM TOO. Hope to hear from you. <3
  • Location: ABQ
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

friends with benefits (abq) 19yr

Im,looking for a girl who is willing to have a relationship with me. i want someone whos willing to come to my place. i want to cuddle. kiss...touch..and see where it goes. plz b clean
  • Location: abq
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Looking for exciting people (Albuquerque ) 20yr

Hey! How's it going? Am 20, Hispanic, brown hair brown eyes, 5'7 on the plus size but not huge!(no offense) Am smart, funny, and love to have a good time! Am looking for someone to meet up with and catch a movie with or go shopping! I like more feminine women. I love to text!!! I do have a job and my own vehicle hopefully you do to! I hope to meet someone! So hit me up if I sound interesting or if you have a questions! Have a good night/day!! Xoxo
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Texting is sexy , Sexting is HOT (Albuqueruqe) 27yr

Hi ! I am looking for a text buddy , its fun when you text , its HOT when you sext ;) I am bi-sexual , fairly new to the whole girl thing , so Im not a pro , but I would love it for a female to show me the ropes.. It doesn't have to be all about sex , there can be other things. I'm open to it all. After all good relationships come from friendships ;) heres a little about me

27 female
dark brown curly hair
5'9
curvy in all the right places
I love to read
I love to travel
I love to Hike and go to the gym
I have a job and live with a roommate
I have a car

I want from you
18-35 unless you look damn good ;)
I am attracted to all women but love white women or hispanic women
please have a job and a car ( I am not here to babysit or be a sugarmomma )
have a place to stay ;) roomates ok
can carry a conversation
be girly or femme
pic required
and a nice little sext ;)

Pix get advanced to the front of the lines please put "I love to sext" so I know that you are not spam ;0)
  • Location: Albuqueruqe
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Looking for an attractive femme woman (alb) 35yr

Hey there.... I'm hoping to find an attractive femme woman in her 30's that wants to have some fun. It would be nice to find someone
to date that enjoys nice dinners, walks, movies, the outdoors, and good conversation. Send me a pic and tell me a bit about yourself. Thanks
  • Location: alb
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

If you want it I got it:) 19yr

So lets see I'm19 years old around 5'4,petite but athletic. I'm very adventurous, Id like a beautiful girl I can have really cool conversations about the world with. I'm optimistic. I'm really into martial arts, basketball, boarding etc. I also am very artsy if you like the label thing. Music is my passion, it'd be cool if you enjoyed it as well. To explain myself a little further I'm mixed so race isn't anything that matters. I cant be placed in any category such as fem or whatever else their is out there, lets just say I have a urban hipster style but the heels come out at appropriate times:) I'm not going to write everything about myself because I want you to ask. If your interested send me an email with your name and a picture etc.I'll return the favor and we'll go from there. Namaste.
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

Have you been craving? (DT-ABQ) 24yr

So I'm off work every Monday. I'm 5'3'' in shape & attractive. disease and STD free. You MUST BE TOO! I'm looking for another attractive/cute fem who wants to eat some nice pussy today. If you just want to makeout, I'm fine with that too. I'm kind of in the closet about this.. Send me a pic and you'll get one too. If we click, lets watch a movie at my place ;) Also be fashionable and intellectual. Hope to hear from you.

  • Location: DT-ABQ
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

What's wrong with a Bi girl? :) (Abq) 19yr

Hi! So since you opened this, hopefully you are okay with dating, talking to or having a relationship with a girl that is attracted to both sexes. I'm looking for a connection, someone that can start off slow and let whatever kind of relationship we have develop slowly, friends, lovers, girlfriends, ect. I am not interested in replies from couples or men, sorry but no thank you. I am currently single and enjoying life but still want someone to share it with. Honestly, I'm pretty nervous about posting this, so don't worry if you're nervous about replying, do it anyway, I'm an open and understanding person! I'm slim but still have curves, I have piercings and tattoos but not in a crazy way, they look good. and I don't really fit into one description, so form your own opinion once we start talking! :) I love all things art, books, music, art, poetry, anything that allows an individual to express themself. I am a free spirit, if you like that and won't insist on controlling me, that's good! Ideally, you must have a sense of humor, some amount of intelligence, an open mind, a free heart, and a creative nature. Other than that, I am open to any type of person, I know that you may think you know what you like but there is usually an exception. I love getting out and going to concerts and movies and clubs, but I do enjoy those days in, doing nothing or anything. I do smoke cigarettes and I'm 420 friendly, you don't have to be the same, but you must be okay with it. If you have an urge to reply, follow it, who knows where it will lead :) Send a pic with your reply and put your name in the subject line. Hope to here from you!
  • Location: Abq
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

I'm sexy and I know it. (Unm) 23yr

Your looking right? Well I'm looking too.
Just like you I have standards, and I am sure to impress.
I am 23 and a very attractive chick. I am in no way "thick" in any way and I am looking for the same sorry this is non negotionable.
That's just not what I'm into.
I am about 5'5 whit/ covered in tattoos and guaged ears. You might have seen me at the club :) I have an awesome attitude and anyone that dates me is lucky.
I'm looking for a girl with confidence and self motivation. Possibly the same interests and maybe some football games n the fall?
I promise I am not unattractive. I know a lot of people on here tend to be.
I am not going to post a picture because I want people to get to know me for me and not like me for what I look like. Alothough if you email me, I will include a picture if I'm interested.:)

I am not shallow, but I do prefer latino and white women, no pun intended. I am very athletic and have an awesome built body. I am only interested in submissive woman. No "tops" please, I don't get man handled, but I am in NO WAY a trashy ghetto girl. That tend to be around here that look like Hispanic boys... Not me.....
More of a rocker style with a hipster swag :) if I sound like someone you would like to grab a tea with or just a text buddy, HMU :)
  • Location: Unm
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

A girl to love =) (Alb/rio) 18yr

Hi Im 18 almost 19 looking for a wonderful woman to start a relationship with. I like more petite feminine girls, but am open to more masculan women. I love to sing, i can cook, i love to go dancing! Age is but a number to me so dont worry if your older. Im a very sweet kind girl. I love music. especially metal. If you would like to get to know me email my yahoo at bbear5445 and please include a picture =) ill return the favor.
  • Location: Alb/rio
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

rainy days (Abq-Rio) 22yr

All these rainy days are making me wish i had a beautiful girl to lay with and watch movies. I hope to talk/text with someone and if all goes smooth meet up eventually (sooner than later). Im not one for trying these social sites but im trying something different and hope to meet some great girls. Im interested in fit, femme ladies no older than 30. Send me a message with a picture and a little about your self and ill reply :) dont by shy!
  • Location: Abq-Rio
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

What've you got to lose? 21yr

Looking for a great gal! I'm 21, 5'3" and fit. Umm, I look more feminine, act more tomboy. I love to cuddle! There's nothing better than holding a pretty girl all night! I spend most of my time outdoors when I'm not working, but I do love movie nights! I love animals of all sorts (especially exotics!) I'm just looking to get to know someone right now and see where it goes, I do want a relationship, but I don't want to jump into anything too quickly. I like fit feminine women. Let's grab drinks, go for a hike in the mountains, or just relax to a cheesy movie. =] Please be single, and I'd love a pic.
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

We found a love in a hopeless place (Rio Rancho) 30yr

Are you a speeding ticket?.....Because you've got FINE written all over you! Ok, that is the one and only cheesy pick up line I've got so I hope you laughed :)

My typical weekend includes poking around in my veggie garden....fishing when I can get out of town...and yelling at the TV when my Broncos are playing. I am not butch; I am not fem. But I am a very attractive gal. I don't have any kids of my own, but I really do enjoy them so don't worry, that's not a factor with me. I am a very stable person in terms of work, home and relationships. I am surprised how challenging it is to meet someone who shares those very basic qualities. I am looking to meet someone who knows who they are and what they want. In terms of friendship, I have no preference what you look like or how old you are. In terms of dating, I am looking for a feminine woman who doesn't mind a ball cap on the weekends. Email me if you would like to chat. Your picture gets mine in return.

  • Location: Rio Rancho
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

New to this... 24yr

So, this is my first time at any of this... I am, looking for a beautiful woman inside and out to get to know, maybe txt and see where it goes from there.. I would love to meet up at some point , so if thats not what you want dont bother.. I am a mother of 2.. I have my own house and cars, a reliable job and I go to school,.. I am kinda shy at first but once you get to know me you wont be dissapointed.... I do not live in albq, but go often, so dont let that stop you.. To find out more e-mail me.. Send a pic for a reply.. And put your favorite color as subj..
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

looking for the girl of my dreams (abq) 19yr

Ok, yes I know I'm only 19, but in a matter of weeks I'll be 20 years old. I am a lesbian. I like bi girls as long as you do not have a boyfriend. I dont want to be discreet. I want to hold your hand and cuddle in bed. I do like to go out and go to the movies and bowling and stuff like that.. I am a soft butch. I do not mind being feminine but I really do much prefer wearing a t-shirt..baggy and shorts...my hair is longish...about shoulder length when I straighten it. I am easy going. I like to laugh..thats easy for most people to accomplish. I am all smiles when around people I'm attracted to. I am a very good listener. I love to put my arms around a girl and feel her body close to mine. I do have a job. I work graves one week off one week on. so I'm up all night most nights. I am curvy. not overly huge but curvy. I do wear glasses. I'm attracted to very kind of girl. I do like studs/butch whatever you identify yourself as. I am also attracted to feminine girls as well. I like all shapes and sizes too. Just not African Americans. Sorry. To much drama. The only other thing I have to say is please be in Albuquerque or be willing to travel to Albuquerque. Thank you for taking a minute of your time and reading this. I Hope to hear from you shortly.
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Is she out there... (Abq) 27yr

I'm looking for someone to join me in this adventure we call life. Someone who knows what they want in life and who isn't stuck on their ex. Someone who likes to go out but also likes to stay home and cuddle. I'm 5' hazel eyes brown hair. I'm a very romantic person who tends to wear their heart on their sleeve. If you want to know more send me a message




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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Im just a skinny white chic.

Hi, Im looking for a woman 35+who would like to hang out and have fun. Be friends first and see where it leads. Im an androgynous woman. Very secure in who I am. I rock in my jeans and T shirts. Im cute, kind, easygoing, anwry and in shape. A flirt with an insane sence of humor.I dont drink or smoke. I am 420 friendly. Im into hiking, biking, cooking, photography and many other things. Im not into men, bbw or threesomes. If you want to know more please send a pic and tell me a little about yourself.
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Looking for a true Friends With Benefits (FWB) 32-46 (ABQ) 39yr

I am NOT looking for just a sexual buddy to only have sex with but a TRUE Friends With Benefits FWB!

I love to talk about everything and anything (You must be a talker and must share your life story).
I am very open and honest and I know that opinions are like butt holes everyone has one and it doesn't mean that yours or mine is the best.
I am newly separated and I am not looking to find true love but so looking for a good friend to spend the night dancing with till we are dripping with sweat, someone to throw back a few drinks or shots and enjoy, someone sit and talk about life's issues as we watch the sun go down or come up... or just stay in and watch a movie over some good BBQ, someone to joke around with, someone to flirt with and build that tension up, someone to talk to till all hours of the morning, someone to steal a kiss from every now and then even in a public place (You must be a good kisser, I am and have been told that I am very good at it), someone to have a really good time with in bed either it be fun and kinky or slow and romantic (I am a die hard romantic and will woo you till the cows come home)
I am not horrible looking I could be a lot prettier and I could be a lot uglier.
I work on my physical body a couple of times of week (my body is not perfect but I neither am I).
I work hard and play harder.
I am very girly make-up/ high heals/ lip stick but can put my hair in pony tail and change a car tire if need be.
I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh at myself and at others.
I am 39, Hispanic, born and raised here in ABQ, I'm 5'6 without high heals, 179lbs, light brown shoulder length hair, hazel green eyes and full lips.
What I am looking for.......
YOU are 32-46
YOU are preferably butch, short hair, average size or athletic built and slightly older, but not a MUST and I am open to meeting all kinds of WOMEN for love and friendship with out DRAMA!
YOU are the person that can keep up with me right now as I go out and about and sew my oats!
YOU are the type of person that is not jealous or insecure.. We will not get along if you are!
YOU MUST HAVE A GREAT ATTITUDE ABOUT LIFE AND LOVE TO HAVE FUN..NO DEBBIE DOWNERS!

I would like to be friends first and go from there! I would like to have a good bond of friendship that we could always enjoy each others company from time to time! If this sounds like the non-serious fun Friendship/Relationship you are looking for reply and we will see where it takes us!

Your pic gets mine.

Please put FUN in the subject line so I know you are real!


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Posted: May 11th, 2012

movie night? (Alb) 21yr

looking for a possible ltr. i love curvy women between the ages 21-32. if ur not curvy thats ok too. not into african women.i would like to email text and meet up for a movie night to get to know eachother.if ur interested email me... ur pic gets mine. so i know ur real put ur name and age in the subject line. hope to hear from u.
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

Where's my present???? (Northeast) 2126yr

About me:
I'm turning 24 in a couple days, I'm 5'1" about105, very petite, hyper, out going. I love being outside and doing spontaneous things. I'm silly and funny. I love going out even though I'm broke window shopping is amazing, but I also love staying home watching movies and playing video games. I do attend school 2 days a week studying to become a vet tech. (can you help me with this)

My wish:
I'm looking for a girl who is close to my size and white. Sorry girls not ready for anything else yet. No men, no couples must be a single women. Must be between 21-26 only cuz I would eventually like to go to the bar when I get a job. I want to take it slow and let it take it course. I'm super series about this. I am not from here so I don't jump in bed with the first person that replies. Please be respectful. There's more to the background but we can talk. It is complicated but I want a girlfriend so bad. I hope I spark an interest for I just want the best girl for me. Would love to meet you before my birthday so maybe my new friend and I can hang out and make my what's gonna be a boring birthday fun.

Please reply if you think I'm right for you. please add a pic when you respond if no pic no reply. There must be a pic no excuses.

Thank you and hope to find my birthday present I'm looking for.
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

time wasting with me 23yr

I am looking for a down to earth girl to text and spend some time with.
I love feminine women, who take care of their body and stays in good shape. I myself am an attractive girl with a nice body. Someone smart and thoughtful. If you think this person could be you please email me with a picture and a bit about yourself. if we hit it off maybe we could hit up nob hill, or some other exciting lesbian activity! Hope to hear from you soon!

Please no girls with boyfriends or men. I am a total lesbian and not interested in any of that!
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Where you are you sweet lady? (Albuquerque) 54yr

The search. The awkwardness. The fear.
But I know you are out there and we were meant to meet in later life, after all the lovers and affairs of the past.
I am complex but frank. I have many loves of life--too many to enumerate in an ad but here a few..............trees, my animal family of cats and a sweetiepie dog, veggie mexican food, feeing hungry ferals to caputre and place in homes, laughing,crying over an emotional film,stargazing, a kind,generous heart with the courage to tkae care of biz if must be!LOVE TRUEBLOOD! I also like anything Seth Macfarlane makes--Family Guy, American Dad, etc. I also LOVE the dark night of Justice, Dexter and the hip Nurse Jackie. I also enjoy historically based shows--The Borgias, Game of Thrones and Rome.( I learned how to sit , relax and watch TV at a late age)
I am most at peace in the cool outdoors and love to travel the backroads of NM.Do you like gourmet coffee? (I know where the best cup of coffeein Albq is)
Do you like chile rellenos? Cheese enchiladas with rice and frijoles? Pizza? Italian food?
I am here but where are you?
Oh yeah-- I am thin, walk a lot and stay very active.
Please write me if this e touches your heart and tell me anything you feel comfortable telling. I want to hear it all.
Till then--peace, love and knowledge!

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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Does this sound like you? 24yr

So I'm looking for a relationship with a cute,smart,fun girl. Someone who likes going to the movies. Going out and having fun or just staying in. Someone that has a good sense of humor and is easy to get along with. Someone that just wants to be with me and doesn't have a problem being faithful. Some that's not obsessed with an ex or can't stop talking about them. Someone that knows what they want and gos for it. A little about me lm a little quiet at first, I'm caring, I love movies, I like to drink, I like hanging out with my friends and having fun. If your interested email me we can talk. No men, no Asians or african American girls just not my thing also no couples or bi girls


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Posted: May 10th, 2012

First Time - w4w (/albuquerque) 22yr

Hi, Im 22 years old looking for about the same. I've always been curious but have never found the right person to try this with. So here it is. I want the full female experience
Nothing turns me on more then thinking about two beautiful women together. I want to get to know eachother first maybe with some drinks then see where it goes from there. If interested email me back with a pic please and I will reply with one back. I am real and hope you are too! Put your favorite color in the subject line. Hope to hear from you soon! <3
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

just looking (albuquerque) 34yr

hey ladies ;) gentlemen if u read this, im sure there are some!

I am specifically looking to get to know another WOMAN, preferrably feminine to a little tomboyish. I dont mind a social, more moderate drinker. No drama, be single...please lol. And for more than a few days im sorry but im a firm believer in taking time in between. I dont mind if u have a kid/s as i do. Im laid back, more of a homebody, close circle of friends kind of person but i still do go out & whatever else seems interesting & fun. I can be romantic & creative with ways to make you smile and u wont be disappointed in my lips & u know if we get that far. I dont think i have a label of butch or femme, im somewhere in between. I like a woman with a sense of humor, who knows right from wrong, compassionate, respectful, loyal and all that good stuff. Unfortunately, I may be a little picky and not really about looks but in all honesty there are some things that matter for an attraction. As open-minded as i try so hard to get, i still am not attracted to butch women or soft butch more importantly dont be bi and play les. Am i in the wrong state!? Are there any actual lesbian women out there!? Not looking for marriage or seriousness so quick but I am looking!

If you decide to respond it'll help me x out scams if you put "duke city" in subject line.
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

I kissed a girl and I like it (Nob Hill ) 20yr

Okay so it's summertime, which means long walks at night and adventures and roadtrips !

First, a little about me. I'm 5'2", 105lbs, and have played soccer my entire life, so I'm really fit. I go to UNM and I'm about to be a Junior in college. I have dark brown hair and greenish/brown eyes. I'm pretty girly. I've won class clown at every school I've gone too, so I'm pretty hilarious ;). I'm honest, witty, caring, sweet, and faithful. Some people have told me I look like Juno, but I don't think I do. hahaha.

Now, what I look for. My ideal person would be someone who is EXTREMELY girly and fem. I am not in the slightest attracted to butch or tomboy girls. Sorority girls are ideal. Someone that looks like Dianna Agron, Mila Kunis or Naya Rivera are generally the types of girls I'm attracted to. I understand that most girls don't look like them, but that's just to get an idea of what I'm attracted to. You have to be funny, caring, and interesting.

An ideal date for me would be going out to eat or to a movie and then maybe walk around at the zoo or go on a late night walk around nob hill or something. Just as long as I'm with you it doesn't really matter (:

If any of this sounds interesting to you, email me back with a picture ! I won't reply if you don't send a pic first, sorryyyyy
Hope to hear from you ! (:
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Brice asl intro (unm) 29yr

i am still waiting for your contact.
you are so cute. I cant help thinking about having at least one hot moment with you.
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

sftballplaya64 (Abq) 19yr

So I'm registered on GayDating.com and I have a lot in common with this girl sftballplaya64 but I just have the free version of the site...please if you know her...tell her I'm on here. Thanks...plz don't flag this.
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Need a date to the punk rock bike prom! (the 505) 28yr

Wanted: sexy, confident, fit lady friend who is down for adventure.

The punk rock bike prom is Friday at 7:00 at the UNM duck pond. It's just for fun, and ends at a dance party.

Let's feel the wind in our hair and see if there's any chemistry! Tell me a little about yourself and we can start to get to know each other. Put what kind of bike you have in the subject line so I can weed out the spam and the bikeless ;)
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Femme 4 Femme (Durango, Co) 48yr

Hello ladies. I am a single femme, hispanic, curvy, 5'3', medical proffesional. I live in Colorado but can't seem to find any femme hispanic women, or women in general in this area. I would love to meet freinds and possibly more if I click with ya. I don't mind getting away to Albque, I'm 3 hrs away, and going to concerts. I'm thinking of the Pit Bull one coming up as a matter of fact. I want to find someone who is also femme, funny, confident, secure and not wanting a 3 way with there man. I love to dance, drink socially, live music and festivals, traveling and just having fun with someone who has a good vibe. I am single with no kids, my child is a dog, so I am an animal lover. Perhaps you wanna come visit the beautiful mountains and me and get out of the summer heat. So shoot me a line if your interested and we can chat and exchange photos.. Femme gals only please.
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

I'm curious - w4w (Albuquerque) 32yr

I am getting more and more curious by the minute. I am looking for a woman to explore with, no one butch as I am not and would like someone more my body type and looks. Someone I can talk to first and see if we have chemistry. No one over 35 please. I am 6'0" 200 lbs and 40D. The personality I am looking for is someone not shy, someone with confidence and a sense of humor. I want to be able to have a few drinks and joke and talk before leading to the good stuff :) D&D free. E-mail me and lets see where we go from here. Serious inquiries only!! Also please attach a picture if you are expecting a reply.
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

Summer, BBQ's and Air Conditioning (Alb) 43yr

Summers filled with BBQ's, to include roasted pineapple! Or eating out, on a nice patio. Cool summer cocktails , or coffee on the back porch, or just hanging out inside watching a movie with air conditioning. A nice summer or fall trip somewhere.. If your feminine and interested in sharing shoot me an e mail.
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

Summertime state of mind 47yr

I'm a 40's butch of center looking to spend good times and bad with someone compelling. We are both intelligent, fun and not too hard to look at. I'm fit, possess a sense of humor and have enough freedom to be able to travel, road trip and explore.

Ideally you also have freedom, a kind nature and enjoy your life.

If you like yourself and have worked through most of your issues with your parents please get in touch

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Posted: May 6th, 2012

would like to date - fem seeks fem (abq) 32yr

I'll be direct because I expect the same. I'm a feminine, attractive, proportionate, professional, Hispanic lesbian looking for the same (doesn't have to be Hispanic). I am 5'1", have long hair, do a decent job with my makeup, wear heels to work...yet appreciate a comfy pair of jeans and tank top the second I get home. I really want to date, have someone to hang out with, enjoy eachothers company, and see what happens.

Not attracted to bi, curious, men, or butch. Must be drug free. Drama is a turn off and, while I'm not a partier, I don't mind going out every once in a while.


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Posted: May 5th, 2012

are there any (87109) 29yr

so i see all these posts for femme girls....

is there anyone out there looking for a cute, stable, easy going, soft butch lesbian?

im 150 lbs, 5'4", dark hair and eyes. hispanic, great smile.

i love to cuddle, play pool, movies, concerts. i know how to spoil women.

if your interested send me a mail and a pic. its beautiful out lets go do something.
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

are you the one... (ne) 24yr

About me I'm 23 almost 24. Short brown hair brown eyes 5'1" 110. I'm petite and curvy. I like to be girlie sometimes but usually tomboi.

I'm looking for a friend one that will hang with me or even with my family. I want a girlfriend in the long run. So no single men or couples. I want her to be about my size and close to my age. Sorry must be white I'm just not ready for anything else. No one under 21. I want to take it slow and let it develop on its own. I'm super serious about the taking it slow so if I feel rushed I will stop talking to you.

No pics no reply and im not posting any since I always get flagged for some reason.
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

Must be original (Albuquerque)

Let's chat. If we must put a label, I'm a soft butch, hispanic, fun kinda gal. I enjoy life. I'm a professional with a big heart. Fluffy, 5'3 ish, but active. I'm not looking to support anyone, have a three- some, have your man watch. I'm looking for a femme woman in her 30's who has a life! I prefer brunettes, someone who can have a conversation without using a websters dictionary! Sounds like you..send an email with what type of food you like in the subject line.
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Posted: May 4th, 2012

fwb/bestie (northeast) 24yr

So I'm looking for a bestie with benefits. I'm not just gonna jump into something I want to let it fall into place when were ready. No rushing it. I'm 23 turning 24 on the 16th I'm petite short brown hair about 110 5'1". I would prefer some one the same body style. I'm into white chicks sort just not ready for anything else right now. I do have a man but that's seperate from what I want and am looking for. I am a mother and she is my life. Im out going and usually very happy and hyper. I want a friend and someone to hang out with and my family too. Please reply if you fight this description. Must send pic if you want a reply. Please obey my request. No pic no reply. I'm not adding photos here cuz I always get flagged
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Posted: May 3rd, 2012

In the ideal world (Abq) 19yr

So, let me start with I'm looking for someone who has long nights. Why? Because I work 5 grave yard shifts in a week. I want someone who I can talk/text at night because I sleep for about 11 hours during the day.
With that said, I'm 19 years old. I do not have kids. I am curvy. I have short, shoulder length hair. I wear glasses. My eyes are hazel. I am fun outgoing. I am a bit shy at first but who isn't. I've been through a lot in life so I don't stand for abuse or BS. I do have a job. Don't have my own car. But I do have a car avalible to me. I live at home. This is my FIRST JOB.
As for you, I like femme girls. But if ya got the right look I like the butch girls too. (I feel more butch but I have more femme look cuz of mom) I like pretty much any kinda girl. Plz don't be overly big.
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Posted: May 3rd, 2012

hey ladies (abq) 31yr

hey ladies whats up cute butch grrl looking for more than a hot trist in a bar's bathroom stall. i'm a musician, have a real job too like the outdoors, video games and all that. be femme and adventurous. over 25 and open-minded about , wel... life.
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Posted: May 2nd, 2012

friend to fool around with (ne) 20yr

Still new to this girl on girl action haha but I would love to try it. Basically I want a good friend that I can fool around with but descreetly. Im very 420 friendly and I like to drink. Would prefer if you were too. Im curvy and would like someone around my size but I do like fit ladies too :-) no native american or african american please. pic for pic. Please send one or I may not respond. In the subject please put your favorite flower.

Get to know me. :-)
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Posted: May 1st, 2012

Could you be her? (Ne ) 24yr

So I'm looking for a relationship with a cute,smart,fun girl. Someone who likes going to the movies. Going out and having fun or just staying in. Someone that has a good sense of humor and is easy to get along with. Someone that just wants to be with me and doesn't have a problem being faithful. Some that's not obsessed with an ex or can't stop talking about them. Someone that knows what they want and gos for it. A little about me lm a little quiet at first, I'm caring, I love movies, I like to drink, I like hanging out with my friends and having fun. If your interested email me we can talk. No men, no Asians or african American girls just not my thing also no couples or bi girls


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Posted: May 1st, 2012

We might surprise each other... (Nob Hill) 23yr

I'll admit I am a bit picky and not the easiest even though I am an amazing person to have in Life.
A little about myself, I am a nerd and like to wear makeup. I am petite with long thick hair and a lover of animals.

I have decided that I really need to have someone in my Life that is slightly clingy, make me socialmable and get out more.
Someone I love making blush and smile, loves to cuddle. I am a bit of a nympho and need someone that can tame it and most of all tame me.
As bad as this sounds, I strongly prefer petite and cute, okay with sort of butch as long as you believe in grooming, who have a mind of their own and have no trouble speaking it.
Not huge on ghetto. Don't care if they are a nerd themselves but would be nice, I'm a retro gamer and huge computer geek. However I like staying fit!
I want to share my Life with someone that likes staying fit too and can be understanding on my anti social problem and know I am not perfect, but damn near close. lol
Understand I am sort of 420 but am trying to cut back and being with someone to be sober around I would prefer. I do drink beers from time to time but it's not that serious.

Lets chat, we might surprise each other. Age doesn't matter.
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Posted: May 1st, 2012

Looking for a girly girl to play with (West abq ) 23yr

Hey I'm really looking to meet someone that I can talk to then see where it goes. I'm new to this all and am a little shy. I am 5 months pregnant and I do have a boyfriend. He doesn't have to join but he does know about it and is fine with me meeting a girl.
I'm a very fem girl and looking for the same type of girl with a fit body and a great personality. If your interested in seeing where it could go for us text five zero 5 five zero 4 zero 3 two two
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Posted: May 1st, 2012

Are you out there ?

I'm looking for a friend. A bestfriend , someone who will be real and that's down to earth .
Someone who like cuddling and watching redbox as well as go out and have fun.
Someone who knows what they want wether it be a relationship or fwb.
Who loves to make out and smile .
Send an email with a little about you I'll do the same.
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Posted: May 1st, 2012

Hello ladies (Albuquerque ) 20yr

Hey ladies, how's it going? I'm new to this so here it goes: I am twenty and just moved here. I don't know so much about the lesbian scene around here. I am pretty free spirited. I enjoy going to the clubs and concerts, or just relaxing at home and enjoying each other company. I'm seeking a beautiful soul, not just another cute girl. A girl who is smart and can hold a conversation is a plus...I live life to the fullest and enjoy every moment. I am very optimistic an hope you are too!:) confidence and a sense of humor is a huge turn on! Lets go on a Adventure or try something new!!!I'm looking for a lady to date or just go out an have fun with. If we don't connect, let's be friends! Can't have enough friends ;) well if this sounds like you give me Email. Peace an love ladies!
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Posted: May 1st, 2012

i dont just want to fuck... (northeast) 24yr

So I'm looking for that girl who will be my bestie a girl who will go shopping with me or just sit around the house. I do have a daughter and a man but I really want a girlfriend. This person must be ok with my man watching or joining but he doesn't always have to do either. I want to take this slow and when I say slow I mean I don't want to text for a few days and then here comes the sex talk take or pushing me into it. I want it to happen when it happens. If you reply you must send a pic, no pic no reply. I'm not posting pictures cuz everytime I do I get flagged. No single men nor couples please respect this.
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Posted: May 1st, 2012

Lets be honest, dating is freaking hard! (Albuquerque) 29yr

I would say dating anywhere is hard, but in Albuquerque its even harder! So I thought I give this a try and see what happens. I am looking for someone who actually wants to get to know someone with the possibility of being in a relationship at some point. Even if we are just friends at first and then become something more later thats great, or if we hang out and just be friends period that cool with me too. I am a professional lady, who likes to have fun know matter what that is... I am outgoing, fun, spontaneous, passionate, easy going, and just want to find someone with similar interest and qualities! I dont have any kids, have a stable good job, and have my own house... If your tired of bullshit, drama, ex drama then lets chat and see where it goes! I promise you that I am the one of a kind you have been looking for. Send a picture and lets chat!
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Posted: Apr 28th, 2012

how you doing? (RR/ABQ) 22yr

heyy =] how you doing?

hmm... wel lets start of by telling you a little about what i am looking for i suppose.
i would like to meet someone who knows what they want. no games. soemone who knows where they are going in life. who can accept me for me and all the things that come with me. lol. my family that doesnt really accept or appreciate all that i do for them (they have nothing to do with a relationship, my jobs (i do work hard). someone who knows when to go out and hve fun or stay inside and just watch movies. who doesnt get tired of hanging out with me. or going on little adventures either with or without my best friend. hmm.... around my age.

now about me =]
lets see. i love being outside. but like above i do know when to stay in and cuddle up and watch movies =] i love to cuddle and hug =] when i find something i like i put pretty much everything i have into whatever it may be =]. looks wise... am a big teddy bear. i have been told i look mean but am really a sweetheart =] am not skin and bones but am not huge. am perfect for me =] lol if no one likes or accepts it then oh well i guess. hmm.... i guess the rest is a mystery =]

if you would like to know more send me an email =] hmm put your favorite music artist in the title so i know your not spam....

thanks for taking the time in reading this hope to hear from you soon. =]
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Posted: Apr 28th, 2012

Let's have some fun this weekend (ABQ-Downtown-Knob Hill) 39yr

I am looking for a girl to have some good conversation and fun times with and see where it goes from there. I would like a girlfriend I can go out with, take trips with and build a relationship with as friends if nothing else. I am blond and 5'4". My likes are women that are taller than me and brunette. I am working on my fitness but I am not skinny. I consider myself curvy. I don't mind a few extra pounds, but I do like someone who is active and willing to go on adventures with me. I am bi so you must be ok with that. I am single and prefer someone who is single as well. If this sounds appealing to you email me. I look forward to hearing from you.
  • Location: ABQ-Downtown-Knob Hill
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Posted: Apr 28th, 2012

Soft butch seeking (Abq) 29yr

Hi ladies. I'm an attractive easy going soft butch female in search of a lady friend. I am attracted to both butch and femme girls so long as the vibe is right. Looks aren't everything but I would like you to be somewhat attractive. I'm looking for friendship/sex but not necessarily a relationship. I'm kind, sane, and fun and if the chemistry is not there I'm always open to new friends. Hope to hear from you!
  • Location: Abq
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Posted: Apr 27th, 2012

Serious inquires only. . . (Alb) 42yr

If your serious about looking for that special someone and if your serious about spending time with someone, traveling, eating, and sharing a good time in general. I'm looking for the same and someone who is also feminine. So if your serious, hit me back..
  • Location: Alb
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Posted: Apr 27th, 2012

Looking for (Albuquerque ) 21yr

Okay so to start off I'll tell you about myself. I'm 21, and looking for a friendship hoping that it turns into something more. My daughter means the world to me. I am 115 pounds and I am femme.
I'm looking for a femme like myself preferably 22-26. Maybe go out to dinner, movie and just have fun.
If your interested, send me and pic, write a little bit about yourself and in the subject line write DAR so I know your real. I will definitely reply with a picture too :)
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

friday night? (abq) 29yr

looking for some fun friday night. how about you?

im 29 soft butch laid back fun loving and in need of a night to blow off steam.

are you looking for a buddy to go with? i can be or wingman.
are you looking for someone to have some different kinda fun with? let me take you out.


i just wanna do something!!
  • Location: abq
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

Looking for sexy lady to have fun.... - w4w (Santa Fe/ESP) 25yr

I'm 25 looking for an athletic average body sexy smile and nice tits! I'm looking for a sexy female in Santa Fe maybe albquerque to meet up talk have wine go out dancing drinking and coming back to the room and having some fun =) I will send pics once you send me some lets talk text get to know eachother then meet in the subject line put "girl time" so I can weed out junk mail
  • Location: Santa Fe/ESP
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

Hello Albuquerque (North Valley) 51yr

Hello ABQ...where are all the slightly older lesbians...45-50 ish+ ??? I know I can't possibly be the only one out here? I am looking for friendship, dating, romance and a LTR...I am fun, funny, educated and intelliegent, attractive enough in that andro lesbian kind of way, love to laugh, read good books, cook, walk, cuddle, kiss and love good conversation. I am generally attracted to androgynous, boyish, strong women with great sense of humor and intelligence......where are you? So much to be enjoyed in this great weather. Let's have some fun!
  • Location: North Valley
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

In search of a Fem woman (Downtown) 30yr

Outgoing gurl looking to meet a funny lady for dates! I love Fem women who are finacially and mentally stable. Non drinkers prefered.
I'm 5'5" cute, educated, nice full lips, adventurous. Brn hair and Hazel eyes. Cute butt and full lips and a nice smile. Independent and outgoing. Seeking a friendship and possibly more.
Let's talk and go for lunch !

  • Location: Downtown
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

Take Care (Abq) 23yr

Hello ladies I am a 23 year old good looking stud in the Albuquerque area looking for love in all the wrong places so I thought I'd give this a try!I'm 5'6 160 lbs short black hair brown eyes Hispanic.I'm drug and disease free, don't drink or smoke,I have a job my own car and a house that I share with a few roomates.I'm unique,funny,open minded and really not into head games or bs.I'm looking for a female around my age who would like to be friends and see where it goes.If nothing happens relationship wise I also make a great friend!If you're interested please feel free to hit me up pic for pic;)
  • Location: Abq
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Posted: Apr 25th, 2012

Looking to date is it that hard !!!? (Heights ) 26yr

I'm 26 straight acting and looking femme .looking for a femme also 25-35. Please be cute body type don't really matter that much just be active I'm a thicker girl myself . But you know deep down if your cute or not lol !funky hair cut , weird shaped head , messed up grill , bad skin , dresses like a guy,dual or overly loud personality . Those are all things I do not consider cute lol .prefer Hispanic or white I am white myself . I'm ok with kids I actually enjoy them but I do not have any myself . Please be single ! Also please have the time to date if you contact me :)
  • Location: Heights
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Posted: Apr 25th, 2012

Let's go out this weekend! (Albuquerque ) 25yr

Hey there ladies,

I'm a good-looking, tall, soft butch with short hair, tattoos, and an edgy style. I'm smart, fun, friendly, and easy-going. I'm looking for a good time this weekend at a bar or a club or something with a good looking, fun girl who will be good company.

If we hit it off this weekend, I'd be cool with pursuing something, but if not, it's all good. Hit me up!
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

No more head games (Alb) 27yr

Well you opened it so that's a start. I will be honest the tittle says it. I don't want head games. I never thought I would be posting a add. I am not 21 going to the clubs looking for a hook up and play any game to get it. I have worked hard to get where I am at. Now I want to find someone honest to share it with. I am not saying I am looking for a uhaul the same day you meet someone. Let's chat, hang out, become friends and if there is a spark go from there. If there is no spark so be it. You can never have to many friends.
A little about me I am 5'9 white girl with a short punky hair cut. I have brown hair green eyes.
Well there is much more to be said. If you want to know more message me.
Put something about albuquerque in the tittle to avoid the spam.
  • Location: Alb
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Maybe I would have been Something you'd be good at 25yr

I realize its lame to post and find someone on craigslist haha but i thought id give it a shot..
Im just looking for cool girls to hang out with that have similar interests as me.

music :indie/folk anytime of good rock i guess
art
dancing to disco haha
drinking going to bars
going to shows

i like all types of girls but prefer one with an edgy look

not opposed to friendship turning into something more
send me a pic and ill send you one (:
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

Looking for... (Abq) 26yr


26 year old country girl looking to meet someone to join me in this adventure called life. I love the outdoors. I'm a romantic and passionate person. I'm not into playing games and would like someone who is the same. If you want to know more send me a message.
  • Location: Abq
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

any bars/clubs in ABQ 42yr

Hi all. I will vising your city next weekend and was wondering if there were any lesbian bars or clubs. Google didn't really find anything. I'm open to all types of bars gay, lesbian, gay/lez friendly, dive, lounge etc..

Thank you

San Francisco
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Posted: Apr 22nd, 2012

Im Your Doll (Albuquerque) 19yr

looking for a stud/butch/tomboy
18-28
someone who has a job,car,house/apartment
who likes tattoos,dogs,cuddling,hanging out, playing video games
if you wanna know more
send me an e-mail with a picture and put "DOLL" as the subject

  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: Apr 21st, 2012

This weekend ! (Heights ) 26yr

Looking for girl company this weekend ! Come over sat or Sunday night movies and wine and good conversation . The night could go two ways . Come over have some drinks watch some movies and just simple hanging out . Or drinks watch movies and if you feel a spark send me a smile face text and I will make the first move , start cuddling during the movie maybe slide my hand in your pants then maybe start kissing . Then you get on my lap and I pick you up and carry you to the bed . Slide your pants off and start teasing your p**** through your panties then slide them of and ..........;)no expectations friendly hanging out or more if your in the mood ! I'm 26 girly girl thick chubby , you be 22-35 femme girly and fun , no natives or African Americans .send pic with reply I will do the same . Let's text this week and get to know eachother then hangout this weekend or next week . Can be on going if you would like it's totally up to you !
  • Location: Heights
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

native american butch/stud.. (santa fe/abq) 26yr

Hi there...I'm 26 been out of a relationship quite some time and am feeling like I'm ready for that special someone...I'm employed ...live with a roommate ...I like anything that life has to offer..im 5'7" thick outgoing fun great sense of humor loveable caring all in all just me!! I AM a BUTCH/STUD/BOI (whatever you want to lable me as) ..SHORT hair..jeans and a T-shirt ...I don't wear dresses and the only make up I wear is mascara... looking for a lady who respects themselves and can carry themselves with poise and dignity ...who is feisty who is is not afraid of PDA ...!! ...I smoke occassionally and drink when I'm in the mood ...I also wear glasses...cuz contacts are just not my thing ...I respect woman in every way possible...idk what else to say...so...have a wonderful morning day and night :) ...
  • Location: santa fe/abq
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

friends, then maybe more? :) (albuquerque) 21yr

i'm 21 and petite, with piercings and colorful hair! i'm looking for a pretty girl who i can be friends with first, or whatever happens! i'm curious to be with a girl, i've sorta fooled around before but nothing serious. i'm not super picky, just not into butch girls. someone around my age is preferable, just not too much older! i want someone i can talk to about anything and who's always there, like a best friend with benefits, who can also possibly turn into my girlfriend? or just messing around is fine if that's what's meant to be, but i'd rather have something better! :) if you're interested just reply and your pic gets mine! =]
  • Location: albuquerque
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

Looking for.. (Uptown) 23yr

I want to put everything out on the line. Im a Lesbian female going thru a divorce. I guess I got married too young. Too young to know what I wanted out of life. Now that I am transitioning into the life I want for myself its quite hard. And lonely at times. I'm looking for a friend, maybe more. Someone I can connect with, and someone who has it together. I have a career, which I love.Im looking for someone to connect with and to escape with sometimes.
Im attractive and am a Makeup artist/Model. Femme, but like tomboys:) but am open to ANYONE. Lets get to know each other.
  • Location: Uptown
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

treated like a queen (heights or any in abq) 26yr

Good mrning I just want to know if there are any good women out there that know how to treat girls with respect and like a queen...if there are please respond thanks!! I'm femme black hair green eyes curvy I do prefer tomboyish girls...butch...dyke thanks
  • Location: heights or any in abq
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

Attractive & fun (Albuquerque) 27yr

Hey ladies! Title says all. I'm attractive and fun and looking for the same! I want to be able to hang out and have fun without any drama! If it leads to more then great. If this sounds like you than respond with a picture! And PLEASE be ATTRACTIVE! Don't waste my time!!! No men. No studs!
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

is anyone out there (87109) 29yr

hello ladies,
i moved to abq about a year ago. i am still looking for a special woman to share my time with.
i dont think my standards are too high.
i am looking for a woman who is confident and knows how to take care of herself. i want a woman who doesnt want just a hookup. someone who is not into drugs and is disease free. someone i can be a dork around cause im a big geek. someone who loves to kiss and be afffectionate.

About me: im 29, tomboi style, hispanic, 150lbs, dark hair and eyes, been told i have a great smile. im sane, drama free, no local exs. i love my job and i take it seriously, i am a simple laid back kinda chick, little things make me smile and i love to do things that make my girl smile. i love music. i ride a motorcycle. i love to cook. i have a dog that loves to go to the park. i play video games and enjoy exploring the new area. i have no kids but i love them.

so if you think we might hit if off mail me. please be serious about meeting i dont want a text buddy. please send a pic, you'll get one back.
  • Location: 87109
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Posted: Apr 18th, 2012

PYT (Albuquerque) 24yr

Hi, I'm a 24 yr old female looking for a friend that will hopefully lead to more. I would like to get to know a lady between the ages of 21-30 preferably white or Hispanic. NO MEN OR COUPLES.

I'm new to the lesbian scene so someone who could show me the ropes would be perfect! I am femme & would like to meet a femme to soft butch woman. I'm also on the heavy side so I hope you don't mind.

Sorry this post sucks, I'm nervous! Haha.

Reply with the name of the person who sings the song in the title so I know you're real! Your picture gets mine!
  • Location: Albuquerque
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Posted: Apr 18th, 2012

I'm Perfect. . . (Alb) 44yr

I'm Perfect. . .. Bahahahahaaa. . .. I'm not really perfect, But I may be perfect for you. . . I'm a Soft butch looking for feminine woman. . .. You never know, shoot me an email if your interested. . .
  • Location: Alb
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Posted: Apr 18th, 2012

Interested in...... 24yr

Hello,

So I'm looking to find someone to get to know and see where things go. I would love a relationship but I'm also open to something else. Id love a cute girl who likes going to the movies, playing pool, drinking, staying in and hanging out someone that's fun and is up for anything. No african american girls,no bi girls or butch girls just not my thing. Get back to me if your interested. Your pic gets mine
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Posted: Apr 17th, 2012

Friendship and More. (RR/ABQ) 24yr

I am a lesbian in my mid-twenties looking for like-minded women for friendship and more. I am currently in the processes of moving back into Albuquerque (should be a couple weeks). I enjoy the outdoors, walking, hiking, art, alternative lifestyles, being happy! I don't smoke, but I do drink beer occasionally.

I am attractive, white, hwp, feminine presenting with a tomboy-attitude. I usually prefer feminine-tomboys or short-haired femmes, also genderqueer-identified individuals. Basically I like everything inside the spectrum except for the extreme butch or extreme femmes... I like people that just are, and don't obsess about labels and roles. Age wise I'm pretty open, as long as you are mature.

Looking for friendship, cuddling, and/or a long term relationship. I am ready to commit, but only for the right person.

Send me an email with a little about yourself and a picture and I will respond with the same!

  • Location: RR/ABQ
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Posted: Apr 17th, 2012

pretty girl! 23yr

Yes I got your attention! :) Firstly I just want to put out there I'm not sure I am looking for a relationship, though i am open to it later on. I am looking for a girl to get drinks with, cuddle up and watch movies, and just have an overall good time with! I am feminine, attractive, and in good shape. And i am looking for exactly the same! I love a girly girl who takes care of themselves with a good sense of humor. no married girls please! And a picture would be much appreciated! :)
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Posted: Apr 16th, 2012

friends or fwb (Corrales/rr/bern) 27yr

Hi.. I am a soon to be mother. A fun loving.. Happy.. Sweet beautiful woman here looking for a friend or fwb. I have a fiance.. No matter what I do though he wont touch me. I am afraid he doesnt love me. I have needs emotionally and more.. I have never cheated on him.. But he continuously cheats on me. I am hoping to meet someone like me who understands my situation. An open-minded hottie. I am looking for someone to become friends with or fwb. Hope to hear from u soon. Women only!!
  • Location: Corrales/rr/bern
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Posted: Apr 16th, 2012