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Women looking in Tulsa

Will You Be Mine (Tulsa) 24yr

To the point. Black married female. Don't consider myself fat but I do have meat.

Looking for someone to hang out with and chill and doesn't mind my being married. He will only know that we hang out and nothing more. I would like someone who is funny and confident. Likes to cuddle and have fun. I do work, but by no means claim to be rich (for the females who just want to mooch) I'm not looking for someone to take care of or visa versa. I'm okay with kids as long as you don't have a basketball team...just being honest. I don't have any kids but I do have a puppy that acts like a kid!
I like to watch horror, comedy and action movies. Like to play video games, cook, bake, read, and travel when able.
Not looking for a particular race but please don't be a bbw. Well...send a pic ;))

That's all I can think of for now so if anything I said is of any interest to you please don't hesitate to send me an email!

PIC FOR PIC. Meaning YOU SEND ONE FIRST!!!
Put "malarkie" in the sub box

  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Super Curious (Tulsa) 19yr

I AM 19 BLACK THICK AND CURIOUS. I WANT SOMEONE TO SHOW ME THE ROPES. I WANT YOU TO BE A FRIEND TO. PREFER LADIES 21-29 PLEASE. NO BIG LADIES.PLEASE SEND A PIC WHEN YOU EMAIL. AND SKINNY ONES EITHER. RACE DOESNT REALLY MATTER TO ME. SO EMAIL ME AND LETS SEE WHO CAN HELP ME THIS CURIOUS CAT ;) AND NO ITS NOT PIC FOR PIC. IF I LKE URS I WILL SEND ONE BACK MUAH (also im kinda sexually frustrated so LADIES ONLY PLZ) i do have a bf so this has to be discreet.
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Young and Curious (Tulsa) 19yr

im black and the definition of thick. i have a bf so whatever friendship i make has to be discreet. im looking for someone experienced and older than me. pls no one over the age of 30. no big women or skinny ones either. im 5'2 and would kinda like someone a lil bit taller than me. i want to be treated like a princess if possible. email me a a pic and ill send on back put ur fav. color in the subject so i wont look it over. hope to hear from u soon :) MUAH............IM REALLY CURIOUS
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Sugamamas? (Anywhere) 26yr

Lookin for a sugamama will send pix on request
  • Location: Anywhere
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Posted: May 22nd, 2012

Girls girls lets have sum fun!!;) (Tulsa) 21yr

21 burnette blue eyes
Size 18 .....happy with who i am!!!!!
Loves to have fun !!! Drama free!!!
I drink and smoke occasionally ............and d&d free!!!!:)
Very clean i take good care of myself:)

Looking for a special girl lets be best of friends and have a lil secret behind closed doors ;)
I love all women as long as ur clean you take good care of yourself and happy with yourself!!!!!!
Not looking for endless emails..... Im ready to meet ;) have a great day ladies
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Long term (Owasso ) 32yr

I'm am looking for a female that is interested in a long term relationship with me and my husband would love to find someone that can meet up 2 or 3 times a week if not more if u are interested lets chat and meet up don't ask for a pic if u don't send one first
  • Location: Owasso
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

Looking for that special lady to be my queen (Atoka) 27yr

I'm looking for that special lady to show some affection and passion to. I'd like to find a women that is in to being outdoors, or staying in and maybe watching a movie or letting me spoil them with an awesome homemade candle light dinner or maybe hitting a bar or a club occasionally. I have my own vehicle and is willing to drive to you. Must be DDF. No drama queens. I don't mind if you have kiddos. NO COUPLES AND NO MEN!!! Shoot me a message with your picture and put your favorite color in the subject line so I know your real. Your pic gets mine. Hope to hear from you.
  • Location: Atoka
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Posted: May 21st, 2012

looking for that special touch (surrounding and around tulsa) 37yr

Hi, lets get real here, I am looking for that special touch of a woman. I want to feel her soft skin, to carress her and have passionate kisses.
I am willing to travel and exchange a few email before, and wanting more than just a one night stand. If you are intrested shot me a line and we will see what we can come up with.
Here is a little about me.

I am a bi-female that is in a stable relationship but would like more. He knows and would love to join, if that is a possibility.
I am a big beautiful woman that know how to treat you right and want to make you feel as special as he makes me.

I am 5'6", curvy, and comfortable in my own skin.
semi long brown hair, green eyes and dimples.

What I am looking for is long talks, time to spend together, and passion.
Thanks for looking and hope to here from you soon.

  • Location: surrounding and around tulsa
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

lick, lick, lickity lick! (Bristow) 25yr

Looking for someone to come and help me entertain my hubby.... he can watch but i prefer that he join.... pic 4 pic, we must host so be willing to drive, no pic no reply. put pink kitty in the subject.
  • Location: Bristow
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Posted: May 20th, 2012

First timer looking for fwb (Broken Arrow) 24yr

I am a 24 year old mama, 5'3, 140 lbs and new to this. I am married and my husband travels a lot which leaves me very lonely. This is the reason why I'm looking for a female playmate. I am shy at first, especially this being my first time, but once I get comfortable you'll see how fun and crazy I am. I am looking for someone around my age. Please email me with any questions and please send me a picture. If you give me yours I'll give you mine. Hope to meet you soon in time to go out this Friday night clubbing!
  • Location: Broken Arrow
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

still hopeful (tulsa) 62yr

I'm 5'8', slender to average build, reddish-blond hair, brown eyes, etc. Nice, happy, secure. Still believing that my soulmate is already on her way to me. Are you her? Once you get here, you'll be glad you took a chance.
  • Location: tulsa
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

Looking for friend and possibly more 25yr

hello ladies!
i would like to start by saying i am pregnant only a few months so if that's a problem move on. i am attached but looking for friends with a little more. if interested pic for pic
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

29 and searching (Tulsa ) 29yr

Beautiful black female here in the Tulsa area. I'm looking for a woman that knows what she want in life. A woman who has goals. I'm looking for something long term. I'm not looking to play games with anyone. Race isn't important I love all colors. If you want to know more please leave a email and we can go from there. Hope to hear from you soon
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 19th, 2012

So tired of Drama.... (Tulsa) 32yr

Ok so... my friend talked me into doing this.. not quite sure what to say but i thought i would give it a shot. Im 32 skinny tattooed white girl.. i work and go to school i have a car and a house..blah blah blah... just really tired of bs relationships..women wear me out.. i just really want some one who knows what the hell they want.. Just looking for something real.. I don't do the party scene any more just want a "normal" life with someone.. friends at first whatever.. im really horrible at this *laughs* as far as butch or femme.. i guess im soft butch... blah... im just gonna shut up and see if someone responds.. pics not nessasary, shoot me an email.. :)
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 18th, 2012

beautiful seeking (Tulsa, Ok) 33yr

ok....first time doing this, so here it goes ..I'm a very attractive female, 5'7, Weight 130, mixed race , professional looking for a friend and maybe more.....if you wanna know more please respond. your pics for mine. Serious inquiries only.



  • Location: Tulsa, Ok
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

*Looking for a female friend* (West of Tulsa) 25yr

Looking for a girl around my age to be friends with and then maybe more after we get comfortable with each other. I have never been with a girl but finding myself to be more attracted to them. Looking for someone who is outgoing bc I can be very shy at first. Must be white/hwp(not into bigger girls, sorry. A little bit of meat on your bones is fine bc I'm not a stick but not chubby either)/dd free/ and must be discreet. I have a bf and I want this on the DL! I like to go shopping, go to the movies, grab a bite to eat, or jusy hang out. Ive very laid back and i never take things to seriously i do consider myself girly but i dont have to wear make up and get all dressed up everyday. Reply with pic in your message and put the day in subject so I know you are real. Thanks!!
  • Location: West of Tulsa
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Posted: May 17th, 2012

Blah (Tulsa-ish) 28yr

Im 28, married, 1 child, white, 5'7, size 14-16 (& improving!), brown hair, hazel eyes, attractive, im easy going, i smoke and party on the weekends, i work, have a house, car.... im looking for a girl that is similar to make a connection with. Im a bit quiet and shy until i get comfy- but who isn't lol.

Interested?
  • Location: Tulsa-ish
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Dom here (tulsa) 21yr

Im looking foe a very submissive female. You should be willing to do WHATEVER Im a freak. When you belong to me there is no such thing as a safe word. I wanna hear you beg to stop. I want you to cry. I will not stop until Im done.

About me: 5'8" 185lbs. dark brown hair. Love all kinds of music.

You: Must be shorter than me. Either my weight or less. I do like bigger girl, but prefer smaller ones. Tattoos and piercings are a plus. Must enjoy music.

If you're not scared email me with a pic. Ill send one back and we'll talk. If you dnt send a pic I will delete the email. Please put "Ready to play" in the subject line. Failure to do so proves you are not ready for me.

NO GUYS!!!! I repeat, NO GUYS. No your husband cannot watch, no Im not looking to dominate a sissy guy. Im looking for females ONLY. If you have a penis DO NOT REPLY!
  • Location: tulsa
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Are You The One???????? (Tulsa) 39yr

What I'm looking for is a ltr with someone to share my life with

That includes my husband the fwb would be the benefit of being

Able to use a man who knows how to treat a woman without the

Drama and a girlfriend who likes to have fun. hopefully there is

Someone out there like that???????

Race does not matter but must be clean and drug free I lost my last

Friend of 20y from enjoying drugs more than me :-(

Send pics for mine. Put current weather in subject so I know your real


  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

Looking For That Special Lady (Tulsa) 28yr





I'm a 28 year old Lady looking for that special lady. I'm looking for someone sincere and honest, sweet, caring and understanding.
Someone who doesn't judge you. I have a lot of tattoo's. I dress with that street Swagger.I love Hip Hop, Rap, R & B.
I like to go to the movie's and have a good time. I'm chubby and I look good. I very happy with myself and wouldn't change for no one.
This is me all day everyday.. I do have a job and a car. I'm looking for a femme. I prefer Mexican's, Hispanic etc. I date all size's just be happy with yourself. I want someone who has goal's in life and knows how to carry herself. I want to be friend's first and go from there.I'm not about games!!
Only respond if your serious and ready.
No Men! No spam! And no couples or curious people!! I want a lesbian!!
Ages 21-30
So if you like what you read and you are serious send me a message, with a pic. mine are at lesbian4fun.com. AGAIN....NO MEN
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 16th, 2012

curious.. (sand springs) 18yr

Not sure if this will turn into anything. I'm just curipus to try it out. I'm funny.
I'm 5 3.
short brown hair
Blue eyes
Chunkier. Not fat but not skinny.
Email me with pic and we can talk (:
  • Location: sand springs
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Posted: May 15th, 2012

strap on ;)

I want a girl that will fuck me with her strap on. ;)


If your her, message me with a pic!
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

young looking for a girl (mannford) 18yr

Hello I'm looking for a girl I'm young and I have a boyfriend he wouldn't be involbed I just love ahaving a girlfriend email me if you wanna talk I love yo go fishing camping the lake is mt favorite well email me
  • Location: mannford
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Posted: May 14th, 2012

lick me and get fucked (your mouth) 25yr

I want someone to come over let my hubby watch while i fuck u with my strap on then let him fuck you as u lick me Pic for pic. Since sum People cnt read its woman 4 woman means no men
  • Location: your mouth
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

want a lady friend (bville) 24yr

Ive tried this so many times.. I am tired of talking to girls that don't really care. I am dieing. For some girl onngirl time. I really don't worry about looks and no one over 35. Plz I am marred and do got 2 girls and ownnmy house. But other then that. I want some one to be true and want some one that will want to spend time with me. If this sound like u would like to get to know me write back. Cant Walt to hear from u. Put bella as headline.
  • Location: bville
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Posted: May 13th, 2012

Looking for something REAL (Pryor-Tulsa)

Hi ladies,
I am 5'3, black hair, short, stalky, muscular, ice blue eyes.

I am looking for a petite, femme girl that wants to be in a real relationship. NO CHEATERS, and no one just looking to "hook up". I am a country girl at heart, but i also love the city. I love music, movies, and being outdoors. E-mail me if you are interested. I would like to get to know you before we decide anything. Hope to hear from you. E-mail with pictures (nothing dirty) will get my number and pic.


  • Location: Pryor-Tulsa
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

Do u have what it takes? - w4w (Tulsa) 40yr

Looking for that med built..dark haired girl. Must have nice boobs...as they are my thing.. Great.personality and humor..someone that can be discreet..and likes to get dirty...so.if your serious and not playing games msg me back.with your fav tv show as title.. Mwauh
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

You won't regret getting to know me :) (Claremore/catoosa/Tulsa ) 19yr

I have a great body and a cute face.
I'm active and energetic.
I want someone to shake things up for me.
Preferably someone attractive, not big.
White.
Your pic gets mine ;)
  • Location: Claremore/catoosa/Tulsa
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Posted: May 12th, 2012

hope to find her (tulsa) 26yr

Looking for a free spirited beautiful dark haired lady. Im 5'1 102 lbs. wouldnt mind meeting someone same size or a little bigger. please no large women. Im a fun girl, love life, music, books. and anything adventerous. wanting a good friend and hopefully more. hoping to find a lady im super attracted to. would love to treat you amazing. hope to get replies.
  • Location: tulsa
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

friends (bartlesville) 24yr

Hi I am a stay at home mom. Don't got much friends and the ones I do got are always working would love to meet new friends and may be more.
  • Location: bartlesville
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Posted: May 11th, 2012

tired of being alone (Tulsa) 23yr

I love video games.
I have a serious reading addiction.
I love Horror movies
Music is my life. It's how I express myself.
I'm a Theater Nerd, I'm currently working to audition at the theater in my town.
I'm looking for someone that will cuddle and watch movies with me, someone who wants a real relationship and not just sex and will stick around for awhile.
And someone who won't cheat on me.
i'm 5"7 with brownish blonde hair.
roughly 145 pounds.
Your pic gets mine and my number.

NO COUPLES
NO BLACK WOMEN ( no offense)
NO MEN
NO MARRIED WOMEN
(If you message me and your one of these I will delete the e-mail and not respond)
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 10th, 2012

Looking for a cute black fem (Tulsa) 19yr


Just looking for a cute fem to chill with maybe even do more but if your interested get at me and ima tell you more five8zero five8three two4eight6

  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

In search of ongoing FWB - w4m (Broken Arrow) 32yr

32 year old married woman in search of a women who wants to have a fwb also. Pic and info for yours.


  • Location: Broken Arrow
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Seeking FWB (Broken Arrow) 32yr

I will keep this short and sweet. I am a 32 year old married female. Looking for another women who is between 20 and 35 who wants to have a fwb. No endless
Emails,text and phone calls. I have been with women before but 1st timers welcome. :) please be serious if u respond to this ad. I am very fun to be around, low drama, my husband knows about this and is very supportive but he will NEVER be involved. I am by no means barbie but i am drug and disease free and very clean. You be the same please. If your interested your pic will get mine ;)
  • Location: Broken Arrow
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Bi girl looking for same - w4w (Broken Arrow) 32yr

Im a Bi female looking for the same.. nothing serious just some good dirty fun with another girl I can always host. please be d/d free . your pic and info gets mine. Hope to hook up soon... im miss the taste of a women
  • Location: Broken Arrow
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

Let me Lick your P---Y (Tulsa) 47yr

I am looking for a female that enjoys being with another female . I don't want a bunch of endless email's I am ready to play. Your pic gets mine.
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 9th, 2012

BDSM (BA) 36yr

I am new to the scene and I'm looking for a Mistress. Please no silly emails I will delete them. I am looking for someone with experience.

I am brunette, blue eyes, 5'4" and a little full figured.

Thank you
  • Location: BA
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Looking to start friendship tonight! (Vinita) 28yr

So tired of getting emails from ugly fat girls who never want it to go even into a friendship and more later. So I'm looking for a beautiful funny smart outgoing woman who wants to meet up and talk and see if we click. Let's have dinner tonight! Talk, get to know each other, and see if there is any chemistry. I live in Vinita, so let's text, today and come down for dinner tonight. I don't mind some meat on the bones, just don't be real large and think your small! NO MEN OR COUPLES! Looking for a real friend/gf not a hook up! SEND A PIC IN FIRST EMAIL SO I CAN JUDGE IF YOUR ATTRACTIVE, I'll send one back if I'm the least bit physically attracted to you. Thanks!
  • Location: Vinita
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Posted: May 8th, 2012

Looking for a REAL female (Tulsa) 19yr

I am an african american stud looking for a cute fem in the tulsa area that can show me around and maybe lead to other things but if you are interested or want to know more i can email me or send a txt or call five80 five8three 2four8six ; put your favorite color in subject box so i know your real
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

Looking for some fun - w4w (Claremore)

I am 25, I am married but he will NOT be involved so please do not ask. I will not join in with you and your significant other, , I am a country girl, I have been with a female before, I just have that craving for some pussy! I do not want drama, or couples, i am NOT looking for a relationship. I do not smoke, I drink rarely, and I am clean, and you being clean is a MUST as well. Just want someone who can satisfy my needs. A pic for a pic. If you are interested get back with me. I would prefer someone that is either willing to travel or around the Claremore area.
  • Location: Claremore
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

How about something REAL for a change?? (Tulsa, OK) 33yr

I hate this section on Craigslist.....absolutely HATE it!

If you are anything like me, then I am sure you understand why.

I just want someone to kick it with--maybe more in time. Let's watch movies, go to dinner, hike in the woods, take long walks, spend the day at the lake, take a road trip, whatever. Even if sex is on my mind, I don't want to talk about it...and I ain't gettin' down with someone that I don't know. Ya dig?

I'm looking for a REAL relationship with a REAL woman. You must be an out lesbian. (As in...no secrets, no surprises, and minimal drama) Kids are fine. I love kids. You don't have to be super-girly or even femme. I'm fairly butch, most of the time...but I have my (semi-girly) moments (don't we all?).

I like to treat a lady like a lady, but I won't patronize you, and I am not old school. I respect your independence and your privacy.

College-educated. Professional. Independent.

Message me. Text me. Send me a photo if you want to. Then, let's talk...as in, have an actual voice or person-to-person conversation. (People still do that, don't they?)
  • Location: Tulsa, OK
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Posted: May 7th, 2012

hook up tonite (tulsa) 20yr

Hey im a sexy attractive female lookn to hook up wit a sexy petite chick im 128 lbs so no bbw im bored so ladies if ur bored too email a pic for a pic and we can hook up tonite also im interested in 3 some wit 2 sexy chicks no men email me ladies wen u email i will reply wit a sexy pic of body & face
  • Location: tulsa
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

meet and have fun asap (east tulsa) 20yr

Hey im lookin for a friend to hang wit but with benefits im sexy ass hell trust me u wont be disappointed weigh 128 lookn 4 a sexy petite chick idc bout race bt no men or no big girls email me for a pic ur pic gets mine i wanna meet and have fun so hurry up and email me muah
  • Location: east tulsa
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Posted: May 6th, 2012

more than just friends (tulsa ) 21yr

I am 21 and have been bi-curious for a very long time. I do have a boyfriend, but he wont be involved. I'm just an incredibly curious person. I really want to try bring with another woman.. I'm white. medium- taller hieght. & a little thick. I'm looking for a discreet friend with benefits that wants to have fun in and out of bed. send me a picture and info if you are too. NO men.
  • Location: tulsa
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Posted: May 3rd, 2012

Looking to date (South Tulsa) 32yr

I'm 32 tomboyish to soft butch. I am 5'10 with a few extra pounds. Have 3 kids. Looking for a femme type girl a little tomboyish is ok. Def no butch, sorry just can't do it. I love to laugh, laid back and a bit sarcastic. Not much into the club scene so I don't get to meet many lesbians. Does Tulsa really have any lesbians that are not crazy? I treat the girl I am with great. I believe in old fashion ways. A text or call just to say hello makes my day every time. Love to bring flowers to my girl, or just do something to try to make her day. Ladies, if your tired of getting treated like crap or used, email me. Looking for a new friend, well that's great to. I will send a pic to whoever sends me one. Please be real.
  • Location: South Tulsa
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Posted: May 3rd, 2012

bicurious and lookin to have fun - w4w (Tulsa/surrounding areas)

Im looking for someone to share my first experience with. NSA someone that likes textin and sexting. Put honey in the subject. Pic for pic. Not interested in couples or an audience just wanna have sum fun.
  • Location: Tulsa/surrounding areas
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Posted: May 3rd, 2012

Here goes nothing.... (Tulsa) 31yr

Hello Peeps-
So, here goes nothing I guess. I am a single female, looking for the same. I am a fairly laid back type person, sarcastic, I'm a smart ass that enjoys the simple things in life. I love my family, enjoy hanging out with friends, movies, music, DVR, some video games, cooking, going to the gym. I'm gainfully employed, have my own vehicles and such. I stand drama, BS, liars, cheaters, idiots, retards, bad drivers, and super hot temperatures. I work in the medical profession and love what I do. I don't have any children, and am a pretty independent person and appreciate the same. I am looking for a friend first that could lead into something more. I am looking for someone I'm attracted to, who shares similar interests.

At any rate. If I seem at all interesting (which I really am), then I hope to hear from you! And when you write, do tell me about yourself. Oh, and if you start typing about how you are a bbw, qrs, tuv, fwd or whatever, I will likely not know what you're talking about. I don't know what half the abbreviations on this thing are, so just spell it out. Send a picture if you want, if you don't want to right away then don't, I'm fine with either way.

Hope to hear from ya!
  • Location: Tulsa
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Posted: May 2nd, 2012

want someone like me :) (tulsa) 20yr

Hey im a sexy petite blk and indian chick lookn for a sexy petite chick like myself to get to kno lookn for a new friend email a pic and info if i like it i will return one wantn to hang out today.. please have ur own place and car.. NO MEN or NO BBW
  • Location: tulsa
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Posted: May 2nd, 2012

fwb-maybe more (claremore) 20yr

I'm a single mother looking for another woman to hang out and have some fun with. I prefer a white female 18-27 hwp to slender who can host on intimate nights. I want someone real whose not into games and drama. Im 5'9" 130 lbs, wanna know more? Reply with a lil bit about yourself and a pic, your pic for mine, put your favorite flower in the subject please, thanks ladies
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Posted: May 1st, 2012

looking for someone special (okay) 18yr

This is something new to me but Im looking for a female to spend time with. I am a 18 year old black female student; I also work. I have a nice body,or so I've been told lol but Im also looking for someone to have the same. I really dont have a preference as far as race, I love them all!lol I love life, laughing and I like to have fun and just enjoy myself. So if you're interested you should definitly hit me up so we can get to know each other a little better! please no couples. I do love you guys but no couples. Put red in the subject line so I know you're real, mwah!
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Posted: Apr 30th, 2012

Curiosity is driving my cat crazy ;) (Tulsa) 38yr

Well, here goes: I'm a MWF looking for a female FWB. I'm professional, educated, attractive, more on the femme side, and very discreet. I've never been with a woman but have been curious for years. My husband will not be joining us.

My ideal Friend is between 30 and 40 years old, cute, hwp, caucasian, intelligent, and energetic. Let's chat for a while before we meet.
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Posted: Apr 30th, 2012

Looking for something real. (Tulsa area) 21yr

No men or couples. I'm a femme seeking a femme so no butch girls either. I also want you to be HWP and at least have a job. I don't mind if you're bi but I won't share you, that's considered cheating. Race and age don't matter to me. Send me a pic and some brief info about you and if I'm interested I will reply with a pic of myself. I am 100% lesbian and single.
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Posted: Apr 29th, 2012

Is she out there? (Tulsa) 32yr

I have tried this before and really never had any success, so here it goes again. Looking for someone who is single, a lesbian, not wanting a 3sum with their man. I am a sporty/soft butch type girl. I love me some femme women. I am kinda sarcastic in a good way. I love to laugh and have a good time. Not a bar fly and don't hang out in clubs. Very laid back. I have kids, so someone who doesn't mind that and mind that my kids are my world. I love to treat my lady well. Love to do little things for her to show that I am thinking of her. I believe old school. I am looking for someone fairly close to my age. Must be able to support yourself. Just would like to chat and see if there is a connection. No u-hauling lol. Please send a pic. I will return one.
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Posted: Apr 28th, 2012

W4w I kissed a girl, and I liked it (Vinita) 28yr

Ok I'm going to start by saying, NO YOUR OTHER HALF CAN NOT WATCH OR PARTICIPATE! NO MEN WHATSOEVER! And now that that's out of the way. I'm needing a girl friend, someone who knows how to be sensual and rough! Someone to hang out with and have benefits with. No picture no reply. Let's get to know each other.
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Posted: Apr 28th, 2012

Cuddle tonight (tahlequah) 20yr

looking for a cuddle buddy for tonight! hmu
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Posted: Apr 27th, 2012

blk bbw in late 30s looking for bbw 25-40 (Tulsa)

I'm a bi-sexual black bbw looking for a sweet girl for a discrete LTR relationship. I have a preference in white girls with small to medium breasts and on the thick side...as a matter of fact, the thicker the better...please no one butch, dom or wanting to include another male or female in the bedroom. I don't like sharing. Period. I want someone who enjoys having fun & enjoys life. I am looking for someone that enjoys hugging, kissing, cuddling & making love but also hard working and goal oriented. Someone that is very nice and easy to please...my tolerance for drama is VERY limited. If you would like to get to know me, please send me a picture and tell me a little bit about yourself. If you're younger than 25, please be mature. Thank you for reading my post.
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Posted: Apr 27th, 2012

need a fwb (tulsa) 20yr

Hey everybody i am a blk chick wit a nice body and da whole nine im lookn 4 a petite latino or sexy chick to get to kno who i can become friends wit NO BBW NO MEN i am 130 lbs so plz no big ladies send me a pic and ill return one no pic means no reply also let me kno wat ur interested in im lookn to meet someone today so hope to get responses trust me u wont be disappointed wit me pic...ill be waitin
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Posted: Apr 27th, 2012

Looking for a loyal girlfriend (tulsa) 25yr

im looking for a woman to be mine. to be in a serious relationship with.. im 25 have a apartment, own car and a job. i expect the same. 420 friendly.. i love going to the lake and being outdoors. open to lots of things .. if your interested e mail me and maybe we can exchange numbers and pics.... kids are ok but the must mind you lol. looking forward to hearing from u ....
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

Independent loyal lovin needin da same (Down town tulsa ) 25yr

im 25 years old , i switch up the way i dress but mostly kinda butch... im 5' 10 220 bigger girl but not uncomfortable big lol... lookin for a female who enjoys 420 who is mature and can always keep it real. no need for any lies or bs. i dont mind if you have kids as long as you make them mind you... looking for somethin serious... reply with a pic or a number n we can take it from there. looking for someone who likes the lake... ima lake freak i go 4-5 days a week....
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Posted: Apr 26th, 2012

Looking (tulsa) 26yr

Hey wassup im a scorpio and im keeping my options open i love to have fun im a stud type female i dont have kids if you do fine i work im in school im blessed but i just need a coo friend to talk to and hangout with so hit me up and ill send a pic im 5/6 im brown skinned i weigh 220 i have dreadsi wear glasses but they cute tho lol so hit me up
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Posted: Apr 25th, 2012

could she be out there? (tulsa) 26yr

looking for beautiful woman to spend some time with. please no big ladies. im petite. would love to hang out and if we click, then who knows. :) im fun and love life and really wanting a sexy lady to share that with. ages 18-35
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

looking for GF (TULSA AREA) 26yr

hi ladies im lookin for a gf that doesnt mind me havin 4 kids .. i love the outdoors , hanging out wit friends listening to music , cuddling up watching t.v , goin for walks , im not fat but im not barbie either .. if u want to know more email and i will give u more info on me hope to hear from u soon :) its a nice warm day here in oklahoma and i have pics to share so ur pics get mine thanks
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Posted: Apr 24th, 2012

Ready to treat a beautiful lady like a princess (tulsa) 26yr

Im ready to find a sexy lady to be great friends with and hopefully more. i will def treat you like a princess. no big ladies please. <3 hope to get replies.
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Posted: Apr 23rd, 2012

in need of a woman that knows she wants (tulsaf) 27yr

Sexy petite beautiful and wants attention tonight. Please no butch ... or big....or men period. I don't wanna share... I handle well on my own. It doesn't have to be about sex.... if you wanted someone just to be next.to.... k feel the same way. No games please .... single... ... I'm 27 physically fit... strong body... 110... nice enough to finish last
... lol take care of myself as a fem. I'm versatile looking for the.same or more fem than myself. Please send a recent pic and then ill send one back. I'm alone and have been since I recently moved to tulsa
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Posted: Apr 21st, 2012

Where are all my sexy ladies??? (broken arrow ) 2yr

....I've been searching here and there I just don't seem to find sexy beautiful ladies. I am in good shape, feminine, love to dress up, very clean and absolutely horny....ready to have some fun! Please reply with a full body pic only if this sounds like you...NO COUPLES, THANKS!
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Posted: Apr 20th, 2012

Beautiful is she.. (Tulsa) 26yr

Hello :) I'm looking for a good friend and possibly more. I have noticed it is really hard to find a gorgeous girl with some brains. lol I am 5'1 103 lbs, kind of small, but dont mind if you are a little bigger in height, but please take no offense when I do say that I am interested in a woman with a nice figure. Please no larger women. I love dark hair. I want to be able to have a mature conversation and purely have fun. I need a drama free gal. I like to cook, read, anything with music.i love to g out and have fun and also some nights just stay in and relax. Hope to meet a girl with similar interests. I love to laugh and most people would say I'm funny and that I'm a new age hippy. lol . :) I really have lately been wanting to spend some time with a beautiful woman, and do not mind treating her like a princess. I like fem, and very picky on the butch, but do like both :) hmm.. curious now, if I will receive any replies. :)
age limit 18-30
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

Lookin for a gf 19yr

Iim married with 2 kids, I miss having a gf,my hubby is fine with it and doesnt have to be involved but we will talk about that later in I want to be friends first and text hang out all that good stuff, so I want you to be local, heneryetta area, im 5 7 160lbs got baby weight but im athletic and would like you to be to, so no bbw I have nothing agianst em not for me I would like a femme since I have a hubby, send a pic to nine one eight 81 three 376 four so I know your real
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

Seeking Best Friend With More (Sand Springs/Tulsa) 25yr

I am a 25 year old medium sized bbw seeking a best friend with a romantic side/relationship. I am married and he knows but will not be involved. I am seeking LTR I hope. I am submissive. I have blue eyes, red hair, and I am under 300 lbs standing at 5'8". I am a gamer girl, love to cook, clean, read, watch movies, listen to music, talk, shop, and cuddle. I don't mind getting my hands dirty when I need to. I do not like drama. I am drugs, disease, and drama free and prefer you are as well (I am 420 friendly but thats it). I am laid back but full of energy. I love to be outside when its pretty, love getting my tan on. I have three tattoos and looking forwarding to get more. I have my nose pierced and had my lip pierced at one time and want to get it re-pierced on my birthday. I also have three piercings in each ear. I love horror movies and I am addicted to a handful of TV shows. If you want to know anything else and/or chat to get to know each other and hang out and see where it goes just drop me an email. I am an open book and very open about my sexuality and sexual desires.
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

Married but lookin for girlfriend (Neok) 28yr

Married but he knows I'm looking for a girlfriend. Yes I have pics that I will trade. Looking for cute white girl. Please put I'll be your gf in the subject line.
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

Butch seeking femme:) (Tulsa) 19yr

Hello there, i'm looking for something serious.


About me: I'm about 5'5 and chubby(at least I think so lol)I have short dark hair and blue eyes. I love going camping, floating the river and going to the lake. My family is the most important thing in my life.


About you: very short about 5'1 5'2. Not BBW. Has to take care of self. And I'd like you to kno how to cook lol but that's considerable.

Well just text me or email me if interested.

(nine 1 8 three 4 4 two two 6 six)
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Posted: Apr 19th, 2012

Can I be your GF? (Tulsa area) 24yr

Hi Im Nikki 'and looking for a womens touch! I like thick girls and I am real. Please no posers or picture collecters. I do have kids so planning is a must. Hope to hear from you lovely ladies soon **muah**
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Posted: Apr 17th, 2012

Loveless in Tulsa (Tulsa) 40yr

Really a lesbian, with no man to join in, looking for someone to talk to, hang out with, maybe more if we click.

Me: Employed, own home, own car, relatively sane, good sense of humor, too many interests to name, attractive, bigger but normal looking, fall on the butch side.

You: Same as above, though looks/femme/butch doesn't really matter. Be able to talk about just about anything.


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Posted: Apr 17th, 2012

Mature needing to learn more (Midtown Tulsa) 52yr

5'7" tried being with a woman years ago would like to try again I am told I'm attractive large breasts,nice shaved pussy. Lets explore with each other.I would expect we exchange a few emails talk on the phone and meet.I'm available nights at home or days at your place.Married but I need more and will tell you more when we chat.
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Posted: Apr 16th, 2012

Lets have fun (Glenpool) 26yr

Hello ladies. I am looking for another woman to have some fun with. I can please you in every way possible. You won't be disappointed at all. At some point down the road would love to surprise my husband. But that is at some point. Hope all this is appealing . And I hope to head from you real soon.

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Posted: Apr 14th, 2012

r u the one? (tulsa) 40yr

looking for a girly girl.. to hang with as friends and have some very discreet fun....send a pic. only serious girls apply...no fickle.chics ... talk to.you soon..
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Posted: Apr 14th, 2012

Normal Femme Girls Only (Tulsa) 18yr

I'm 18 new to this whole thing. Looking for someone to be friends with first and see how it goes. I love to go out and have fun but at the same time I wouldn't mind just staying in and watch a movie. I'm a small girl and also looking for somebody who is fit. Please no butch girls, looking for a girly girl like myself. Email me with a picture if your interested. Put Normal in the subject so I know it's not spam.
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Posted: Apr 14th, 2012

Looking for bestie that could be more (Tulsa) 20yr

Hi ladies

I am looking for a friend that could be my best friend and more. I am kind of shy so I need a girl that can bring me out. I am a thick girl. Not bbw. 5'8 210 white. Love to shop and go out on the town but I love my days just relaxing at home.

Send me an email if interested


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Posted: Apr 12th, 2012

Looking for the right fit ;-) (tulsa) 38yr

I am new to this so here it goes. I am looking for a true girlfriend.
I lost a long term friendship. And I need to move on. I am married
And he knows about this I want to start out as friends and go from there
Hopefully become fwb. I like for him to join in so need someone open to it
I am not skinny so size doesn't matter. And neither does race Just must enjoy going out be independent
And like camping. That's the best night time fun. ;-)
Send pic and you get mine put weather current weather in subject so I kknow
Its not spam
Again no guys I get all that I. Need

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Posted: Apr 11th, 2012

Looking for a girl to fool around with (SEK or NEO) 19yr

I guess you could say that im bi-curious, but i've never been with a girl before and have always wanted to. I have a boyfriend though, and I wouldnt want him to know. But im just looking for someone to hang out with, be friends with, and party with. I want a best friend that I can do more with.
Send me a pic please, and i'll return one. it doesnt have to be naked, I just want to know who i'm talking to.
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Posted: Apr 10th, 2012

Why not (Okm ) 21yr

Ok I doubt this will work but here is what I am seeking
A WOMAN ages 21 to 30?? Fun out going loud lol loves to have fun not a back stabber goofy and just plum loves having a good time! :):):) being bi would be a plus :)


About me!
I am 21 married country girl with a 4yr old daughter I live in okm so please live close or be able to drive I have a car as well all my friends have moved or stabbed me in the back and I am tired of having no friends anymore!! I am loud out spoken and blunt! Love to laugh and be stupid at times I am a very open person and I am bi Curious if your not ok but don't judge me!!! I want to text but u must like to talk on the phone as I do! !

If interested email me so I know your real put if u are bi or not in subject line......... Hope 2 hear from u!
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Posted: Apr 9th, 2012

I need a life! 19yr

Well i'm not gonna put my whole story on here. I am in a relationship. I am looking for a best friend, that could possibly lead to more. DO NOT message me if you do not plan on actually hanging out. NO men, and NO couples.
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Posted: Apr 9th, 2012

Seeking LTR 32yr

Hi! I am seeking a mature monogamous relationship. I do not want to talk to any men, studs, couples, bisexuals, or married women. Must be single. I would like to meet someone who is single, stable, sane, believes in God, is reliable and responsible, and has their own career, car, and place. I am a black woman who is intelligent, outgoing, and down to earth. I have my own everything. I am also a BBW so you must be ok with that. I do not want to email forever so you must be willing to give your phone number and talk on the phone after a few emails. Please be between the ages of 32 and 42. Thank you.
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Posted: Apr 9th, 2012

wanting a long term FWB (west of tulsa) 24yr

I am looking for a long term fwb relationship. I am looking for someone I can get along with, share common interests and enjoy our time together. I am looking for than just a sexual connection, I am looking to connect on the emotional level as well. When I say FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS, I really mean it. I have this all worked out perfectly in my head, just looking for the right girl to get me as close to this as possible. I am looking for someone funny, understanding, caring, clean, witty, clever and smart.

I am married, I am very clean, I have no children, I have my own home and car. My husband will not be involved. I don't care if you are married or have a man, if discretion is something you need and/or seek, I will help out in that department. I would like text and email first, kinda take it slow on meeting up, only because I work like a dog in the medical field. (this is where the understanding quality comes into play)

I am thick-ish. I am not a BBW by any means. I don't care if you have a little extra, I just don't want huge. Please weigh less than 210. My ideal is 170-210.
I am white, no black girls please. Sorry.

I have pictures and I am more than willing to send them to you. Please respond via e-mail, put a fun fact about you in the subject line. :)
I look forward to hearing from you.
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Posted: Apr 9th, 2012

No fakes! (Okm ) 21yr

Ok I have been bi qurious for a long time I am 21 and super cute (i think) lol I am a country girl and wanting another woman 21 to 28???? I have only messed around nothing to far..........I am not real sure my type lol when I see you ill tell u I am married to a man and I have a daughter.......he knows and is cool w it he will NOT be involved AT ALL! .........email me :):) I respond quick and up pretty much all Night! Put your age in subject line
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Posted: Apr 8th, 2012

any sexy ladies wanna hang out (tulsa) 20yr

im blk and indian long pretty hair hazel eyes 130 lbs wantn a sexi ladie to chill wit perfer latino but if ur sexy then email me if interested email a pic if all goes well we can meet today so come on and email me fwm SEXI ONLI NO BBW AND NO MEN IM ALSO INTERESTED IN 3SOME WIT 2 SEXI LADIES IM WAITN
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Posted: Apr 8th, 2012

Looking to be saved (foyil) 23yr

Looking for someone to save me from my nitemare
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Posted: Apr 8th, 2012

any real females C: (tulsa) 20yr

Im looking for a cool ass female to get to know. If your real, cute, and not into drama then you should reply. im cute outgoing and not into bull shit. i perfer hispanics but im open just no blacks sorry. So i know your not spam put your fav. Color in the subject line. pic for pic. no men! Couples! Or three sums!
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Posted: Apr 7th, 2012